"Straight" guys who wnat a little more!

38 y/o Wisconsin Male

One day I just hope I can fall into the right and comfortable situation. But of course doesn't everyone?
 
i know this is my first post but i've been lurking lit for a while haha

an older guy would be my preferance.
like the rest in this thread i'm straight but the thoughts of sucking a cock intrigue me

would love to experience an older man
but i'm too nervous about it all haha
 
Hull Uk

If anyone is in Hull then so am I. The idea of a nice cock in my mouth and one up my arse realy does exite me. I know I'm not gay cos I don't fancy men, just the long hard flesh between their legs. If a shemale was to walk in the door now then I'd be cumming like crazy cos it's a woman with a little extra. Two to spit roast me would be absolute heaven.

Jason
 
just curious

Given that you want to be sodomized while you are giving another guy a blowjob, just what does gay mean to you? what does 'fancy a guy' mean? Something besides have his cock up your ass? I mean, what greater love...
 
NaplesSenior said:
It took me 5 years of reading online stories, etc. to get comfortable with the fact that if I sucked a cock it would not be a life altering event. During that time I had three guys suck me and I really enjoyed it, but did not reciprocate. I finally sucked my first cock about three or four months ago and really enjoyed it. The only problem is that its hard to find guys who you can trust to be discrete and honest relative to whether they have or have had STDs. I may never find another guy who I trust enough to suck his cock again, but I'm sure glad I found the one. Now I no longer wonder about what it would be like, and if I would like it. I know now that its great and yes I really liked it. It is frustrating sometimes to see so many guys post about being curious and knowing that they will never act out their fantasy. I sure would love to help someone's come true. All older guys are not trolls, some of you younger guys should give an older guy a chance. You might find out it would be a rewarding experience, in more ways than one.


That's a truism for sure... First time I had a guy suck my cock was a much older man, my neighbor, as I had been fucking his wife for a good few months when he 'got involved' so to speak. She was a lot younger than he was... Boy were they good neighbors to have for a teenaged sex-crazed boy. Hehehe.
 
TonyUK said:
There are lots of threads about bi or bi-curious guys who want some action here on Lit; what about all the straight guys who generally have no interest in men; couldn't kiss, hug or even fancy another guy, but secretly, and often only when aroused, have this passioate desire to feel a cock in their mouth; growing harder as you try what you love having done to you, until eventualy you feel a male orgasm deep in your mouth/throat....
Surely there must be lots of us out there!
Lets here it for the guys...
I have posted on this thread before. I am exactly like you, I have no desire to kiss, hug ect, I have no fancy for guys, but secretly I want to recieve a blowjob and give one. TJ
 
Add me to the list of NYC guys who love cock but have no interest in kissing or hugging a dude.

Gloryholes have always been my friend, but I stopped going because, jesus this is NYC and there are so many guys who aren't safe.

But college upstate was a blast. The science building on my campus had gloryholes in the mens room, and I would get head daily there and sucked some myself.

I eventually ended up in a DOM sub thing with a music professor who frequented the stalls.

Ahhh the good ole days. now Im in greater need of head than ever and I don't trust gloryholes. What to do....
 
I feel the same way. I dont want to kiss or hug. I just want to get down to the subject at hand and that is sucking a cock. I would rather use my tongue licking a cock than putting it down some ones throat. I love the feel of it growning in my mouth and and the moaning of my partner and the jerking wild thrusts as he cums and gives me his load down in my mouth. Then it is up to him if he wants to recp. I dont care I just get off on getting some one else off. That is my pleasure. I am always looking in ILLINOIS for clean safe men who want to get sucked. :nana: :nana: :nana: :nana: :nana: :nana:
 
homunculus said:
Given that you want to be sodomized while you are giving another guy a blowjob, just what does gay mean to you? what does 'fancy a guy' mean? Something besides have his cock up your ass? I mean, what greater love...

Sex is sex. it is neither straight nor gay. To be gay means that you fancy someone of the same sex as your self. To want to be fucked in the arse is not the same as fancying the person doing it. And to fancy someone is to want to spend time in that persons company kissing and cuddling them. So no I'm not gay cos all I want is for my arse and mouth to be penetrated preferably at the same time.

Jason
 
im a straight guy but iv spent the last two days solely thinking about cock, sucking, wanking, giving and taking, makes me so hot!
 
Of course sex is straight or gay. You know the difference between the two. Imagine if you were at work or in school and you told some male friends that you wanted to be screwed in the ass by another guy--and to jerk off a second guy at the same time. Do you think they would hesitate for one split second to conclude that you are gay or bi? As for cuddling and kissing, or whatever, male straight fantasies usually don't involve that sort of thing either. One doesn't want to 'cuddle' Angelina Jolie, one wants to fuck her.
It's fine for you to be closeted or in denial. That's your issue. And it could be that you are so sexually frustrated and lonely that you think you need to look to men for sexual company. That's also fine, though a bit sad. But one wonders if places online like this are being exploited by men who are pretending one thing or another just to have sex or some sort of stimulation with other men. That would seem dishonest and creepy.
 
Reflections on the first time.

Naples, your story reminded me of the feelings I had anticipating my first time taking a cock in my mouth to completion. Of course, nothing happened according to plan, but after it was over, I felt really good that I had gone through with this long-held desire. I have since had about a dozen experiences, four of which were with one guy. At this point, I'm very comfortable about it and spend way to much time looking for a "boyfriend". I share your frustration with the majority of guys that will play around...but never follow through. But I am resolved to find someone like me who is absolutely in love with cock!

