Straight guys who like gay sex

[Renee1967]

You know, I have heard the same thing. I'd have so save a hell of a lot of money for that though lol.

There is a transgender woman where I work but they are incredibly rude, major turn off.

I'm sorry you had a bad experience with a sister t-girl, honey. Yes you are correct, some of us can be incredibly rude. (Reasons).

Most of us are quite pleasant though, so don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.

 

[Bassytian]

I'm sorry you had a bad experience with a sister t-girl, honey. Yes you are correct, some of us can be incredibly rude. (Reasons).

Most of us are quite pleasant though, so don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.

Oh no, I'm not, don't worry. I've never been one to judge an entire group of people on the actions of a single individual.

That one is the only one I've knowingly met, but their rudeness is understandable. That person uses they/them pronouns, just to clarify. I know life can't be easy for y'all.

 

[Renee1967]

lol; I dislike the pronoun people; they can be insufferable on occasions.

I love to go by Miss/she/her, but some folks don't play that game and they call me Sir/ he/ him

I don't lose sleep; I'm very happy with who I am.

 

[Bassytian]

As you should be. I'm a true believer in being true to who you are.

But yes, I was referring to that one person when I said "they are incredibly rude". I would think that more would prefer to use feminine pronouns, but I'm not a part of that world, I won't pretend to know more about it than I do.

 

[Escierto]

lol; I dislike the pronoun people; they can be insufferable on occasions.

I love to go by Miss/she/her, but some folks don't play that game and they call me Sir/ he/ him

I don't lose sleep; I'm very happy with who I am.

Someone could look like Grizzly Adams but if they want to be referred to as miss/she/her, what is it to me? Are we all the pronoun police demanding everyone stick to their pronoun lane? It makes me so mad that people cannot be respectful.

 

[Renee1967]

As you should be. I'm a true believer in being true to who you are.

But yes, I was referring to that one person when I said "they are incredibly rude". I would think that more would prefer to use feminine pronouns, but I'm not a part of that world, I won't pretend to know more about it than I do.

Folks can get their panties in a wad over almost any little thing. Yes, we do prefer femenine pronouns when and if we can get them. Life is too short for that sort of crap. I have a number of very tender boyfriends who ensure I never worry about pronouns

 

[Escierto]

As you should be. I'm a true believer in being true to who you are.

But yes, I was referring to that one person when I said "they are incredibly rude". I would think that more would prefer to use feminine pronouns, but I'm not a part of that world, I won't pretend to know more about it than I do.

My girlfriend lives to be called by feminine pronouns. For her they/them would be a diss implying that she is not a woman. For some though, that is their identity not to be stuck in the his or her boxes.

 

[Renee1967]

Someone could look like Grizzly Adams but if they want to be referred to as miss/she/her, what is it to me? Are we all the pronoun police demanding everyone stick to their pronoun lane? It makes me so mad that people cannot be respectful.

Very good point and right in my lane. As long as I'm falling asleep next to my boyfriend, I really don't think about it.

 

[drobert44]

a lot of this is in our minds

I was always drawn to women, but I have never had the fulfillment of a useful long term relationship

I decided I could be the better wife/girlfriend so I set out to achieve it

I forced myself to become fully homosexual, but as a trans girl, I really consider myself as a straight woman.

I hope that made sense.

It does.........

 

[Renee1967]

My girlfriend lives to be called by feminine pronouns. For her they/them would be a diss implying that she is not a woman. For some though, that is their identity not to be stuck in the his or her boxes.

I can appreciate this.

 

[Bassytian]

I always got the impression that trans women wanted to be referred to as women, I mean, isn’t that the point of transitioning? This does show me that many of them do. Very educational conversation here, I must say.

 

[Renee1967]

I always got the impression that trans women wanted to be referred to as women, I mean, isn’t that the point of transitioning? This does show me that many of them do. Very educational conversation here, I must say.

yes, sweetheart: that is the point

but I'm not going to flip my lid just because the McDonalds clerk calls me "sir"

 

[Bassytian]

yes, sweetheart: that is the point

but I'm not going to flip my lid just because the McDonalds clerk calls me "sir"

Amen. Like you said, life is too short to worry about that kind of thing. I recently hit the 40 milestone and am beginning to see just how short it really is.

