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Ldy_Sea
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My issues are more from the distance between us but I've gone on enough about that. I just know what I hear from several of my friends. I think the biggest bedroom problem is caused by job stresses. Men don't deal with stress like we do. We cry, we hug we talk to each other zillions of times a week and we get it out. Men don't and then they wonder why their erections aren't what they used to be.
The simple solution from where I sit is for men to start letting it out and turn that passion and aggression into rougher sex occasionally in the bedroom. HINT HINT. I want little more than for him to tell me to shut up, bend over and for him to fuck me like the only other thing he wants to do is maybe slap me if I open my big mouth. Not gonna happen in my bedroom anytime soon but a girl can fantasize right?
For men sex is how they deal with stress. Well sex beer and sports. Unlike us woman, men can be ready to go at a moments notice. they don't need the foreplay we do. For men sex is visual and external. For woman it's mental and internal. A womands experience is much more personal than a mans.
Think of it like this...
Everyone especially kids will stickk their fingers into any opening they can find. No one male or female goes around letting others probe them internally. This is why men usually want sex more often then woman. For us we accept something into our bodies, men are just exploring another hole.
This came from a therapist hubby and i went to to try and overcome his hangups.

this kitty would purr
