Seniors and the differences

[sgwatts3]

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Does it take you a long time to cum?

tis according to what im doing, reading a hot story gets me hard and then it dosnt take long

 

[55ChevyBelAir]

At 66 years old, stop thinking of yourself as a senior.

Have you checked with your doctor to find out if any medications your on are contributing to your ability to maintain your erection? That’s often the best place to start. Then add in a cock ring.

A touch of lube will help with your wife’s dryness. Everyone can benefit from the silky feeling of good lube.

Lighten up and have fun together. As someone mentioned don’t focus on what you can’t do but focus on what feels good and brings pleasure to you both.
Enjoy the intimacy that you still are lucky to share.

Such a positive, encouraging message. You show remarkable empathy and understanding, and I think that everyone who reads your comments will benefit. Thank you for sharing!

 

[hedonisatlurist]

Or why something feels amazing to one person and unbearable to another.

I agree, I have stuided orgasms how they start and the effect

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

One thing I should add. We use Foria. It’s a female lube that can be bought with THC in it.

Wifey goes wild, gets super wet and cums like crazy.

She does tend to maul my balls when we use it, but I don’t mind.

I can second this! Foria has been a game changer. I started having some ED problems around 50. Bad diet, little exercise, and a job where I sit for hours traveling doesn’t help.

Wife is hitting menopause with a vengeance now and Foria has really helped her with dryness and sensitivity but the added bonus is after she applies it to herself she rubs it over my cock and BAM! A man of steel! I honestly think it could replace the Viagra I sometimes use. We are in the process of weening me off of it.

The bonus is no side effects like the pills.

EDIT: one thing I think i should clear up is there is THC in the product. It is actually CBD (hemp oil) and shouldn’t show up on drug tests. The Foria site doesn’t guarantee you wont come up hot so if you have to take a drug test you might check w a MD before using. The site claims there could be trace amounts of THC.

 

[crashD]

I can second this! Foria has been a game changer. I started having some ED problems around 50. Bad diet, little exercise, and a job where I sit for hours traveling doesn’t help.

Wife is hitting menopause with a vengeance now and Foria has really helped her with dryness and sensitivity but the added bonus is after she applies it to herself she rubs it over my cock and BAM! A man of steel! I honestly think it could replace the Viagra I sometimes use. We are in the process of weening me off of it.

The bonus is no side effects like the pills.

Sounds like I need to try that !!

 

[Oshkosh60]

Where to you get this stuff called Foria?

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Where to you get this stuff called Foria?

Here…I think it’s only online at this point but you might check your local 420 shop also?

I should add, my wife uses the suppository’s in conjunction with the oil. They work great together but BEWARE…the suppository doesn’t taste good! The oil, no problems with smell and taste but I’ve flat out refused to go down if that suppository goes in first!

 

[Oshkosh60]

Are you familiar with it?

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Are you familiar with it?

Yes. Wife has been using it for about six months (just the oil) and suppositories for the last couple. She only started applying it to my crank in the last couple months and we’ve noticed a marked difference!

 

[crashD]

Where to you get this stuff called Foria?

It’s sold in dispensaries. It was only in California and Colorado. I haven’t checked for a while. Good luck

I think there are a similar products
In other states.

 

[Dearelliot]

I was 88 in August, Take a lot of meds. A week before my birthday I had a Dominatrix visit for an hour. I used Cialis for 3 days, 20mg each day, to get hard, but not enough for prolonged penetration, so intercourse doesn't work. I am into BDSM so the Mistresses strong hand helped me in maintaining. I can cum with hand jobs at an AMP, always with Cialis.
But the easiest way for me to orgasm is using E stim with Tens unit. I can cum in 5 minutes with that and porn or a lady here but I have almost no sperm ejaculate.
God yes my prostate is large! and yes! Old age sucks in a million ways.
BTW my wife is 85 and hasn't been interested for years.



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[Beholders_Eye]

Reposting this information, as I think my original posts did not survive the site upgrade. This device works for me:

The pump achieves the erection, the constriction ring preserves it. Have used one for over ten years -- the older man's friend.

