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Marie1772 said:
So I’m 30 and I’m constantly wet and horny 🥵💦👄😈 at the begging he fucked me constantly. Here lately the past year or so it went way down to maybe once or twice a month. Is it bad that I’m 30 and still so wet and horny allll the time?
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At 30 you should be wet and horny! Speaking from my experience you should be having sex multiple times a week.

Its the three stages of married sex:
1) anywhere, all of the time sex.
2) bedroom sex - after kids sex only in the bedroom.
3) Hallway sex - this is when you pass each other in the hallway and say fuck you as you flip the other off.
 
26 and already feeling like being married for 10 years

Excuse me for my vent.

So yeah, we all know why we are here.

But I be damned if my romantic life is over.

Been with my s/o for over 5 years now and I am missing romance. There is love, there is empathy, there is the best teamplayer I could ever wish for, but there is less and less romance and especially less sex than before the relationship even started.

I often hear excuses, mostly about being tired, or feeling unwell. I thought this was a joke from TV. No, sadly not. But don’t be fooled into thinking it’s simply that. I am in 120% whenever I get the opportunity for sex, usually once every two to three weeks or so, I prepare EVERYTHING for an romantic hour and take care of her wellbeing. Our sex is great but it’s about frequency for me. Often spending weekends blueballed like hell knowing I won’t get the chance to hit today.

So yeah this has been my vent, thanks for your time..
 
Lemmetri said:
At 30 you should be wet and horny! Speaking from my experience you should be having sex multiple times a week.

Its the three stages of married sex:
1) anywhere, all of the time sex.
2) bedroom sex - after kids sex only in the bedroom.
3) Hallway sex - this is when you pass each other in the hallway and say fuck you as you flip the other off.
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If only 🥵🥵
 
Abeona1 said:
I am in a sexless relationship, I fancy him, he smells great and the best kisser. And we laugh a lot.
He doesn't like being touched, always telling me to get off him.
If I didn't make a move he won't.
I was a late developer in my teens, found the wrong person. Single parent next 20yrs.
Aged 40 went mad for 5 yrs. Promiscuous.
Then with my now partner, who I actually hated for 15 yrs, been together 15yrs. Should have seen the red flag when he was more interested in his shed roof than me in his bed.
He won't talk about it, gets angry. Think some is a defence mechanism.
He isn't interested in anything I say or do.
He bought some pills and sold them on.
Our body shape may hinder, but I love doggie. And it's not even the sex, it's the skin to skin, the caressing.
He says I've put weight on, his a barrel.
He doesn't like how I dress or walk around the house, barely covered.
His love language is food. I love food.
He cooked himself a breakfast the other day and didn't ask or do me one. He couldn't understand why I got upset. It was that I didn't get a meal, but that he doesn't even want to do that for me.
He then started criticising me about the home.
Not only am I his flat mate, but housekeeper as well
Have had a few really tempting offers lately. But is it really worth it.
I AM DRIVING MYSELF MAD.
Any opinions?
Sorry if too much, really am at end of my tether
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Sorry you are or were going through this. I am not an expert but sounds a like displacement. Putting things that he is self-conscious about and saying them about you. Hope you find some relief.
 
it sucks when every part of the relationship except for the sex is wonderful. But I am extremely high libido, and my spouse is content with sex 4 to 5 times a year. I know that’s not as bad as some people on here, but it just destroys me, knowing that a cuddle on the couch will never lead to sex, scheduled times are always met with life or physical barriers. I’ve resigned myself to the fact that love is way more important than sex, but my body doesn’t agree with me.
 
Loyalish1245 said:
it sucks when every part of the relationship except for the sex is wonderful. But I am extremely high libido, and my spouse is content with sex 4 to 5 times a year. I know that’s not as bad as some people on here, but it just destroys me, knowing that a cuddle on the couch will never lead to sex, scheduled times are always met with life or physical barriers. I’ve resigned myself to the fact that love is way more important than sex, but my body doesn’t agree with me.
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Very well put… thank you
 
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