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December 12 - words of Desdemona

Personally, I like the variety. Publicly, manners make the man and rudeness is offensive. Privately, I kinda like it rough and pushy sometimes. Other times, the "please me,...." would make me hot beyond description. It's all in the delivery and context of the situation. A politely worded demand, whispered in my ear as my control is systematically stripped from me is darkly erotic and can be almost sinister. I like that.

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December 13 - Words of Kajira Calista

I think self inflicted pain is related to being a masochist. It is a stress reliever or a way to ground yourself during edgy times in your life. Pain feels good when you are a masochist and it feels good when you are a self injurer. I actually don't see anything wrong with doing it as long as you do it safely, and anyone who does it knows you learn to do it safely very quickly. I think a lot of people dont want to link it with masochism *shrug* but i don't see why not...pleasure in pain equals masochist in my book.

Just so ya all don't think i'm spewing crap i know nothing of...i am a self injurer, i don't care to tell how or when or why on the boards, but i understand what it is all about.

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December 14 - Words of silver_inari

Don't let others define you how they want, define yourself how YOU want. It is a breathtaking thing to find freedom in one's life. Freedom to define your life as you like is EVERYTHING in life.

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Decembre 15th - words of A Desert Rose

"So would I, but already I am seeing less and less of a few of my favorite posters. I'm sure some will chalk that up to it being the holidays and people being busy, etc.

The funny thing is that those who left the first time, including the moderator, were 24/7 - skin-to-skin practitioners. They felt this place had become too oriented to online D/s folks. They left and started their own message board and it is invitation only to become a member.

This time, I'm hearing and seeing it from those posters who are not in 24/7 relationships. Those who feel that they don't belong here anymore because their style of bdsm is not considered "authentic" enough. Or at least, that's how they feel.

I'm one of those who is not in a round-the-clock bdsm thing. Maybe some don't consider me "authentic" either. I know I live how I live because that is my choice.

People like to feel as though they are part of a community. It's a sad thing when they no longer feel they do. And when they feel their opinions and choices are no longer welcome or considered real.

Personally, I think there is room for everyone here. I'm a mom... I learned early on how to ignore obnoxious behavior and move on to more stimulating and/or entertaining discussions. And of course, we surround ourselves with like minded people. That is obvious by looking at the people we choose to befriend and those we do not. You can call it a circle of friends or you can call it a clique, either way there are several different ones of those here.

Everyone should feel they belong if this is where they want to be expressing themselves. No one should feel less real because, for whatever personal reasons they have, they don't live like I do or like someone else does."

(This was better quoted in full because it was not only important, but very true)

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=10870614#post10870614

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December 16th - words of Desdemona

"I submit because I choose to submit. It's not a bid to earn kindness or because I think I can't get a man any other way. It's simply my choice and my comfort zone. I'm not attracted to or aroused by non-dominant men. I'm not aroused by purely vanilla sex. There has to be an element of power exchange in order for me to enjoy it. I prefer that my partner be at least a bit sadistic as well. I'm learning that I need a little pain in my life and that's ok with me."


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=301539&perpage=25&pagenumber=1

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December 18th - words of Kajira Callista

" I think the key word was recommendations....my church does not make laws...only guidelines and it doesnt make personal choices for anyone. if a person wants to be ignorant enough not to do what they need to do and then blame it on the church, that is kind of foolish in my opinion."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=292335&pagenumber=3

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December 19th - words of Etoile

"I don't think anybody would admit to actually desiring this sort of thing to happen to them. Needing it? Sure. Deserving it? Okay. Fantasizing about it? You bet. But wanting it to happen IRL, for real? No. And I'll explain.

It's too expensive. Hospital bills cost money. Who's going to foot that bill? Unless there is a criminal investigation into the attack, and a reward offered related to that, it's just going to be one big medical bill."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=294193&pagenumber=4

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December 21st - words of sinn0cent1

"i've not been involved in a threesome ....... yet. However, Master and i have discussed the possibilities, and while we will enjoy the experience eventually, it's a female who will join us. No possibility of pregnancy there, as He has stated that He will not be the one to play with Her. His interest is with watching me as i play with her. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=299198&pagenumber=2

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December 22nd - words of ownedsubgal

