Subs and Doms

[Daddyslilpet]

Nah, I got a plumber in, he fixed that problem!

Whew, that's good to know! Coulda gotten nasty.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Whew, that's good to know! Coulda gotten nasty.

Nasty was all that BO talk! LOL

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Nasty was all that BO talk! LOL

So true! LOL.

 

[FungiUg]

Nasty was all that BO talk! LOL

True! After all, you have to live with yourself... I get to a point where I can't stand my own smell (if I go a day without a shower, for example.)

 

[eyelevel123]

I think I'm a sub?

I think that I would be a bi sub, i often have thoughts of pleasing other men but not ever taking the role of the dom.

I guess I qualify..........yes?

 

[His_sugar]

I think we all just take the rolls that are natural and comfortable for us.

Welcome to the boards ( from one Indiana poster to another )

 

[ownedsubgal]

When you first got into BDSM did you know right away what you wanted to be in the relationship, sub or dom? Or did you have to experiment around a little before you got comfortable and found a niche that you liked in what role you wanted to play in the bedroom?

it was never a bedroom/sexual thing for me...it was never a role i played or wanted to play. i'm a submissive...that's just who i am, whether i like it or not, that's me. so when i discovered D/s (learning about bdsm didn't teach me anything about myself...so i explored further until i learned about D/s), it was a feeling of hey, i'm not such a freak/weirdo after all. there's a name for what i am. and there are other people out there like me. and quite a few of them are happy just the way they are. so, why can't i have the same? it was a wake up call, a self discovery. there was no trying to decide whether i was Dominant or submissive...there was never any question about that. but again, this has never been a sex thing for me so maybe i'm not the best one to provide a response.