"Straight" guys who wnat a little more!

[ilike2try]

Yeah... it's hard (in more ways than one)

It is really a shame that the idea of a man sucking another man's cock is regarded by so many as "unnatural." Yet, judging from the volume of comments on this forum by guys who are essentially straight, or closet bi, I'd wager that a surprising number of men in general have give the idea some serious thought. I mean, how can it be unnatural, when a cock, by its very nature, shape and function, is practically begging to be sucked – and sucked off, at that! How could anyone NOT want to mouth-milk a stiff, pulsing hunk of manhood? And why in the world should only women have all the fun?

Now that I've said that, there are the practical barriers to many men actually realizing their fantasies. Obviously, for attached men (wives/gf's, etc.), there may be the "she'd freak out if she knew" factor. Which means they'd have to do everything on the sly. This can open a whole can of worms I'm sure most of us have considered.

Then there is the ever-present, and serious, matter of STD's. If you're meeting some guy you just connected with on Craig'slist or wherever an hour or a day ago, what in the heck do you really know about that guy? Or where his dick's been? Or how many/what kind of dicks he's sucked off? So this is probably the issue that keeps most curious guys from following through on their fantasies.

Something I've read a lot here is, "I'd really like to know a guy pretty well, feel comfortable with him." It seems to me this is the safest and wisest course, and I feel exactly this way, myself. The ideal situation is to meet someone who happens to be gay or bi, and the two of you really just hit off. There'd be such a level of comfort, and the wife/gf would get to know him, too, though not suspecting a thing. If the two of you do eventually go off together, no one will think the worse of it, and then you'd be free to explore your mutual manhood to your hearts' content, in the time and place most convenient.

Sigh. But it still comes down to, where does one meet this ideal partner? He could be anywhere, and I'll bet if you look around wherever there are lots of men, there are any number that would love to suck a hard cock as much as you do. But we're all keeping it hidden from each other! Except for on this forum, of course. I do enjoy that we can express our "forbidden" desires so openly here, and, who knows what might come of it?

I've just been rambling, I know. Thanks for bearing with me.

 

[zipz32]

Rambling, yes

But that was very accurate rambling!! Summed it all up quite well....

 

[Wanntry]

Agreed

With what you said, ilike2try.

I had the good fortune last year to hook up with a couple (M&F) who are very active swingers, and they told me that many couples they know don't want a bi-guy. Many men are really scared of their bi-side, even though they are happy to let someone fuck their wife. That surprised me.

I have tried to hook up with people from this board, and Craigslist, but with no success. I agree, it best to know who you're dealing with, but it's pretty gutsy to ask your unsuspecting golfing buddy if you can suck his cock before you tee-off!

Come to think of it, even the title to this thread is a little disingenuous: If you want "more" you ain't straight, you're at least bi-curious. To disguise that fact by saying you don't want to kiss and cuddle, just get/give BJs, is self-delusion.

Personally, I'd just like to get a mutual JO venue (co-ed would be great but very, very unlikely), but I haven't managed that, so here I st with diminishing expectations...

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Then there is the ever-present, and serious, matter of STD's. If you're meeting some guy you just connected with on Craig'slist or wherever an hour or a day ago, what in the heck do you really know about that guy? Or where his dick's been? Or how many/what kind of dicks he's sucked off? So this is probably the issue that keeps most curious guys from following through on their fantasies.

Very smart & wise post.

I have posted a few ads on craigslist but to no prevail. My ads always start with "friends first" and state that I am not looking for sex tonight. I normally get a few emails from guys telling me that is exactly what they too. Then by the 2nd email there true colors come out and you can tell all they want is sex.

I guess most guys fulfill their curiosities in college but my curiosities came at a later time of my life. It is now extremely difficult finding a friend that is also bicurious.

If I wanted sex I can find hundreds of guys that would luv to suck me and leave but most of us are NOT looking for a "mouth". Mouths are the men that carry diseases!.

 

[kissmeonthe69]

Whew....

