rim job

[scmale2000]

Rim Jobs

As long as she is clean, this is one of my favorite things. Since most guys don't do it, I enjoy it even more. The anus is second only to the clit in nerve endings so it feels great and taboo. I love when a girl does it for me as well. Always leads to mindblowing orgasms!

 

[Wizard]

I love to do it and recive it. What an erotic thing to share with your partner. We are both clean when we do, and love the feeling. What a wild feeling I might add........

 

[AvaAdore]

do most people use a barrier of some kind? i would never do it without one, but what works the best? i know "dental dams" exist, but i have no idea what they even look like.

 

[scmale2000]

Ass Dental Dam

I am sure you can use some type of barrier but I have not used one. I view it as the same as eating pussy. If I would eat one, I would eat the other. It is usually best after showering together and then licking every square inch of her body (and licking some inches more than once). Trust me, if you have never done it or had it done to you, you should. It is out of this world.

 

[catalina_francisco]

do most people use a barrier of some kind? i would never do it without one, but what works the best? i know "dental dams" exist, but i have no idea what they even look like.

Is strongly recommended to use a dam if doing it with casual or unknown partners, not usually with your SO as long as you know it is safe. Dams are a flat piece of latex or plastic film and can also be replaced by cutting down the side of a condom and flattening it out in a rectangle shape. For added sensation, and adherence of sorts, it is suggested you use a compatible lubricant between the dam and skin.

Catalina

 

[Etoile]

Oh absolutely. Cutting down the side of a condom is perfect. My gf and I have plenty of dental dams, but a condom works great too.

On another note, I'm not normally squicked by anal play or anything, but I was reading through this while eating dinner. It put a strange taste in my mouth....

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Just an opinion

An enjoyable two way street activity. Others have mentioned the concentration of nerve endings. It's one of the few places that ragged edge of pain and pleasure can be explored with very little change in effort. Also an area where so many things, some already mentioned, can go wrong.

Regardless of whom does whom, very few things exist along with analingus in this intimate category. Talk about trust issues? Forget hygiene for a moment. Realize what it takes for most to get past allowing, much less performing, the act. Suggest to a vanilla male, "i wanna suck your cock," and his pants move down around his ankles faster than a lightning bolt moves from cloud to ground. Tell him, "i wanna toss your salad," he'll blush 75% of the time.

[rimshot]Of course there is something to be said for a rapid pendulum swing from gentle rimming to brutal ass fucking. Nothing will take away a lover's breath quite like that swing. As a tool, as a loving act, whatever you wish to name it, i prize it highly.[/rimshot]

 

[white_mage_goddess]

do most people use a barrier of some kind? i would never do it without one, but what works the best? i know "dental dams" exist, but i have no idea what they even look like.

I would never do an act this intimate with anyone other than a long term SO,so no, I don't worry about a dental dam.

 

[Topher]

No, but using "2" to mean "to" is unacceptable unless you are TAFKAP.

Actually, he is now known as TAFKAT.

 

[alberotomba]

Fantastic

Never actually used a dental dam with my gf of 3 years. Damn its wonderful to lick her ass though.

 

[scmale2000]

Re: Fantastic

Never actually used a dental dam with my gf of 3 years. Damn its wonderful to lick her ass though.

Yeah.........I would never lick a strange asshole. Tested, healthy & I want to stay that way. Nothing kinkier than a girl that returns the favor.

 

[justin123]

My experience

Now this type of conversation I love ...

I have absolutely LOVED licking the ass of all my recent girls - there is something so dirty, and yet so appealing about it. I would always make them get on all fours, and push my fingers into their cunts while my mouth licked their assholes until they were soaked. I would then finger their asses as well - it was quite a site. And hearing a woman begin to cum while your mouth is on her ass - well, lets just say there is nothing like feeling her anus contract against your lips as the orgasm approaches ...

 

[janisjoplin197888]

is it weird/bad 2 want 2 give/recive one?

To give? By all means NO! I personally like to give it ALOT (only did so with my X) I very much enjoyed being on giving end, in my opinion it is the most softest part of the skin. Very tender to the tongues touch I might add.
As far as being on the receiving end.I think it has to be THE most erotic sensation I've ever felt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love it! Give/receive again would be great!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Dirty Anus Tokyo]

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Originally posted by palmerx141
is it weird/bad 2 want 2 give/recive one?
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Both to give and to receive is weird and bad!!!
But weird and bad s wonderful

 

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[KitsyKat]

Thanks, Neo-Scribe!

I found this site by tracking the postings of Neo-Scribe, who has written perhaps the most erotic account EVER of analingus! Check it out.

I was bemused/amused at some of the comments on this board. My own thoughts? The recipient of my ass-teasing tongue must be someone who is rather special. (Right now, that means my husband, and the male half of a couple with whom we share ourselves.) When I was single, I rimmed three men, all of whom were very dear at the time, and this over the period from high school through my early 20s, when I married. I had all sorts of self-imposed rules. No fucking until at least the third date. Nope, you can't cum in my mouth, or on my face, aim at my boobs, if you please. And I had to be REALLY into a guy before I could tongue his ass, to be sure. That is perhaps why only three of three-dozen-plus enjoyed the ultimate pleasure that my tongue could give.

So the talk about dental dams and the like makes me shake my head. For heaven's sake, if you do not feel comfortable about a partner, just don't do it. My own feeling is that anal sex is an act far more intimate than fellatio. I mean, in my past I sucked some cocks on guys whose asses I would not have touched on a bet.

Our unspoken household rule now is that analingus is preceded by a good thorough shower. And be realistic: having my husband give my ass a good soaping is great foreplay. And when I am washing him, I know that a finger slipped into his ass produces an instant hard-on.

