Straight guy in women's clothes!

[SpectreT]

God, you two are awesome. I'm still looking for someone who fits into my jigsaw psyche like that.

Oh, and a side note on the labels thing; I usually use 'em for comedy, or when i'm alone and confused and trying to make sense out of myself, and the previous post was a little of all three.

 

[Ticklish Girl]

I want to know what women think about guys who get turned on by wearing women's clothes. Please write me and give me your opinions on this.

I have no RL experience with this kind of play, but I've got to confess that the idea is a huge turnon for me. It's my #1 favorite type of erotic story to read. Any time I see a new story about it here at Lit, I pounce on it. I wouldn't freak out if a boyfriend showed an interest in lacy things. I'd love it.

 

[cymbidia]

Re: Re: Straight guy in women's clothes!

It's my #1 favorite type of erotic story to read. Any time I see a new story about it here at Lit, I pounce on it.

You know... this is a good idea. I write first person, experientially-based bdsm pretty well (at least according to my friends!) and i do, as we all now know, have lots of first-hand experience with a wildly uninhibited cross-dressing Master. Hmmmm... and i haven't written anything in a long time, ever since i got happy again. But maybe this, yes, maybe this.

What do you like about these kinds of stories?
What kinds of situations?
Overt bdsm or not? (I can't write anything but bdsm-based stories, btw.)
Tell me more about what you like to read in these stories, if you will, please.

You listen up, too, SpectreT. You're a fabulous writer.

 

[Creidhne]

ME????
Wildly uninhibited????
ME??

Oh yeah......

Thought It was pretty much under wraps....


MS.

 

[Silverlily]

duh

Anybody want to see pics? The ones we wouldn't share before perhaps?

Like he has to ask...

 

[Ticklish Girl]

Re: Re: Re: Straight guy in women's clothes!

You know... this is a good idea. I write first person, experientially-based bdsm pretty well (at least according to my friends!) and i do, as we all now know, have lots of first-hand experience with a wildly uninhibited cross-dressing Master. Hmmmm... and i haven't written anything in a long time, ever since i got happy again. But maybe this, yes, maybe this.

What do you like about these kinds of stories?
What kinds of situations?
Overt bdsm or not? (I can't write anything but bdsm-based stories, btw.)
Tell me more about what you like to read in these stories, if you will, please.

You listen up, too, SpectreT. You're a fabulous writer.

Cym, I'm flattered that you want my input. And because I know you're a serious author, I want to give a bit of thought to my answers before I post them. I'm going to sleep on it, and I'll be back tomorrow. I hope I'll be able to give you something you can use.

 

[Guest]

you ppl are sick an u need help. men r not suposed to wear girls clothes especily not there underware. thats just plane sicko stuff an you know it.you shold be ashamed of yourselfs for doing that. wold u tell your mother? your mother wold be ashamed of you 2. what if u get in a acident an need to go the hosp? they will all see. you will be ashamed then!

 

[Creidhne]

Oh yeah??

My mom bought me my first pair of panties!

thhtttpppp!!!!!

MS.

 

[morninggirl5]

You're too ashamed to post using your own name, and then want to tell someone else they should be ashamed of themselves???


Creidhne, Perfect!

 

[cymbidia]

~smiling politely~ Actually, i think that the people (see how it's spelled?)the hospital would be pleased to see pretty panties on a man. They'd have something to talk about at break, wouldn't they?

And why would a panty-wearing man be embarassed about it anyway? What is *wrong*, really, with a man wearing silky, lacy, soft panties? Does it hurt you? Does it hurt anyone you know? Does it hurt the man? Does it hurt society? Why would the man's mother care at all - or, more importantly, if he and his mother still discuss his underwear, he has more probs than just wwearing women's panties!

Troll? Please learn to spell and punctuate a little better before you next post here with the grown-ups, if you will. Additionally, some kind of human sexuality class would be appropriate for you, i think, just the basic concepts ought to do it. Oh, and that close-minded attitude? Better lose that puppy.

One last thing. Creidhne/MS - my Master - is way more man than you'll ever be, whether he's wearing frilly sexy lacy panties, bare-ass naked, old worn levi's, or a nice suit.

 

[ChaoticLil]

You want to know what i find is sick...

Actually, the word i should be using is sad.