"it's true that sometimes, with some people, love can change the D/s dynamic a bit. one doesn't become less submissive or less Dominant, but the way it is expressed may change because the love is so great. especially from the Dominant end, they may begin to feel stirrings of guilt over subjecting their sub/slave to certain things. of course, this is only the case with some. it was the case with my Master and i for a period...but i think it had more to do with difficulties i had/have (severe depression), than with love alone. there was something that happened that caused him to really SEE just how bad my depression was, see how vulnerable and delicate i was...and then suddenly beating me bloody and speaking to me as one would speak to a street walker, seemed mean and cruel to him. so there was a time when certain activities did indeed taper off. and then there was a time when he felt i needed to be subjected to certain things, but he felt it would be emotionally damaging to us both for him to do those things, so he would have them done by others. that is still the case with a few things, and it works for us so all is well. but in the end, we both realized that we have needs that NEED to be expressed with the one we love. truth be told, my Master doesn't have a need to be so sadistic and cruel with some woman that he is not madly in love with. His need is directly tied to his soulmate, to those feelings of love. as are my own...i need to be treated in a certain way and to have a certain dynamic with the man i love and who loves me. so for us, in a way, our love for one another actually intensifies the way we live this lifestyle. the guilt is still there for him sometimes, i can see it...but his need overpowers everything else. He will look at me sadly and say, "but sweet, i NEED to beat you. i need to hurt you"....and i tell him yes, i know, i understand, and nothing is wrong with that. when love is thrown into the mix, this lifestyle can take one thru many ups and downs. but for me the love makes the rollercoaster more than worthwhile."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=121244&perpage=25&pagenumber=3

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December 24th - words of A's Sweet Baby

"Well, as a relative newbie i have found this forum to be extremely validating. For years and years i struggled with accepting my needs, desires, tendencies. I had thought i was strange and twisted and that what i wanted was wrong. But reading this forum has helped me to learn that:
1. I am not alone. There are many others who share the same interests.
2. There is a whole contiunuum of levels of interest and need (dominance, submission, pain, etc).
3. There is no "right way" to live.
4. There are many out there who have much more "extreme" needs than i. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=300502

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December 25th - words of sunfox

"I can't even fathom kids being a part of anything sexual, and it's making me kinda want to puke, so I'll just let that one lie.

Bestiality falls into that category for me too. It's abuse. Yuck.

Scat is a no way, no how, 'try it and you'll be wearing it' limit.

It's not on there, but asphyxiation is also a no. It turns me on like crazy, the idea of it.. but I have a kid to raise, and so I can't indulge in something so dangerous if it could mean being a vegetable for the rest of my days. It's just not that serious to me.

From there, it's mostly things I'd submit to if C were into them."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=300079&pagenumber=2

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December 26th - words of Justina123

"But I have to say I agree that there is tons of variation with the "Christian bdsm" community. In fact, and this to me is unfortunate and very UN-Christlike, there is amongst many Christians a strong tendency to be judgmental and believe that there is only one "right" way. I have met many Christian D/s couples who, as you say, feel D/s is only permissible within marriage; others who embrace only the D/s aspects and no s&m.

I, on the other hand, while a "born again" believer who thinks that the Bible is God's Word, and a former missionary (nearly 20 years on various mission fields), etc. ,strongly believe that the Bible should not be approached with a predetermined mindset or as a book of do's and don'ts. Instead, it is intended to be used as a guidebook and to open our eyes to the unlimited possibilities within God's Will. Everything I do in my life, including in my submission and kinky times with Sir, brings mutual joy to both of us (even if in unconventional ways!) and is a personal expression of (imo) the way God made us.

Sir and I have had some interesting conversations. He is not a Christian, in fact, claims to be an atheist. But he respects my deeply held beliefs and has even said they enhance my submissiveness. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showth...1&highlight=mainstream+BDSM+vanilla+dominance

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December 28th - words of chagrin

"I have resolved to treat myself and my body with respect and eat well and take more exercise and just look after myself.

After all, if I can't take care of myself properly, how is my Dom in shining armour going to be convinced that I can take care of him?

I will also stop being so scared of the possibility of submitting to a new man and just get out there and canvas opportunities."


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=10892546#post10892546

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December 29th - words of FreeGal

"I had to choose one of the male guests to give a blow job to, on his command. His command came in the form of a text message. He ordered me to carry it out, and I did. It was very exciting, because nobody else knew anything about it. The guy was very willing, even though he was a bit taken aback with my suggestion. He did want more from me, but that wasn't allowed. I was to give him a blow job, but not let him come in my mouth, nothing more than that."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=285241


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December 31st - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

"Just to be CRYSTAL CLEAR.

I love breast play. I love the fact that i've got generous hoo-has to do it with. I certainly hope that Sir will enjoy binding them up when He gets around to it

The ONLY thing i have a problem with is people throwing misinformation around regarding cancer and generous hoo-has

Let the safe breast bondage commence (with the help of MissTs wonderful link YAYYY)

*throwing Sir the rope*"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=169405&pagenumber=3

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