Sph / tiny penis fetish

This is a newer fetish of mine. I am small and have been embarrassed of it most of my life. I had an experience not that long ago that opened my eyes to SPH. I would say I enjoy more teasing than humiliation, nothing overly mean. It is so hot to hear comments from people after they see it, especially when I'm soft. I get so nervous and excited at the same time, very hot.
Good for you and welcome to the exciting world of sph. There is a huge difference between mean teasing and erotic humiliation. Effective sph is not vulgar or mean, but rather a mocking reminder of the inadequacy we already feel. When my wife expresses a teasing sympathy for my small size, like, “If you were only bigger, I’d let you put it in me,” it puts me in an impossible state. I can only acknowledge my inadequacy and try my best to make it up to her with stellar pussy worship while knowing that I am not allowed to fuck like men who have even average sized cocks.
 
Good for you and welcome to the exciting world of sph. There is a huge difference between mean teasing and erotic humiliation. Effective sph is not vulgar or mean, but rather a mocking reminder of the inadequacy we already feel. When my wife expresses a teasing sympathy for my small size, like, “If you were only bigger, I’d let you put it in me,” it puts me in an impossible state. I can only acknowledge my inadequacy and try my best to make it up to her with stellar pussy worship while knowing that I am not allowed to fuck like men who have even average sized cocks.
Very true. When my girlfriend chuckles and says, "How is my little friend?", you have to laugh.
 
I reclaimed my wife after her last date and my wife told me she couldn’t feel me at all. And then just yesterday, I mentioned we had gotten 2 inches of rain. She said we got as much rain and you have sick. I told her I was bigger than that and she didn’t believe me. So she talked dirty to me while I masturbated. She said things like she has to fuck other men because my dick is too small to satisfy her. I didn’t last long.
 
Im well aware I have a small dick (5" or so not very girthy) but it is something I have come to accept. I have had a few humbling experiences with women in regards to my penis size. Once hooking up with a female friend and the standard size condom was way too big for my pecker and she felt the need to point it out and suggested i get some smaller ones. Another time I had a woman straight up tell me I had a small dick and because her ass was big certain positions just weren't going to work.

Ive tried to compensate by exercising near daily and trying to take care of body since that is something I can actually have control over. I have also gotten more willing to please using my tongue.

Acceptance is the key. There are things a man can and should do to mitigate the consequence of his inadequacies. But regardless of whether his sexual partners seek a more fulfilling sexual experience elsewhere or simply accept his inadequacies, she should never be obliged to pretend they don't exist.

If you are able to accept your inadequacies then you remain eligible to be a sexual partner. Perhaps you will not have the status you desire, and you must adjust to that. But if you insist on pretending you are something you aren't or pretending female sexual desire is something that it isn't or vilifying women for what we desire then you become ineligible for any sexual contact. And the men who do that have no one to blame but themselves.
 
Acceptance is the key. There are things a man can and should do to mitigate the consequence of his inadequacies. But regardless of whether his sexual partners seek a more fulfilling sexual experience elsewhere or simply accept his inadequacies, she should never be obliged to pretend they don't exist.

If you are able to accept your inadequacies then you remain eligible to be a sexual partner. Perhaps you will not have the status you desire, and you must adjust to that. But if you insist on pretending you are something you aren't or pretending female sexual desire is something that it isn't or vilifying women for what we desire then you become ineligible for any sexual contact. And the men who do that have no one to blame but themselves.
I agree totally! My micro penis measures barely 3 inches long and quite thin, FULLY ERECT!! Very early on, I was forced to accept the fact that my mini member was incapable of sexually satisfying a woman. As a teenager, I served as my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker and as a result, have learned to prioritize my partner's orgasms over my own. As a practicing cocksucker I have also concentrated on improving my cunnilingus abilities in an attempt to make up for my deficiency. I realize that the two activities are different and that the one often cannot substitute for the other, but I have been told that the orgasms I provide women orally have been the strongest they have experienced.
 
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