Small Penis Teasing (not Humiliation)

[Justme16432000]

I found this recently as well. I'm about avg sized and ended up on cam with a woman and she started some very light teasing. It was a thrill, I can't remember a recent experience that had me that excited. When she noticed how much I liked it she continued. It was a very happy ending for me. I have looked for that again but sadly have not found any willing participants.

 

[Bumerang]

If anyone can advise me on this, I will be forever grateful. My boyfriend is stressing out about his penis size. I told him a million times that I am ok with his size that I like what is happening between us, but he thinks that I'm lying. I have read so many articles that are saying that the size matters the least, that vaginas are different too, that there are special spots in there that he has to touch, and so on. He keeps stressing out, and it drives the hell out of me. Has anyone been in the same situation? Jokes aside, I need to find more information to calm him down!

 

[gregy70]

If anyone can advise me on this, I will be forever grateful. My boyfriend is stressing out about his penis size. I told him a million times that I am ok with his size that I like what is happening between us, but he thinks that I'm lying. I have read so many articles that are saying that the size matters the least, that vaginas are different too, that there are special spots in there that he has to touch, and so on. He keeps stressing out, and it drives the hell out of me. Has anyone been in the same situation? Jokes aside, I need to find more information to calm him down!

Maybe try a different angle where you can help him embrace that he has a small penis.
Get him to lick you often as if it’s expected

 

[littlecordelera]

Back in my days on Ashley Madison, I met a guy who I really liked. He was tall, very attactive, and he had a great personality. We met for drinks a few times, and on about our third date, I invited him out to my car. We were kissing and touching, and he loved the weight of my breasts, but when I moved my hand toward his crotch, he stopped me. As it turned out, nothing happened that night.

We met for dinner and drinks again, and once again, I invited him out to my car. I wanted to give him the best oral sex he's ever had, but just like before, as my hand neared his crotch, he stopped me. This time, I softly said, "Don't." He removed his hand from blocking mine, and I put my hand on his crotch looking for an erection. But I couldn't find one. As my hand moved around his crotch, he was breathing really hard. I undid his pants, reached inside, and found what felt like a hard nub coated in goo. He had cum in his pants. I looked up at him in disbelief, and shame washed over his face.

But I still couldn't understand the nub. It didn't feel like anything I had ever felt down there before, so I pulled down his underwear and found that he had an erect penis about the size of my thumb - and I am a small girl. I really didn't mean to, but I looked up at him in astonishment, wondering, "Why did you put yourself in this situation?" He shamefully averted his eyes.

"I guess you were very excited," I said, trying to be conciliatory. Please forgive me for admitting this, but he very kindly claimed I was the hottest woman he had ever met. But then he needed some way to explain his premature ejaculation.

We got dressed in silence, and I offered to drive him to his car, but he insisted on walking. I watched him walk across the parking lot under the streetlights, and I felt sorry for him. We never met again, and for the longest time I felt sorry for him, but I could see that he remained active on Ashley Madison. I made no sense to me. Why would he put himself in that kind of situation again?

I told Jason the whole story when I got home that night, but it wasn't until weeks later that I thought to ask him that very question. "Why is he subjecting himself to this?"

"'Cause he likes it," Jason replied.

And it occurred to me that Jason likes it, too. I had known that since our dating days, and I use it often, although Jason is not nearly as small as this guy was. And then I felt disappointment. If only I had known, I could have embellished the whole situation in a way that the guy would have really enjoyed. It would have been fun, but he was pretending to be something he wasn't, and I was immediately put off. He had presented himself as if he could be a bull in my cuckold marriage, and of course, there was zero chance of that happening.

So at the end of it all, he got one thrill on one night. If he had been upfront about things, we could have remained friends and played for quite some time.

 

[Delawareguy]

I always feel like this is an odd subject. I'm not into SPH (small penis humiliation) and I don't need reassurance ("it's not the size, but how you use it"), but I do get a certain rush out of the kind of teasing I get from being smaller than another person with a bigger cock.

Does anyone else experience this or men or women who like to point out that someone is smaller than another, but without the humiliation part of it?

Responses and PMs welcome.
Thanks.

Why not just admit that you want to be humiliated. Any "teasing" about having a small cock, especially by someone with a big cock, would be humiliating to anyone with a small cock.