This thread is just toooooo fucking hot!

Thanks for the imagery...

 

[curious26TX]

Very smart & wise post.

I have posted a few ads on craigslist but to no prevail. My ads always start with "friends first" and state that I am not looking for sex tonight. I normally get a few emails from guys telling me that is exactly what they too. Then by the 2nd email there true colors come out and you can tell all they want is sex.

I guess most guys fulfill their curiosities in college but my curiosities came at a later time of my life. It is now extremely difficult finding a friend that is also bicurious.

If I wanted sex I can find hundreds of guys that would luv to suck me and leave but most of us are NOT looking for a "mouth". Mouths are the men that carry diseases!.

Something tells me a lot of people here are looking for that friends first thing. I know I am and it's like looking for a needle in a hay stack.

 

[biggsmall0669]

I am straight, and am not attracted to guys, but would like to try everything before I completely rule anything out. IF anyone is in my area... message me

 

[homunculus]

don't know

Sorry to reveal my ignorance, but better fess up than be sorry later. Just what kind of disease can one catch by having another man's mouth on your cock? And the other way around--your mouth on a cock. Is it herpes? How easy is it to catch that disease? And would mutual j/o pose any risks?

 

[Wanntry]

Herpes is pretty damned easy to catch

Herpes is pretty damned easy to catch.
I would guess that a bareback BJ would leave you open to HIV too if the blower is infected and scratches the blowees cock with his teeth, or something like that.

 

[homunculus]

Thanks

Thanks. I've yet to have anyone scratch my cock while blowing it so I don't think HIV via a blowjob is likely. The thing is that men won't accept a condom and don't like mutual j/o. You'd think there would be j/o groups, men seem to want it so much. But they never happen, at least in my experience. A couple of horny emails and then silence.

 

[Wanntry]

You're absolutely correct about the J/O groups

I once saw a late night Playboy TV reality show that had a co-ed J/O group all getting off together, girls and guys. It seemed so hot. Now, the chance of getting girls or women to masturbate in a group is slim to none. But, like you, I would have thought that all-guy groups would be pretty easy to set up. Like you, I have found it never happens. Just an intial pop-corn fart of interest, then everything goes quiet.

One impediment is that nobody ever can or wants to host, and nobody can get their act together enough to get a room for the group. But mostly it seems the wider, real interest isn't present.

 

[littlesquirt]

as far as a JO group I did come across one hear in town on Craiglist. They would meet twice a month at the same location. Someone had an room in the back of the house they would use. I expressed an interest and they sent me an invite along with a whole list of rules, which they had in place to protect everyone. I didn't go as being in a room of guys all jerking off and looking at each other doesn't do it for me. One on one play does.

I'm sure this can't be the only one.

 

[solkattu]

I couldn't tell you how I would react to erotic, physical interaction with another man, as I have never experienced it before. In fact, I want to experience it at least once, so I can finally be sure of myself.

One thing is for certain, though. I fantasize all the time about sucking an enormous dick, and having my asshole filled with another man's cock. I just bought a 10" jelly dong to satisfy some of these fantasies

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Sorry to reveal my ignorance, but better fess up than be sorry later. Just what kind of disease can one catch by having another man's mouth on your cock? And the other way around--your mouth on a cock. Is it herpes? How easy is it to catch that disease? And would mutual j/o pose any risks?

great post because there are alot of guys that do not understand what kind of diseases are out there by just giving or receiving oral. A few yrs ago I asked the same question.

Ive been told that oral is the safest form of unprotected sex.

I do not believe that j/o poses any sort of risk. The problem is most men do not want j/o. They want more. I was once told that "if I wanted a handjob I'd do it myself."

 

[macalo514]

Pretty hot thread. It would be alot of fun to find a small j/o group in the bay area, but like others have posted, they seem hard to find or non-existent. I've been to a j/o club before that was all guys. It was a first and only experience for me, and I was very apprehensive when I went in. Wasn't sure if I would even find it a turn-on, but it ended up being very erotic. I mostly just watched, but it was a thrill stroking myself and watching other guys stroking and cumming.

