Sph / tiny penis fetish

Yes , I'd have to say this is true for me. I know I need to be in a cuckold relationship so that my g/f or wife can get sexual satisfaction from other men which I am not physically able to give her . But i can provide her with oral pleasure when she wants.

The cuckold relationship, the open submissive role or both help a small dick man and his wife with the kind of clarity that opens up channels of communication. His size is not adequate for vaginal stimulation. Regardless of where that truth leads them their communication can only be truly effective if they are honest about this reality.
 
My wife did not tell me that my penis did not satisfy her until we had been together for over 20 years and I had fathered our two children. She continued to allow me to have PIV sex for several more years, but when I pushed for an FLR, she chose to make one stipulation that I would have to accept no more PIV. It is her choice (whew!) to remain monogamous and take her pleasure with my oral service and her vibrator.

As hard as it was to hear and accept, however, now I know that it was best for both of us that she was (finally) direct and honest about this. As much as I would like to be allowed to (and as often as I fantasize about) being allowed to fuck her again, I would not trade the current arrangement for that privilege.

As I was also prone to PE, she had plenty of reason to be dissatisfied. Things are better now that she manages my orgasms (I had to admit that I needed her control) and she has taught me how to give her the orgasms she deserves and should have been receiving from the very beginning. To @policywank’s point, it is this open communication that has strengthened our marriage and continued to keep sex vital and fun.
 
I'm wondering if this is because I have a small penis or is it just me:

I'm not really bisexual, at least, I dont think I am. I'm really only attracted to women and I only want to kiss a woman and be in a romantic relationship with a woman. But i just cant seem to help myself - when I see a pic of a big hard cock, I just get so turned on. I just cant stop myself from thinking about getting down on my knees and sucking it and worshipping it. I want to bend over and have it fuck me. I just have these desires - when I see a big hard cock, I just feel the need to submit to it. Is that natural for men with a small penis ?
 
Is that natural for men with a small penis?
No. There is no such thing as “natural” when it comes to anything kink, fetish, or sexual. I, actually, am turned off ny the sight of any penis, big or small, even my own. I think male genitals are ugly (but I worship pussy).
 
No. There is no such thing as “natural” when it comes to anything kink, fetish, or sexual. I, actually, am turned off ny the sight of any penis, big or small, even my own. I think male genitals are ugly (but I worship pussy).
YES, I worship pussy all day all night 365 a year. I will get on my hands and knees for pussy. I can not reconcile my love of pussy.
 
I'm wondering if this is because I have a small penis or is it just me:

I'm not really bisexual, at least, I dont think I am. I'm really only attracted to women and I only want to kiss a woman and be in a romantic relationship with a woman. But i just cant seem to help myself - when I see a pic of a big hard cock, I just get so turned on. I just cant stop myself from thinking about getting down on my knees and sucking it and worshipping it. I want to bend over and have it fuck me. I just have these desires - when I see a big hard cock, I just feel the need to submit to it. Is that natural for men with a small penis ?

I think it can be a natural outcome of having a small penis/sph. I think it’s arousal from the shock of discovering that another man has a much larger penis than you.
 
Interesting! I could write a book on why I like wearing panties — so many reasons (not to mention simply superior comfort). However, since I am triggered by erotic humiliation, the fact that my wife expects my penis to be in panties rather than “men’s” underwear enhances the idea that she does not need it for “manly” duties.

While I am submissive to my wife, I do not otherwise act or dress effeminately, but I always wear panties.

I am curious: How many others who are small wear panties 24/7?
 
Speaking as a male who is "modestly endowed" (3 inches, fully erect) I have accepted that the overwhelming majority of men have penises larger than mine and are able to satisfy a woman in ways that I cannot. I have striven to overcome this deficiency by perfecting my oral abilities. I have been married twice and both of my wives have praised my tongue technique and my wife says that the orgasms I provide her using my mouth and tongue, are the strongest and the best she has ever experienced. I recognize my place in the penile pecking order and consider my mouth and my throat to be my primary sex organ for the use of both women and men. Do you find that your preference for larger cocks is shared by most women but who are are reluctant to express this preference for fear of offending their partners?
I enjoyed reading your very forthright and positive reply regarding your status of having a smaller than average penis. It’s such an injustice to “brand” a man who genetically has been awarded a physical feature that is smaller and considered by too many people to be the life-long subject of cruel jokes from mental midgets! My husband is 5 1/2” erect and he is the one who has bothered to measure it. I have never once had the need or desire to measure one. I dated and married the ENTIRE man, not only one physical part of him. The physical make-up of a woman makes it so that most of us reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation. The clitoris is generally about 1/4 inch “inside” and so it can be “reached” with a satisfying degree of accurate aim with most ANY erection. Men with average to smaller penises DO tend to be very astute lovers because they will work on alternative skills in lovemaking. Some of the least satisfying sex I had in college years had to do with guys who felt their trophy penises were to be used with the same method as toilet plungers…..and that they were so conceited by their size that they felt we should be so honored that they would consent to fucking us. Huge penises are difficult to give really good oral sex to, and for petite women often anal sex is not enjoyable (or possible) with huge penises. I’ve been married 19 years, happily and actively, with no regrets. My husband very much has become extremely skillful with oral sex and I am able to receive multiple orgasms that way! Making fun of men with smaller penises is about as idiotic as pretending all Blonde’s are dumber than dirt.
 
