"Straight" guys who wnat a little more!

[viperx6x9x]

well I agree this guy is a moron, but I dont think reading about glbt means you have to be bi/gay etc.

let me rephrase. i didnt mean to call the guy bi/gay. just saying in my opinion, you're probly a little curious if you're spending you're time looking at threads about it. just an opinion and i apologize if i offended anyone.

 

[viperx6x9x]

wouldn't that make you a little curious i'm not judging here my own fantasy involes sexy women strap-ons an lots of lube but it deffinatly doesn't involve any guys what so ever other then if ther were couples or groups of people watching but no contact what so ever, so my question is even if you perfer women but want you want wouldn't it mean you were bi you don't want affection just the sex the affection doesn't make you bi the sex does at least that what i think i've been known to be wrong an if that's you fantasy don't let what i said stop you alot lot of people think my fantasy crosses the gay barrier but i be damed if i won't be up for it if i get a chance so to each his own

thats why its called bi-"sexual" and not bi-"attractual" right? lol.

seriously though i still believe theres a difference in curious and actualy bi/gay. you're curious if you're trying or want to try something. but just like anything else you ever tried in youre life, if you didnt like it youre not gonna do it again. if you did you're gonna keep doing it. Thats, in my opinion, is when you classify youself as bi/gay. Cant call youreself bi if you're curious cuz you don't know yet till you try it.

 

[homunculus]

try a little tenderness

I think I'll call myself 'anchovy pizza.'
I was, at one time, hung up on terms but a little touching, a little sucking, done in a spirit of curiosity or more, won't hurt anyone.

 

[M_and_K]

Anyone in the uk interested in texting and pic swapping with a bi-curious horny guy (25), pm me for my number.

 

[In Anticipation]

There are lots of threads about bi or bi-curious guys who want some action here on Lit; what about all the straight guys who generally have no interest in men; couldn't kiss, hug or even fancy another guy, but secretly, and often only when aroused, have this passioate desire to feel a cock in their mouth; growing harder as you try what you love having done to you, until eventualy you feel a male orgasm deep in your mouth/throat....
Surely there must be lots of us out there!
Lets here it for the guys...

Funny how many of us there are out here. I would prefer a female audience though, I know I'm being picky. Anyone local can PM me.

 

[JugDish4u]

Funny how many of us there are out here. I would prefer a female audience though, I know I'm being picky. Anyone local can PM me.

Absolutely!!

 

[ALWZHORN]

Not Quite Straight

Like most of the guys responding I so want to know what it's like to touch and taste a hard cock.I have had two bi experiences were a guy sucked me off.The first was a guy I met on line and he caught me at just the right time"I WAS HORNY AS HELL"He came over and gave me the BEST BJ I've had in my life.The second time was with a crossdresser and an ex girlfriend that knew I was no longer STRAIGHT.We went to the CDs house and the CD was blowing me while my girlfriend fucked her in the ass with a vibe.The bj sucked and my girlfriend wound up finishing me off.Preferably I would like to suck the cock of a hot looking crossdresser.Just thinking about wrapping my hand around someone elses cock with one hand,playing with his balls with the other and licking around the head and eventually working that cock in and out of my mouth until he shoots his cum in my mouth.Well until I get up the nerve to do it I'll continue to watch porn imagining it's me with that hard cock buried in my mouth.

 

[curiousnme]

Funny how many of us there are out here. I would prefer a female audience though, I know I'm being picky. Anyone local can PM me.

Like others, I agree. Having a woman involved as well as describing what she wants the men to do would make it more pleasurable.

As past postings, I want to feel and stroke another mans hard cock. I know what mine feels like, I want to feel another!!!

 

[rl_dylan]

Like others, I agree. Having a woman involved as well as describing what she wants the men to do would make it more pleasurable.

As past postings, I want to feel and stroke another mans hard cock. I know what mine feels like, I want to feel another!!!

I am probably near your curious,, , , maybe we can get together for a drink sometime?

 

[gottscheer]

I am probably near your curious,, , , maybe we can get together for a drink sometime?

A threesome?