 

[irishblade]

Why not just admit that you want to be humiliated. Any "teasing" about having a small cock, especially by someone with a big cock, would be humiliating to anyone with a small cock.

I disagree. I can be teased without being humiliated. They are definitely not the same.

 

[whenagain]

Back in my days on Ashley Madison, I met a guy who I really liked. He was tall, very attactive, and he had a great personality. We met for drinks a few times, and on about our third date, I invited him out to my car. We were kissing and touching, and he loved the weight of my breasts, but when I moved my hand toward his crotch, he stopped me. As it turned out, nothing happened that night.

We met for dinner and drinks again, and once again, I invited him out to my car. I wanted to give him the best oral sex he's ever had, but just like before, as my hand neared his crotch, he stopped me. This time, I softly said, "Don't." He removed his hand from blocking mine, and I put my hand on his crotch looking for an erection. But I couldn't find one. As my hand moved around his crotch, he was breathing really hard. I undid his pants, reached inside, and found what felt like a hard nub coated in goo. He had cum in his pants. I looked up at him in disbelief, and shame washed over his face.

But I still couldn't understand the nub. It didn't feel like anything I had ever felt down there before, so I pulled down his underwear and found that he had an erect penis about the size of my thumb - and I am a small girl. I really didn't mean to, but I looked up at him in astonishment, wondering, "Why did you put yourself in this situation?" He shamefully averted his eyes.

"I guess you were very excited," I said, trying to be conciliatory. Please forgive me for admitting this, but he very kindly claimed I was the hottest woman he had ever met. But then he needed some way to explain his premature ejaculation.

We got dressed in silence, and I offered to drive him to his car, but he insisted on walking. I watched him walk across the parking lot under the streetlights, and I felt sorry for him. We never met again, and for the longest time I felt sorry for him, but I could see that he remained active on Ashley Madison. I made no sense to me. Why would he put himself in that kind of situation again?

I told Jason the whole story when I got home that night, but it wasn't until weeks later that I thought to ask him that very question. "Why is he subjecting himself to this?"

"'Cause he likes it," Jason replied.

And it occurred to me that Jason likes it, too. I had known that since our dating days, and I use it often, although Jason is not nearly as small as this guy was. And then I felt disappointment. If only I had known, I could have embellished the whole situation in a way that the guy would have really enjoyed. It would have been fun, but he was pretending to be something he wasn't, and I was immediately put off. He had presented himself as if he could be a bull in my cuckold marriage, and of course, there was zero chance of that happening.

So at the end of it all, he got one thrill on one night. If he had been upfront about things, we could have remained friends and played for quite some time.

Poor guy missed out, sounds like.

 

[nutoseen]

Most definitely. I love being seen and teased. it gets me super hot when my little guy is seen.

 

[Amy0Pete]

Yes it is strange...... At first.
My husband genuinely has a small penis, between 4 and 4 and a half inches, thin as well.
For the first few years I absolutely avoided anything to do with size as to not damaging his ego.
Then one night along with a standard 6" dildo, his asking for comparisons and it went from there.
He LOVES me teasing him about his small penis and it benefits both of us.

 

[Bonnie_Does]

SPT or SPH?

I learned something new today on Lit! I didn't know there was such a thing. I did date a guy with a penis the size some of you described, maybe 4" or so. I would have never teased him, oh no! He never failed to please.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Yes it is strange...... At first.
My husband genuinely has a small penis, between 4 and 4 and a half inches, thin as well.
For the first few years I absolutely avoided anything to do with size as to not damaging his ego.
Then one night along with a standard 6" dildo, his asking for comparisons and it went from there.
He LOVES me teasing him about his small penis and it benefits both of us.

That actually sounds pretty hot. It's good that you two think somewhat alike in that regard. Otherwise, it could be disastrous.

 

[Escierto]

I think there is a definite difference between teasing and humiliation. My cock is about five and a half inches hard and considerably smaller when flaccid. When my girlfriend sees it on cam when I am urinating, she always chuckles and says, “Oh there is my little friend. I have missed seeing him.”

With her seven and a half inch cock she is definitely bigger than me but she doesn’t make me feel bad about my cock size.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Why not just admit that you want to be humiliated. Any "teasing" about having a small cock, especially by someone with a big cock, would be humiliating to anyone with a small cock.

Yeah, I'm not into the humiliation part of it, especially the "sissy" words and "baby dick" talk or calling it a "clitty" or saying you're "not a real man."

