There does seem to be a lot of us, but it also seems that any who identify, live too far apart. It would be nice if there was some form of identification for guys in our towns and neighborhoods that would like to play, so we would know who to approach.
There does seem to be a lot of us, but it also seems that any who identify, live too far apart. It would be nice if there was some form of identification for guys in our towns and neighborhoods that would like to play, so we would know who to approach.
CuriousGuyVa
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Truth there! Got to wonder out of all the guys you meet or pass by during the course of a day has the same feelings and interests, and wondering the same thing.
I have thought the same thing many times. I would say many of them do.
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Isn't there an app where men and women who want to play - can simply leave their coordinates?
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I travel though a few "rest stops" looking for others that might be interested, but it's hard to tell.
bicuriousairman
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Yeah, how do you figure out if someone is into that at a rest stop? I'd love to stroke with another man there.
I typically like to have a buddy, that way you can get comfortable with the person and really have fun and enjoy yourself. Every time Im with a new guy, which isnt that often mind you, I always worry about are they enjoying it, is what Im doing making them feel good, should I swallow, what kind of things would he let me do, etc. With a buddy you already know all of that, and can do it.
On the flip side, there's always that "newness factor" where you always get to have a first time. EVERYONE knows that first time is the most exciting. BUT, there's also that increased risk of catching something.
On the flip side, there's always that "newness factor" where you always get to have a first time. EVERYONE knows that first time is the most exciting. BUT, there's also that increased risk of catching something.
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If only you could know....
There needs to be a signal of some kind
I can think of some signals...
Guy moving his tongue around suggestively, while looking straight at me.
I was fully clothed, a dude stared hard at my cock, hidden behind blue jeans, then looks me in the eye.
Some minor obvious chit chat, the staring at my junk.
Twice, guys moving their heads to show me their earrings, then smiling.
This was from a girl, but it could have been a guy. She made the unmistakable hand motion of jerking off.
Guy walked up to me in the park and started an innocent conversation, turned it to sex, talked about how much he loved sucking cock and getting fucked in the ass. Promised a very good experience if I went with him.
Another similar case in a library, gay guy started talking innocently, then led it into sex, all the ways and reasons I should try him out.
I took a ride from a guy, he moved the conversation to sex, then started with little almost accidental touches, when I didn't complain they got more direct. That wound up being a blow job in the woods. Very erotic and surprising.
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Thanks so much for the suggestions, but unfortunately none of these things have ever happened to me
Maybe I'm in the wrong crowd.
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Gee Whiz, Lazy_lay -- you've gotta have it going on in a big way to have all of those things coming your way!
Yeah!
Some of them were at the wrong time, so nothing happened. But there certainly are a lot of signals going on. Probably you just don't see them or tune them out.
Signalling is a two way process. I think people get numb and don't even think to move a stranger out of the non-person category. But these signals I noted were between myself and complete strangers. Maybe that's more a part of guy guy sex than other types.
How about going into a fast food restruant and just calling the people in their by their names on their nametags. "Thanks, Sally." Or, "Thank you very much, Robert."
Maybe I'm not paying attention or maybe I'm just around the wrong people. Have to be cautious who you send those signals to.
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Agree -- signalling doesn't mean anything if the other party isn't capable of receiving. I was walking downtown long ago approaching a guy around my same age coming in the opposite direction. He made a sign with his hands - something I'd never seen before - and when he saw that I didn't recognize the sign, his face glazed over and he just kept walking.
I have no idea what I missed out on. Sex? Drugs? Alien abduction? It wasn't my day to find out.
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I had a guy come up to me in Vegas while I was with some straight friends. He bought me a couple of drinks and wanted to take pics with me. During the convo, he brought up LGBT issues. I got it, but couldn't let on with my friends there. I'm not out at all. He left before I had a chance to invite him to my room. MISSED OPPORTUNITY with a nice looking guy.
Now, that is a damn shame!
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Worried, but hoping...............
