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October 23rd - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

"Another method he uses is to do lots and lots of really light tapping with the heavy cane, I mean LOTS. A hundred plus strokes. As time goes on the strokes get a little heavier and heavier. I don't even notice, because of the endorphin release. By the end he's dropping them REALLY hard. Lovely marks.

I was always afraid of the cane. Now I love it."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=283800&pagenumber=2

Catalina:rose:
 
October 25th - words of shy slave

"I still don't know who I would want for my Mummy, Netz and those pics looking as though she will be kind with her punishments,
Luna and her wonderful snuggly lap, beautiful eyes and breasts that I could snuggle into,
Shadowsdream and her way with words that make you KNOW you did wrong but you can't help but want to please her.

Ahhh the choices...."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=285630&pagenumber=2

Catalina:rose:
 
October 28th - words of incubus'_sub

"Pregnancy changes everything about your lifestyle, wishes & hopes, future plans. Red is probably right in that your husband is looking after you & the baby, keeping you safe from harm. Yes, you do have to talk to him if you desire to continue your previous activities. Just remember that each man is different in his reaction & response to a pregnant body, particularly one he loves. My first husband remained exactly the same towards me with regard to desire. My second husband regretted that we never had a pregnancy because he finds pregnant women a super turn on. Incubus, on the other hand, finds a pregnant body unattractive to him sexually. No nasty comments please, he can't help what turns him on & off.

Whatever the reason, your husband is behaving as he thinks best. Pregnancy only lasts a short time anyway, so enjoy it. It might be an idea to talk to your husband about how you want to continue your activities after the baby is born, as the "mother"image can throw some men a bit off too, as can the fact that the baby tends to come first in any relationship for a while."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=286955

Catalina:rose:
 
October 29th - words of Quint

"Errr, that just means that BDSM-inclined couples *need* communication. Doesn't mean they *have* it any better than a healthy nilla couple. I personally think a healthy relationship is a healthy relationship. Talking needs to be done regardless of if someone is pushing a set of needles through your flesh. I get that in most non-kinked relationships, a person's expendable blood isn't on the line...but as far as emotional completeness and satisfaction as derived from honesty, trust, and open communication is concerned, I don't think leather has sole bragging rights. And it irritates the bejeezus out of me when we act like we do."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=285150

Catalina:rose:
 
October 30th - words of niteshade

"Now is the chance for a lot of people around here to say "I told you so." I finally got spanked the other night along with some other pretty painful things, and damn if I didn't like it. In fact, I actually loved it. I ended up asking... no, I guess to be accurate, I should say "begging" ... for more. So, for everyone who told me that it is entirely something different when you trust that the person isn't going to really hurt you, ya'll were all correct. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=292574

Catalina:rose:
 
October 31st - words of Desdemona

"I'm laughing at the thought of any dominant that I'd be with telling me how to vote. I have my own opinions and I wouldn't be with anyone who disagreed with me on important issues or who tried to direct me on matters of concience. I'm an adult. My values are already formed. I don't give those rights away to anyone. That has nothing to do with my submission or whether or not I'm naturally submissive. It has to do with my rights as a human being and a citizen."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=287069&perpage=25&pagenumber=3

Catalina:rose:
 
November 2nd - words of sunfox

"My PYL didn't have any issue with public breastfeeding... after all, as long as I was breastfeeding, it was me getting up when she was hungry in the middle of the night, because I was carrying the food. But in any other issue where we have had a difference of understanding, he has always been very interested in why I feel the way I do, and has always left the final decision up to me and what I am comfortable with.

Most often, we agree with each other in the end anyway. Parenting, for us, is not a D/s thing... it's an equals thing. Equally frustrated, equally happy, and equally concerned."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=287252&perpage=25&pagenumber=3

Catalina:rose:
 
November 3rd - words of s'lara

"What i wanted to say was that we spend lots of time comparing ourselves and analyzing what attributes are better than other attributes. There are times when i find the discussions a little divisive amongst subs/bottoms and i don't like to see that. As property, our different attributes can be used to serve another well on some level -- from the most demanding service to menial tasks, there will be something that will showcase our talents. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=286959&pagenumber=2

Catalina:rose:
 
November 5th - words of bunny bondage

"are women naturally masochistic? this conclusion has been made because of the long-standing portrayal of women as weak and submissive. however, observers such as Reik (1957[1941]) saw that more men than women engaged in masochistic sex. the best available evidence shows that women have more masochistic fantasies than men, but men are far more likely to want them acted out. but is masochism feninine? there is nothing in the psychology of women that is in herently masochistic, but there may well be something feminine in the psychology of masochism. some support for this is forced cross-dressing type situations. men are often femininized, but rarely is a girl "masculinized".

there's also a difference in what male and female masochists desire. men often enjoy much more severe humiliation and punishment than females who favor experiences which emphasize embarrasment more than a simple humiliation. males tend to be more willing to dispense with pain altogether and have a more service oriented relationship, so being spanked tends to be more common among females. when men DO want pain, though, they tend to want paddlings or whippings instead of the relatively mild hand-spanking favored by girls. also, female masochists tend to enjoy elaborating some context or significance for the spanking, such as misbehavior, whereas many male masochists describe being punished for no reason whatsoever.

and there's also the little issue of sex. many male subs questioned didn't have sex with there dommes, but every female sub did. the male was more likely to give oral sex or something more along servitile lines like that. so, while there is no evidence that masochism is inherently male or female, it could be argued that masochism itself is somewhat feminine.

all paraphrasing that was done was taken from: Baumeister&Tice's "The Social Dimension of Sex"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=289019&perpage=25&pagenumber=1

Catalina

__________________:rose:
 
November 6th - words of
sub UK girl

"I am not, nor ever was, searching for a Father figure. I have a Dad/Daddy/Father, and he's the one that helped my Mummy make me.

