Small dicks and SPH

[Kitschshaman]

I don't understand the humiliation aspect. Why humiliate your partner? To me that seems so wrong. I have been with men with large penises and small penises. I never once felt the desire to humiliate any of them. It's not like they have any control over the size of there penis. It just is what it is. Guys shouldn't get hung up on the size of it. I have even had men last merely seconds before ejaculating. Once again, I didn't humiliate them for it. Was I disappointed, hell yes.
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So guys, answer me this. Why would you WANT to be humiliated during sex?

The real answer for me is that I personally do not. As a matter of fact, humiliation is pretty off-putting. I especially do not like to do anything that would even approximate humiliation for any partner I've had. Why in the world would you want to hurt someone when they are their most vulnerable both physically and emotionally? Makes no sense. There is an additional facet I'd like to address here. From every even quasi-medical website I've tried on the subject, the 'average' penis size is roughly 3.5 inches flaccid and 5.25 inches erect. Compared to John Holmes that's pretty small, but in the world of porn the 'average' size is supposed to be 8 or 9 inches. This is a prime example of the alternate farcical fantastical idea of what sex is supposed to be as presented by the porn/erotic industry. So not only is humiliating someone on the basis of something they have absolutely no control over (the same applies to women who are minimally endowed) is a awful thing to do to someone, but it has absolutely no rational basis or relation to anything resembling truth or fact.

I'd like to thank you for asking that question, it's one of the more intelligent and reasonable observations I've seen here and it is much appreciated.

 

[policywank]

The real answer for me is that I personally do not. As a matter of fact, humiliation is pretty off-putting. I especially do not like to do anything that would even approximate humiliation for any partner I've had. Why in the world would you want to hurt someone when they are their most vulnerable both physically and emotionally? Makes no sense. There is an additional facet I'd like to address here. From every even quasi-medical website I've tried on the subject, the 'average' penis size is roughly 3.5 inches flaccid and 5.25 inches erect. Compared to John Holmes that's pretty small, but in the world of porn the 'average' size is supposed to be 8 or 9 inches. This is a prime example of the alternate farcical fantastical idea of what sex is supposed to be as presented by the porn/erotic industry. So not only is humiliating someone on the basis of something they have absolutely no control over (the same applies to women who are minimally endowed) is a awful thing to do to someone, but it has absolutely no rational basis or relation to anything resembling truth or fact.

I'd like to thank you for asking that question, it's one of the more intelligent and reasonable observations I've seen here and it is much appreciated.

I think the key to understanding the fetish is a somewhat nuanced understanding of pain. I liken it to a Dom or a Top administering a flogging in a BDSM situation. I have done this many times but only if I know it is something the recipient wants and they are mentally and emotionally stable. Most people can't relate to wanting to experience physical pain, but I can observe objectively that in these situations some people enjoy it. I am not hurting them in the sense of beating someone up against their will. I am administering pain that they request and embrace. SPH is like psychological BDSM.

Going around insulting someone based upon their penis size is like going around sucker punching people - wrong and inappropriate. But that isn't what SPH or BDSM are at all.

As to the reasonability of it all you are certainly correct. Most men are within range of average. Referring to a guy with a 6" penis as tiny is inaccurate. But again it is not dissimilar from me physically "dominating" a man twice my size. We both know he could throw me off easily, but submitting is all part of the play. He isn't really weak just like the 6" penis isn't really tiny, but the play is for us not an audience.

 

[SlutAddicted]

I think the key to understanding the fetish is a somewhat nuanced understanding of pain. I liken it to a Dom or a Top administering a flogging in a BDSM situation. I have done this many times but only if I know it is something the recipient wants and they are mentally and emotionally stable. Most people can't relate to wanting to experience physical pain, but I can observe objectively that in these situations some people enjoy it. I am not hurting them in the sense of beating someone up against their will. I am administering pain that they request and embrace. SPH is like psychological BDSM.

Going around insulting someone based upon their penis size is like going around sucker punching people - wrong and inappropriate. But that isn't what SPH or BDSM are at all.