NaplesSenior said:
It took me 5 years of reading online stories, etc. to get comfortable with the fact that if I sucked a cock it would not be a life altering event. During that time I had three guys suck me and I really enjoyed it, but did not reciprocate. I finally sucked my first cock about three or four months ago and really enjoyed it. The only problem is that its hard to find guys who you can trust to be discrete and honest relative to whether they have or have had STDs. I may never find another guy who I trust enough to suck his cock again, but I'm sure glad I found the one. Now I no longer wonder about what it would be like, and if I would like it. I know now that its great and yes I really liked it. It is frustrating sometimes to see so many guys post about being curious and knowing that they will never act out their fantasy. I sure would love to help someone's come true. All older guys are not trolls, some of you younger guys should give an older guy a chance. You might find out it would be a rewarding experience, in more ways than one.
 
homunculus said:
Of course sex is straight or gay. You know the difference between the two. Imagine if you were at work or in school and you told some male friends that you wanted to be screwed in the ass by another guy--and to jerk off a second guy at the same time. Do you think they would hesitate for one split second to conclude that you are gay or bi? As for cuddling and kissing, or whatever, male straight fantasies usually don't involve that sort of thing either. One doesn't want to 'cuddle' Angelina Jolie, one wants to fuck her.
It's fine for you to be closeted or in denial. That's your issue. And it could be that you are so sexually frustrated and lonely that you think you need to look to men for sexual company. That's also fine, though a bit sad. But one wonders if places online like this are being exploited by men who are pretending one thing or another just to have sex or some sort of stimulation with other men. That would seem dishonest and creepy.

I would have to disagree with this whole point of view. I fancy Angelina Jolie and would love to fuck her every which way, including loose. And I would also like to kiss and cuddle her and spend quality time with her. This is how I know that, despite my desire for cock I am straight. Also Kylie Minogue is a fuck goddess and, I suspect, a loverly person. So no, sex is sex. It is the act of penertration. Homosexuality, straight or bi, is the desire to spend quality time with a person of the same sex.
 
Well, I thought tonight was going to be the night and I'd have something better to write in about, but off the face of the earth goes the other person once again.

All the planets had lined up too. His wife is out of town, so is my GF, and the weirdest part is that we live within 5 miles of each other -- in a rural area!! Everything was looking good, even this morning when I had recieved an email from him. I sent an email mid-afternoon and have not ever heard back. I even sent a few others to no avail while I was at the meeting place.

I was so ultra-horny when I got home too! I waited in case something changed, but then I ended up finding some hot 20 second guy giving another guy head and I shot one hell of a load! Honestly, I'm still ready for more too. I can't believe how worked up I got from the possibility!

Speaking of 20 second videos, does anyone know of a good source of some hardcore bi or gay porn clips that last longer than 20 seconds? Really good blow job scenes in particular. Those previews piss me off! lol!
 
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fantasy

"I would have to disagree with this whole point of view. I fancy Angelina Jolie and would love to fuck her every which way, including loose. And I would also like to kiss and cuddle her and spend quality time with her. This is how I know that, despite my desire for cock I am straight. Also Kylie Minogue is a fuck goddess and, I suspect, a loverly person. So no, sex is sex. It is the act of penertration. Homosexuality, straight or bi, is the desire to spend quality time with a person of the same sex."
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I assume you like to spend "quality time" with your friends--and I assume that, in the case of your male friends, you don't want penetrate their anuses. And who knows what other people fantasize, but I wonder if you really fantasize about spending "quality time" with Jolie. You don't know the least thing about her, and I doubt that you have the slightest thing in common. Sexual fantasy is about sex and what you fantasize tells you something about your orientation. Gay sex, incidentally, doesn't necessarily involve penetration.
 
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SexNMusic said:
Well, I thought tonight was going to be the night and I'd have something better to write in about, but off the face of the earth goes the other person once again.

All the planets had lined up too. His wife is out of town, so is my GF, and the weirdest part is that we live within 5 miles of each other -- in a rural area!! Everything was looking good, even this morning when I had recieved an email from him. I sent an email mid-afternoon and have not ever heard back. I even sent a few others to no avail while I was at the meeting place.

I was so ultra-horny when I got home too! I waited in case something changed, but then I ended up finding some hot 20 second guy giving another guy head and I shot one hell of a load! Honestly, I'm still ready for more too. I can't believe how worked up I got from the possibility!

Speaking of 20 second videos, does anyone know of a good source of some hardcore bi or gay porn clips that last longer than 20 seconds? Really good blow job scenes in particular. Those previews piss me off! lol!


I think you will find with guys who are curious the more time you give them to think about the meeting the more likely it is that it will not happen. I know that was (and is) the case with me. I would get so nervous and focused on everything negative that could possibly happen, and could never go through with meeting anyone.

The only success I have had with m/m were spontaneous occurences where I just let my hormones make all the decisions. I had three guys suck me off and they were all spur of the moment things where the guys gave the signal in person and I went with it right then and there. The time where I got involved and sucked the guy was also a relatively immediate thing. The guy and I had exchanged emails and IMs for a week or so establishing ourselves to each other. Then one day we both were free to do something right then. So within a half hour of our last IM I was sucking on my first (and only, so far) cock. Thats the only way it could happen for me. Get comfortable with a guy and then just meet and do it right away when it was convenient for us both. That way you do not have time to think about it and talk yourself out of it. If you have already established to your satisfaction that the guy is safe then just arrange an immediate meeting and let the hormones flow.
 
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