 

[none2_none2]

Labels ! Why is it so important to label a person or put them into categories?
I'm not into Gay porn, but I do love watching porn that involves a nice cock.
I am cock curious, so I guess this makes me Bi-curious. Knowing I'll never find a woman with the equipment
I would like, I am going to hope for a sissy to be my first cock. What does that make me if I suck a sissy?
Knowing I'll never find a sissy I need to get comfortable with the fact my first cock will be that from a guy.
Once that finally happens what do I label myself? Think I'll be bi-sexual with a possible hint of closet gay because I will want to experience anal sex next.
Sooooo many labels just to experience a cock

I guess I don't understand your thoughts. You ask why the importance of categories/labels/whatever, yet you chose to put in your profile that you are straight. There are no requirements for anything in your profile. So I find it confusing that you don't like labels, yet you use them yourself? Do you find shame about non-str8 labels such as gay, bi, or so many other labels (of which I many of them I don't really understand -- such as pan...). It also seems weird to title this thread "straight guys who like gay sex" -- it's rather an oxymoron.

I also never understood how someone who is attached to a cock on their own person is "curious" about them. I'm guessing like most men you are pretty familiar with cock. What I don't understand is all this love-cock-not-men attitude that seems so prominent on this board. An overwhelming majority of cocks are attached to a male. That is true for the entire animal kingdom -- hot just humans. When I hear this love-cock-not-men attitude, my mind wanders to images of a male in a burka with only a hole cut out for just the penis to be on display, or just aa gloryhole with an anonymous cock the only thing you can see.

i also don't see how having a male put on a dress or female undergarments makes it so much better. Clothes basically are a cover -- kind of a "mask" for the body. I would suspect that most people have sex in the nude unless they are in a hurry and already fully dressed...

At some point you got to deal with a human being that is behind or under these walls(clothes) that some (mostly men) seem to desire as "must haves". I have no strong desire to play with costumes when I'm horney.

NOTE: I'm not cock curious at all. Sure my partner of 22+ years is another man. I love his cock, BECAUSE I give a damn about the man its attached to. If he woke up with a vagina tomorrow, I would be sad BECAUSE he likes his genitals just the way they are. I would still crave being near him, wanting to get off with him, and being his partner BECAUSE he is the most loving human being I know. Either one of us would laugh if the other wanted to put on a costume -- such as a dress.

 

[bigsexybna]

I play with pussy and cock. I enjoy fucking women and being fucked by men. I would describe myself as bi but when I am riding a hard cock, at that moment I a very gay.

Same here. I’ve got a gf and love sex with women, but put a cock in me and I’m a pornstar riding that thing.

 

[Escierto]

I guess I don't understand your thoughts. You ask why the importance of categories/labels/whatever, yet you chose to put in your profile that you are straight. There are no requirements for anything in your profile. So I find it confusing that you don't like labels, yet you use them yourself? Do you find shame about non-str8 labels such as gay, bi, or so many other labels (of which I many of them I don't really understand -- such as pan...). It also seems weird to title this thread "straight guys who like gay sex" -- it's rather an oxymoron.

I also never understood how someone who is attached to a cock on their own person is "curious" about them. I'm guessing like most men you are pretty familiar with cock. What I don't understand is all this love-cock-not-men attitude that seems so prominent on this board. An overwhelming majority of cocks are attached to a male. That is true for the entire animal kingdom -- hot just humans. When I hear this love-cock-not-men attitude, my mind wanders to images of a male in a burka with only a hole cut out for just the penis to be on display, or just aa gloryhole with an anonymous cock the only thing you can see.

i also don't see how having a male put on a dress or female undergarments makes it so much better. Clothes basically are a cover -- kind of a "mask" for the body. I would suspect that most people have sex in the nude unless they are in a hurry and already fully dressed...

At some point you got to deal with a human being that is behind or under these walls(clothes) that some (mostly men) seem to desire as "must haves". I have no strong desire to play with costumes when I'm horney.

NOTE: I'm not cock curious at all. Sure my partner of 22+ years is another man. I love his cock, BECAUSE I give a damn about the man its attached to. If he woke up with a vagina tomorrow, I would be sad BECAUSE he likes his genitals just the way they are. I would still crave being near him, wanting to get off with him, and being his partner BECAUSE he is the most loving human being I know. Either one of us would laugh if the other wanted to put on a costume -- such as a dress.

I am interested in whether you consider a transgender woman is wearing a costume when she dresses in female clothing? Or is she a male in a dress?

