Seniors and the differences

[BunniMaddie]

I thought I was 'done with it' also. But a few years ago, my psych doctor weaned me off of a couple of my mental health medications and that unlocked my libido big time.

Medicines can play a huge factor in sexual actions and libidos. Plus we live in a world where almost everyone is on some manner of pill and they all have side effects.

 

[ontoit2]

Medicines can play a huge factor in sexual actions and libidos. Plus we live in a world where almost everyone is on some manner of pill and they all have side effects.

Isn’t that true! Just pay attention to all of those med commercials and the side effects!!

 

[mortis]

I am 62 wife is 60 we still get into some fun times.
I am far more interested in trying something new and toys would be great. She has a favorite and the method is always the same, I know ladies find something that works and why try anything else….

We tried Floria lube it is fun getting her pussy stoned. A vacation helped recently just because of 2 years at home.

 

[dave's thing]

I am 62 wife is 60 we still get into some fun times.
I am far more interested in trying something new and toys would be great. She has a favorite and the method is always the same, I know ladies find something that works and why try anything else….

We tried Floria lube it is fun getting her pussy stoned. A vacation helped recently just because of 2 years at home.

Interesting you should mention the vacation. Same thing happened here. Several times I have been as hard as hard can be and she actually got into it lots including taking as much as she could just like the old days lol

 

[mortis]

Interesting you should mention the vacation. Same thing happened here. Several times I have been as hard as hard can be and she actually got into it lots including taking as much as she could just like the old days lol

Yes we realized that seeing other people in public was a good thing. Talked to several other couples as well. Kind of helped us realize social interaction is important.
now if I could get her thinking about swapping…..

 

[PermanentlyAroused]

Yes we realized that seeing other people in public was a good thing. Talked to several other couples as well. Kind of helped us realize social interaction is important.
now if I could get her thinking about swapping…..

In our experience that is true. A bit if sexual tension with others can really enhance your own sex.

In our case it did lead to swapping and groups, but it doesn't have to be so.

 

[dave's thing]

Yes we realized that seeing other people in public was a good thing. Talked to several other couples as well. Kind of helped us realize social interaction is important.
now if I could get her thinking about swapping…..

Lol well I am happy with the way things are. I already push it a bit with my "card player " buddy couple of streets over

 

[luv23way]

I have always found human sexuality amazing, and as I have aged I feel no differently. At 66, I am still able to achieve and maintain an erection with the help of a couple of 5mg Tadalifil tabs, or maybe just my cockring, or maybe both for rock hardness But, what is really cool is my feminine side has blossomed, and both my wife and I enjoy it immensely. She is also 66, and while she never initiates sex, she is a very willing participant and has a very nice mature pussy that has gotten bigger over the years, but she can still squeeze me very tightly! But everything about the way I think and what I find sexy has changed. Unless a woman is just obese and nasty, I can almost always find some facet of her femininity beautiful, and the same with slim, fem men like me. Our sexuality becomes seasoned, and I no longer consider gender a factor as to whether or not I am sexually attracted to a person

 

[dave's thing]

Was at the beach today and got a full fledged hard on just like I was mid 20s again,
BIG DAY

 

[Crownvic]

Was at the beach today and got a full fledged hard on just like I was mid 20s again,
BIG DAY

Nothing like some good stimulation to get those juices flowing..

 

[ParkerSteve66]

The old adage "Use it or lose it" applies big time here. In my teens I masturbated 3 or 4 times a day. At 79, because of a sexless marriage, I still masturbate at least once a day. Had a fantastic round of sex with a lady friend (67) on Friday.

 

[dave's thing]

The old adage "Use it or lose it" applies big time here. In my teens I masturbated 3 or 4 times a day. At 79, because of a sexless marriage, I still masturbate at least once a day. Had a fantastic round of sex with a lady friend (67) on Friday.

That's great. Care to share even in a PM?

 

[ParkerSteve66]

That's great. Care to share even in a PM?

She used a spreader bar on me. I was on my back and held the bar up with my arms. She had complete and unfettered access to my cock, balls and ass. She started by sucking my balls. And then tongued my asshole before inserting a vibrating butt plug. By that time, I was rock hard and she started sucking my cock. She continued sucking my cock and balls, while changing the speed and motion of the butt plug. Eventually, I had the most fantastic orgasm - I almost passed out - and filled her mouth with a week's worth of cum. Then she kissed me and we both came down from our bliss. In her own words: "I am a very oral person." She gets satisfaction from having her mouth stimulated by a cock, balls and cum. Not just "satisfaction", but she actually orgasms when I cum in her mouth.

Is that enough sharing?

 

[dave's thing]

She used a spreader bar on me. I was on my back and held the bar up with my arms. She had complete and unfettered access to my cock, balls and ass. She started by sucking my balls. And then tongued my asshole before inserting a vibrating butt plug. By that time, I was rock hard and she started sucking my cock. She continued sucking my cock and balls, while changing the speed and motion of the butt plug. Eventually, I had the most fantastic orgasm - I almost passed out - and filled her mouth with a week's worth of cum. Then she kissed me and we both came down from our bliss. In her own words: "I am a very oral person." She gets satisfaction from having her mouth stimulated by a cock, balls and cum. Not just "satisfaction", but she actually orgasms when I cum in her mouth.

