Really rough sex

[annacurvy]

I love being rough with a woman

I love it when she agrees to let me do what i need
and I use her

Heaven. I like a man who sets the agenda. And takes what he wants
I get so wet. I need it like that...

 

[TwistingEther]

I love this, but I have an extra twist in my kink.

I specifically love being rough with powerful or confident women. I want it to be almost a wrestling match, with her struggling to dominate me - and failing. I want to show I'm stronger than her, and better at fucking than her, too. I want her to cum over and over again, either at my fingers or while impaled on my cock. By the end of it, I want her shuddering and meek, utterly defeated.

Until next time.

 

[MadnessofAnya]

yeah !

Husband loves to pull my hair and scratch around my shoulders while he strokes his tool inside me.

I love more rough when we have threesomes and both men get tremendously charged to just do it bad !

 

[DarkPleasures]

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[smoulder]

Rough doggy fucking while a little tipsy. One of my favs! Clothes being stripped off of me, taken hard from behind, tits grabbed, nipples pinched....

Tifani

Oh yeah...slapping the ass, and driving in. Heaven

 

[DarkPleasures]

"There's no sex in your violence."​

 

[fma20fma]

hi

some gin to get tipsy.cane strokes on bare bottom to motivate. some vid clips to turn horny. submit to sodomy to please bf.

 

[Sonofawhore]

My mom LOVES rough mean men for some reason. SMH

 

[bluesky496]

Lately IDK I've had these really strange rough fantasies. One of them includes me being a stripper and getting addicted to sex, eventually fucking in alleyways and bent over the hood of cars by men way older than me.

oh honey you are not alone , i have the same fantasy .

 

[southern_gal]

I don't have nearly as much experience with rough sex as I'd like mostly because that simply isn't what I look like I'd want. If that makes sense. Most would think it's strictly missionary. Wrong. The other problem is that my husband is kinda tall and a big man and he just can't get into that with me. Wish I knew the magic formula to make him want to treat me like I want when the rough sex bug bites me.

 

[MaddysSecret]

This is an interesting thread. There is an aspect to rough sex that doesn't seem consensual because one party is being forced and dominated, but I see it as consensual if that's what you like. So, yes, you can crave, and this have consensual rough sex. I've craved it since my teens. I do see a difference between aggressive sex and rough sex. I started making money as an "escort" in high school, then continued in college. So, the alley sex and bent over a car stuff I'm very familiar with. I like a guy who nkows what he wants and takes it. That's aggressive sex to me and it involves my lack of control, though I can also be aggressive. Rough sex is when the hair pulling, face and ass slapping, etc. starts.

 

[southern_gal]

This is an interesting thread. There is an aspect to rough sex that doesn't seem consensual because one party is being forced and dominated, but I see it as consensual if that's what you like. So, yes, you can crave, and this have consensual rough sex. I've craved it since my teens. I do see a difference between aggressive sex and rough sex. I started making money as an "escort" in high school, then continued in college. So, the alley sex and bent over a car stuff I'm very familiar with. I like a guy who nkows what he wants and takes it. That's aggressive sex to me and it involves my lack of control, though I can also be aggressive. Rough sex is when the hair pulling, face and ass slapping, etc. starts.

But how do you get a guy into this if he isn't? Men seem to be programmed to want sex one particular way with few variations. There are only so many times that I can have my face shoved in his crotch then bounce around on top till he's finished before I want to scream at him to bend me over and fuck me like he's absolutely pissed at me. If I did that he'd maybe think I was possessed or something.

 

[MaddysSecret]

But how do you get a guy into this if he isn't? Men seem to be programmed to want sex one particular way with few variations. There are only so many times that I can have my face shoved in his crotch then bounce around on top till he's finished before I want to scream at him to bend me over and fuck me like he's absolutely pissed at me. If I did that he'd maybe think I was possessed or something.

In my experience if someone isn't into it they just aren't into it. People change with experiences and someone can change their preferences but it's not quick.

 

[Ldy_Sea]

I prefer to be the one who's being rough with other woman. With men, it can go either way or just be Vanillia, at least in fantasies. In real life it's all Vanilla...Store brand Vanilla, from the cheapest store you can find

 

[MaddysSecret]

I prefer to be the one who's being rough with other woman. With men, it can go either way or just be Vanillia, at least in fantasies. In real life it's all Vanilla...Store brand Vanilla, from the cheapest store you can find

Glad you chimed in on woman to woman sex. I'm naturally submissive, so I like aggressive girls as well, though I can be a switch with girls and be the aggressor as well.

 

[southern_gal]

Glad you chimed in on woman to woman sex. I'm naturally submissive, so I like aggressive girls as well, though I can be a switch with girls and be the aggressor as well.

I have so many fem lovers that it's hard to remember which ones I'm a sub with. That friends is pure sarcasm for anyone not good at reading between the lines.

 

[Ldy_Sea]

I have so many fem lovers that it's hard to remember which ones I'm a sub with. That friends is pure sarcasm for anyone not good at reading between the lines.

IN other words men. Am I right ladies?

 

[southern_gal]

IN other words men. Am I right ladies?

I'd never say that.

 

[pvt_addiction]

But how do you get a guy into this if he isn't? Men seem to be programmed to want sex one particular way with few variations. There are only so many times that I can have my face shoved in his crotch then bounce around on top till he's finished before I want to scream at him to bend me over and fuck me like he's absolutely pissed at me. If I did that he'd maybe think I was possessed or something.

