Reluctant Sex

I too enjoy the 'reluctant sex' kink .using blackmail of some kind or being a sexual bully are my favourites.I dont limit it to just sex though,having a power over someone is a fantasy of mine on its own so i would- dictate the clothes & make up she used,have her entertain me (a strip/dance/perform for me).lastly i would have her act out all my other fantasies & kinks,like taking her for a drink and choosing a man for her to come on to,flirt with n finally to fuck or have her expose herself to men i picked(they be old,fat or ugly ! Thats how i roll ! )

I feel like I,m the female version of your fantasy.
 
I've had this experience in different ways. What I like about reluctant sex is being pushed toward something that if i didn't do it would result in something bad for me, or perhaps is making me do something uncomfortable.
 
Feels like !

I feel like I,m the female version of your fantasy.

Then if thats how you feel you should tell me more about your fantasies so we can compare ? I not posted my preferance for small boobs so maybe you were meant to chat with me ? So to not tempt fate u should pm me !
 
yummmm

This sounds so hot and exactly what I like...

I too enjoy the 'reluctant sex' kink .using blackmail of some kind or being a sexual bully are my favourites.I dont limit it to just sex though,having a power over someone is a fantasy of mine on its own so i would- dictate the clothes & make up she used,have her entertain me (a strip/dance/perform for me).lastly i would have her act out all my other fantasies & kinks,like taking her for a drink and choosing a man for her to come on to,flirt with n finally to fuck or have her expose herself to men i picked(they be old,fat or ugly ! Thats how i roll ! )
 
Yes, yes, yes! Reluctant, coerced sex is one of my biggest fantasies. Whenever I want to read a new story on Lit, I usually hit up that genre area first. Having your body betray you as you enjoy what is happening to it, despite really not wanting to is so hot. :heart: Maybe by the end of it becoming a slave to your passions, all while struggling within that you've ended up in this position.
 
When you think about this fantasy, do you think more about the one being pushed to do something you don't want? Or having someone doing something they don't want with you?

I don't, personally, feel comfortable with the idea of coercing anyone else, even as a fantasy. (Though there's nothing wrong with having any fantasy – just don't act on it if it would harm someone.) So I like the idea of me being coerced.

I especially love this fantasy on this thread:
I have one where the wife of a buddy of mine found out I was on Lit and read all my post uncovering my deepest secrets. She uses that information to blackmail me into doing all kinds of lewd acts including making me sneak into their bedroom and suck off my buddy while he thinks it's her giving him this fantastic blowjob.

Mine would be close, in that both of the couple would conspire to 'make' me service the two of them sexually: ordering me to 'prepare' them both by clit-licking and cock-sucking, making me lie under her to lick her clit whist he fucked her doggie-style and insisting that I suck and lick them both clean afterwards.

I would just have to 'reluctantly' enjoy the experience!
 
Ha, about half of my stories brush up against this (Marion and The Bet series)...a woman leading a man down a trail and bringing out their fem bi side. Not so much blackmail or coercion as drawing out and pushing his limits.
 
Fantasy:
Wife's sister about to lose her house. Single mom, divorced. Hot piece of yoga-toned, MILF ass. I show up one day, and tell her the deal. I will take care of every single one of her financial needs for the rest of her life, and everything her four kids need till they reach college.

In exchange: her body, whenever and however I want it. And...she can't cheat. She needs dick, she comes to me.

She hesitates. Then agrees, thinking I'll take my first payment right there. I get on my knees and slowly peel down her pants, and her panties, and lick her pussy. I eat her pussy out for 20 minutes until she explodes in a torrent of cum all over my face, screaming in an orgasm she never knew she could have.

I smile at her and she lays there amazed, give her a kiss, and leave. She is shocked that I didn't fuck her or use her for my own pleasure. She spends the night wondering what my dick must be like if my tongue was so good. I get a text in the morning: "Need more." Victory is mine.


Fantastic!
 
Knicker-nicker, nicked!

When you think about this fantasy, do you think more about the one being pushed to do something you don't want? Or having someone doing something they don't want with you?

Even though I said:
I don't, personally, feel comfortable with the idea of coercing anyone else, even as a fantasy.[...]
there is one scenario where I fantasize about coercing somebody, which goes like this...

Some items of women's underwear seem to go missing from our washing-line, and our neighbours on either side say it's happened to them.

It's always the sexy stuff: lacy Knickers*, stockings, hold-ups*, suspender-belts*, basques...

Together we agree to keep watch.

One evening I spot a young man in our garden, selecting some of my lady's sexiest knickers to nick*. I conference-text the two sets of neighbours. The two husbands silently position themselves outside the back-gate to our garden, hidden behind the hedge.