I do think it would be pretty interesting to have a woman say something about how you're not reaching far enough inside her, especially while you're inside her. That kind of thing would not necessarily be humiliating, but interesting.

 

[kucked2x]

This topic has become a new interest of mine as I have gotten a little older. In some ways I do not feel small and never really had complaints. But recent experiences have changed that. Experiences with my wife specifically and with an ongoing conversation with a guy that is a few inches longer than me.

I’ve become intrigued by it both in the light level humiliation and general comparison. I have found both very arousing.

Anyway, I have read almost every post here in this thread and am enjoying it immensely.

Agreed completely!

 

[policywank]

One man's humiliation is another man's titillation. I would certainly never want to hurt a man or be cruel. But I do find that cuckolds can benefit from having a woman be honest with them while also being accepting of them and ensuring that they have a place in our sex lives. Sometimes the simple act of acknowledging reality is more than enough for that purpose, but whether the man regards that as titillating or humiliating will be driven primarily by his perspective.

Some would consider me a size queen, but I think that is taking it a bit too far. I genuinely enjoy a wide range of characteristics in men with very few of them being deal breakers. Cock size is not a deal breaker but if I am being honest I do sometimes want a bigger one. Simply acknowledging this reality to my husband (or some of my other lovers who are into this sort of thing) might be considered humiliating, but I just consider it honesty which is especially important in a hot wife dynamic.

If you are monogamous the consequences of distorting the truth to gloss over the insecurities of a man with a smaller penis are limited - you have no intention of being with other men anyway so what is the harm in playing down that "compromise". But as a hot wife there is real reason to be more forthright. For instance, a guy may be amazing at oral sex and that may be just as valuable or even more so than a guy with a big dick, but the two are not perfectly interchangeable. If I am in the mood to be fucked by a stud with a big cock having my cuckold lick me to orgasm isn't a fully satisfying substitution and I don't want to have to pretend otherwise.

Once he came to accept that reality he really started to enjoying light playful teasing. It isn't cruel or done with sneering disdain. He finds it titillating. But I know lots of men who simply cannot accept that size ever matters and for them it would be humiliating - not because it is intended that way but because it runs counter to the narrative they have so carefully built around their own insecurities.

 

[SlutAddicted]

One man's humiliation is another man's titillation. I would certainly never want to hurt a man or be cruel. But I do find that cuckolds can benefit from having a woman be honest with them while also being accepting of them and ensuring that they have a place in our sex lives. Sometimes the simple act of acknowledging reality is more than enough for that purpose, but whether the man regards that as titillating or humiliating will be driven primarily by his perspective.

Some would consider me a size queen, but I think that is taking it a bit too far. I genuinely enjoy a wide range of characteristics in men with very few of them being deal breakers. Cock size is not a deal breaker but if I am being honest I do sometimes want a bigger one. Simply acknowledging this reality to my husband (or some of my other lovers who are into this sort of thing) might be considered humiliating, but I just consider it honesty which is especially important in a hot wife dynamic.

If you are monogamous the consequences of distorting the truth to gloss over the insecurities of a man with a smaller penis are limited - you have no intention of being with other men anyway so what is the harm in playing down that "compromise". But as a hot wife there is real reason to be more forthright. For instance, a guy may be amazing at oral sex and that may be just as valuable or even more so than a guy with a big dick, but the two are not perfectly interchangeable. If I am in the mood to be fucked by a stud with a big cock having my cuckold lick me to orgasm isn't a fully satisfying substitution and I don't want to have to pretend otherwise.

Once he came to accept that reality he really started to enjoying light playful teasing. It isn't cruel or done with sneering disdain. He finds it titillating. But I know lots of men who simply cannot accept that size ever matters and for them it would be humiliating - not because it is intended that way but because it runs counter to the narrative they have so carefully built around their own insecurities.

This aligns with my experience. When my wife and I had an open relationship (we are now hot wife and cuckold) I remember once that two other guys were having a four-way with us. She suggested that I just watch for a while. I asked her why later when the other guys had left and she told me that she was in the mood for some bigger cocks (they were both quite a bit bigger than me) and it is tough to focus on more than two at once. I had just spent a long session of eating her out after they had fucked her when e had that conversation. That is what she wanted in that order - she enjoyed my tongue and their big cocks how and when she wanted - and one was not a substitute for the other.