I wish my wife would tell me to fuck her like that. It doesn't hurt to ask. No pun intended...lol

 

[Hipshot1554]

But how do you get a guy into this if he isn't? Men seem to be programmed to want sex one particular way with few variations. There are only so many times that I can have my face shoved in his crotch then bounce around on top till he's finished before I want to scream at him to bend me over and fuck me like he's absolutely pissed at me. If I did that he'd maybe think I was possessed or something.

That's a fairly harsh generalization. Doesn't most everyone have a favorite position? The key to better sex is finding what pleases your partner. Communication is a must. If you do things that please him, he should respond in kind. I know for a fact that pleasing your partner pays huge dividends.

 

[southern_gal]

That's a fairly harsh generalization. Doesn't most everyone have a favorite position? The key to better sex is finding what pleases your partner. Communication is a must. If you do things that please him, he should respond in kind. I know for a fact that pleasing your partner pays huge dividends.

Maybe it was harsh but that's all that I personally know. I also have friends that tell me the same thing. I hear it a zillion times from men on here that their wives don't want sex or if they do it's vanilla and they don't enjoy it. Want to hear what WE say to each other? Husbands always bitch about not getting enough sex and half the time they have a zillion excuses too. Gotta get up early long day tomorrow, too tired, guys staying out in the shed watching a game so I gotta get back out there, maybe tomorrow......I could go on. You may be surprised at how many times my friends and I hear the same things. Lots of the men we know also seem to have no problem jerking off to porn but aren't nearly as excited in the bedroom. I wish I was making this up but I'm not.

 

[pvt_addiction]

Maybe it was harsh but that's all that I personally know. I also have friends that tell me the same thing. I hear it a zillion times from men on here that their wives don't want sex or if they do it's vanilla and they don't enjoy it. Want to hear what WE say to each other? Husbands always bitch about not getting enough sex and half the time they have a zillion excuses too. Gotta get up early long day tomorrow, too tired, guys staying out in the shed watching a game so I gotta get back out there, maybe tomorrow......I could go on. You may be surprised at how many times my friends and I hear the same things. Lots of the men we know also seem to have no problem jerking off to porn but aren't nearly as excited in the bedroom. I wish I was making this up but I'm not.

What a shame!

 

[Ldy_Sea]

Maybe it was harsh but that's all that I personally know. I also have friends that tell me the same thing. I hear it a zillion times from men on here that their wives don't want sex or if they do it's vanilla and they don't enjoy it. Want to hear what WE say to each other? Husbands always bitch about not getting enough sex and half the time they have a zillion excuses too. Gotta get up early long day tomorrow, too tired, guys staying out in the shed watching a game so I gotta get back out there, maybe tomorrow......I could go on. You may be surprised at how many times my friends and I hear the same things. Lots of the men we know also seem to have no problem jerking off to porn but aren't nearly as excited in the bedroom. I wish I was making this up but I'm not.

I have the same complaint but genders are reversed.

The best way to deal with this is to discuss it when you are not in a sexual situation. Tell him you'd like to try something different. Works most of the time.

My problem is hubby has almost 0 sex drive due to some incidents when he was younger. He was molested as a child and raped as a teen. So sex with him not a fun thing to do for him.

 

[southern_gal]

I have the same complaint but genders are reversed.

The best way to deal with this is to discuss it when you are not in a sexual situation. Tell him you'd like to try something different. Works most of the time.

My problem is hubby has almost 0 sex drive due to some incidents when he was younger. He was molested as a child and raped as a teen. So sex with him not a fun thing to do for him.

My issues are more from the distance between us but I've gone on enough about that. I just know what I hear from several of my friends. I think the biggest bedroom problem is caused by job stresses. Men don't deal with stress like we do. We cry, we hug we talk to each other zillions of times a week and we get it out. Men don't and then they wonder why their erections aren't what they used to be.

The simple solution from where I sit is for men to start letting it out and turn that passion and aggression into rougher sex occasionally in the bedroom. HINT HINT. I want little more than for him to tell me to shut up, bend over and for him to fuck me like the only other thing he wants to do is maybe slap me if I open my big mouth. Not gonna happen in my bedroom anytime soon but a girl can fantasize right?

 

[Hipshot1554]

Maybe it was harsh but that's all that I personally know. I also have friends that tell me the same thing. I hear it a zillion times from men on here that their wives don't want sex or if they do it's vanilla and they don't enjoy it. Want to hear what WE say to each other? Husbands always bitch about not getting enough sex and half the time they have a zillion excuses too. Gotta get up early long day tomorrow, too tired, guys staying out in the shed watching a game so I gotta get back out there, maybe tomorrow......I could go on. You may be surprised at how many times my friends and I hear the same things. Lots of the men we know also seem to have no problem jerking off to porn but aren't nearly as excited in the bedroom. I wish I was making this up but I'm not.

I'm not saying that what you are experiencing isn't true. There are so many here on "lit" to prove that point. I am saying that it does work both ways. There are couples here that have found ways to keep things exciting, and I'm sure that it must come from communicating. In my opinion, some can find ways to please each other, and some can't. Marriage in all respects is a compromise.

I will say that I am NOT one of those lucky few that found ways to make things work. I do know what it takes, but it does take two to make it work.