What i find sad is someone who is so set in their ways, or to scared to be able to experience life. Someone who can't make a move for the fear that someone just might look at him/her as being "sick". These people, in my opinion are just scenery in the big show that is called life.

i love who i am, and what i'm becoming. i love the knowledge that experiencing life has given me. It doesn't matter what someone wears or does as long as its with consenting adults. For people to be so closed minded to let something as benign as men wearing women's clothes bother them is really amazing. i mean, what are they going to do.....pull down men's pants to catch them in the act?

By the way, i personally love to see silk on a man. It makes them feel sexy, which makes me smile. And when Master is happy, His slave is happy too......And i do love a happy Master

 

[tj2276]

SEXYCHELE, Thank you for the response to the question I posted. I am sure that I will eventually get the opportunity to share the fetish I do not understand so well with somebody.

Women's clothes are sexy that is what provokes people to try them on. It does not matter if they are comfortable or not. I find women incredably sexy when they are in their undergarments, and I find it hard not to try them on becuase it feels so right when I do.

TO THE UNREGISTERED LOSER, If you do not like what we are disscussing then you should not have read our thread much less posted a reply considering that your input is totally useless and closeminded.

 

[Ticklish Girl]

Cymbidia's questions

You know... this is a good idea. I write first person, experientially-based bdsm pretty well (at least according to my friends!) and i do, as we all now know, have lots of first-hand experience with a wildly uninhibited cross-dressing Master. Hmmmm... and i haven't written anything in a long time, ever since i got happy again. But maybe this, yes, maybe this.

What do you like about these kinds of stories?
What kinds of situations?
Overt bdsm or not? (I can't write anything but bdsm-based stories, btw.)
Tell me more about what you like to read in these stories, if you will, please.

You listen up, too, SpectreT. You're a fabulous writer.

Well, it took me a little longer than expected, but I did come up with the answers to your questions. I hope you find this helpful. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.

The stories that turn me on the most involve one of three situations: 1) a male sub is “forced” to crossdress by a dominant woman; 2) a curious man finds a woman to help transform him into a feminine figure; or 3) a man dresses up as a woman and ends up attracting the attentions of another man (who may or may not be aware of his true gender). While these basic plots can go in a variety of directions, I look for certain elements that never fail to turn me on. I don’t expect to see all of these in every story, but I like to see at least two of them. And if the story doesn't have item #1, I don't even bother reading it to the end.

1. What I like best in these stories is the attention to detail. I like to see a description of how the clothing looks and feels. The emphasis ought to be on the lingerie, although stories of guys dressing up completely and “passing” as women are also exciting. I always enjoy erotic stories that appeal to the senses, and this aspect takes on a special significance in a crossdressing story. I want to know how that silky soft material feels against the character’s body. This is especially important if the story is about the guy’s first time dressing up, or if he is being “forced” to dress up.

2. I enjoy it when the writer lets me know what’s going through his head as his body experiences this stimulation. How does he feel about putting on these clothes? Is he reluctant at first, and does that reluctance give way to excitement and eager acceptance? Does he experience a mix of humiliation and arousal? Does he feel like a woman? Does he try to be as feminine as possible (for example, by taking a female name or by referring to his cock as a clit)? That sense of crossing a boundary, or of doing something “naughty”, really increases a story’s appeal.

3. I find that BDSM can really spice up a story like this. I enjoy it when such stories focus on the character’s humiliation and submission. It’s even better if he becomes aroused in spite of himself. Teasing, orgasm denial, and punishment for cumming without permission make the sex scenes steamier. The sex acts I talk about in items 4 and 5 have a lot of extra juice if they happen in a BDSM context.

4. I prefer that the sex scenes in these types of stories not include “conventional” intercourse. Instead I like scenes such as oral sex, anal penetration with a strap-on, friction of the cock against the clit, or dry humping. In a crossdressing story, these activities are somehow more exciting than plain old intercourse, probably because they allow the character to stay “feminine.”

5. And while we’re on the subject of sex, I also like it when the stories include sexual contact with another man. I don’t have any preference for a particular type of scene. I’ve enjoyed stories about a threesome with a man and another woman, a Domme ordering her crossdressed sub to service another man, and a bar pickup where the crossdresser "passes" as a woman and hooks up with another man who may or may not be aware of the truth. As I mentioned before, the sense of doing something naughty or forbidden makes the story more erotic, especially if the crossdresser is initially reluctant to go "all the way" with his male partner.