Straight guys who like gay sex

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.
I just finally accepted my bisexual feelings, and then the ultimate acceptance was when I called out my feelings as being what they truly were: homosexual. I do not consider my orientation as gay since I prefer women, but cannot deny my desire for men. Frankly, although I am in a marriage, and consider myself straight, I would love to experience the touch, intimacy, and eroticism of being with a man, especially an older gay man.
 
I just finally accepted my bisexual feelings, and then the ultimate acceptance was when I called out my feelings as being what they truly were: homosexual. I do not consider my orientation as gay since I prefer women, but cannot deny my desire for men. Frankly, although I am in a marriage, and consider myself straight, I would love to experience the touch, intimacy, and eroticism of being with a man, especially an older gay man.
nicely said. i am bisexual and have enjoyed the pleasure of being with a man although i am very happily married. if we lived closer i would love to meet and help you experience the very real intimacy between two consenting adult males.
 
I very much love this as long as it's two sissy girls rubbing clitties together.
 
I love to have sex with another man.
I am happily married to a woman and love making love with her.

I have great sex with a man and make love with my wife!
 
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I didn't always have this opinion, but having enjoyed sex with women (mostly) and men (more recently), I just think that sex is sex. If you enjoy what you're doing/feeling, does it matter who it's with?
Why label and pigeon-hole everything. Sex feels good. Having your cock sucked feels good regardless of the gender of whoever is doing the sucking, and - because you're enjoying it, it's only natural to feel a desire to reciprocate. That's entirely natural. Why complicate it with names and definitions. Just enjoy it.
 
Why label and pigeon-hole everything. Sex feels good. Having your cock sucked feels good regardless of the gender of whoever is doing the sucking, and - because you're enjoying it, it's only natural to feel a desire to reciprocate. That's entirely natural. Why complicate it with names and definitions. Just enjoy it.
Because not everyone thinks this way. Most people like to classify things, and give names/labels to everything. Living in the real world, opens one up to all sorts of interpersonal complications due to these labels and closed minds that use them. Sad as that is...
 
Because not everyone thinks this way. Most people like to classify things, and give names/labels to everything. Living in the real world, opens one up to all sorts of interpersonal complications due to these labels and closed minds that use them. Sad as that is...
But a cock is a cock, it has a mind of its own, and it refuses to be restrained by mere terminology.
 
Yes, indeed. I am a bottom for my trans girlfriend but I have given up holding onto the "Straight" label. If you are sucking cock and getting fucked you are not straight.
I gave up the straight label a few years ago. It just didn’t fit anymore. Now that I know that you’ve also given up the label, it brings some interesting images and fantasies to mind.
 
Why label and pigeon-hole everything. Sex feels good. Having your cock sucked feels good regardless of the gender of whoever is doing the sucking, and - because you're enjoying it, it's only natural to feel a desire to reciprocate. That's entirely natural. Why complicate it with names and definitions. Just enjoy it.
So true. I’m sure that if you were here sucking my cock it would feel every bit as good — and probably better — than when my wife sucks on it.
 
I gave up the straight label a few years ago. It just didn’t fit anymore. Now that I know that you’ve also given up the label, it brings some interesting images and fantasies to mind.
I can imagine lol.

The funny thing is when I am in the Philippines with her, people will always ask me if I am gay. For them, they can't get past the fact that she has a cock so if you are with her, you must be a guy who wants cock. I always tell them that to me she is a woman.

Of course this explains why she never bothered with dating Filipinos - very few would be interested and even fewer would be willing to bottom for her. If the Filipinos knew about that last part, for sure they would never consider me anything other than a flaming queer.
 
I can imagine lol.

The funny thing is when I am in the Philippines with her, people will always ask me if I am gay. For them, they can't get past the fact that she has a cock so if you are with her, you must be a guy who wants cock. I always tell them that to me she is a woman.

Of course this explains why she never bothered with dating Filipinos - very few would be interested and even fewer would be willing to bottom for her. If the Filipinos knew about that last part, for sure they would never consider me anything other than a flaming queer.
Wait, really?! Most Filipino trans chicks are top?!!!
 
No, definitely not. Most are bottoms but there are some who are versa and a few like my girlfriend.
Drat it. Shame.

*Sadly cancels ticket to Thailand/the Philippines, sells the new slutty clothes I bought for those places and slinks away to my boring old life.*
 
I can imagine lol.

The funny thing is when I am in the Philippines with her, people will always ask me if I am gay. For them, they can't get past the fact that she has a cock so if you are with her, you must be a guy who wants cock. I always tell them that to me she is a woman.

Of course this explains why she never bothered with dating Filipinos - very few would be interested and even fewer would be willing to bottom for her. If the Filipinos knew about that last part, for sure they would never consider me anything other than a flaming queer.
Why do you think they ask you if you’re gay when you’re with a hot Filipina? How do you answer? How do they know she has a cock? What’s so bad about being thought of as a flaming queer? It’s a great way to get a cock to feed you. Yeah, I know, you only want to be fed by one cock. More’s the pity.
 
Why do you think they ask you if you’re gay when you’re with a hot Filipina? How do you answer? How do they know she has a cock? What’s so bad about being thought of as a flaming queer? It’s a great way to get a cock to feed you. Yeah, I know, you only want to be fed by one cock. More’s the pity.
Even though she would pass in Western societies, she says Filipinos know that she is trans and she is probably right. So if we are with other people, they know she has a cock. I always answer that I am straight or else I would have gay Filipinos hitting on me. And yes, she is the only one for me.
 
Even though she would pass in Western societies, she says Filipinos know that she is trans and she is probably right. So if we are with other people, they know she has a cock. I always answer that I am straight or else I would have gay Filipinos hitting on me. And yes, she is the only one for me.
I guess that would make sense that Filipinos would recognize subtle indicators that we don’t see, just as we would recognize signs that they don’t. Interesting that one man’s pain is another man’s pleasure. I’d love to have gay Filipinos hitting on me. Of course not in the volumes that they have in the Philippines! 😅😂🤣
 
I guess that would make sense that Filipinos would recognize subtle indicators that we don’t see, just as we would recognize signs that they don’t. Interesting that one man’s pain is another man’s pleasure. I’d love to have gay Filipinos hitting on me. Of course not in the volumes that they have in the Philippines! 😅😂🤣
When we are walking on the street or in a mall, she will point out other trans women. So many of them, I would have no idea whatsoever. Some I can tell but not unless they are kind of obvious. There really seem to be a lot of gay and trans people in the Philippines.
 
(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.
Just be you & be happy with yourself, no labels, no excuses, no regrets. Be happy , be safe, and have fun!
 
It's mind boggling to me how far men will go to deny they are Bi or have Gay tendencies. Look call yourself whatever you want, but you are lying to yourself if you believe you are a heterosexual male with a cock in your mouth or ass. I am Bi and it is what I am. I love sex with men and I love sex with my wife. Hence I am Bi, not heterosexual.
 
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