Remote Control

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Nope, not my thing. I don't have any desire to grope strangers or myself in public, expose myself, or anything of that like. It's not part of my personality to do something like that, no matter what context it was in or who told me to do it.

It goes against my own personal morals and code of behavior. Definitely not into it.

I have an OL D/s relationship with a friend.
For me the remote control is like setting your limits in the relationship.

Things I wouldn't do if he were there etc.

But there are "assignments you can do without groping/exposing/looking like a jackass.

He once asked I not wear panties to work. I usually wear fairly long dresses to work, with a slip under it. Really no chance of anyone telling if I had on said undergarment or not. It was definitely a kick. It might be something as simple as a specific undergarment that is more sheer/pushup/lacy than the others in the drawer. (I've never worn plugs, or vibrating eggs to work, but that is also something that can't be seen from the outside...)

He also likes to play the "can they tell you are aroused" game. It doesn't have to be anything extremely noticible. Were you flushed, did your nipples show though the fabric... It doesn't mean you need to paw yourself in front of anyone. But how much you can get away with, without anyone being able to completely tell.

Or going into the bathroom stall and relieving any pent up feelings... Again, no one really knows what happened in there except you and your fingers.

It hasn't hurt my reputation at work, and I know it makes him happy. It's a small amount of embarrassment for a big payoff...