Reluctant Sex

[BongoGal]

Ultimately, this is the leverage point for all coercive/forced sex smut, isn't it? That it's not at all a betrayal by the body when a woman is aroused during coercion, but rather the revelation of her true nature. Pretty sexist, but also not entirely divorced from reality, either.

No, it's not a "revelation of her true nature". Sexual response to touching is an involuntary response. To say otherwise is to say that tickling someone can be seen as welcome since they laughed so much.

 

[midwestyankee]

No, it's not a "revelation of her true nature". Sexual response to touching is an involuntary response. To say otherwise is to say that tickling someone can be seen as welcome since they laughed so much.

Please understand: I'm only suggesting that this belief is what is at the core of most of the non-consent/coercive sex smut that I've read here at Lit.

 

[eroticspank]

Before work

Another type of reluctant sex I like is "before work" sex.

Your gf or wife is getting ready for work and she is looking hot in her underwear. You start touching and grabbing her indicating that you are horny and she tries to push you away because she has to get to work. You play around like that for a few minutes and soon you enter her from behind while facing her makeup mirror. At that point she is no longer reluctant, and you have a very intense fuck.

Perhaps she calls into work and takes the day off!

ES

 

[CarnivalBarker]

Huge fan of reluctant sex and no matter how much I want it, I will usually resist a bit until the guy bribes me, blackmails me, coerces me, or a couple times even forces me to do it. The forced times were with steady BFs who knew I was going to say yes eventually and who I did want to have sex...I just wanted to make it difficult for them - so no screaming rape at me. But yes...Mmm.

 

[eroticspank]

Huge fan of reluctant sex and no matter how much I want it, I will usually resist a bit until the guy bribes me, blackmails me, coerces me, or a couple times even forces me to do it. The forced times were with steady BFs who knew I was going to say yes eventually and who I did want to have sex...I just wanted to make it difficult for them - so no screaming rape at me. But yes...Mmm.

Yes I really like the initial resisting part, wrestling around, reluctant play I call it. But once I am inside her it all evaporates and we both become lustful partners.

ES

 

[son_hot4mom]

We are led to believe that all women "want it" and even if they say no. I was in a situation (when I was a bit younger and less experienced) where we had been making out for several hours, it was very late, we were on top of my bed, and I did succeed in getting her panties off enough o enter her with my cock. She began begging for me to stop... and I did. It was difficult... I had never fucked her before that moment, and I never did take her out again. Just too many "fish in the sea" so to speak.

Just a memory I thought I'd share... as long as the topic is Reluctant Sex...

 

[Rawb138]

This is a concept I have been searching for a bit more lately in the porn I watch.

For instance, there are a few massage themed videos I've seen where the focus is on making a totally naked woman cum while on a massage table. The scenes are fairly long--20 mins. or so--and start as straight-forward, sensual massages.

As the touching nears their breasts or the masseuses hands slide between their thighs and asscheeks it so hot to see the woman respond--hips slightly lifting off the table, legs slowly opening...

The male masseuse remains clothed. The attention is all on the woman. As he begins in earnest to work her pussy this is moment I love because sometimes the woman's hands move towards the crotch to the masseuse. At first it seems almost accidental--her hands gripping the sides of the table just might graze his obvious bulge. When he makes no move to force the issue she starts squeezing his cock through his pants and so on.

Some times it ends their as far as the mutual touching goes. Sometimes his cock is pulled free and he is jerked while she nears her orgasm.
She didn't have to but she could help herself.

There are a couple of hand job vids like this too with a woman working a cock while straddling a guy. Sometimes using her crotch for added friction or perhaps just to get off a bit herself. I love it if, as she rubs the head and shaft of the cock up and down her slit, the head just pops into her pussy for a moment.
I love waiting to see if she will do it again or not.
Again, this scenario feels as though nothing is expected except for her to make him cum with her hand. I love when she just can't help but take it to another level in the name of heightening her own pleasure.

This fascination comes from moments in my life where things like this have happened...

 

[eroticspank]

We are led to believe that all women "want it" and even if they say no. I was in a situation (when I was a bit younger and less experienced) where we had been making out for several hours, it was very late, we were on top of my bed, and I did succeed in getting her panties off enough o enter her with my cock. She began begging for me to stop... and I did. It was difficult... I had never fucked her before that moment, and I never did take her out again. Just too many "fish in the sea" so to speak.

Just a memory I thought I'd share... as long as the topic is Reluctant Sex...

I totally understand. It is like a fine line. I can remember many times when I was young and did not pursue the woman who played "hard to get" because I felt like she really would not be good in bed. Meaning once I finally got her to give in to sex, she would not be interested in anything except "proper" sex and positions. But there were other guys, that kept pursuing until eventually the woman gave in, resulting in an avalanche of desire. I did not learn that until much later in life.

At the same time, many women from when they are very young are taught to play hard to get, and if they don't guys will look at them with disgust etc. (As a male, this is just my observation.)

The hardest thing for guys to deal with in my opinion (pun intended) is the last minute rejection by the woman. Once you are already naked, about to enter her and she tells you to stop, like described above. That has happened to me a few times, but as I got older it rarely happened. When it did, there was talking, listening, and then we continued.

Playing hard to get in a relationship can be very fun if both parties know what is going on.

ES

 

[Mmmarie260]

Huge fan.
When I read things like this I get fixated and start imagining strange sex with every single person I encounter throughout the day. Which generally leads to me giggling awkwardly when paying for things at the store or saying goodbye to my boss for the day...

