swinging lifestyle

[Representingmyhotwife]

Im looking for a bull to satisfy my wife

 

[magic_rat]

You and a million other cucks. There are plenty of men looking to satisfy your fantasy. If you actually want it (rather than just jerking off thinking about it) they’re easy to find.

 

[Representingmyhotwife]

How do i find them?

 

[magic_rat]

Join fabswingers. That is, assuming she's into it as well.

 

[magic_rat]

I'm not a cuck. I played with the idea for a few years with my ex, but it's not me.

I like to share my current partner. She likes a big cock. I'm not bothered or phased by that, I know I can satisfy her, but sometimes she likes to be stretched. There are no shortage of men out there on fab willing to oblige and a couple of them have become close friends and regular playmates too. They're not bulls, just hung guys happy to be part of our arrangement.

 

[magic_rat]

I guess were making some progress...while we were having sex this weekend, i brought up going to a sex club so we could be watched while having sex. She really likes that idea and is willing to start there. Maybe more will happen in that environment but if not, its a start. Were starting to research places to see what looks like would be a good place to go.

Do your research, read reviews.

My partner is into the swinging lifestyle, she's had a lot of cock but was nervous about her first club visit. We agreed to go just to hang out and absorb the atmosphere, without any pressure to play. We talked to several other couples and some single guys and she was put at ease fairly quickly. We didn't play but had reat sex after.

The second visit, she made a beeline for the gloryholes (she loves to suck) and spent about an hour there. Later in the evening I took her to a private room with 2 other men and she enjioyed herself immensely.

So take it slow. Go with no expectations. Choose the venue wisely. It may pay dividends. Most people I know who've dipped their toe in the club scene will keep going back. Not always for sex with others, some just like to absorb the sexual atmosphere, watch others fucking, then go home for amazing sex. Some launch themselves in and participate. Do what you BOTH feel comfortable with and never pressure to go further. If she wants to, and she feels safe and supported, you may be amazed by where she wants to go. I know I was.

Would love to hear about more peoples experiences of having a s/o that was a little apprehensive about stepping into this lifestyle and how they overcame the apprehension to at least try it out.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Our venture into swinging was an extension from my bisexuality, my husband felt could be expanded on early in our marriage. He was accepting of the fact I was bi after I confessed it to him the second time we slept together. Several months later I was sharing him with a very good and very hot girlfriend with whom I was having sex off and on with for over two years. It was the first time he had ever seen two women together other than in porn. I was satisfied with just sharing him though the occasional thought of having two men on me did cause extreme dampness the more I dwelt on it.

After coaxing out of me my interest in having two men during a session where we were watching a woman being DP'd on a porn movie, we sought out and began attending a local swinger club in Myrtle Beach. Through a contact we had in the stripper community, we found out who to contact and where to go to seek out like minded people. We attended, watched others which got us both hot, and finally moved up to having full out sex in front of other people. The third time we did it in a semi private room I was on my back with my husband fucking me, when we noticed a very handsome single man watching stroking his cock. My husband looked at him then at me as he slowed, I glanced over at the stud I judged to be about our age, looked up at my husband and nodded in approval. My husband invited him over and he did so without hesitation. Soon I had the studs cock in my mouth and my husbands in my pussy. We never looked back after that night..

For some, the venture into swinging is best left to fantasy. We have seen the good, but we have also seen the bad, especially when one partner is hesitant or does not want it but the other forces it. We have sadly seen marriages destroyed.

But for those who love sex, love your spouse and can honestly say you trust them and gain much of your pleasure from watching them pleased, swinging can open wonderful doors of pleasure and if your bi like me, satisfy both needs without the guilt of cheating.

 

[NerdLooser79]

How do i find them?