This is a good mechanism because the restriction ring slips off the end of the tube directly onto the base of the penis, no loss of vacuum in the process. Have a variety of ring sizes for various purposes. Be glad to discuss via p.m. for more details.

 

[ace195008]

At 66 years old, stop thinking of yourself as a senior.

Have you checked with your doctor to find out if any medications your on are contributing to your ability to maintain your erection? That’s often the best place to start. Then add in a cock ring.

A touch of lube will help with your wife’s dryness. Everyone can benefit from the silky feeling of good lube.

Lighten up and have fun together. As someone mentioned don’t focus on what you can’t do but focus on what feels good and brings pleasure to you both.
Enjoy the intimacy that you still are lucky to share.

God your attitude is refreshing and wonderful, Bravo

 

[sixfoot4]

I am 64 and a woman and have gone through the change. I think the biggest thing for older people is exercise and watch their diet. We are all going to slow down some. We are all going to run into some health issues. I think a big key is to be flexible. Don't worry about what you can not do but think about the things you can do and be willing to experiment. One of the things I have come to realize is that the pussy is like most muscles. You need to exercise it if you want it to function well. I am not sure if it is quite the same for a male but I imagine there is some correlation.

A wank a day helps you work rest and play

 

[sixfoot4]

I'm almost 74

Due to my wife having a fairly serious procedure, we stopped having sex about 18 months ago. Soon afterwards, I was diagnosed with an enlarge prostate (but no cancer) and I've been on medication to shrink it for some time. The result is reduced libido, ED to an extent and finally, virtually dry orgasms. As Bette Davies said, many years ago, "Old age is no place for sissies".

Ah yes finasteride if nothing else it makes your hair grow.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Ah yes finasteride if nothing else it makes your hair grow.

Thanks, but I want to make my cock grow.

 

[sixfoot4]

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Thanks, but I want to make my cock grow.

Then either hang weights off it or buy a prick extender.

 

[hedonisatlurist]

masturbate at least 3 times a day

 

[LarryTee50]

I'm 71. A huge thing for me was getting off depression meds. They made me overweight and threw a blanket over my libido for twenty years. I've been micro -dosing shrooms for about four months and I'm VERY happy with the results. I masturbate almost daily. I have a cyber/phone playmate who lives 1800 miles away and we have intense, nasty fun several times a week. I eat real food and drink herbal tea. Some good libido herbs are Ashwaganda, Red Ginseng powder, Burdock root, Damiana and others.....and I've lost 30 lbs in the past four months.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I can second this! Foria has been a game changer. I started having some ED problems around 50. Bad diet, little exercise, and a job where I sit for hours traveling doesn’t help.

Wife is hitting menopause with a vengeance now and Foria has really helped her with dryness and sensitivity but the added bonus is after she applies it to herself she rubs it over my cock and BAM! A man of steel! I honestly think it could replace the Viagra I sometimes use. We are in the process of weening me off of it.

The bonus is no side effects like the pills.

EDIT: one thing I think i should clear up is there is THC in the product. It is actually CBD (hemp oil) and shouldn’t show up on drug tests. The Foria site doesn’t guarantee you wont come up hot so if you have to take a drug test you might check w a MD before using. The site claims there could be trace amounts of THC.

We have just started using the Foria lube and it made such a difference for her. While she is not particularly dry or feels pain during penetration she finds that she cums much easier and the quality of the orgasm seems to be far more intense.

I have not felt a marked difference but possibly not putting it on well enough in advance. How long do you leave it on before you feel a difference?

Ordered the arousal oil today and hope its as good as the lube.

 

[Lucien_Al]

We have just started using the Foria lube and it made such a difference for her. While she is not particularly dry or feels pain during penetration she finds that she cums much easier and the quality of the orgasm seems to be far more intense.

I have not felt a marked difference but possibly not putting it on well enough in advance. How long do you leave it on before you feel a difference?