 

[Tomr]

There are lots of threads about bi or bi-curious guys who want some action here on Lit; what about all the straight guys who generally have no interest in men; couldn't kiss, hug or even fancy another guy, but secretly, and often only when aroused, have this passioate desire to feel a cock in their mouth; growing harder as you try what you love having done to you, until eventualy you feel a male orgasm deep in your mouth/throat....
Surely there must be lots of us out there!
Lets here it for the guys...

Count me in! I have always wanted to try sucking a nice big cut cock. I KNOW I'd love it. I can deep throat 8-9 inch dildos with no problem.

 

[movershaker]

I can do well on dildos too! I know I'd be great at pleasing guys orally because who knows better how a man wants to be sucked than another man?
My girl has used a strap-on on me, in my mouth and my ass. But she hasn't gone to the next level. I may never get to feel the firm-yet-tender sensation of an erect man between my lips.

 

[great_listener]

I know how you feel, but I am married ! How to you tell your wife that another man's cock would turn you on?

 

[tonycurinmass]

If it ever ocurred and I liked it then I would have to think that I could just suck a guy off too. But being 46 yo and not having had any such experience than I would have to think my time is running out....

I don't know...from the guys out there that are 'our age' (40+) it seems like a lot of them experience their first later in life. I think it has to do with becoming more comfortable with yourself, having more nerve, and some guys wives seem to slow down in the bedroom as they get older.

 

[uboat1]

Thanks Toncurinmass....

I think some of that is true. Also, men are looking for that little extra boost in there sex so they fantasize about what will get them there. All the 3-some videos and movies do contribute to all of the possibilities for having better sex.

I have tried meeting with some guys localy and have found most of them to be full of drama (long life stories about marriages etc...) or just cock whores who just want to get you off and leave. I am more interested meeting with some one to mildly connect with and then investigate how far our interest may go.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

I have tried meeting with some guys localy and have found most of them to be full of drama (long life stories about marriages etc...) or just cock whores who just want to get you off and leave. I am more interested meeting with some one to mildly connect with and then investigate how far our interest may go.

99% of the guys that I have talked to are also cock whores. You say that you are looking for someone to connect with or a friend first and they answer your ad and lie to you. The first time you 2 meet the guy is all over you.

disgusting!

 

[uboat1]

Very good point.... I was not ready to move that fast. With that being said he did do a good job with the BJ. Then he was leaving quikly and i almost had to talk him into some reciporcation....even if it was a HJ. He came really quick and left immediately...then never to hear from him again.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Very good point.... I was not ready to move that fast. With that being said he did do a good job with the BJ. Then he was leaving quikly and i almost had to talk him into some reciporcation....even if it was a HJ. He came really quick and left immediately...then never to hear from him again.

yea, he was off to blow the next guy.

 

[none2_none2]

Thanks Toncurinmass....

"...I have tried meeting with some guys localy and have found most of them to be full of drama (long life stories about marriages etc...) or just cock whores who just want to get you off and leave. I am more interested meeting with some one to mildly connect with and then investigate how far our interest may go.

I guess I cannot figure where you are coming from.

When I was single, I never limited myself to gay guys only as there are plenty of hot guys who aren't 100% straight. That being said, if/when I wanted just sex, I knew where to get it: ABS, adult theaters, parks, rest stops, etc. If I wanted something more, I knew how to get it at those same places or in other venues. The secret was to start up a conversation. If they were cock whores, you could tell from their eyes as they would soon wander either to below the belt, or to any other guy in the area. However, if they were people of substance, of course they would talk about their lives. Why wouldn't they? If I was looking for a tennis partner a weight lifting partner, a drummer for a band to start, a tutor for your college classes, or some such casual thing, sure the topic may stay on things like the weather or what kind of restaurant you like to eat at. (Of course even in most of those casual interactions, over time personal stuff usually slips in from time to time.)

