*Some pics of me*

[_me_]

Johnny. I cannot say what has happened in your life not knowing the circumstances. But I will say that early in my marriage this happened while I was overseas (secret military operation). She confessed, but we wanted to put things back together for our daughter and did so. That was almost 20 years ago. For us, in the end, it was our love for each other that allowed us to talk, cry, fight, agonize over it, but finally work it out and move on.
I hope that whatever decision you two make it is something that both of you want. If you are meant to be together you will work it out. If not, then I hope that you can move on and find someone else with which you can build that trust with. If we had not been able to rebuild that trust, then we, too, would have parted ways.

Such a good post

I hope you can both work things out x

 

[hockeyfan69]

I feel your pain Johnny. My wife of over 3 years just recently cheated on me. I've had health issues last year with a brain tumor and multiple surgeries. I don't blame her for wandering because I wasn't living in a hospital bed when we met and I wasn't depressed either. The combination of the brain tumors and surgeries and the deep depression it left me in made her go look for certain things elsewhere. She's apologized and is begging for forgiveness and wants to make things work, but right now, I cannot trust her. She was around when things were great, but she abandoned me when things got rough and when I really needed her the most. Sometimes things are either meant to be, or their not. Just try to remove yourself from the situation and figure out if this is something you think is meant to be and if this is something you'll still want. Things like this can either make the relationship 100x stronger, or they can completely kill relationships. Good luck with everything it's not easy.

 

[Corbal]

Let us not forget there are two sides to every story and like in most cases, we've only gotten one. With that said, everyone at least once in their life falls from grace. It is how you chose to live the remainder of your life that erases the mistakes of your past.

I'm not here for girl power purposes. I'm here to speak truths. Truth is, Jessie remains my lit sweetheart, a phenomenal woman and fabulous soul. She was unique, not only with her style but her attitude and grace. Nothing said here, no matter how inappropriate will change that.

I hope for you both individually and collectively as a married couple. You were each awesomely incredible individuals but together a force that could not go unnoticed. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

 

[DeluxAuto]

I feel your pain Johnny. My wife of over 3 years just recently cheated on me. I've had health issues last year with a brain tumor and multiple surgeries. I don't blame her for wandering because I wasn't living in a hospital bed when we met and I wasn't depressed either. The combination of the brain tumors and surgeries and the deep depression it left me in made her go look for certain things elsewhere. She's apologized and is begging for forgiveness and wants to make things work, but right now, I cannot trust her. She was around when things were great, but she abandoned me when things got rough and when I really needed her the most. Sometimes things are either meant to be, or their not. Just try to remove yourself from the situation and figure out if this is something you think is meant to be and if this is something you'll still want. Things like this can either make the relationship 100x stronger, or they can completely kill relationships. Good luck with everything it's not easy.

kill her.

 

[parker77]

I have to agree with Corbs. Who among us is perfect? All my brothers that have been hurt, you have my sympathy. But, I refuse to lose my faith in Jessie. We don't know each other in this strange forum of Lit, but I swear that I can often feel the spirit of others here. And to me, Jessie's spirit is true. Not perfect, just true. And I refuse to ditch her just b/c she and Johnny have a prob. No offense, John, but I believe in Jessie. Always have; always will. I have been understood when I have erred. Love is built of this.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Ouch.

Sorry brother... I know the pain. But maybe this is something best handled between just the two of you.

I wish only the best to both of you, and I hope you can work things out so that both of you are happy again.

I would have to echo this I had been wondering about both of you. I hope whatever decisions are made that you both find happiness. *Hugs*

 

[Smoke Spliff]

......

 

[Kahlo]

Let us not forget there are two sides to every story and like in most cases, we've only gotten one. With that said, everyone at least once in their life falls from grace. It is how you chose to live the remainder of your life that erases the mistakes of your past.

I'm not here for girl power purposes. I'm here to speak truths. Truth is, Jessie remains my lit sweetheart, a phenomenal woman and fabulous soul. She was unique, not only with her style but her attitude and grace. Nothing said here, no matter how inappropriate will change that.

I hope for you both individually and collectively as a married couple. You were each awesomely incredible individuals but together a force that could not go unnoticed. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

Well said Corbal!

 

[teknight]

Let us not forget there are two sides to every story and like in most cases, we've only gotten one. With that said, everyone at least once in their life falls from grace. It is how you chose to live the remainder of your life that erases the mistakes of your past.

I'm not here for girl power purposes. I'm here to speak truths. Truth is, Jessie remains my lit sweetheart, a phenomenal woman and fabulous soul. She was unique, not only with her style but her attitude and grace. Nothing said here, no matter how inappropriate will change that.