I'm wondering if this is because I have a small penis or is it just me:

I'm not really bisexual, at least, I dont think I am. I'm really only attracted to women and I only want to kiss a woman and be in a romantic relationship with a woman. But i just cant seem to help myself - when I see a pic of a big hard cock, I just get so turned on. I just cant stop myself from thinking about getting down on my knees and sucking it and worshipping it. I want to bend over and have it fuck me. I just have these desires - when I see a big hard cock, I just feel the need to submit to it. Is that natural for men with a small penis ?

I have talked to lots of guys who generally aren't attracted to men, but like the idea of sucking a big beautiful cock. If that is how you feel I'd say that you are attracted to at least one part of a man even if not the whole package. It is what it is. I don't think this desire is necessarily directly related to having a tiny penis. However, I think that men who are less well endowed are sort of necessarily inclined to have a more nuanced view of their own sexuality, which coupled with a submissive streak will make sucking the cock of a man with superior endowment feel quite natural.
 
Are men with small penises more likely to wear panties? I do.
I think for straight men the answer is probably yes. In other words, I would guess that men with small penises are not anymore likely to be gay, trans or crossdressers. But among those who are straight the inclination to feel that panties are a more appropriate choice or the desire to be submissive may be heightened by those with little dicks.

I mean it does sort of feel natural to you doesn't it? Seeing your little dick in those pretty panties knowing that is all that is really required to hold it? Knowing you have accepted your place and the panties prove it to anyone who knows?
 
I think for straight men the answer is probably yes. In other words, I would guess that men with small penises are not anymore likely to be gay, trans or crossdressers. But among those who are straight the inclination to feel that panties are a more appropriate choice or the desire to be submissive may be heightened by those with little dicks.

I mean it does sort of feel natural to you doesn't it? Seeing your little dick in those pretty panties knowing that is all that is really required to hold it? Knowing you have accepted your place and the panties prove it to anyone who knows?
I really don't understand crossdressing. The female form is erotically beautiful, but most of the pictures I've seen of men dressed in women's clothing are ludicrous. I'm not a bad looking man, but I'd make an extremely ugly woman. I have no desire to be a woman, or to look like one. I just like sucking cock. My minuscule member renders me sexually subordinate to most other men and dictates that my proper role is providing oral service to both men and women.
 
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I think for straight men the answer is probably yes. In other words, I would guess that men with small penises are not anymore likely to be gay, trans or crossdressers. But among those who are straight the inclination to feel that panties are a more appropriate choice or the desire to be submissive may be heightened by those with little dicks.

I mean it does sort of feel natural to you doesn't it? Seeing your little dick in those pretty panties knowing that is all that is really required to hold it? Knowing you have accepted your place and the panties prove it to anyone who knows?

For me your analysis is certainly true. I started wearing panties after being told by 3 different people how small I was when soft and two of them were complete strangers. This increased my tendencies toward being submissive.
 
But among those who are straight the inclination to feel that panties are a more appropriate choice or the desire to be submissive may be heightened by those with little dicks.

I mean it does sort of feel natural to you doesn't it? Seeing your little dick in those pretty panties knowing that is all that is really required to hold it? Knowing you have accepted your place and the panties prove it to anyone who knows?
@policywank , you have an incredible understanding of straight submissive men like me. You are 100% correct that the panties “prove it” in a symbolic way that I have accepted my place. I know that my penis is not for the purpose of providing pleasure to women. It belongs in panties. My wife considers allowing me to wear panties, however, to be a privilege that can be lost.
 
@policywank , you have an incredible understanding of straight submissive men like me. You are 100% correct that the panties “prove it” in a symbolic way that I have accepted my place. I know that my penis is not for the purpose of providing pleasure to women. It belongs in panties. My wife considers allowing me to wear panties, however, to be a privilege that can be lost.

Yes, it is a privilege. Those that do not understand the submissive mindset, including the urge to indulge in SPH, see these things in a negative light. But being a submissive little panty boy is something that you need and desire. Your wife has carved out a special place for you in her life where you are her trusted and loved partner without needing the charade of pretending to fulfill the stereotypical macho role. Those things are not in conflict. They are difficult for many people to understand, but that doesn't make them any less true.
 
For me your analysis is certainly true. I started wearing panties after being told by 3 different people how small I was when soft and two of them were complete strangers. This increased my tendencies toward being submissive.

It sounds like the objective perspective of others helps you see yourself more honestly. As long as it wasn't hurtful and you have been able to embrace yourself as you are - a man with a little dick that belongs in panties - then good for you.
 
I don’t feel any urge to wear panties or to be feminine in any way. I know my penis does not satisfy my wife. I’ve known it for a long time. I’ve made my peace with it and I’m happy for my wife to enjoy big dicks now.
 
I have talked to lots of guys who generally aren't attracted to men, but like the idea of sucking a big beautiful cock. If that is how you feel I'd say that you are attracted to at least one part of a man even if not the whole package. It is what it is. I don't think this desire is necessarily directly related to having a tiny penis. However, I think that men who are less well endowed are sort of necessarily inclined to have a more nuanced view of their own sexuality, which coupled with a submissive streak will make sucking the cock of a man with superior endowment feel quite natural.
Mmmm yesssss "sucking a big beautiful cock". I do think big hard cocks are beautiful. I find them just irresistible. I cant stop thinking about how much i want to be on my knees sucking a big hard juicy cock or how much I want to bend over and offer my ass to a big hard cock. When I see a big hard cock, I just want to submit to it.
 
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