Nevertheless, if the guy is going to let me put my cock up his ass, I think he has the right to share what is on his mind. Unless I'm an asshole, I'm going to give him the time to express himself. That is the difference between him being fucked by a penis versus a man. Likewise that is the difference between me fucking a man versus just putting it in a hole. It didn't mean they left their wives, children, male lovers, career and throw themselves at me anymore than I did for them, but I'm grateful for many of those time whether it was one long night or a period of weeks, months or a few that lasted a bit longer. I think when our paths diverged, the other person gained something because it was more than just getting off. Sometimes what was on their mind was how they really loved their wife or male lover, but the familiarity over time caused it to turn more like brother/sister or brother/brother which made it hard to get wild and crazy an make wild passionate love like they used to. Some were about stress at job or with an individual. Some were very serious such as the death of their wife/male lover. They still were sexual beings who needed to get off, but their heart was else where. A couple were also the very sad case of the death of a child. Of course a common theme was the fear that m2m sex meant that they weren't really men.

Some guys spend hundreds of dollars to get some to talk to whether it is a shrink, a bartender, or even a prostitute because these were things they just couldn't discuss with their family members and didn't want to burden friends. All they really needed was someone to listen and maybe have some optional relaxing sex with without the expectation that they have to do you the favor of giving you money, getting you connected with a job, a diamond, or selling you their soul. It wasn't that I gave pity fucks, and it wasn't that they were needy basket cases. It was just that I gave a darn wherever they were coming from at the time I was with them.

What I learned was that nothing makes a guy feel more desirable viral, desirable, and good about himself as when someone still enjoys his company AND wants to get it on with him even when he lets his guard down. Plus no matter how hot you may think a cock, a mouth, an ass, a vagina, a hand, etc... is, there is nothing hotter than having a human behind whatever organ interests you. If that wasn't the case, we'd all be exclusively into really weird stuff like inanimate objects, the dead, non-humans, etc. In such weird fetishes, one could truly be divorced from the human behind the sex organ of our desires. Very few are into that for that very reason - at some level we really DO find the human attached interesting.

 

[uboat1]

Wow, you had put alot into your message. thanks..

I agree with you. i want to get to know the person behind the organ and so far they are carrying more issues then what I am use to. I am still in contact with the last guy. He is nice and friendly but he is struggling with stuff beyond me. Could be that once he gets it out, he will calm down and be himself. Right now, i believe that I will get together with him again and see where it goes. The first meeting was just a glad to meet you type of meeting.

 

[Curioustallis]

Curious and anxious

39/ m/ wisconsin and curious here. I read through several posts and feel a lot like many other dudes on here. I love women and always have. Over the past few years I've been thinking more and more about what it would be like on the receiving end of a good fuck or giving a good blow job. Haven't yet tried being with a male in any way, but have been getting more and more anxious to try it every day.

Anyone who would like to share their experience with curiosity I'd love to read about it. Or if anyone in Wisconsin would like to talk or chat perhaps it could grow into something more.

 

[none2_none2]

...He is nice and friendly but he is struggling with stuff beyond me. Could be that once he gets it out, he will calm down and be himself.

It also might be that your personality is one in that you don't feel the need to express yourself that much. Where as he may be someone that feels the need to be an open book to you. That isn't a defect or an advantage for either one of you, there are simply many different personalities in the world.

An example comes to mind, I remember about twelve years ago was facing a good possibility of the company shutting down. I hate unemployment, and it was hard to not talk about it. Well, some gay guy wanted to chat with me, and he got pissed when I talked about my possible unemployment... What bugged him was that he had come from living in Afganistan as some US envoy (not recently -- this was back when the Soviet Union still existed) and had lost friends, loved ones due to war situation back then.

I wasn't a basket case, and he wasn't a jerk (although he didn't handle the situation very well). Rather, we were at totally different places in our lives. I could see where he was coming from. If you deal with that kind of an environment, then I could see where someone worried about unemployment seems pretty shallow. However, if you live a regular life in the US, then pending unemployment is something that is important. (In all honesty I never chatted with the guy before nor after, so he could have just been making the entire thing up as it sounded a bit unusual to chat with someone in such a situation. However, I tend to believe that people are honest...)