I hope for you both individually and collectively as a married couple. You were each awesomely incredible individuals but together a force that could not go unnoticed. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

And stuff like this, Corbs, is why I think you're awesome.

 

[_me_]

Let us not forget there are two sides to every story and like in most cases, we've only gotten one. With that said, everyone at least once in their life falls from grace. It is how you chose to live the remainder of your life that erases the mistakes of your past.

I'm not here for girl power purposes. I'm here to speak truths. Truth is, Jessie remains my lit sweetheart, a phenomenal woman and fabulous soul. She was unique, not only with her style but her attitude and grace. Nothing said here, no matter how inappropriate will change that.

I hope for you both individually and collectively as a married couple. You were each awesomely incredible individuals but together a force that could not go unnoticed. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

I nearly cried reading that x

 

[emmy_christina]

Let us not forget there are two sides to every story and like in most cases, we've only gotten one. With that said, everyone at least once in their life falls from grace. It is how you chose to live the remainder of your life that erases the mistakes of your past.

I'm not here for girl power purposes. I'm here to speak truths. Truth is, Jessie remains my lit sweetheart, a phenomenal woman and fabulous soul. She was unique, not only with her style but her attitude and grace. Nothing said here, no matter how inappropriate will change that.

I hope for you both individually and collectively as a married couple. You were each awesomely incredible individuals but together a force that could not go unnoticed. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

Corbal, I agree with you, we never crossed pathts, but always loved your wisdom and I so agree with you here.

Jessie and Johnny hope you will overcome this difficult time.
Know being married 30 years, it can be at time a difficult times, everyone makes mistakes, but love so will overcome all of them.
Hard yes.
Difficult yes.
Being mad oh you bet.
But true love will overcome all of that, we are just human beings.
I know and I could not been happier right now. So hope you will can say the same in 28 years.

 

[photogeek]

Really sorry to hear you guys are having trouble... I really hope that whatever does happen you both can find a way to be happy and something that is best for your family.

 

[PolyLvr]

I've been there and I know it can take a long time for the trust to return. Even if it does the relationship is different.

If you read this Johnny, and if J is willing also, I hope you consider reconciliation. It really can be worth it.
Best of luck to both of you.

 

[omgitselaine]

Sorry to hear about what had happened

May God strengthen and guide you both during these difficult and painful times.

 

[BDA73]

I am hoping the two of you can work things out and wish nothing but the best, if either would like to talk i have two good ears to lend

 

[MaleLesbo]

Sorry

To hear this but...let him who is without sin cast the first stone! I cannot! I do hope you both can reconcile...hard road for all involved with a little one if it is not workable. I wish you the best and pray for such!

 

[PopoJeff]

I am sorry to hear about your troubles as a couple. Both of you just remember troubles as a couple don't mean you are bad individuals. Maybe things will work out together, but if they don't I hope both of you recover from this and "live happily everafter"!

 

[obstacle1]

This is a horrible update to hear after I've been away from this thread for so long... I hope you both will think calmly and discuss it all before making your decision... *hugs* prayers to both of you

I agree!

 

[BDA73]

hoping some peace has found the two of you

 

[obstacle1]

hoping some peace has found the two of you

Yea, I hope all is well

 

[fatshelly]

he jessie,
I saw all your posts a few months back and ur pics were really hot.
I bookmarked the thread to come back later.
But now when I try to view ur pics it says invalid attachement.

Is there anything I am missing. I can view the attachments of other threads though.

 

[downtownerjake]

he jessie,
I saw all your posts a few months back and ur pics were really hot.
I bookmarked the thread to come back later.
But now when I try to view ur pics it says invalid attachement.

Is there anything I am missing. I can view the attachments of other threads though.

http://www.boatdesign.net/forums/attachments/open-discussion/28450d1232080795-bye-bye-2009-annus-horribillis-theres-door-now-get-fuck-out.jpg

 

[fatshelly]

http://www.boatdesign.net/forums/attachments/open-discussion/28450d1232080795-bye-bye-2009-annus-horribillis-theres-door-now-get-fuck-out.jpg

You are insane man. If you cannot help others, just key keep your mouth shut.
Fuck off

 

[monsterrdude]

he jessie,
I saw all your posts a few months back and ur pics were really hot.
I bookmarked the thread to come back later.
But now when I try to view ur pics it says invalid attachement.

Is there anything I am missing. I can view the attachments of other threads though.

If you'll look through the past few pages, you'll find that there was trouble in paradise and she left, pulling all the pics on the way out.

 

[fatshelly]

If you'll look through the past few pages, you'll find that there was trouble in paradise and she left, pulling all the pics on the way out.

Thanks for the update mate.

I read first 10 or so pages and thought I was missing somethin.

Moreover I am not a regular reader here. so was unaware.

I would miss her she was really hot.