Now if only I could find a co-ed masturbation group for the same thing! Wow that would be hot. Group masturbation seems such a fun and safe way to experience "wanting a little more"

 

[puffy_nip_luvr]

There are lots of threads about bi or bi-curious guys who want some action here on Lit; what about all the straight guys who generally have no interest in men; couldn't kiss, hug or even fancy another guy, but secretly, and often only when aroused, have this passioate desire to feel a cock in their mouth; growing harder as you try what you love having done to you, until eventualy you feel a male orgasm deep in your mouth/throat....
Surely there must be lots of us out there!
Lets here it for the guys...

hmmmmm..... I only suck myself, which I love... however, I would go down on a Tranny or Hermie (or whatever politically-correct terms I should have used)in a second, as long as she has big boobs and looks like a woman until you get her panties off.... I hope to find a FB like that one day....

 

[andyr]

"I'll blow a guy and let him fuck me, but no way I'm letting him kiss me. That's so gay!"

Give me a break. You all sound like closet fags, or at least people in denial about their true sexuality. If fucking a guy doesn't make you gay then I really don't see how kissing a guy would. Be a man and get over your stupid hangups.

 

[darkdell]

Chalk me up too!

I've no interest in an on going relationship with a guy but would love to experiment/play. I usually have this fantasy while playing with my toys.

Another of my fantasies involves me getting busted riding my dildo by my mates wife, she finds it hot and quickly joins in. shortly after my mate walks in! and seeing us decides to join in too by dropping too his knees and letting his wife suck him off. meanwhile im still sliding up and down on my dildo while fucking her as shes sucking him.
Then after this for a bit he stands up and inserts his dick into my mouth and makes me suck him off as i come inside his wife with a big dildo in my ass.

So a little long winded but relevant to the topic. Also was disappointed to read through the whole thread and not see anyone from Aus! If there is drop me a pm!

 

[nipers]

Wow

Wow is this hot.I want to try a cock so bad

 

[erodream351]

xxxxx

 

[gottscheer]

Great Post

This is a great post! Nice to know there are guys who want the same as me.

 

[larrycando]

bump

This thread needs a bump!! Too good to let die.

Larry

 

[gottscheer]

Great Post

Yes this post is too good to let die!

 

[trouble4131]

This post is way too good!! I have a friend that i grew up with and one night after our g/fs had to leave early we started talking. And of course it was mostly about sex. we talked about a half hour before he finally said " I wonder what it is like to suck a cock". right after he said it there was an awkward silence then I said..."only one way to find out" with that we looked at each other and noticed each other's bulges. Then he said who is gonna go first. I just said we can lay on our sides in a sideways 69 type thing. after some time we started getting undressed and he didnt wait for the laying down thing. he quickly kneeled in front of me and grabbed my stiffer than ever cock and started to stroke it. he slowly worked his hand up and down my cock and licking off the pre cum of the head. All of a sudden he took me in to his mouth and started sucking. After a couple minutes I wanted my turn. so i sat him on the bed and i COULDN'T waste any time stroking him i just hungrily took him as deep as i could in my mouth. Bobbing my head as fast i could take him in. He stated he was about to cum and pulled away. He said he wanted to go longer so we stopped for a minute or so. When we started up again we dicided to get in to a 69 since we both wanted to suck on each other. Needless to say it ended in this position. Although we didn't swallow each others cum, we eagerly took it on our faces. After we were all cleaned up we were talking and he said, "well,now that we know what it's like we don't have to do it again ". And I agreed....But now every time we get together ( we now live in different states) we definately find time to suck each other off!!

 

[tonethebone]

Not a very good idea to read this while at work

I'm fortunate to have a "suck buddy" that I've known for many many years.

We're both married with grown kids. The only problem is finding the time.

But I think about it everyday. No kissing, no hugging, no anal, just jacking and sucking