Not an every-night activity, to be sure, but something that we both love as an affirmation of what we are willing to do to please one another, and to be pleased.

Kath akaKitsyKat

 

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[aarons_goddess2003]

whats a rim job?

I have to admit I am an airhead when it comes to alot of sex lingo, and "rim job" is one of them...I mean I used to think that getting your salad tossed meant you puked your guts out...lol then I met my fiance who liked getting his salad tossed I learned quick after I was shown what it was so if someone could please tell me, I would certainly appreciate it

 

[KitsyKat]

Neo-Scribe....brrrrr

Hi, dear:
Guess what I intend to do before eating lunch? In fact, I started about the third sentence! Many thanks, dear, and I shall be at your bod in a day or so when I find the proper time. In the interim, oh my god that felt so gooooood!

Kath akaKitsyKat

 

[bigredboston]

I love to give them to my sir......and recieve as well. I have a long tongue he tells me , so its with effort I bring him pleasure. I see nothing weird about it at all its highly arousing and enjoyable
for both of us.

What a very lucky Master you have to have such a devoted slave. I would love to hear a story about one time you have done this to him!

 

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[KitsyKat]

My First Time

'Tis good to get onto a board where I can affirm that loving anal sex -- oral and penile -- is shared by other persons. Of course, my cunnie remains my main source of sexual pleasure, but the variety of having one's bottom used adds to the joys of sex.

Someone once argued to me that humans tend to cherish their "first-time" sexual experiences and hope to repeat them. Perhaps that is why I am so hooked on anal sex, for my first experience was a true joy. Let us go back in time about 19 years:

I'm a senior in a private school in my hometown of Wilmington, Delaware. In late spring my friends and I already have our college acceptances in hand, so we do a lot of lively goofing off. A girl in our crowd -- let me call her Sally -- lived on a rather substantial place near Chadds Ford, Pennsylvania, just north of Wilmington, which has a small outdoor heated swimming pool. On a gin-inspired lark one Friday afternoon we decide that a skinny dip is in order. Great fun, cavorting around naked in the water with six or so good gal pals.So much fun, in fact, that we do it again and again. Nothing sexual, I must add, just good teen fun. [*] I will do a footnote later about something I learned later.

Amyway, one of the last weekends of the spring semester we all went to a dance at the coumtry club. Towards the end of the evening, word began circulating, "There is going to be a post-party party out at Sally's house. Come on out."

Now, I had gotten rid of my virginity a year or so ago. I did not "lose it" -- god, what an awful phrase! -- for I know exactly where it went, and why (I was horny and curious about fucking). Soon thereafter, the guy who was my "first" and I broke off, for reasons not related to sex, but he was in "our crowd," and we remained civil to one another. The boy I was dating that night I had not fucked, although his hands were very familiar with the good parts of my body.

OK, northward we roll, in a loose caravan of cars. And, sure enogh, no sooner than we arrived that clothes flew away, and into the pool we went. For purposes of quasi-modesty, Sally doused the overhead lights, but there was enough illumination from inside the house and the moon that we were not exactly invisible, one to another. I found it rather thrilling to be in a mixed-sex naked group, and I must admit that I did not mind at all the direct looks I received from the guys.

Now, to the fun part. I ended up lying on my tummy across a plastic float thing, my bottom on the side, my legs down into the water. My date was behind me, shoving the thing around the pool as if he was a tug boat (only from the rear). I knew that my position gave him an eyes-on view of my pussy, but I did not particularly care (ah, the joys of gin!).

Then, to my surprise, a splash of water into the cleft of my buttocks, and a finger stroking there. Huh? I turned my head around to protest such a public invasion of a very very private of my body, but in reality it felt so damned good that I did not care. I remained silent.

Some more stroking, and I realized that he was rinsing my ass hole. A glance around the pool area showed me that no one was paying the slightest attention to us -- indeed, hostess Sally and her date were locked together on a chaise lounge, apparently fucking right out in the open, and several other couples were making out on a grassy area -- not fucking, but darned close to it.

Fingers spreading the cheeks of my buttocks. I wiggle. I wonder what the hell he has in mind, but I am game. I realize that he is looking right at my anus and my cunt, but I am feeling sexually bold, and I do not care. Then, a flickering touch to my ass hole. My god! It is his TONGUE there, he is licking me. The reflexive reaction of my legs sends the float forward a foot or so, but his mouth remains snug against my ass, buried in the clef of my buttocks. He is kissing and tonguing my ass, and my pussy is suddenly on fire. I rub against his tongue. I love it. And please dear god don't let anyone see what I am doing.

I climaxed in very short order (I have always been a "fast cummer," even when masturbating) and he kept at me for a few minutes more. Then he withdrew his mouth and patted me on my rump, and I looked back and we smiled at one another. He made a point of putting his face into the water and washing himself. Then we jumped out of the pool and found a spot on the grass alongside another couple and did what they were doing: we fucked and fucked and fucked.

My first touch of analingus, but surely not my last. He made a point of licking and tonguing my ass every time we had sex the rest of the summer. A great guy. Although we are now happily married to other persons, he remains dear to me.

Kath akaKitsyKat

 

[FreeGal]

Rim jobs, yep a LOT of fun.

I never before realised how much fun they could be.

 

[asyouwish2]

Safe?

To give another a "rim job" is to lick, suck, explore the anal ring of your partner with your lips and tongue. Analingus.

lara

Hi,

i have fantasies about giving them. Very naughty in my mind for the giver and receiver. Plus, it seems it could be viewed as a form of adoration and submissiveness.

So is there any health concerns? i though i heard you're at risk for hepatitist (I can't even spell it, lol).

thanks,

asyouwish2