Squirting?

[Emerson40]

Regardless of my sarcasm ... did you UNDERSTAND the message?

A G-Gasm or a few of them MAY/COULD/POSSIBLY result in a PREMATURE BIRTH.

I did understand your meaning.

I did not mean to horn in and I originally wasn’t going to say anything - I have no beef with you.

It is just I have never herd you use humour like this, here or in your udder thread. You are usually so dairy serious. Reading your post I thought you were perhaps milking things a bit too much.

Sorry, it was just a brief mooment of misunderstanding. But hay, let’s not stew about it.

 

[Mr.G]

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[Lucien_Al]

Success

Just succeeded in getting my partner to squirt.

The first time was a small squirt but covered my forearm as I rubbed her G Spot and licked her clit.

The second time she had a thick milky cum like discharge oozing from her, then she got super wet and then just let go properly.

For me it certainly didn't taste like urine and I loved licker her clean.

 

[Majorbedhead]

Regardless of my sarcasm ... did you UNDERSTAND the message?

A G-Gasm or a few of them MAY/COULD/POSSIBLY result in a PREMATURE BIRTH.

Hold on Buddy, you're way off base here. There are a number of factors that HAVE to occur before a woman gives birth.
Christ almighty; ladies and especially the young ladies out there. YOU will NOT give birth prematurely or otherwise if you have an orgasm.

Think of all the Catholics that stopped having sex before I got here.

 

[_Delilah_]

I was adamant that I could never achieve one of those, to a point of being irritated when told (typically by men) that I just hadn’t being doing/had it done correctly. (Note, it’s highly risky to your health to tell a woman that you have a better understanding of her body than she).

But then I met my s/o and two things happened; first, he pushed through all my denials and arguments about not being able to do this, but his approach was more of a “let’s just see, no pressure” instead of a “you just haven’t been with ME before, babycakes”. Second, I squirted. Like, holy mother of god “ I just squirted!!!” And of course all the disbelief and relief and amazement that came with it resulted in one big psychological break of laughter and joy that I had done this thing.

Also, I have since selectively retracted my thoughts about “my body, I know it best!” He knows this part of me better. He also hold the keys to unlock my mom brain with all its distractions and hangups and help me focus on the him and me.

 

[Acktion]

I remember the first time this happened to me. It was decades ago and I was involved with my second ex-fiance. She had never had an orgasm. Not even solo. Me being a quintessential nerd went deep-diving in psychological and medical texts at the library (this being pre-internet) and picked up all sorts of tricks.

And I used all of them. Every time. For days and even weeks. Finally, after a couple (or maybe three) weeks, that barrier was broken and she climaxed.

And freaked both of us out because we both thought she'd just peed in my mouth.

So, naturally, she clamped back down even tighter than before. And didn't cum again for a few weeks despite my best efforts. And despite my coming back armed with the knowledge that it wasn't pee after more research.

It took a lot of effort on my part to get her to that state where she could let go and climax again... pretty much wearing her down so that she wasn't quite fully conscious when it happened and her guard was down. And she never did when she was "fully with the program."

We broke up. The reason she gave was that "all you ever want to do is have sex."

There were... a few others. But, the next that really matters was my late wife. In her mid-thirties, sexually active, and already married once, she had only ever managed to orgasm by herself. Never with anyone else.

She was shocked when after only about two weeks I was able to get her to at least an orgasm. There was even "a wet spot," but no actual squirting, though. Not yet.

We'd been together for a few years. And in one session I pushed her hard enough and far enough that she cut loose and drenched the bed to her knees.

She. Was. Mortified!

And no matter what I said, would not be satisfied until she'd stripped the bed and put the sheets in the washer.

And, of course, clamped down so that she didn't have another orgasm at all for over a week, no matter what I did. Only eventually (and after I let her buy and put in a plastic mattress cover under the sheets) was she able to relax enough to experience any sort of orgasm again. And only rarely able to let go enough to squirt.

***shrug*** Look, on top of decades of experience, I've also got a degree in this shit. (Yes, seriously. I was studying sex classes like most people study economics or public policy.) And I can tell you confidently that a girl/woman's orgasm is tied to her psychopathy even more strongly than her physiology. They have to "be in the mood" for vaginal lubrication to happen at all. And nothing cramps that mood like "oh, shit! I've gotta pee! Oh, please, oh, please, don't let me pee on him!"