 

[MissCautious]

We are led to believe that all women "want it" and even if they say no. I was in a situation (when I was a bit younger and less experienced) where we had been making out for several hours, it was very late, we were on top of my bed, and I did succeed in getting her panties off enough o enter her with my cock. She began begging for me to stop... and I did. It was difficult... I had never fucked her before that moment, and I never did take her out again. Just too many "fish in the sea" so to speak.

Just a memory I thought I'd share... as long as the topic is Reluctant Sex...

Thank you for stopping

 

[shinybikiniwife]

QUOTE=DearSunshine;63732863]Yes, yes, yes! Reluctant, coerced sex is one of my biggest fantasies. Whenever I want to read a new story on Lit, I usually hit up that genre area first. Having your body betray you as you enjoy what is happening to it, despite really not wanting to is so hot. Maybe by the end of it becoming a slave to your passions, all while struggling within that you've ended up in this position.

Perfectly articulated, Miss Sunshine [/QUOTE]
couldnt agree more!

 

[HI_Life]

This is absolutely a turn of for me. Like it was said before that section in Lit Stories is my first stop or trying to find stories along those lines. Being able to sense the power struggle in a woman is a fire starter for me. Watching her fight use every oz of her will only to give into her body.

 

[Ms_Ashlee]

OMG! I think this original post totally encapsulates my main fetish interest! I am not interested in rape fantasies...well not the idea of being hurt. But the idea of having to reluctantly go through with someones dirty perverted plan in order to save my reputation or the reputation of those I care most about is a big turn on. I think it is also the idea of being made to pleasure a man that I would never let touch me in rl....or voluntarily.

OMG this forum continues to impress me! Thanks for exsisting!

Bye

Ashlee

 

[son_hot4mom]

Huge fan.
When I read things like this I get fixated and start imagining strange sex with every single person I encounter throughout the day. Which generally leads to me giggling awkwardly when paying for things at the store or saying goodbye to my boss for the day...

It doesn't make me "giggle" but I envision sex, strange or otherwise with nearly EVERY woman I encounter each day...

 

[gabriel16]

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[eroticspank]

That need deep inside takes over and.....

This thread needs a bump. I am sure there are more people out there that are into reluctant sex.

I remember when I was back in HS and I went out with a girl who was VERY reluctant to have sex. She told me before we left on our date only kissing, no sex. Well we got to the typical "makeout" location and started making out.

She got so turned on that soon half of our clothes were off. We were in a Camaro so very little room. Somehow we ended up in the back seat, she got on top, and finally got me inside her. I was half way on the seat and half way in the foot well. My back was aching, but she was so turned on and even a bit angry because I was "all thumbs" when it came to putting myself inside her. She rode me until she had an orgasm, and right at that moment headlights shined through the back window. The light highlighted her face and bare tits right in the middle of ecstasy. She could not move or duck so I just watched in awe. When the car passed she was finally able to duck down out of sight but by then the guys in the other car were hooting and hollering!

ES

 

[Rawb138]

Time for a bump (and a story to justify )

I was with a woman once (well, she was probably 18 anyway, as was I)
and she had the most beautiful pussy covered in a gorgeous honey colored bush.
We didn't know each other that well but had been making out feverishly for almost the whole day we'd spent together.

Later that night, in the dark of my parent's basement, I was fingering her pussy which was so wet it was almost dripping. She had said she didn't really think she was ready for us to go to the next step but she pulled my cock out of my jeans...

I started to drag it up and down her slit--parting that golden hair, dragging all that glorious wetness up to her clit and back--me straining on one arm above her for balance.
We'd been talking quite a bit during all this endless foreplay but now we were both quiet. Our choked breathing almost the only sound.
As I pulled my cock up the length of her pussy, on one of the strokes the head dipped inside. Her breath caught and on the next few strokes I let it happen once in every three or something.

On the last one I pushed. And slipped almost all the way win. Her chest arched and met mine and in my ear she sort of grunted/whispered, "It's in."
Fuck.
After the briefest pauses, that was it--in unison we both started thrusting our hips at each other.

This moment may have planted the seed of my reluctant sex fetish.

 

[bill3901]

Time for a bump (and a story to justify )

I was with a woman once (well, she was probably 18 anyway, as was I)
and she had the most beautiful pussy covered in a gorgeous honey colored bush.
We didn't know each other that well but had been making out feverishly for almost the whole day we'd spent together.

Later that night, in the dark of my parent's basement, I was fingering her pussy which was so wet it was almost dripping. She had said she didn't really think she was ready for us to go to the next step but she pulled my cock out of my jeans...

I started to drag it up and down her slit--parting that golden hair, dragging all that glorious wetness up to her clit and back--me straining on one arm above her for balance.
We'd been talking quite a bit during all this endless foreplay but now we were both quiet. Our choked breathing almost the only sound.
As I pulled my cock up the length of her pussy, on one of the strokes the head dipped inside. Her breath caught and on the next few strokes I let it happen once in every three or something.

On the last one I pushed. And slipped almost all the way win. Her chest arched and met mine and in my ear she sort of grunted/whispered, "It's in."
Fuck.
After the briefest pauses, that was it--in unison we both started thrusting our hips at each other.

This moment may have planted the seed of my reluctant sex fetish.

great story, loved it