Subs and Doms

[Ebonyfire]

Well I'm in my 20's and most of the "men" around my age seem very dominant around women..selfish even. So I would figured that there would be a lot of male doms around?

I have heard it said that the subs have the real power in a BDSM relationship despite outward appearances. If this is true is the dynamic the same for male subs and dommes as well?

No. For every female Domme there are at least 50 male subs who want her.

I can and do have it MY way.

And as for how men act around women. that means nothing. men rarely peep their hole card about what really goes on in their relationships with women.

I have lots of young hetero males below the age of 30 who are begging to submit.

You cannot tell a sumissive man by looks alone, becasue he behaves as all men do in a vanilla world.

Looks are deceiving.

 

[bunny bondage]

Oh, ok.

Now just how the hell did your answer get posted before my question?! lol

perhaps there's a poltergeist on the boards!!

 

[brownhairedboy2]

No. For every female Domme there are at least 50 male subs who want her.

I can and do have it MY way.

That's exactly what I thought but I didn't want to go right out and say it in case my assumptions were wrong.

We're cheap.
Men are a dime a dozen.

 

[brownhairedboy2]

perhaps there's a poltergeist on the boards!!

lol
Now we just need that creepy, short, old broad to show up and a little girl to say "They're here..."

 

[Ebonyfire]

lol
Now we just need that creepy, short, old broad to show up and a little girl to say "They're here..."

But a submissive is more than a man.

 

[brownhairedboy2]

But a submissive is more than a man.

Huh???
That statement reminds me of the Rob Zombie song titled "More Human than Human."
What's a submissive man then?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Huh???
That statement reminds me of the Rob Zombie song titled "More Human than Human."
What's a submissive man then?

A man is vanilla, from a D/s point of view. That is useless to Me. However, a submissive man brings his maleness, but he is submissive. He is more valuable to Me, and hence is more than a man.

 

[brownhairedboy2]

A man is vanilla, from a D/s point of view. That is useless to Me. However, a submissive man brings his maleness, but he is submissive. He is more valuable to Me, and hence is more than a man.

Oh, ok Mistress, now I understand.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Oh, ok Mistress, now I understand.

There is nothing wrong with being vanilla or "just" a man. I have a vanilla man in My life and he is important to Me, but he is not my submissive, and the lifestyle does not interest him.

A submissive man is a wonderful thing to own.

 

[brownhairedboy2]

A submissive man is a wonderful thing to own.

lol.
the way you said that...
And if he breaks you have like 49 more to take his place.

 

[Ebonyfire]

lol.
the way you said that...
And if he breaks you have like 49 more to take his place.

It is not My intention to break anyone. A wise Mistress takes care of Her property.

 

[FungiUg]

It is not My intention to break anyone. A wise Mistress takes care of Her property.

Very true. No dominant wants to break a favourite toy... we enjoy them too much!

 

[WriterDom]

No. For every female Domme there are at least 50 male subs who want her.

I can and do have it MY way.

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Wow. at those odds you could never bathe. Or use deodorant. Or take the yeast infection medicine. Or brush your teeth. Wipe your ass. Dommes have it so easy.

 

[brownhairedboy2]

Wow. at those odds you could never bathe. Or use deodorant. Or take the yeast infection medicine. Or brush your teeth. Wipe your ass. Dommes have it so easy.

When it comes to the avaliability of potential sexual partners it must be nice being a woman period.


it sucks being a man though.

 

[FungiUg]

There's a very real difference between quantity and quality -- particularly when looking for partners!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Wow. at those odds you could never bathe. Or use deodorant. Or take the yeast infection medicine. Or brush your teeth. Wipe your ass. Dommes have it so easy.

WD that is disgusting.

I have posted the odds before.

Out of the 50 so called subs who may approach Me, 15 will want to be dominated online, 15 will want kinky cyber sex with a webcam, 10 will not be submissives at all, but are looking for a kinky girlfriend, and 10 will be submissives who will interest Me. 5 will get to chat with Me, and possible 1 or 2 will get to meet Me.

It is not a walk in a park.

 

[Ebonyfire]

If you are looking for sex

There are better ways to get it, other than pretending to be a dominant.

 

[FungiUg]

It is not a walk in a park.

More like a walk in the circus?

 

[Ebonyfire]

More like a walk in the circus?

You got that right. However, I have been having a great time lately.

 

[FungiUg]

You got that right. However, I have been having a great time lately.

Stepped around the Elephant do-do, and found the clowns?

Glad to hear it, Eb! Funnily enough, I've been having fun of late as well. Hopefully it will continue for some time!

 

[WriterDom]

WD that is disgusting.

I have posted the odds before.

Out of the 50 so called subs who may approach Me, 15 will want to be dominated online, 15 will want kinky cyber sex with a webcam, 10 will not be submissives at all, but are looking for a kinky girlfriend, and 10 will be submissives who will interest Me. 5 will get to chat with Me, and possible 1 or 2 will get to meet Me.

It is not a walk in a park.

I was just yanking your chain. I believe that there are many more "submissives of quality" that are female than male.

 

[FungiUg]

I was just yanking your chain.

Now I understand the flushing sound!

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Now I understand the flushing sound!

ROTFLMAO

Man you forgot the spew alert!

 

[FungiUg]

ROTFLMAO

Man you forgot the spew alert!

Nah, I got a plumber in, he fixed that problem!

 

[Ebonyfire]

I was just yan++++ your chain. I believe that there are many more "submissives of quality" that are female than male.

Damn, I agree with you! Am I ill? LOL

well that BO stuff was nasty!