I was taken aback a bit, but it was the truth. Recognizing and hearing that sort of thing was part of my journey to becoming a cuckold. Even at that time I was slightly humiliated but more titillated. It kept leaning toward the latter. Now I am used to her saying such things openly in front of other men if she trusts them. It is never harsh or mean but it is playfully firm - she is being nice but she also means it and that turns me on.

 

[MerWilh]

One man's humiliation is another man's titillation. I would certainly never want to hurt a man or be cruel. But I do find that cuckolds can benefit from having a woman be honest with them while also being accepting of them and ensuring that they have a place in our sex lives. Sometimes the simple act of acknowledging reality is more than enough for that purpose, but whether the man regards that as titillating or humiliating will be driven primarily by his perspective.

Some would consider me a size queen, but I think that is taking it a bit too far. I genuinely enjoy a wide range of characteristics in men with very few of them being deal breakers. Cock size is not a deal breaker but if I am being honest I do sometimes want a bigger one. Simply acknowledging this reality to my husband (or some of my other lovers who are into this sort of thing) might be considered humiliating, but I just consider it honesty which is especially important in a hot wife dynamic.

If you are monogamous the consequences of distorting the truth to gloss over the insecurities of a man with a smaller penis are limited - you have no intention of being with other men anyway so what is the harm in playing down that "compromise". But as a hot wife there is real reason to be more forthright. For instance, a guy may be amazing at oral sex and that may be just as valuable or even more so than a guy with a big dick, but the two are not perfectly interchangeable. If I am in the mood to be fucked by a stud with a big cock having my cuckold lick me to orgasm isn't a fully satisfying substitution and I don't want to have to pretend otherwise.

Once he came to accept that reality he really started to enjoying light playful teasing. It isn't cruel or done with sneering disdain. He finds it titillating. But I know lots of men who simply cannot accept that size ever matters and for them it would be humiliating - not because it is intended that way but because it runs counter to the narrative they have so carefully built around their own insecurities.

You always describe reality so well.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Small cocks can be very sexy!!

 

[ChuckWolf]

I have some upcoming stories, where women joke/tease about the main character having a small cock (even if he doesn't).

 

[dodgeboy2]

Small penis here who in early years was very embarrassed by it, flaccid sometimes the head is almost all I show and mostly barely the tip sticks out erect I weigh in on maybe 4" and somewhat thin in girth, I had many mm trysts/relationships before marrying my wife. Most of the guys I was with were cool and didn't mention my size but a few did with one always saying where is my tiny thing before going down on it, now he was the best blowjob ever so it didn't bother me as he always gave me the most fantastic relief.

I was lucky in marrying a girl who didn't have any other to compare me with so she had always thought I was normal size at least until I introduced her into porn to try to spice up our 30 year marriage, now when we have sex she isn't into it much at times making mention of her wondering what a larger one might feel like and I asked her if she was trying to tell me she wanted to try one to which she nodded yes so I let her have a tryst with another guy and now I can say I don't have sex often with her anymore but at least the tryst was short and she is home with me all the time.

 

[lil_pete]

I always feel like this is an odd subject. I'm not into SPH (small penis humiliation) and I don't need reassurance ("it's not the size, but how you use it"), but I do get a certain rush out of the kind of teasing I get from being smaller than another person with a bigger cock.

Does anyone else experience this or men or women who like to point out that someone is smaller than another, but without the humiliation part of it?

Responses and PMs welcome.
Thanks.

Yes definitely, with SPH I'd want to hurt somebody yet my wife's subtle teasing is HOT!
A large part of my dislike for SPH is the being treated like someone very stupid.
"His cock is way bigger than yours/your penis is so small compared to his" DUH I have eyes and can see that.
I love watching my wife being pleasured by a large thick cock, she looks so beautiful in the throes of passion.
After I am straight in and "I can't really feel you" is about as harsh or humiliating as she gets but it's not really.
Her husky voice in my ear "did you see how hard I came?" "That big cock filled me.... touched places....."
"Did you see your little honey take that big thing?" "Are you proud of your little honey?" "Don't you wish you had a cock like that?" "Oh baby we would be fucking all the time! Just You and me!"
She is doing all this for me, she doesn't have to with me after such great sex, she actually doesn't enjoy intercourse with me, knowing most times I am so turned on but most importantly she told me a while back that it made me a part of the whole thing which is important.
Finally she will finish with what could almost be construed as humiliating... As I grunt growl real loud like a caveman with a BIG cock ejaculating I hear "good boy, good boy after each grunt growl signalling a release.
I asked her early on why? She pointed out the penis size boy as opposed to man but more significant was my small load. She did not know that once I became aware of her upcoming meet I would be spanking my wee willy like a bewildered Bonobo, at times so much that my shaft was very sensitive and the tiniest ooze of semen.
I think "good boy" is being kind, very kind