Sls.com

 

[Sgts19]

SLS Swingerlifstyle Throw a few cropped pictures on and they'll be people who will contact you. We would meet for a drink with them, feel them and see what they were actually looking for. We turned down most for one reason or another. We ended that whole lifestyle thing because one of the men was obsessed with her and made her uncomfortable. To bad from what I heard he was a champion fuck

 

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

How do i find them?

https://swingershelp.com/

 

[BullMan1227]

If anyone wants to share pictures of each others wives or see my wife dm me. Always down to chat

 

[Dakotacpl]

Nudists and swingers here

 

[magicalmoments]

It's been many years since I've been actively looking. But the last time I looked I found them in personal adverts in adult magazines and weekly newspapers. I know that in NZ there are a couple of websites that specialise in "swingers" making contacts, these must exist in other parts of the world as well. I can't see how finding potential "swinging" friends would be difficult in this day and age.

 

[bigsexybna]

I’m slowly talking my gf into at least going and watching. Wish me luck.

 

[Kimlikes]

Yah im sure that is almost always gonna be the case. If my wife doesnt want to do it then i wouldnt force her. Our sex life is extremely good. I just want her to remain fully satisfied and if enjoying a 2nd cock while she is enjoying mine turns her on, then that turns me on. Or if she really gets off on the idea of finding a couple that we are comfortable with, then i want her to know that its an option.

You are so right, swinging is controlled mostly by the woman, men that are interested will try it out, a woman even if interested won’t play unless she is motivated and comfortable with what you’re planning

 

[Handydan]

If you're not swinging you're missing out on so much fun lolol

Very true!

 

[Kimlikes]

What excites you the most Handy

 

[MileHighBlackDiamond]

You are so right, swinging is controlled mostly by the woman, men that are interested will try it out, a woman even if interested won’t play unless she is motivated and comfortable with what you’re planning

We would agree, she has final say in all situations. From if she wants to entertain a single male or female, to if we are interested in a couple, as a pair. It could be either the woman or man she doesn't find any level of connection, and we won't proceed.

That said she doesn't ignore my opinion, so if she is all onboard and I'm not there, she respects that as well.

There have been a few occasions we met a couple and it wasn't till the 3rd or 4th time seeing them that things clicked for us and play ensued, you never know what factors will come into consideration.

 

[magic_rat]

For some, the venture into swinging is best left to fantasy. We have seen the good, but we have also seen the bad, especially when one partner is hesitant or does not want it but the other forces it. We have sadly seen marriages destroyed.

But for those who love sex, love your spouse and can honestly say you trust them and gain much of your pleasure from watching them pleased, swinging can open wonderful doors of pleasure and if your bi like me, satisfy both needs without the guilt of cheating.

Good advice. Swinging can make a strong relationship stronger but it won't save a bad one. I think some people go into it expecting that adding a bit of spice in the bedroom will cure all their problems. It won't.

 

[easyoff]

My wife and I were swingers for a few years and it was awesome. What surprised me the most was how many of our friends were into it too.

 

[LeaHaven]

My wife and I were swingers for a few years and it was awesome. What surprised me the most was how many of our friends were into it too.

OMG I can't imagine. Surprised isn't the word I would use if I were to run into friends while doing something like that! What does that look like?
"Oh, hi Bob. Hi Sarah. Small world, huh? Wanna fuck?"

 

[easyoff]

OMG I can't imagine. Surprised isn't the word I would use if I were to run into friends while doing something like that! What does that look like?
"Oh, hi Bob. Hi Sarah. Small world, huh? Wanna fuck?"

Not quite that direct, but that's pretty much what happens.

 

[LeaHaven]

Not quite that direct, but that's pretty much what happens.

It's bizarre, ngl

 

[LeaHaven]

The main reason my husband and I traveled an hour or more drive from home in the beginning was to avoid accidentally running into anyone we knew. As time went on we went to a much, much closer club that we ended up really liking. A few visits in we ran into a couple we knew. Never in a million years would we have done anything with them outside of that environment but once you're suddenly all standing there naked looking at each other it kinda makes sense to do it. We ran into more than a handful of people we knew there over time. It's almost always the ones you would never suspect lol

Once you go inside, everybody gets naked? The last thing I want to see is Bob and Sarah naked.

 

[easyoff]

Once you go inside, everybody gets naked? The last thing I want to see is Bob and Sarah naked.

Dave and Connie looked great naked