Anyway, I do know there are people (men as well as women) for which everything is a crisis. That is going a bit too far. I will say that one guy years ago gripped that I talked to much about the things I'm concerned about, and talked to little about things I'm not. However, for me once a situation/problem is solved, I see no reason to talk about the resolution as it is no longer on my mind. For my personality, it seems pointless and illogical to talk about something I'm no longer thinking about. As an example: If I need a vehicle, I might take a VERY long time with lots of deliberation as to what exactly I should get. It would come up in my conversation because it was on my mind. However, once I got a vehicle, I saw no reason to talk about it because the deliberation was done. A vehicle was acquired; end of story. While that is logical (at least in my mind), I have learned that sometimes for social reasons and for light talk you do need to sometimes brag or at least embellish these stories as it makes it look like you aren't constantly dealing with deliberations, issues. If you tend to keep to yourself, such social graces take some work. Of course, the biggest social grace is to be more of a listener than a talker. That too takes some practice. Of course, if the other guy doesn't talk, then it is probably best to start talking yourself.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

It also might be that your personality is one in that you don't feel the need to express yourself that much. Where as he may be someone that feels the need to be an open book to you. That isn't a defect or an advantage for either one of you, there are simply many different personalities in the world.

An example comes to mind, I remember about twelve years ago was facing a good possibility of the company shutting down. I hate unemployment, and it was hard to not talk about it. Well, some gay guy wanted to chat with me, and he got pissed when I talked about my possible unemployment... What bugged him was that he had come from living in Afganistan as some US envoy (not recently -- this was back when the Soviet Union still existed) and had lost friends, loved ones due to war situation back then.

I wasn't a basket case, and he wasn't a jerk (although he didn't handle the situation very well). Rather, we were at totally different places in our lives. I could see where he was coming from. If you deal with that kind of an environment, then I could see where someone worried about unemployment seems pretty shallow. However, if you live a regular life in the US, then pending unemployment is something that is important. (In all honesty I never chatted with the guy before nor after, so he could have just been making the entire thing up as it sounded a bit unusual to chat with someone in such a situation. However, I tend to believe that people are honest...)

Anyway, I do know there are people (men as well as women) for which everything is a crisis. That is going a bit too far. I will say that one guy years ago gripped that I talked to much about the things I'm concerned about, and talked to little about things I'm not. However, for me once a situation/problem is solved, I see no reason to talk about the resolution as it is no longer on my mind. For my personality, it seems pointless and illogical to talk about something I'm no longer thinking about. As an example: If I need a vehicle, I might take a VERY long time with lots of deliberation as to what exactly I should get. It would come up in my conversation because it was on my mind. However, once I got a vehicle, I saw no reason to talk about it because the deliberation was done. A vehicle was acquired; end of story. While that is logical (at least in my mind), I have learned that sometimes for social reasons and for light talk you do need to sometimes brag or at least embellish these stories as it makes it look like you aren't constantly dealing with deliberations, issues. If you tend to keep to yourself, such social graces take some work. Of course, the biggest social grace is to be more of a listener than a talker. That too takes some practice. Of course, if the other guy doesn't talk, then it is probably best to start talking yourself.

 

[bithebi2000]

Kissing, Yuk. Anal (my ass anyhow), Yuk. Taking a cock into my mouth, all I can think about lately. I don't find men attractive in a way I find women attractive. I can see a set of hard nipples through a sweater and get a hard on (embarrassing at the mall this xmas). The thought of cuddling or kissing a man repulses me. Weird. Those same, unappealing men could then drop their drawers and I'd be a slut on my knees taking them in my mouth. Watching porn as young adult, I fantisized about being in the same situation as the men with the women sucking me dry. Those same films now have me fantisizing about taking the cocks in my own mouth.

 

[Bicuriousone]

Just Wondering

Kissing, Yuk. Anal (my ass anyhow), Yuk. Taking a cock into my mouth, all I can think about lately. I don't find men attractive in a way I find women attractive. I can see a set of hard nipples through a sweater and get a hard on (embarrassing at the mall this xmas). The thought of cuddling or kissing a man repulses me. Weird. Those same, unappealing men could then drop their drawers and I'd be a slut on my knees taking them in my mouth. Watching porn as young adult, I fantisized about being in the same situation as the men with the women sucking me dry. Those same films now have me fantisizing about taking the cocks in my own mouth.

Does your wife know of your desire to suck on a nice big cock? Just curious