Same sex deal-breakers

[ZacharyFagg]

You'd probably have no problem topping me, then.

It looks like you have body hair, so I definitely would NOT top you. Body hair is not remotely feminine. The thought of topping a hairy guy does absolutely nothing for me.
Men asking me to top is a total deal breaker. There's tons of tops in the world. Don't ask a bottom to top. Gross.

 

[sister jenny]

Pubic hair
Sounds awful when written down like that, but a bush is a definite no.
Very trimmed can work, but what I want is shaved or waxed. Totally bare.

 

[OddLove]

I'm not picky about any sort of body type, but I wouldn't have sex with a guy who claims to be straight. If he's lying to himself about being at least bicurious then there's probably some deeply held shame going on there. I'm not interested in the awkwardness or drama after he shoots his load and that post nut shame comes back to judge him.

 

[chapter6plan]

It looks like you have body hair, so I definitely would NOT top you. Body hair is not remotely feminine. The thought of topping a hairy guy does absolutely nothing for me.
Men asking me to top is a total deal breaker. There's tons of tops in the world. Don't ask a bottom to top. Gross.

Fair ... I'm not hairless, but I've never considered myself to be hairy. My hair is not coarse or stiff though (that kind turns me off). I'm also built more like a twink. I've never considered myself to be masculine. Evidently, you see something in me that I've never seen in the mirror.

 

[JoeSmith2022]

AS long as you're clean and DDF I'm down for whatever

 

[Deleted member 6789170]

I fantasize about scissoring a woman but absolutely no kissing

 

[trinething1ns]

I fantasize about scissoring a woman but absolutely no kissing

Similar, with guys. I love sucking cock and anal, but kissing a guy grosses me out. I don’t know how you women do it.

 

[subdudeme13]

Similar, with guys. I love sucking cock and anal, but kissing a guy grosses me out. I don’t know how you women do it.

It depends and is different for everyone. I picked up a trans in my taxi one time, she was a great kisser but then again I did not know she was a trans. I understand that kissing is a turn off for some. I remeber feeling ill watching Weekend when some guys kissed. Now, not so much.

 

[trinething1ns]

It depends and is different for everyone. I picked up a trans in my taxi one time, she was a great kisser but then again I did not know she was a trans. I understand that kissing is a turn off for some. I remeber feeling ill watching Weekend when some guys kissed. Now, not so much.

That makes sense to me. The couple times I’ve tried kissing and didn’t like it, it was the facial hair and the aggressiveness I think that turned me off in particular.

 

[HawkeyeA1]

Wouldn't call it a deal breaker but I prefer cut cock over uncut

Same here.

 

[Northwind75]

Similar, with guys. I love sucking cock and anal, but kissing a guy grosses me out. I don’t know how you women do it.

I agree with you. I enjoy sucking cock as well as other play but I cannot kiss a guy

 

[Wanking_Frank]

I agree with you. I enjoy sucking cock as well as other play but I cannot kiss a guy

That's where I am now but I can evolve on that too, same as anything else

 

[cdstefi]

For me it's literally uncommunicateveness, or somebody who thinks because you've spoken to them once it's a done deal and nothing else needs saying. People who do lazy-ass one-liner or even one-word intros.

Like literally dude, you can't even be assed to string a few sentences together and you think that I think you're going to be any fucking good in bed? Sex is a conversation as much as talking is, and if you can't communicate you aren't getting anywhere near my cock or arse. Period!

 

[cdstefi]

I've literally walked away from so many solid offers of sex purely because I think "this twat's an inarticulate idiot".

 

[Wanking_Frank]

For me it's literally uncommunicateveness, or somebody who thinks because you've spoken to them once it's a done deal and nothing else needs saying. People who do lazy-ass one-liner or even one-word intros.

Like literally dude, you can't even be assed to string a few sentences together and you think that I think you're going to be any fucking good in bed? Sex is a conversation as much as talking is, and if you can't communicate you aren't getting anywhere near my cock or arse. Period!

Yes to this
Say you're anonymous on sniffies or something like that, have no profile, and just say hey
Or what are you into

I already have a profile, and you don't. I know nothing about you, give me something to work with. Don't ask for pics if you haven't included any.

I can be a little odd about this but if you can't spell basic words it's a turn off too.

Shyness isn't a turn off, it can be kinda hot when someone's a little nervous and you can help them push their boundaries and go for something they want - but I need to see a little effort too