I do understand. I never thought of it quite like that. I guess my S.O. and I are kinda in the same boat. I am 77 and she is 69. She does not show it off much anymore but she still could as far as I am concerned. We still have great sex how ever she can't do the triple somersault off of the trapeze onto the bed anymore but we still make it work! Hope you guys are too! Thanks for getting back to me!I can't speak for DearElliot, but Mrs. Stromer decided she didn't like her body image any more and stopped showing off. And she is right, health issues have changed her body and lets just say those booty shorts that were sexy a few years don't cut it anymore. I'm not saying that to be mean, just stating the truth. We had a fun 20 plus years though.