Ok, more seriously, I am a sub, but I am also a strong and assertive woman. My, my, how can that be? I hear you cry. It's because giving up that control that I have in most areas of my life, and handing it over to my Dom, turns me on.

I love being at his mercy and him having total power and control over me. It's a trip, a buzz, a rush. Then, when the scene/play session/whatever, is over, I go back to being that confident, decision making, controlled woman again.

It really is as simple as that.

I have many roles in my life and the one I crave the most is my submissive role toward my Dom. When I am submitting to him, it feels so natural, and I feel that I am exactly who I want to be. However, that in no way diminshes my own strength and my own ability to make decisions for myself. I merely choose to give up the decision making for a while."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=289019&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Catalina:rose:
 
November 7th - words of sinn0cent1

"All joking aside, He preferres that i think, and my opinions and thoughts are valued greatly. However, there have been times when i have been warned that some thoughts SHOULD be kept to myself. Sometimes a simple 'yes, Master', rather than, "i'd rather ____ Master", or "Do i have to ____ NOW!!? Master?", is what He is seeking."


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=287231&pagenumber=3

C:rose:
 
November 8th - words of foxy

"To this day I cannot talk about my release without crumbling all over again. So I'm not much help *lol*

But my former Dominant remains my best friend and for that I am grateful. He taught me so much and meant so much to me that I couldn't really bear the idea of losing the friendship as well.

It's a long road. Hard sometimes. But worth it, if you can preserve the integrity of the friendship. "


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=287763&pagenumber=2

C
:rose:
 
November 9th - words of Esclava

"I don't think monogamy is at fault either. People DO make choices - they reach a crossroad and must decide to cheat or not to cheat (or whatever the decision is). For most, they just do what is easier - at the time - and will face the consequences later.

I have NEVER advocated infidelity. But it's a hard limit for me as it is just somewhere I will not go since my last relationship split. When you realize something is not as you want it to be, it is much healthier and more sane to talk it out - even if it means a break-up - rather than the misunderstandings and lack of communication that can occur without trust and honesty as the cornerstones."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=10267376#post10267376


:rose:
 
November 10th - words of CutieMouse

"As someone who was also very inhibited when younger, who eventually decided to embrace the sexual part of herself, I have to say be a sponge. LOL

Read. Read more. Ask questions. Journal. Find someone you can speak freely with. Read some more. Think a lot. Feel a lot. There are no stupid questions, silly boundaries, or wrong feelings. Accept yourself, embrace yourself, and when you do meet someone who loves power you'll sense it in them jsus as they will sense it in you. Trust me. And then a little dance will begin that gives you tingles. And from there I think it's like most relationships- just a bit kinkier. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=285432




:rose:
 
November 12th - words of Kajira Callista

"It is an addiction. I have been there myself...from my experience you need to be able to back off a bit and detox. From the pain perspective it is kind of important that you do that sometimes. As horrible as it feels and as irritable as you get, you have to do it or you will be headed for a dangerous place both physically and emotionally."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=290591


:rose:
 
November 14th - words of BlueSugar

"When I was younger my parents had the playboy chanel.
Curious and young and searching my body, I saw one of the ladies drip wax on herself...

so i tried it... and it just plain burned, and then it felt cool and tingly.

Then a few years later my boyfriend and I were roll playing, and he slapped my ass and I had a Secretary moment where all stopped and I just looked back at him ...

and slowly smiled.


From then on it has been "the only difference between pain and pleasure is perception"


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=10047805#post10047805



:rose:
 
November 15th - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

"However, you can be ready for that WTF moment--

Clean up your side of the street, in any and all ways you can. Mentally, emotionally, physically. Get your act together and work on your inner and outer selves. Find balance in your life. If your life is off kilter, then your life with him/her will be crazy. Not a good thing. If you are an addict/alcoholic, get sober. If you have unresolved mental health issues, get therapy. If you are in poor health, see a doctor. You get the picture.

So who are you really? If you have a solid vision about who you are as a submissive or dominant, great. Cast yourself on the waters and more power to you. If not, use what's available to you--books, websites like this one and bondage.com to help gel how you think about yourself. Use the tools that you've learned about to meet people safely.

So you've met someone, and commenced a relationship. Wahoooo! Damn, that's hard work. Remember that D/s is all about relationships, and not about some role playing chain you to the bed every night isn't that special
fantasy. Hard work. Progress. Contentment. Happiness. Joy.

If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. You let it go, and start again. But to just not try? *shrugs* No joy in that."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=10386268#post10386268




:rose:
 
November 16th - words of incubus'_sub

"Trust ?? it's always brought up as something onliners value and in so many cases complain about when they realise it's been misplaced. Whip yourself 50 times & tell me how wet you are.......yeah, right. Who on earth is so gullible?

I have bred & shown horses to National Champ level for many years. I have a lot of knowledge tucked away in the old brain. I also know that I will never be a fantastic rider from reading, online chatting or anything else except real life years of practice and dedication, however I could make myself quite believable as one if I wanted to try it online. It's exactly the same principle."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=86653&perpage=25&pagenumber=2


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