Ordered the arousal oil today and hope its as good as the lube.

Just an update on the second Foria product we have bought. The Awaken arousal arrived and we gave it a try.

From an effectiveness we had 2 observations. My wife definitely found that her orgasm was far quicker than normal and it seemed to be more intense and lasted longer.

As I am uncircumcised I had read that it can have some effects for men. I didn't feel much difference on my head but definitely seemed to last quite a bit longer.

I do think that we both need to leave it on a little longer to start working as she could feel her pussy warming up with a slight tingle a short while after we finished.

So far we like the product but will experiment a little more.

 

[cornred58]

MY wife had a total hysterectomy along with tubes and ovaries removed in her early forties. Her libido took a nosedive and getting orgasms was difficult. We found a vibrator called the Eroscilator. This thing saved our marriage. We are in our seventies now and she still has an orgasm every time. I wish I could say the same.

 

[cornred58]

72 years and on no regular meds. About ten years ago I started having prostate problems - getting up at night. Doctor prescribed Avodart (finasteride) and doxazosin and the erectile difficulty started. Online research found others with the same results. I stopped taking them but the ED persisted. I decided to live with the urinary issues. Viagra headaches meant the sex needed to be monumental to make it worth it. I switched to Levitra with fewer side effects, but products were expensive prior to generics being available. I stopped taking anything for a while. The past year I've been using chewable sildenafil from Bluechew with moderate success. It usually works, sometimes not. Recently vardenafil chewables became available and I switched. Now, however, tadalfil is inexpensive so I asked my doctor to try it daily (5mg) for the prostate issues. Its been about ten days now and the jury is still out. For about a year now I find ejaculating to take considerable effort and my semen is clear, watery and sparse. I don't know what that is about.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Just an update on the second Foria product we have bought. The Awaken arousal arrived and we gave it a try.

From an effectiveness we had 2 observations. My wife definitely found that her orgasm was far quicker than normal and it seemed to be more intense and lasted longer.

As I am uncircumcised I had read that it can have some effects for men. I didn't feel much difference on my head but definitely seemed to last quite a bit longer.

I do think that we both need to leave it on a little longer to start working as she could feel her pussy warming up with a slight tingle a short while after we finished.

So far we like the product but will experiment a little more.

My wife’s reaction was in line with yours. As far as putting it on yourself, it may help to put it on a little earlier. In my case it seems to take effect pretty quick. Maybe that’s just my wife’s extra “attention”!

 

[Lucien_Al]

72 years and on no regular meds. About ten years ago I started having prostate problems - getting up at night. Doctor prescribed Avodart (finasteride) and doxazosin and the erectile difficulty started. Online research found others with the same results. I stopped taking them but the ED persisted. I decided to live with the urinary issues. Viagra headaches meant the sex needed to be monumental to make it worth it. I switched to Levitra with fewer side effects, but products were expensive prior to generics being available. I stopped taking anything for a while. The past year I've been using chewable sildenafil from Bluechew with moderate success. It usually works, sometimes not. Recently vardenafil chewables became available and I switched. Now, however, tadalfil is inexpensive so I asked my doctor to try it daily (5mg) for the prostate issues. Its been about ten days now and the jury is still out. For about a year now I find ejaculating to take considerable effort and my semen is clear, watery and sparse. I don't know what that is about.

I am Cialis 5mg daily and although it took about a month to be fully working I have not looked back and can get it up pretty much whenever I need to. For the first time in ages have lots of very strong night erections while sleeping. I have had no side effects and the only draw back is that the genuine product is a bit expensive. If I want to perform extra strong for a weekend I substitute my 5mg for a 20mg on a Saturday and it keeps me strong until Monday and then back to the 5mg daily. Obviously this was all done with my doctors assistance and guidance.

I did see some posts here about volume and consistency and there was a discussion about using various vitamins. I take a pretty big selection of over the counter supplements (yes I know I have expensive urine) and I have seen a marked improvement in the quality and quantity. I did consult my doctor before using any of them and she has given me the go ahead.