The sensations are similar enough to be confusing. Add in "the wet spot" and there is a recipe for mass confusion and hysteria.

It absolutely baffles my sweet little spice of my twilight that I categorically refuse to allow her to change the sheets before she leaves at the end of each visit. That I revel in "the wet spot" and consider it a badge of honor. And, yeah, the bigger, the better.

Physiological matters. Hydration, for example. If a girl/woman professes to feel sexually excited, yet does not excrete vaginal lubrication (or very little), then my first thought turns to whether she is dehydrated. (No, it's NOT piss. But, water makes up the basis for every single aspect of our physiological being and particularly glandular fluid production.) After hydration, there is a whole list of "usual suspects" including diabetes, high blood pressure, et al.

Once all the physio boxes have a tick mark in them, then my attention turns to the psychological. And I pay particular attention to any sign of embarrassment about her wetness. There is, quite literally, not a damn thing to be embarrassed about! It's a sign that your body is working as intended. A sign of good health!

Seriously, my late wife took to wearing panty liners because just being around me would stir her arousal and make her leak down her leg. And I get that can be uncomfortable, walking around with wet inner thighs. I do. But, it is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or concerned about even if it's not anyone else's business than those you chose to share it with.

But, as several have said, focusing and trying to make it happen is every bit as bad as worrying and trying to keep it from happening.

Relax and enjoy the moment. If it happens, it's a good thing. On many levels. If it doesn't, at least you had a reasonably good time.

 

[Dom70]

This is true...I am a squirter and my man loves it when I soak his cock and balls and I love being so out of control that I cum with such force and excitement...
it is so hot

I love when that happens! Would love to see that !

 

[Footguy505]

My wife has amazing orgasms while using her magic wand. She gets to the feeling the urge to pee I try and talk her through to relax and let go but she can’t get past that feeling. Even though she uses the restroom before. How do I help push through the urge to pee?

 

[FreeMaggieForAll]

I don't know about other women but for me, deny my orgasms. Bring me to edge several times and when you finally push me over, I'll squirt for you. Simple.

 

[SmokingFap]

My wife has amazing orgasms while using her magic wand. She gets to the feeling the urge to pee I try and talk her through to relax and let go but she can’t get past that feeling. Even though she uses the restroom before. How do I help push through the urge to pee?

Tell her that while that fluid is stored in the bladder and does contain Trace amounts of urine, it isn't actually pee so she should feel free to let it flow.

Yeah, I did the research.

 

[Britva415]

while that fluid is stored in the bladder and does contain Trace amounts of urine, it isn't actually pee so she should feel free to let it flow.

Yeah, I did the research.

Stored in the bladder but not pee?

Where does it come from/how does it get in there, if not from the kidneys?

 

[SmokingFap]

Stored in the bladder but not pee?

Where does it come from/how does it get in there, if not from the kidneys?

I watched a video on YouTube by a female doctor of human physiology or anatomy or something. She explained the fluids that collect in the bladder during intense sexual activity. Can't remember her name, but I will look it up. And it seems that squirting is not necessarily dependent on g-spot stimulation. It's just the results of an extremely intense orgasm. That's the part that always made me confused, because I thought it was just from g-spot stimulation, but I see a ton of porn videos now of women being able to squirt just from putting a Hitachi on their clit.

Will post the link to the YouTube video when I find it. She's a legit doctor (allegedly) who talks about all things sexual related, as well as general health and anatomy.

 

[SmokingFap]

Here ya go. Popped right up when I searched YouTube.

 

[Norfolkguy49]

Only been with a squirter once and could put out fires omg

 

[GoodnessO]

Posted this in another forum, maybe it will have better luck here:

