Should fantasies come true?

[MrEd63]

I'd love one of my fantasies to come true.

 

[lilredknotyhood]

Some yes, but some are better left to fantasy

 

[TheMalevolence]

Pretty sure if my fantasies came true then there'd be some reeeeaaalllly unhappy women out there... I'm just that selfish

 

[sixfeetundernea]

I agree. Most fantasies aren't actually all that when you live them out. When you fantasize, you naturally neglect to include other people's and your emotions, consequences, dealing with any kind of aftermath. People create fantasies for fun, your mind wants to make something exciting that when actually done isn't anything in the first place.

This is spoken from me living out my fantasies and helping some men live it their fantasies. I wish men were more considerate either way about their significant other when it comes to fantasies.

 

[lustatopia]

I'd say it all depends on the fantasy. In my case the fantasy in question consists of my wife and her coworker who are both very sexually attracted to one another. As of now this is all new so it is only kept as sex talk while we play.
The other man has no idea that I know or that we are fantasizing about it and he won't.
This fantasy has rekindled our drab sex life to an unbelievable new level. We were having vanilla sex maybe once a month until this came up. Now we've had three straight nights of the greatest sex we're enjoyed in years. Last night was the forth night since this began and chose not to get physical with each other. We talked about it, just held off which I personally feel like I'm going to explode.
We both haven't felt anything like this in years so we're taking this slow, enjoying the fantasy aspect of it.
I truly believe this fantasy will eventually become reality sometime in the future. To put a time on it is impossible. I've received some sound advice here so I'm using that with what I already know and feel. Our relationship is rock solid, our sex life was very lackluster.
We're going out for a nice dinner together tonight, then we're going dancing and enjoying each other.
I'm trying not to get over excited about the possibilities of this becoming real. We want to enjoy this stage of the fantasy to the fullest before the next step.
I'm not a cuckold or a wife watcher. I've never even fantasized about my wife of almost 22 years being with another man until the past week. Finding this website, reading through all the posts people have written on with many different topics has really opened my eyes. Never would I thought that in a flick of a switch our sex life would not only turn itself around but be hotter than it's ever been.
Over those four nights we have 100% opened up, been completely honest letting all our sexual desires free. That right there proves how solid a foundation we have.

Very Hot!

This is a great example of how a sexual fantasy, often based on reality, makes all the difference in a sexual relationship. I like how you are going to relish the fantasy while it provides all the zing you need in your sex life. No need to rush into really sharing your wife, just yet. Explore all the fantasy possibilities. Threesomes, maybe? Build up towards actually acting on fantasy. You might find that the fantasy is enough. If not, exhausting the fantasy of all potential first is building a solid foundation for the next step in your sexual lives.

 

[DustOnDaBotl]

Some yes, but some are better left to fantasy

Totally agree!

 

[MelnMe]

It's an interesting question.

I will say this, though- the possibility has to exist that it will come true.

The stuff MelnMe discuss might remain fantasy, but it excites both of us to have it there as a possibility.

 

[ConflictedOne]

I have a difference of opinion with my husband over this and I wonder if it's a male/female thing. I maintain that some fantasies should remain just that and trying to act them out would probably ruin them and might be well out of your comfort zone. He says that unless he thinks a fantasy might actually come true it doesn't do anything for him.

What do you think?

I totally agree...

While the fantasy of my wife with another man sounds really great on paper, Im not sure how I would handle it in REAL LIFE...

She is very timid and conservative so low odds any way...

 

[kawa_kamuri]

With the exception of fantasies that harm others yes, always. Without hesitation. A thousand times yes. I see no value in holding fantasies over being face deep in living the only life I have and generally think it's cowardly to choose thought over action.

 

[beingtrue2me]

Some of my fantasies are a lot like pandora's box. Keep them tucked away and hidden and it's ok but let them out for the whole world to see and I might just wish I had never opened that box in the first place.

 

[BareBackRider2]

I have a difference of opinion with my husband over this and I wonder if it's a male/female thing. I maintain that some fantasies should remain just that and trying to act them out would probably ruin them and might be well out of your comfort zone. He says that unless he thinks a fantasy might actually come true it doesn't do anything for him.

What do you think?

Firstly let me address the question by saying what was the question I'm just looking at your avatar and I don't really give a fuck about the question