 

[lil_pete]

Prior post
This is an example of her tease.... I was doing a strip trying to get her in the mood
You can leave your hat on

 

[Actual_Mom]

SMALL PENIS STORY about the insecurity of a young guy with a small penis.

 

[bjlatx]

Yes definitely, with SPH I'd want to hurt somebody yet my wife's subtle teasing is HOT!
A large part of my dislike for SPH is the being treated like someone very stupid.
"His cock is way bigger than yours/your penis is so small compared to his" DUH I have eyes and can see that.
I love watching my wife being pleasured by a large thick cock, she looks so beautiful in the throes of passion.
After I am straight in and "I can't really feel you" is about as harsh or humiliating as she gets but it's not really.
Her husky voice in my ear "did you see how hard I came?" "That big cock filled me.... touched places....."
"Did you see your little honey take that big thing?" "Are you proud of your little honey?" "Don't you wish you had a cock like that?" "Oh baby we would be fucking all the time! Just You and me!"
She is doing all this for me, she doesn't have to with me after such great sex, she actually doesn't enjoy intercourse with me, knowing most times I am so turned on but most importantly she told me a while back that it made me a part of the whole thing which is important.
Finally she will finish with what could almost be construed as humiliating... As I grunt growl real loud like a caveman with a BIG cock ejaculating I hear "good boy, good boy after each grunt growl signalling a release.
I asked her early on why? She pointed out the penis size boy as opposed to man but more significant was my small load. She did not know that once I became aware of her upcoming meet I would be spanking my wee willy like a bewildered Bonobo, at times so much that my shaft was very sensitive and the tiniest ooze of semen.
I think "good boy" is being kind, very kind

I’m not into the “loser” type of talk. I prefer being told that I can’t satisfy or that she can’t feel my dick when I am inside her. Stuff like that.

 

[NancyPan]

Yes definitely, with SPH I'd want to hurt somebody yet my wife's subtle teasing is HOT!
A large part of my dislike for SPH is the being treated like someone very stupid.
"His cock is way bigger than yours/your penis is so small compared to his" DUH I have eyes and can see that.
I love watching my wife being pleasured by a large thick cock, she looks so beautiful in the throes of passion.
After I am straight in and "I can't really feel you" is about as harsh or humiliating as she gets but it's not really.
Her husky voice in my ear "did you see how hard I came?" "That big cock filled me.... touched places....."
"Did you see your little honey take that big thing?" "Are you proud of your little honey?" "Don't you wish you had a cock like that?" "Oh baby we would be fucking all the time! Just You and me!"
She is doing all this for me, she doesn't have to with me after such great sex, she actually doesn't enjoy intercourse with me, knowing most times I am so turned on but most importantly she told me a while back that it made me a part of the whole thing which is important.
Finally she will finish with what could almost be construed as humiliating... As I grunt growl real loud like a caveman with a BIG cock ejaculating I hear "good boy, good boy after each grunt growl signalling a release.
I asked her early on why? She pointed out the penis size boy as opposed to man but more significant was my small load. She did not know that once I became aware of her upcoming meet I would be spanking my wee willy like a bewildered Bonobo, at times so much that my shaft was very sensitive and the tiniest ooze of semen.
I think "good boy" is being kind, very kind

I like these comments and largely feel the same way. I have written elsewhere on this forum that I believe that erotic humiliation is a fine art that involves the Domme understanding the psyche of Her sub and knowing how to push the right buttons. Tone and inflection as well as timing are even more important than word choice, but some efforts at SPH depicted in porn are simply crude and, to me, not erotic at all.
My wife will say things like, “Remind me why I don’t let you put it in me,” or simply laugh at my erection and shake Her head, make me show her, ask me if I can get it any bigger. She is “sympathetic” in a condescending way, but never mean.