I was born female (& still am).
As is likely true for females (& males, for that matter), I experience a wide range of O's: mini-O's; Big-O's; multi-O's (1 after another in a small time period); & what I refer to as compound-O's (or Big-Big-O's, cumming super hard with 1 orgasm happening on top of another).
I'm now 51, & only relatively recently did I start experiencing squirting, or become aware of experiencing it. It happened while I was receiving oral (clit licking & sucking) along with a hand job (2 fingers, I think). But if I previously squirted during intercourse (my favorite act) I could've easily just not been aware of it, because my squirt is a pretty small volume. I'd say no more than half a shot glass. And I'm referring to squirts that come from my urethra, which current research has determined is NOT regular urine, although it does contain urine. (And btw, from my research reading, male ejaculate also contains some amount of urine.)
Now it's become common for me to squirt with fast thrusting angled upwards in my vagina... which I'm able to do with a toy (not so much with my husband's cock... a topic for a different thread). Fast & hard/deep makes me squirt, & sometimes fast & only moderate depth will do it.
I squirt before I orgasm, & occasionally squirt without being following by orgasm (due to lack of continuation / orgasm-interruptus... another topic for a different thread).
I find squirting to be a very enjoyable. But prior to squirting, I did not feel my orgasms were missing anything. Squirting provides an additional wet & warm sensation, that coincides with greater intensify orgasms. (IDK if squirting itself increases orgasm intensity, vs. the technique itself is what makes the orgasm more intense, with or without squirting??)
Then there is, or can be (I believe) fluid ejaculate from the vagina itself. IDK if I experience this... similar to the squirting I described, I probably wouldn't know if it happens while fucking.
This all just goes to show how much is as yet still not known (by science) about the physiology of female sexuality. (But at least there is a plethora of orgasm data now being collected by women using the Lioness smart/biofeedback type vibrator.)


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[GoodnessO]

Here ya go. Popped right up when I searched YouTube.

Thanks for making that handy for us. I watched the video & it's consistent with information I've previously found.

 

[Lucien_Al]

Success

Just succeeded in getting my partner to squirt.

The first time was a small squirt but covered my forearm as I rubbed her G Spot and licked her clit.

The second time she had a thick milky cum like discharge oozing from her, then she got super wet and then just let go properly.

For me it certainly didn't taste like urine and I loved licker her clean.

As we have progressed on this my observations on her squirting is that she normally squirts easier when she is lying on her back with the best being in her sex swing. This allows me to stimulate her gspot in a more targeted way. I have also found that the longer we play the more her g spot swells and then while being stimulated she gets so wet you can hear a squelching sound from her glass dildo. In her case she goes very red in the face and just before she orgasms she squirts and then almost as she is finishing she has a very big orgasm. The volume differs greatly with the biggest one she has had the liquid ended up all the way to my elbow. This has only happened once. The majority of them she oozes out about half a cup full.

I know there are sceptics but she is 58 years old and although she does get wet enough for penetration without a lube she does not normally have copious amounts of liquid from her but when she has squirted there will always be fluid dribbling from her and running down her ass cheeks.

As I have said in another post if she squirts the taste changes completely so unless her urine tastes different at that moment I am working on the theory that it exists. Either way she says her orgasm is far more intense.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I watched a video on YouTube by a female doctor of human physiology or anatomy or something. She explained the fluids that collect in the bladder during intense sexual activity. Can't remember her name, but I will look it up. And it seems that squirting is not necessarily dependent on g-spot stimulation. It's just the results of an extremely intense orgasm. That's the part that always made me confused, because I thought it was just from g-spot stimulation, but I see a ton of porn videos now of women being able to squirt just from putting a Hitachi on their clit.

Will post the link to the YouTube video when I find it. She's a legit doctor (allegedly) who talks about all things sexual related, as well as general health and anatomy.

We have found that she needs clitoral and gspot stimulation at the same time in order to squirt.

 

[SmokingFap]

We have found that she needs clitoral and gspot stimulation at the same time in order to squirt.

That's the only way I ever made my ex-wife squirt. But I've seen tons of videos of women, including some from one lovely gal on here, who can squirt just from clitoral stimulation. I understanding from the "educational" video is that squirting is simply triggered by a very powerful orgasm. But obviously stimulating both the clit and the G-Spot would be more likely to trigger that.

 

[guitar_player]

I was adamant that I could never achieve one of those, to a point of being irritated when told (typically by men) that I just hadn’t being doing/had it done correctly. (Note, it’s highly risky to your health to tell a woman that you have a better understanding of her body than she).

But then I met my s/o and two things happened; first, he pushed through all my denials and arguments about not being able to do this, but his approach was more of a “let’s just see, no pressure” instead of a “you just haven’t been with ME before, babycakes”. Second, I squirted. Like, holy mother of god “ I just squirted!!!” And of course all the disbelief and relief and amazement that came with it resulted in one big psychological break of laughter and joy that I had done this thing.

Also, I have since selectively retracted my thoughts about “my body, I know it best!” He knows this part of me better. He also hold the keys to unlock my mom brain with all its distractions and hangups and help me focus on the him and me.

I love this. And it is unhealthy for a guy to tell a woman that she just isn’t doing it. Right. lol