One night while after the women had gone to bed my friensd and i chatted standing up in the dining rrom drinking. We was pretty sloshed. Don't know how it came up, but somehow I opened his fly pulled out his beautiful big cock. Put it in my mouth. Kissed him on his hot lips several times. Wanted more. Stopped then we sat down on a bench seat, reclined back and he went down on me after fishing out my small cock. Next I pushed him back and grabbed his cock and sucked him dry. I was in heaven. He came in my mouth I swallowed the lot. I then kissed him again. Gorgeous lips.
Next day, some 20 hours later, we had a conversation. I kept trying to feel him up and kissed him a couple of times. He ws trying to put me off with some issue. I asked him why? Wanted to try it.......... OK so that waas the end of it.
I am hoping he will try again, with me, soon.
Both married. Is he likely to turn? Even for just suck buddy?
I really hope so. He has a lovely cock and I want to suck it, continuously.
One night while after the women had gone to bed my friensd and i chatted standing up in the dining rrom drinking. We was pretty sloshed. Don't know how it came up, but somehow I opened his fly pulled out his beautiful big cock. Put it in my mouth. Kissed him on his hot lips several times. Wanted more. Stopped then we sat down on a bench seat, reclined back and he went down on me after fishing out my small cock. Next I pushed him back and grabbed his cock and sucked him dry. I was in heaven. He came in my mouth I swallowed the lot. I then kissed him again. Gorgeous lips.
Next day, some 20 hours later, we had a conversation. I kept trying to feel him up and kissed him a couple of times. He ws trying to put me off with some issue. I asked him why? Wanted to try it.......... OK so that waas the end of it.
I am hoping he will try again, with me, soon.
Both married. Is he likely to turn? Even for just suck buddy?
I really hope so. He has a lovely cock and I want to suck it, continuously.
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Having been introduced to sucking by my uncle I then went on to doing the same with friends who were all eager to try it during early teens
I can think of a couple of times that guys struck up conversations with me in hotel corridors while headed to a room. Sure, they could have just been making conversation but it's likely that wasn't the case. An interested stare at his junk and a suggestion to have a drink would likely have changed the course of the evening.
Then there was the time a guy, not a stranger but a work associate, grabbed my junk in the office elevator.
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I'd like to ride an elevator with you.
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I had lunch this weekend with a life-long friend that I haven't physically seen in several years. We communicate via Facebook, etc. and have known each other since high school.
He's married (like me) and has children (my wife and I do not). He and his wife work completely different schedules, hardly see each other, and I got the impression that they're not as "close" as they used to be.
Of all of the people that I could think of to be a suck buddy, he is the one that has always come to mind. He provided me with my first porn VHS video tapes when we were in high school. Back then I would try to get him to watch them with me, but he seemed disinterested/embarrassed to watch them in my presence. I've gone over the scenarios of what I could do to start discussing the subject of our sex lives, whether or not he seems sexually satisfied, inquire about his current porn usage, etc. If he started getting comfortable talking about those subjects I might bring up my evolving "curiosity" about cock sucking and judge his reaction.
I guess the most difficult task will be composing the sentence/phrase that makes him realize that relieving the pressure built up in his cock and balls into my mouth is an option he could exercise whenever he so chooses...
He's married (like me) and has children (my wife and I do not). He and his wife work completely different schedules, hardly see each other, and I got the impression that they're not as "close" as they used to be.
Of all of the people that I could think of to be a suck buddy, he is the one that has always come to mind. He provided me with my first porn VHS video tapes when we were in high school. Back then I would try to get him to watch them with me, but he seemed disinterested/embarrassed to watch them in my presence. I've gone over the scenarios of what I could do to start discussing the subject of our sex lives, whether or not he seems sexually satisfied, inquire about his current porn usage, etc. If he started getting comfortable talking about those subjects I might bring up my evolving "curiosity" about cock sucking and judge his reaction.
I guess the most difficult task will be composing the sentence/phrase that makes him realize that relieving the pressure built up in his cock and balls into my mouth is an option he could exercise whenever he so chooses...
