Suck buddy: friend or someone new?

[nkdoldman]

You bet!!!!

"Why, no, of course not, you're not crazy."

"So we think the same way. This is what I want to try." (bring up this full screen on computer)

http://xhamster.com/movies/4991787/close_up_deepthroat_slow_blowjob_cum_in_mouth.html

"Would you like that?"

(sliding down to knees on floor...)

Not only YES, but HELL YES!!!!

 

[oralgami]

When I first started accepting the fact that I was turned on by the idea of having oral sex with other guys enough to actually want to try it if the opportunity came along, that lead to the next obvious problem - who could I get to do it with?

It would have to be someone I trusted enough so that I felt comfortable and wouldn't have to worry about discovery or about any health or safety issues. Accordingly, I started to think about friends who might be receptive. I found that the idea of discussing the subject with a friend was problematic for two reasons - you never know for sure how they might respond and it too easy for my secret to inadvertently get out regardless of whether or not they are receptive. Moreover, adding a sexual dimension to a friendship will change your relationship. Maybe he'll back out after you held up your end of mutual encounter. Maybe you'll be too inhibited because you are afraid of what he might think if you let yourself get carried away.

I always preferred encounters with carefully selected people who live at least 15 miles away and we don't know each other. I've had a few become friends - which is fine - but I don't know how to go about it with someone who is already a friend.

 

[Biguy625]

The first three guys were from swinger sites online. The current guy was found by my wife. She seen a co-worked watching gay porn on his computer. He apologized to her, but she told him no reason to apologize because my husband is into it also. They talked, we txt'ed and within the week we gave each other blow jobs. Its been ongoing for several months now!

 

[bluesbreaker_69]

friend or stranger

For those of you fortunate enough to have (or have had) a suck buddy, I am interested to know if it was a friend that you had before that became a FWB or did you go out and meet someone new to satisfy your craving for cock?

FYI: for me it was a friend! although I did meet someone new (and very hot!) through Lit as well so I guess you could say I go both ways!

its not always easy to talk with a male friend about cock sucking, strangers are easier in this respect unless you know that the friend is a willing cock sucker

 

[where_is_RUTH]

its not always easy to talk with a male friend about cock sucking, strangers are easier in this respect unless you know that the friend is a willing cock sucker

and some are people that you'd never suspect. if only there were no restraints (real life)

 

[sterculius]

The first three guys were from swinger sites online. The current guy was found by my wife. She seen a co-worked watching gay porn on his computer. He apologized to her, but she told him no reason to apologize because my husband is into it also. They talked, we txt'ed and within the week we gave each other blow jobs. Its been ongoing for several months now!

How unusual! You're a very fortunate man to have a wife who not only knows about your interest, but is willing to assist you in your pursuit of cock. If only my wife could be that understanding.

 

[pantyfreak]

Same boat

I consider myself curious. I've had a couple of encounters but never to the extent I wanted. I have posted on CL but it seems no one really wants to meet. I know there has to be men on there with similar interests, but I haven't found them yet. I long to have a suck buddy that would allow me time to explore and play. Someday it will happen. It might even be someone I meet on here. So if anyone is near NW Indiana send a pm and we can chat.

 

[Lazy_lay]

its not always easy to talk with a male friend about cock sucking, strangers are easier in this respect unless you know that the friend is a willing cock sucker

It can be done. "Sorry I can't keep my eyes off that girl. She reminds me of one that was , well she was like a vacuum cleaner with no off switch when she went down. Damn I wish she was still around. Want to see what I'm talking about?"

http://xhamster.com/movies/4175746/deepthroat_did_he_cum.html

 

[mtsnowrider]

When I first started accepting the fact that I was turned on by the idea of having oral sex with other guys enough to actually want to try it if the opportunity came along, that lead to the next obvious problem - who could I get to do it with?

