Remember your 1st time?

The 80's. Lol. God no! Early 90's maybe.

I vote for the '80s! So many screwed up opportunities, wasted pleasures - lots of fun along the way, no doubt, but I was much too shy about sex to enjoy my coming of age years!

There are other similar threads, mine was on the lower bunk of the dorm room, my roommate "asleep" on the top bunk, my girlfriend, who lived down the hall from him, had come into to "tuck" me in, but we started making out. We had had some pretty heavy make out sessions, but hadn't even talked about intercourse. She's on top of me, sliding herself along my cock and the next thing I knew was, dayum, I'm having sex! lol I think I even lasted long enough to give her a little pleasure.

Needless to say the next time was planned, private, and long lasting! :cool:
 
We had messed around orally, but didn't go all the way. I was still living at home at the time and I couldn't get into her apartment.

So I got a hotel room for the night. This will probably sound lame, but I didn't cum the first time. I was so nervous that the condom was going to come off, I couldn't concentrate.

Women have to realize it's psychological for men as well. A lot of us anyway. You want to hold out as long as possible so you don't come too soon. But if you don't think about it for too long, you wind up losing it.

She rode me for awhile. Told me she came 3 times just from it taking so long.

She was kind of upset that I couldn't, but she said "Dammit I'm going to get you to come one way or another." She took the condom off and blew me.
 
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My girlfriend and I were making out in my basement. Pretty heavy, touching, rubbing, dry humping all that. I wanted to take it further but werent sure when my parents would be home so I suggested we go for a drive. Found a secluded spot and started to make out again. I suggested we go to the back seat and she said sure. It was a bit awkward for both of us as it was our first time. And fast I have to admit. After that first time though we had sex almost every day after school at my house before my parents got home.

Now she is still single with three kids to two different daddy's. Wow im glad I ended that one when I got to college.
 
holy crap it was a long time ago...but i sort of remember it being good as we'd been doing lots of fooling around for months, we were both 14 and at the time it was right!
 
I think a lot of virgins think their first time is going to be this fantastic experience that they will remember for the rest of their lives, when most of the time it isn't. It's awkward, you don't know how to get a good rhythm, etc. You feel weird being naked in front of them for the first time (if it is). But if you're with the same person over time, it can get quite fun as time goes on. Especially if the both of you are experimental (anal, etc).

I cringe when I see guys post when a teacher has sex with a 13-14 year old student. I don't think they realize that it might have been traumatic. What if the teacher was a freak in a bad way? What if she made him do stuff a normal woman wouldn't do? If a kid thinks THAT'S the way sex is supposed to be, he could be scarred for life.
 
Dumping her or the mosquitoe ass?

I would hope he did not dump the girl.

I would have changed a lot of things: the woods might sound romantic, but don't tell that to the mosquitoes or the dirty, scratchy ground. I would have done more to get her in the mood than just "this looks like a good place, let's do it here." The part I really feel bad about was dumping her after we spent the rest of the summer screwing any chance we could get. But I was young and having experienced one pussy, I was anxious to try more. I still think of her sometimes.
 
I was quite a bit younger, I had my first proper boyfriend who was three years older than me. I'd all ready been doing stuff for a while, so I wasn't as nervous as I know other girls were. We were in his house, kissing in his bedroom, and one thing led to another. It was quite painful, and I bled, but he really enjoyed it, and lasted for a while (he was experianced at holding off). It took another 5 times before it actually became enjoyable.

My first ever sexual encounter was when I was hanging round with my next door neighbour in his room. We were both curious about things, and so we dry humped and kissed and he came in his pants. He then showed me his penis, and I showed my almost flat chest lol.
 
I was lucky enough to have had a great 'first time'. It wasn't traumatic or painful or anything like that. It also wasn't romantic at all. It was quite clinical, actually. We were truly 'just friends' who decided that we were both ready to put our virginities behind us.
 
I was way too young, it was way too sore...and way too quick...which was a good thing.
 
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