I too enjoy the 'reluctant sex' kink .using blackmail of some kind or being a sexual bully are my favourites.I dont limit it to just sex though,having a power over someone is a fantasy of mine on its own so i would- dictate the clothes & make up she used,have her entertain me (a strip/dance/perform for me).lastly i would have her act out all my other fantasies & kinks,like taking her for a drink and choosing a man for her to come on to,flirt with n finally to fuck or have her expose herself to men i picked(they be old,fat or ugly ! Thats how i roll ! )
I feel like I,m the female version of your fantasy.
Maybe by the end of it becoming a slave to your passions, all while struggling within that you've ended up in this position.