On receiving their text signal, I switch on the patio light, causing the knicker-nicker to scarper through the back gate, whereupon he is apprehended by the two neighbours. He doesn't struggle: the neighbours are gym fanatics, built like brick shithouses.*

The young knicker-nicker is brought indoors to face the three women whose panties-and-scanties he has been half-inching.

He begs us not to call the police; we say that we will consider what to do.

He readily agrees when we suggest that he will agree with us upon an alternative punishment to which he will submit, and that we will all agree upon some (non-financial) way in which he will repay us...


*UK – US translations:
knickers = panties
hold-ups = thigh-highs
suspender-belts = garter-belts
nick, pinch, half-inch = pilfer, steal
scarper = run away, in panic
brick shithouse = (literally) a solid, brick-built outdoor lavatory/toilet/'bathroom'
brick shithouse, built like a = (of men) having a strong, muscular frame
(also brick outhouse – euphemistic version of the above)
 
Back in my high school days, I was the one reluctant to have sex. I had an English teacher that I knew had a thing for me, catch me skipping class one afternoon. She knew I was vulnerable to her advances, because she knew my father was a Principal at a different school, and would kill me for skipping class. Now you might think that it's every school-boy fantasy to bed their teacher, but not mine, especially her. She was a mean, contemptuous bitch. She was a young teacher, probably no older than 30, and could best be described as a Butterface- great body, but her face... Anyhow, she flat out told me that I had to do something for her in order to stay out of trouble, when I asked what, she told me to meet her in the Drama Club prop room after school. I did as I was told, and went to the prop room which was under the stage of the auditorium right after school. When I got there she met me at the front of the room, her blouse unbuttoned a few buttons, to reveal her small breasts that were no longer hidden by a bra. She grabbed me by my shirt and pulled me in to her and said if I told anyone, she'd claim I raped her and that no one would believe me otherwise. I was no virgin, but I was scared of what I knew she had in mind. To make a long story short, she went down on me to get me hard, which I admit took some doing given my reluctance, but once I was hard and she took off her slacks and panties, my instincts took over. As I said, she did have a nice figure, tall, with a small waist and firm butt, so being the horny teen that I was, with a wet and waiting woman before me, I set to work. We did it in all sorts of positions on the mattresses that were left over from a production of The Princess and the Pea. She was the first girl/woman I ever fucked with out wearing a condom, which heightened my sensation, but I lasted a very long time. I was too nervous to notice if she came, but she was making some rather pleasant noises, and talked dirty to me the whole time saying things like fuck me, and deeper, harder. We ended up in a doggy position, with her face burred deep into a blanket that was lying there. When I finally had to cum, she demanded that I unload inside her, saying she was on the pill, so it was OK. I let loose with what seemed like a fountain of cum, that promptly sloshed out of her and dribbled onto the mattress. She spun around, and took my deflating cock in her mouth, and cleaned up the rest. When she was finished, she stood up, unceremoniously got dressed, gave me a fuck-you look, and said don't ever tell anyone, ever! I never did, until many years later, when another former teacher from my school, whom I had befriended later on, asked me about it. It seams I wasn't the only boy at the school she pulled this trip on, and eventually she was quietly asked to transfer. After our encounter, I felt used, but slowly, I began to recall the act with a bit of longing. I enjoyed the unfettered sex, the commanding way she made me perform, and the sheer dirtiness of the whole sordid thing. I've never been in a situation like it since, but must admit, the thought of it does stir me.
 
Knicker-nicker, nicked

One scenario, where I fantasize about coercing somebody, goes like this...

Some items of women's underwear seem to go missing from our washing-line, and our neighbours on either side say it's happened to them.

It's always the sexy stuff: lacy Knickers*, stockings, hold-ups*, suspender-belts*, basques...

Together we agree to keep watch.

One evening I spot a young man in our garden, selecting some of my lady's sexiest knickers to nick*. I conference-text the two sets of neighbours. The two husbands silently position themselves outside the back-gate to our garden, hidden behind the hedge.

On receiving their text signal, I switch on the patio light, causing the knicker-nicker to scarper through the back gate, whereupon he is apprehended by the two neighbours. He doesn't struggle: the neighbours are gym fanatics, built like brick shithouses.*

The young knicker-nicker is brought indoors to face the three women whose panties-and-scanties he has been half-inching.

He begs us not to call the police; we say that we will consider what to do.

He readily agrees when we suggest that he will agree with us upon an alternative punishment to which he will submit, and that we will all agree upon some (non-financial) way in which he will repay us...

I had a PM about this, suggesting that I write the story, but CBA and time's short.

However, here's a little more...

