cascadiabound
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@cascadiabound @riverj
What are you guys meaning by saying "presentation oriented?"
What's the alternative?
What's the objection?
What's "real" shibari if the "presentation oriented" kind is not it?
I don't know, I'm asking. I don't know anything about this stuff. But what I'm getting from these comments is that "presentation oriented" seems to be not preferred, or somehow disfavored. So educate an ignorant noob
@cascadiabound @riverj
What are you guys meaning by saying "presentation oriented?"
What's the alternative?
What's the objection?
What's "real" shibari if the "presentation oriented" kind is not it?
I don't know, I'm asking. I don't know anything about this stuff. But what I'm getting from these comments is that "presentation oriented" seems to be not preferred, or somehow disfavored. So educate an ignorant noob
I think I get it. It seems like you're talking about the difference between doing it for the experience of the play, versus doing it mainly for the visual result.I think it's all real. But some ropework images are made for the beauty of the image, as opposed to ropework which is intimate and designed for play and or bandage etc.
I do not object at all to images that have a presentation feel to them. In fact they are some of my favorite images because they heighten for me a sense of humiliation, control, objectification.
In the case of the image I posted recently that at first glance looked like a studio photo shoot (the lighting is perfect, her body is within ideal specifications etc), when I looked more closely I realized she was obscenely turned on. Which to me is hot af. And it tells me that she felt safe and she has an emotional connection to her rigger and/or her photographer. It makes me wonder how long she had been tied when that image was taken. It makes me want to see the 100 images before it and the 100 images after.
It makes me wonder what words were used, what other stimulation was applied to make her that dripping wet.
If you read judgment in my comments, it was not my intent.
I just try to get in touch with with my eyes are seeing in these images, what they provoke in me and how they make me feel. I can only speak for myself.
Presentation is all about making a visual impression. Clean, smooth, neat, regular patterns all at the same angles, etc. very precise and careful to meet some goal(s).@cascadiabound @riverj
What are you guys meaning by saying "presentation oriented?"
What's the alternative?
What's the objection?
What's "real" shibari if the "presentation oriented" kind is not it?
I don't know, I'm asking. I don't know anything about this stuff. But what I'm getting from these comments is that "presentation oriented" seems to be not preferred, or somehow disfavored. So educate an ignorant noob
Smooth, regular loops all the same, but also used to restrict options. That long stretch between her elbows won’t compress much thanks to all the wrapping, for instance.Nice rope work. I enjoy the wrap effect. This is more presentation but still good.....
And... when trying this at home...safety first. Have a safe word. Make sure there is not too much pressure on any part- especially where blood supply might be compromised or nerves compressed. Check in with the person who is tied frequently. And have a good knife and or scissors to cut rope quickly. No rope is more important than the well being of the bound person.Presentation is all about making a visual impression. Clean, smooth, neat, regular patterns all at the same angles, etc. very precise and careful to meet some goal(s).
Functional is more about getting the person bound so they can only move as desired.
Best, imo, is a bit of both, like riverj’s image:
Smooth, regular loops all the same, but also used to restrict options. That long stretch between her elbows won’t compress much thanks to all the wrapping, for instance.
Note that there can be safety issues both ways. Too much rope may take too long to take off, and too many loops if not done right can slowly increase tension further than expected/desired. Too little rope puts too much pressure on too small an area and leads to bruising or worse if under load. Too few loops can also slip, changing body posture perhaps in dangerous ways.
This is why you always have EMT shears, a seatbelt cutter, or similar on hand....
Note that there can be safety issues both ways. Too much rope may take too long to take off, ....
I'm quite fond of these relatively simple breast ties. I find them very effective to get me in that sub head space, that feeling of being owned, restrained and also lewdly displayed. Breast pressure/restraint is arousing for me - combined with any kind of nipple play and I'm quickly a hot mess.
Now - take her dancing. *grin*This is a bind that can be worn out. A dress over the top, especially a summer dress, floating just above the knee. It is clear to anyone looking, you see the rope work through the material of her dress.
Sassy!!
Wise wordsRope binding is an erotic trust between two people. Adding wax is trust and confidence. A submissive has trust and confidence in you, never abuse that.
I find this image very erotic too!!!Ooo love outdoors . She looks gorgeous