slut?

[northwoods_sub]

Slut really does it for me in the proper context. In my "outside" life I am I wife, mother and professional. I portray the perfect lady, however get me home and I am the most wanton slut that Sir could want. I do what he want when he wants sexually. It can get me off just thinking what a dirty little whore I am being. That is just me though, if someone called me a slut outside of that context though I would probably have to kick some ass and that is just the way it is

 

[nh23]

DING DING DING DING!!!!!!!!!!!!! (at least for me) ANY word takes on new meaning when preceded by "My."

i agree. He very rarely calls me slut, but he calls me his little whore all the time. i happen to enjoy it when it comes from him, but wouldn't from anyone else. The "MY" makes all the difference to me.

 

[Netzach]

I enjoy it. It takes on the form of "discovering" that she is a female, think "Boys Don't Cry"


*pull down pants roughly and smirk at engorged clit*

"You call this a dick? You're never going to be able to fuck a woman with that thing little boy. Bend over and I'll show you what a man feels like."

superfuckinghot.

 

[ownedsubgal]

No offense to anyone, but the whole notion of "slut for one person" totally cancels the literal meaning of slut. Nympho, cock junkie, human blow up doll, wet hole, courtesan, toy, or fuckthing, yes, but "slut" -- how?

i agree with you 100% here Netz...have never understood how being happily monogamous, not promiscuous, not easy, etc. makes one a "slut." to me slut has a meaning that's pretty well spelled out in the dictionary, i don't get changing that meaning just for a sexual kick. actually like you, someone saying something that was blatantly false would be an instant buzzkill.

now, my Master refers to me as "slut." not simply His slut, but just plain slut. because frankly that's what i am...i've always been very easy, don't say no to men, men choose me as a sexual partner rather than the other way around, etc. if i were to walk outside right now, and some strange man approached me sexually, he could have me, simple as that. not because i'm a nympho or uber horny, but simply because i'm a slut who doesn't say no, even when i want to. in high school and college i dealt with the pain of having a bad reputation, of everyone thinking i was something bad and dirty because i was a slut. one of the things that initially attracted my Master to me was the fact that i was a slut....the combination of submissive and slut had always appealed to him, he had always longed to find such qualities in a mate. however even though it was something he loved and encouraged, it took a long, long time for me to embrace and accept my slut nature, rather than see it as a curse that had been placed upon me.

of course now, that i've gotten over that hump, i love being a slut, and it no longer hurts or offends me coming from anyone, regardless of what their intentions may be. the truth is, the world needs sluts, and i'm happy to be one of the gals fulfilling that cause.

 

[northwoods_sub]

now, my Master refers to me as "slut." not simply His slut, but just plain slut. because frankly that's what i am...i've always been very easy, don't say no to men, men choose me as a sexual partner rather than the other way around, etc. if i were to walk outside right now, and some strange man approached me sexually, he could have me, simple as that. not because i'm a nympho or uber horny, but simply because i'm a slut who doesn't say no, even when i want to. in high school and college i dealt with the pain of having a bad reputation, of everyone thinking i was something bad and dirty because i was a slut. one of the things that initially attracted my Master to me was the fact that i was a slut....the combination of submissive and slut had always appealed to him, he had always longed to find such qualities in a mate. however even though it was something he loved and encouraged, it took a long, long time for me to embrace and accept my slut nature, rather than see it as a curse that had been placed upon me.

of course now, that i've gotten over that hump, i love being a slut, and it no longer hurts or offends me coming from anyone, regardless of what their intentions may be. the truth is, the world needs sluts, and i'm happy to be one of the gals fulfilling that cause.

I have to agree here. I was the girl that guys came to in high school when they wanted to get layed. I didn't always let them, actually those men who were my friends were the last ones that I would sleep with because I really cherished their friendship. However now as an adult I do not have the right to say yes or no, that is up to my husband who is also my master. He chooses if I am to be shared with anyone.
It took a lot of years for me to be OK with being a slut, socially it is not very acceptable, but in the privacy of my own home or where ever Sir chooses I can be the slut I guess I truly am and its alright because that is what he wants from me.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I dont mind being called slut or bitch, think from the right person its very nice.

 

[EmpressFi]

I actually like it when Master calls me "slut" or "My slut" during play, I agree that in the context it's that yes, I am willing to do anything sexually for him. The possessiveness in the tone is what does it for me. Also, the other thing that changed my mind about being "hurt" or "offended" by the word was reading the book, "The Ethical Slut" by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt. It's more of a guide to some of the issues people in D/s relationships and poly relationships deal with. Being called slut is not something I am ashamed of, again, I believe it's in tone and connotation that the intent lies and should be examined before we damn a word

 

[StevenWill]

Semantics Shemantics

You say pataaato, I say patahto. If great sex is about abandonment then submission is about abandonment to one's own desires, not necessarily to another person. But if the thrill is abandonment in the presence of another person who serves as a safety net for our free fall, they are part of what we submit to. There is no nomenclature or algorithm that captures us all. Some like “naughty” and some like “nasty.” The joy is in creating a relationship that is tailor made for the partners. Intimacy grows from the partnership and saying “look what WE created through openness and vulnerability and by giving sex a place of honor in our lives.” In those moments when we let go and lose control we can surprised by what words stoke the fire. Everyone should explore and create a vocabulary that works for them. One day you might be the spiritual tantric queen of sensuality and the next day you might be a naughty little princess cock slut for Daddy. Every day is a new adventure and language is the most powerful tool in our travels.