It would have to be someone I trusted enough so that I felt comfortable and wouldn't have to worry about discovery or about any health or safety issues. Accordingly, I started to think about friends who might be receptive. I found that the idea of discussing the subject with a friend was problematic for two reasons - you never know for sure how they might respond and it too easy for my secret to inadvertently get out regardless of whether or not they are receptive. Moreover, adding a sexual dimension to a friendship will change your relationship. Maybe he'll back out after you held up your end of mutual encounter. Maybe you'll be too inhibited because you are afraid of what he might think if you let yourself get carried away.

I always preferred encounters with carefully selected people who live at least 15 miles away and we don't know each other. I've had a few become friends - which is fine - but I don't know how to go about it with someone who is already a friend.

I think you are right that meeting someone when you know ahead of time that you are both interested is much safer than raising the question with someone you already know. If you become friends it's great. Happened to me once years ago and I still think about and miss that FWB.

 

[mrdiscreetshh]

Someone new who could become my best friend
One day...

 

[bc_smash]

Was a friend. But wasn't planned... just happened.

 

[confused_male]

Please someone message me - the older the better. I love old dudes.

 

[gk6h]

The first three guys were from swinger sites online. The current guy was found by my wife. She seen a co-worked watching gay porn on his computer. He apologized to her, but she told him no reason to apologize because my husband is into it also. They talked, we txt'ed and within the week we gave each other blow jobs. Its been ongoing for several months now!

that is awesome

 

[Francis123]

sucking a friends cock and fucking

Tristan, your posts always make me so hard! Thank you for sharing.

I was a Merchant Marine Eng. For years and had a room steward that was Gay and used to come to my room late and suck my cock and we got to fucking and enjoying one another .Verry safe as to go to sea on an amerikan ship It is mandatory to get tested for drugs and hiv before sailing . But we eventualy found another partner on the same ship

 

[Francis123]

such buddy Friend

QUOTE=mtsnowrider;68049475]Had a suck buddy for a few years who I met in an AOL chat room. Think I'd feel funny about someone I already knew. Advantage of the water met was that we were both upfront about what we were looking for. First meeting was a bit shaky ( my nerves) but it got way better over time. I eventually got paranoid about being caught and broke off. Very stupid move which I really regret. Would love to have that connection back because I have since discovered that casual hook ups do not work for me.[/QUOTE]

Yes I Had one for years started off just a ski friend until we both got realy horny one night in a motel in separate rooms and i had some BI porn video i had wired into the tv back then ,we watched it and i guess it was my cock got hard first or second , But we ended up with our paints down and jerking off and i gave him his first blow job frome another Guy ..we were better friends after that and did a lot of skiing together , couldent wait for the break times

 

[txfuncouple]

The first three guys were from swinger sites online. The current guy was found by my wife. She seen a co-worked watching gay porn on his computer. He apologized to her, but she told him no reason to apologize because my husband is into it also. They talked, we txt'ed and within the week we gave each other blow jobs. Its been ongoing for several months now!

That has to be the perfect world. Wifey bringing home cocks for you to suck for her. Lucky man!

 

[Jenna2641]

That has to be the perfect world. Wifey bringing home cocks for you to suck for her. Lucky man!

The perfect scenario! Yummy!

 

[htobeme5]

win win for the woman

a mmf is a winner for the woman even if she only fucks her husband. If she likes semen, there would be plenty to go around for the three of us.

 

[dacoach44]

Not easy

Town of 2000, I am not gay, and I am new to this and old. But, I love a challenge! You gotta be retired to find sissies and CD's due to where I live, but I live for a sissydate, and I have several a year. They do not disappoint!

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Buddy or one who becomes one... we'd have to get to know each other really well.

 

[gk6h]

be fun to find a good buddy like that

 

[tweek20008]

still looking for a buddy

 

[blowit]

still looking for a buddy

Loads of us are.

 

[klippert]

rather be someone I knew..

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

That would work for anyone wanting to get or give head (he says as he unbuttons his pants and guides your mouth onto his hard cock and pushes it into your throat).

I think I could make a new friend this way.