 

[Escierto]

Last night was our final night together before I went back home. We had some wonderful sex as she mated with me and filled my ass with her cum. I asked her if she remembered when we first started chatting years ago and she told me, "In bed I will be the man and you will be the woman." She said yes, she definitely remembered. I said "I always want to be your woman in bed with your cum in my ass." She said, "Of course, my love." and we went to sleep.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

But a cock is a cock, it has a mind of its own, and it refuses to be restrained by mere terminology.

Be one with your cock, grasshopper.

None of the men (or women) with a cock in their mouth are blabbing about definitions and variations of labels. And they are using their hands stroking and holding that cock about to cum, so those hands are not available to type endless discussions about bi or gay labels. The solution is so simple - put the cock in front of that mouth and it opens wide. Shove it in.

 

[TrailerHitch]

This is all so stupid. If you are a man and you are getting sexual pleasure from another man, either through their penis, mouth, or ass, you are by definition either Bi or Gay. I think some are so hung up on worrying that others may discover their open sexuality that it is easier to convince themselves of silly things like I'm a straight man who enjoys Gay sex, or Transsexuals, or crossdressers, or whatever. I believe it's shame or embarrassment that prevents you from saying yeah, I like cock and pussy so I'm bi, or I like only cock so I'm Gay. As for me, I'm Bi...I like pussy and cock. Yes, it really is that simple.

 

[BBCfan]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

Modern psychology has identified this can happen, being heterosexual but having some wiring otherwise. It commonly accepted at this point.
The gay police trolls will say otherwise, but opinions are like Aholes...we all have em and most are of full of duty.
Enjoy whatever label that fits you and F the trolls.

 

[ElaineCD51]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

I get it. I love women. I was married for 24 years to a wonderful woman until cancer took her from me. Now, at the age of 73, I am in a thirteen year relationship with another amazing woman. The sex we have is the best ever, for both of us. We also have a lot of fun together outside the bedroom. And yet, I also love to suck cocks. I love to taste his cum and to swallow it. However, If I had to choose between cocks and cunts, cunts will win every time. I love to lick her clit, taste her juices and drive her crazy with pleasure. I love this woman in a way I could never love another man. I have never been attracted to men. only to cocks.

 

[KnickersandPanties101]

I don't understand this thing about labels, if two persons of any gender have enjoyable sex together then good on them, It's just sex, lifes too short. I wish a man or a woman wanted to have sex with me right now! lets do it - Please. Gosh my panties are getting wet.

 

[PoetM]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

I'm a Dom with near 20 years experience in kink, especially D/s. I'm very much into sapiosexual aspects of D/s and kink even more than the physical. I love both mind you but the mental aspects are key to me. What I'm sharing here, of course, is my own opinion.

I've done a great deal of thinking about all the mental aspects of kink and sex. I'm fairly sure I could write at least one, probably more, books on the subject. Putting aside pure D/s for now and just focusing on the high level of kink and sex (their overlap). For the sake of simplicity I see two larger areas that I'll refer to as "Mental" and "Physical". Of course there is an intersection between these but I'm going to further break Mental down into "Emotional/Sensual" (ES) and "Controlling/Dominating/Objectification" (CDO). On the physical side I'm breaking that down into "Physical Attraction" PA and CDO here as well. This is a high level simplification of course.

For me personally I consider myself straight as far as sexuality. I say this because I am only ES/CDO/PA attracted to females period. I find us guys gross and tbh not sure how females put up with us ;P That said, I view our Cocks as their own entities and they can be hot. I've not sucked one but have thought about it. Me personally it would best be a glory hole or the like where I could isolate the Cock itself. I attribute this to the CDO side of things that can fall under both/either mental or physical. In this case it would be a submissive act to a Cock itself falling primarily in the objectified area. This of course delves into the kink area and falls under Lust as well I would say.

In the kink world it's rare anyone would fit in a nice neat box (at least for very long). The above is just to try and give a perspective on how I think one might think of themselves as straight and still find a Cock hot.

 

[Buttboy7869]

I call myself bi because that lets most people know I like sex with males and females. I’m romantically attracted to females in a way I’m not to males. Sex with males is just sex and very fun but I’ve never felt romantic love for a male.

 

[Escierto]

I call myself bi because that lets most people know I like sex with males and females. I’m romantically attracted to females in a way I’m not to males. Sex with males is just sex and very fun but I’ve never felt romantic love for a male.

I feel romantic love for this person with a male organ.