As to the reasonability of it all you are certainly correct. Most men are within range of average. Referring to a guy with a 6" penis as tiny is inaccurate. But again it is not dissimilar from me physically "dominating" a man twice my size. We both know he could throw me off easily, but submitting is all part of the play. He isn't really weak just like the 6" penis isn't really tiny, but the play is for us not an audience.

Exactly. Engaging in a kinky fetish where there is mutual consent with a mature partner has nothing whatsoever to do with callously hurting vulnerable people.

 

[pbnjay]

So
When I first started going out with this one girl
We were riding in public transit

She was so horny
And telling me
She was describing my dick
Pretty loud, with others around
She was like-
I love how your dick is soo big
What is it? Like 4 inches
I just want it inside me
Soo deep
I was sooo embarrassed
But she loved it

 

[artgorden]

I want to the little dick cuck in porn
https://SPAMPOST/Ambrocio1717/post/46602306-f807-492b-b8ea-89b9a06ba0ab?browse=rhqz

 

[artgorden]

Cage me and let me blow him!

https://SPAMPOST/BBCcuckolddreamer/post/48f26d94-6f6c-4ebe-b179-0da286038209?browse=rhqz

 

[artgorden]

https://thumbs46.redgifs.com/Dutifu...:c501:7de0:dc3f:8596:548b:53d&hash=6163438793

 

[pbnjay]

Hmmm
Currently
I am trying to get my partner to admit that mine is small…
It almost came out of her mouth, when she said, “ oh ya, ok, bring it over here for me to measure”…
Then she backtracked on that comment…

I might ask if she wants to watch porn together…

 

[bjlatx]

How big/small is it?

 

[pbnjay]

How big/small is it?

Ummm
Depends on the day
4 and a quarter

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Most of the time mine is less than one inch poking out. O am not cut so my extra skin is longer than my penis and flops. I love being nude so it is visible. I do not Jack off but I push a finger or two into myself and masturbate like a girl for my wife. I would do it for you if we were together. When I make a cummie it oozes out and down my balls.

 

[pbnjay]

When I am flaccid…
I usually put my partners hand on it…
Or flash her
So she can see it at its smallest
Trying to get a reaction

I used to be super shy about it

But now

I wonder what her opinion is

 

[nutoseen]

When I am flaccid…
I usually put my partners hand on it…
Or flash her
So she can see it at its smallest
Trying to get a reaction

I used to be super shy about it

But now

I wonder what her opinion is

what is her opinion; what does she say.?

 

[pbnjay]

what is her opinion; what does she say.?

She says

“It’s perfect for me”

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

When I am flaccid…
I usually put my partners hand on it…
Or flash her
So she can see it at its smallest
Trying to get a reaction

I used to be super shy about it

But now

I wonder what her opinion is

You know what my reaction would be as I moand and sank down to worship your flaccid punishment with my mouth.

 

[duane68]

what does SPH mean?

 

[bjlatx]

what does SPH mean?

Small penis humiliation.

 

[duane68]

Small penis humiliation.

thank you

 

[pbnjay]

I was flaccid..
Wearing thick sweats
Snuck into bed with my partner…
I said “touch it”
She reached down…
Was feeling around…
“I can’t find it” then laughed

That laugh turned me on soooo much

Thinking about it, is making me throb right now….


Weird?

 

[CuMex1]

I’m not as small in the sense of having a micro penis or below average (average at best size wise) but I have a prior indirect experience on this matter with a long term ex girlfriend of mine and I admit it was a bit of a turn on for me.

 

[betabrad]

https://www.sex.com/pin/54338172/

This turns me on. How do you think a man should apologize for having a small one ?

 

[sicpup72]

How would you apologize?

 

[betabrad]

How would you apologize?

Well... a couple of ideas I had is -
Let your g/f have another lover with a big cock.
Suck your g/f's lover's big cock for her.
Wear panties.
Lock your dicklette in chastity.
Don't use your dick on your g/f , only give her pleasure with your tongue.

Any other ideas ?

 

[bjlatx]

https://www.sex.com/pin/54338172/

This turns me on. How do you think a man should apologize for having a small one ?

Let her fuck other men and have you watch.

 

[betabrad]

Let her fuck other men and have you watch.

and lick them both clean after .