swinging lifestyle

[Representingmyhotwife]

Im looking for a bull to satisfy my wife

 

[magic_rat]

You and a million other cucks. There are plenty of men looking to satisfy your fantasy. If you actually want it (rather than just jerking off thinking about it) they’re easy to find.

 

[Representingmyhotwife]

How do i find them?

 

[magic_rat]

Join fabswingers. That is, assuming she's into it as well.

 

[magic_rat]

I'm not a cuck. I played with the idea for a few years with my ex, but it's not me.

I like to share my current partner. She likes a big cock. I'm not bothered or phased by that, I know I can satisfy her, but sometimes she likes to be stretched. There are no shortage of men out there on fab willing to oblige and a couple of them have become close friends and regular playmates too. They're not bulls, just hung guys happy to be part of our arrangement.

 

[magic_rat]

I guess were making some progress...while we were having sex this weekend, i brought up going to a sex club so we could be watched while having sex. She really likes that idea and is willing to start there. Maybe more will happen in that environment but if not, its a start. Were starting to research places to see what looks like would be a good place to go.

Do your research, read reviews.

My partner is into the swinging lifestyle, she's had a lot of cock but was nervous about her first club visit. We agreed to go just to hang out and absorb the atmosphere, without any pressure to play. We talked to several other couples and some single guys and she was put at ease fairly quickly. We didn't play but had reat sex after.

The second visit, she made a beeline for the gloryholes (she loves to suck) and spent about an hour there. Later in the evening I took her to a private room with 2 other men and she enjioyed herself immensely.

So take it slow. Go with no expectations. Choose the venue wisely. It may pay dividends. Most people I know who've dipped their toe in the club scene will keep going back. Not always for sex with others, some just like to absorb the sexual atmosphere, watch others fucking, then go home for amazing sex. Some launch themselves in and participate. Do what you BOTH feel comfortable with and never pressure to go further. If she wants to, and she feels safe and supported, you may be amazed by where she wants to go. I know I was.

Would love to hear about more peoples experiences of having a s/o that was a little apprehensive about stepping into this lifestyle and how they overcame the apprehension to at least try it out.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Our venture into swinging was an extension from my bisexuality, my husband felt could be expanded on early in our marriage. He was accepting of the fact I was bi after I confessed it to him the second time we slept together. Several months later I was sharing him with a very good and very hot girlfriend with whom I was having sex off and on with for over two years. It was the first time he had ever seen two women together other than in porn. I was satisfied with just sharing him though the occasional thought of having two men on me did cause extreme dampness the more I dwelt on it.

After coaxing out of me my interest in having two men during a session where we were watching a woman being DP'd on a porn movie, we sought out and began attending a local swinger club in Myrtle Beach. Through a contact we had in the stripper community, we found out who to contact and where to go to seek out like minded people. We attended, watched others which got us both hot, and finally moved up to having full out sex in front of other people. The third time we did it in a semi private room I was on my back with my husband fucking me, when we noticed a very handsome single man watching stroking his cock. My husband looked at him then at me as he slowed, I glanced over at the stud I judged to be about our age, looked up at my husband and nodded in approval. My husband invited him over and he did so without hesitation. Soon I had the studs cock in my mouth and my husbands in my pussy. We never looked back after that night..

For some, the venture into swinging is best left to fantasy. We have seen the good, but we have also seen the bad, especially when one partner is hesitant or does not want it but the other forces it. We have sadly seen marriages destroyed.

But for those who love sex, love your spouse and can honestly say you trust them and gain much of your pleasure from watching them pleased, swinging can open wonderful doors of pleasure and if your bi like me, satisfy both needs without the guilt of cheating.

 

[NerdLooser79]

How do i find them?

Sls.com

 

[Sgts19]

SLS Swingerlifstyle Throw a few cropped pictures on and they'll be people who will contact you. We would meet for a drink with them, feel them and see what they were actually looking for. We turned down most for one reason or another. We ended that whole lifestyle thing because one of the men was obsessed with her and made her uncomfortable. To bad from what I heard he was a champion fuck