The young man agrees to returng his 'stash' of nicked scanties; is ordered to reveal his favourites; is ordered to dress in lacy knickers, stockings a tight corset and French Maid's apron.

The first of his tasks for 'repaying his debts' will be cleaning, but not what he first imagines: he is destined to become an expert at creampie cleanups.

As for his punishment, my lady and I ask, faux-naïvely, if anybody knows where we could obtain any suitable spanking implements (knowing full-well that we have heard the thwack of paddles and swish of canes from one neighbour's house on a warm summer evening... :caning:

Perhaps I'll imagine some more later...

(If I can be arsed that is.)


*UK – US translations:
knickers = panties
hold-ups = thigh-highs
suspender-belts = garter-belts
nick, pinch, half-inch = pilfer, steal
scarper = run away, in panic
brick shithouse = (literally) a solid, brick-built outdoor lavatory/toilet/'bathroom'
brick shithouse, built like a = (of men) having a strong, muscular frame
(also brick outhouse – euphemistic version of the above)
CBA (abbreviation for Can't be arsed) = I am disinclined to make the effort
 
Reluctant sex is defiantly one of my favorite fantasies

I am very submissive so in my fantasies it's a very dominant and mentally powerful male Dom taking me.

Depending on my mood some times:

He is seductive very persuasive not taking no for answers.
or
He forceful and taking what he knows is his.
or
He I'm tied up and therefore I don't have a choice or control on what happens to me.
 
Yup, big time, and with my need to please, it means I consider when I want sex nearly irrelevant when I'm with someone. That said, I'm a sub, so that's almost expected of me. ;)
 
Great thread.
All my fantasies revolve around the theme of reluctance i.e. me being forced to do the kind of stuffs ( exposing ) which secretly turn me on hugely (humiliation).
 
nah i'd prefer that the lady will be willing to do the deed because for me its much fun that way
 
I need a cruel mistress to subject me to unimaginable pleasure and much discomfort. I want to cry and beg and squirm while she has her way with me. I want some of it to be non-consensual. Urethra insertion, pegging, orgasm control, knife play, nipple clamps, ball clamps, blindfolds, mouth gags, handcuffs, ropes, floggers, chastity belts, anal beads, hot wax, public humiliation, exhibitionism. I want all and all of these. I want her to tug and twist my balls. I want her to squeeze and milk my balls dry. I want her to make me cum so many times in a row that it hurts so bad and to keep going and torture my sensitive head. I want her to tie something around my cock and balls so tight and bring me orgasm. I want to be over the edge for a long drawn out time. Desperate to cum. My balls stirring and feeling like they're going to explode. And I want her to mock and degrade me, all the while I'm crying and begging for her to stop!

Too much?
 
When we were swinging my ex preferred situations, when meeting with other couples or guys, where she felt she had no choice but to go along with whatever was proposed.

it was as if she couldn't let go of the good little girl that was buried in her subconscious and she needed to believe she was being compelled.
 
Love It

It's a fetish of mine, though not really a big one. As a fan of incest, whenever I see a story with this it makes it way more realistic and better. I love when something forced becomes wanted, and reluctant sex is amazing.
 
This fantasy crosses my mind often and I am aroused by being taken out of my comfort zone and compelled to surrender to someone else's desires. Often it is getting something I secretly desire, but suppress because of appearances. It is getting what you really want without the "guilt trip".
 
Yes, yes, yes! Reluctant, coerced sex is one of my biggest fantasies. Whenever I want to read a new story on Lit, I usually hit up that genre area first. Having your body betray you as you enjoy what is happening to it, despite really not wanting to is so hot. :heart: Maybe by the end of it becoming a slave to your passions, all while struggling within that you've ended up in this position.

This.
 
QUOTE=DearSunshine;63732863]Yes, yes, yes! Reluctant, coerced sex is one of my biggest fantasies. Whenever I want to read a new story on Lit, I usually hit up that genre area first. Having your body betray you as you enjoy what is happening to it, despite really not wanting to is so hot. :heart: Maybe by the end of it becoming a slave to your passions, all while struggling within that you've ended up in this position.[/QUOTE]

Perfectly articulated, Miss Sunshine :rose:
 
I posted here once before saying that the sense of being pushed into something I'm uncomfortable with but feeling that I had to agree is a turn-on. It's because you are being pushed beyond your comfort zone and into the unknown. That said, when it happens it's mostly just something I have to do. The last time was in a different town with two cops who stopped me knowing I was a sex worker. I knew I had to do it It wasn;t super hot when I got in the back seat. It became hotter for meas they were doing me and I thought about myself in a police car in the middle of the night on a side road getting fucked and no one in the houses nearby knew what dark thing was going on.
 
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