Is that enough sharing?

More then enough. Thank you.
You are lucky guy. Hope the bliss continues.

 

[FL30]

We'll make it easy - everyone is different! In everything. No two people are exactly the same. Whether it's taste, looks, body, sex drive, lifestyle, kinks/fetish's, how they age, etc.

 

[MetalRabbit51]

Seventy here. Been declining in sexual performance for a long time; it's a gradual slide into oblivion, haha. Got a prescription for Viagra maybe eight years ago. Renew it regularly. These days a dose of 5 20 mg. Sildenafil produces a usable erection. That, and the mood, and how I feel in general are all factors. As my GF and I broke up over a year ago, I was enjoying the occasional FWB episodes with her. Up till a few months ago we'd get together for dinner and some good sex. Now she's moved on with another guy. Not sure how it will be with another woman. So much depends on chemistry. When two people are attracted to each other, desire can overcome physical limitations, to an extent. I'm also losing weight and eating better, with an eye towards improving my performance and health in general.

 

[dave's thing]

When I sit for my morning pee after just getting up, I have noticed over the last little while that after I play with my nipple and give it a couple of good twists, as I have a habit of doing just before a stroke, that my still soft cock leaks a fair bit. Until recently I had assumed that this was after dribble. The other day I started to play and I realized that there was a lubricating feel to it. I gave my nipple a couple of good tugs and twists and felt my cock leak into my hand. I gave it a taste and it was VERY SWEET. Almost like pre-cum in texture but much sweeter and more plentiful. I have now figured out how to milk myself prior to getting hard because once hard it no longer happens.

Any body else have this happen to them? try giving it a go

 

[fma20fma]

The old adage "Use it or lose it" applies big time here. In my teens I masturbated 3 or 4 times a day. At 79, because of a sexless marriage, I still masturbate at least once a day. Had a fantastic round of sex with a lady friend (67) on Friday.

amazed to know it is in working condition even now.

 

[JamesRTickit]

I am 73. Totally lost interest (depression) aged 60. No erection, no action.
I had to rethink my approach and used hands, fingers tongue, fist.
Then added toys to the mix.
Not every woman's cup of tea but my partners (same age as me) enjoyed it

 

[fma20fma]

try viagara please.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

amazed to know it is in working condition even now.

Why are you amazed? I hope to keep "it" in working order until I stop working!

 

[fma20fma]

your partner is lucky.

 

[KentLondon]

Medicines can play a huge factor in sexual actions and libidos. Plus we live in a world where almost everyone is on some manner of pill and they all have side effects.

A lifelong friend had HRT in her 40s and 50s and, when our friendship took an exciting new direction, I was pleased to help her discover the joy of mind-blowing, multiple orgasms.

 

[zipper01us]

This is my go to forum so that is why I am posting here (not that it is a fetish

Over the last couple of years, I have really started to take notice how old age affects Senior’s bodies and mind, and to be honest, I am quite fascinated, as well as aroused, by it. I am 66 and went through a period of about a year not being able to get a hard on, at best what I would call a “semi”. I would still get horny and still got very turned on when the wife and I were playing, mostly oral but I did use toys on her. Over the course of the last couple of years, while my hard ons started to come back (I might also say they are fairly hard but I no longer stick upright and needs to be held up and its thickness and length are a little smaller but not much), her sexual drive started to fall off. It’s difficult to say why it happened but I think the affect of her not getting wet any more was mental then it was physical. Her clit still gets very hard and she does cum when we play, which is few and far between. Her titties have maintained their shape and look but have dropped a bit and her ass has maintained its attractiveness. We are friends with a couple that are completely the opposite. The older we get the more opposite we become. He cannot get hard at all, in fact, whenever I have seen, he is quite small and withdrawn. Her titties have dropped significantly, her nipples have gotten bigger and she gets quite wet very easily. For what its worth her ass seems to be losing its muscle structure as well. Quite different and our exercise, eating and social patterns are not different yest we are completely the opposite.

As a result of her lack of interest is sex, and my growing need for help in order to orgasm, I am permitted to play with other cocks. She knows I am not interested in guys (just their cocks), I only play with friends and she figures her and I are safe in terms of our relationship. So on that front again I find interesting the differences that age has created. Some balls hang unbelievably low, while others don’t hang at all. Some stick outward, some do not. Some are floppy. Some are rigid. The one constant is that most do not cum much anymore. LOL though that is not true of a new member of our group who is over 75 and seems to cum buckets forever but his first time was a couple of weeks ago so we will see if it is normal for him or not.

So I am curious to hear from other Seniors in any observations or experiences from being our age. Feel free to PM if you want to keep it quiet. Maybe later I will post some pics of as to visualize what I am talking about

Erik I have had some erectile problems myself especially since my wife has become unable to have sec due to health issues . I do though still get extremely aroused by different women when I’m with them !

 

[eroticspank]

I am in my 60s and I have not noticed any lack of erections or orgasm problems. I will say there are certain sexual positions that are a lot harder or that I don't do at all. I am not overweight, just not as flexible as I used to be.

However, at this age, I have learned a lot about sex, BDSM, and all kinds of play. I can have orgasms with no ejaculation, and anal and prostate orgasms. My ejaculation these days is not a strong spurt or lots of cum like when I was younger.
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