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BiBunny said:
You've nailed me again. Between the laughing at people and making up one-liners that you figured out I do in this thread and the drinking whiskey and gambling that you figured out I do in the other thread, then I'm rapidly becoming a less witty version of Oscar Wilde or something.
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Ah but if Oscar Wilde had been a feisty switch woman... I'd have worshipped your... I mean her boots. :heart:
 
BiBunny said:
You've nailed me again. Between the laughing at people and making up one-liners that you figured out I do in this thread and the drinking whiskey and gambling that you figured out I do in the other thread, then I'm rapidly becoming a less witty version of Oscar Wilde or something.
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Or maybe I just like nailing you. :devil:

I have been told I'm a perv :cool:
 
PrincessGoddess said:
You are not the moderator or server operator. Your comment is disrespectful in that it is not directed towards what I have written. People, PLEASE! I should not have to get my cane out and cane ALL OF YOU to get you folks to be RESPECTFUL. Where are all the adults? Why did you post here? Cannot you find something better to do with your opinion when it is of no value here? Why don't you call your friends and complain about it. Most cell phone carriers provide free airtime on weekends. Leslie, The Princess Goddess Princess Angel
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honey, I wouldn't even waste FREE cell minutes talking about you.
 
If I didn't think this was some serious reading rainbow shit I would totally accept.
 
PrincessGoddess said:
A challenge she said? Yes, indeed. To any and all Dominants out there who may read this posting, I challenge you to a contest. Let us see who does a better job of teaching and training. The challenge is simple, and I will agree to pay up if I lose, in a public forum, in front of witnesses.

Here is the challenge:

Take a fresh, untainted, newbie sub; male or female. I have obtained mine. Train them using your methods and I shall use mine. The length of time before the final contest shall be two years from the day that the challenge is accepted. I will hold this challenge open for 6 months from today. I will withdraw my challenge if it is not accepted by January 5, 2009. If one or more Dominants accept my challenge, we shall all agree to exchange contact information and additionally agree to communicate with each other a minimum of once per month to discuss how our charges are fairing. At an agreed upon time after the 2 year period, we shall meet in a neutral, public location. I shall place my cane on a table. My challenger(s) shall place an instrument of pain of their choosing on the same table. I ask that their instrument be fairly close in size to my cane. We shall then task these subs with three simple tasks, which shall be agreed upon by all parties prior to the start of the contest. These tasks could be anything like, serving drinks, kneeling, or perhaps greeting their Mistress/Master, for example. The members of the audience would be the judges. By a show of hands, upon completion of the required tasks, the audience will be asked to vote upon which sub has the best smile, posture, and demeanor. If I lose, you may cane me. If you lose, then I will inflict punishment upon you with your own tool. The punishment period shall be 30 minutes in duration. Following the punishment period, the loser(s) shall kneel before the winner and state, on their knees, "I am a good Dominant, but not as talented as You."

I shall train the submissive I rule with positive reinforcement. I shall not use training methods that I feel have become nothing more than busy work for the sub, with them not growing, not learning, and the Dominant getting a small jolt to their ego. Things like: 3rd person speech, public humiliation, demeaning and degradating tasks, etc. I believe that a happy sub will perform any task in a pleasant, courteous fashion, even it they do not like that they have to do it. I shall use strict discipline and a reward/punishment system to measure learning and understanding on the sub's part. But I shall tend to lean more towards the reward and praise side of the equation. Bottom Line: My happy, fulfilled slave will perform better in a structured setting than your minimized, non-self, non-person, dirt has more value than slave, slave.

Is there anyone who thinks they have the nerve to accept my challenge? Personally, I think that there are far too many people on this board who are ALL TALK. I am willing to put my bottom up as collateral for my words.

Leslie, The Princess Goddess
Princess Angel
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There. Now, finally, I can begin to believe that you aren't a hyper-caffeinated 16 year old. First things first, what the fuck is up with your name? Any one of the three aforementioned titles would be sufficient. Are you trying to compansate for something? Did your mommy close your kick-ass Myspace account for fear of those damned "Internet pedophiles"?

Second, assuming that you aren't a teenager troll, are you fucking serious? This is a board for real players, not fantasy camp tops and bottoms. Half of these people have repeatedly posted pictures, attended events, and entertained me with their well thought out posts. You, OTOH, remind me of that Internet video with the complaining porn star. You know, the one who starts yelping about the lack of respect that she receives, only to find her words cut off in midstream by a hard cock. Did that happen to you? Did your "Dom hubby" come home and force you to blow his cock without washing it first? Did he slap you in the mouth as soon as you did your duty, then order you to lick up his hot seed before it stained his carpets? If so, you're taking it out on the wrong people. Fuck up your husband, not innocent people.

Last, you couldn't top me, not in your wildest dreams. I've watched more men die in front of me on any given year of my life, than you've probably seen die altogether. I've cucked more men than you've ever been forced to fuck. I've been hit harder than you, and I've dished out harder strikes than you could imagine. Who the fuck are you? Some bitch with a phrasebook and a bad attitude? Do you think that your ability to "force" a workplace subordinate to eat your pussy makes you a Domme? Ten minutes of frantic licking in a bathroomstall or supply cabinet isn't Domme behaviour. Hell, going to his house for your daily licking isn't Domme behaviour. Force him to sit in a corner with a video camera. Put on his chastity cage and force him to run the tape as you get fucked by a "better" man. Force him to lick up the residue, then beg the "better" man for the privilege of sucking the "better" cock. Stand aside and laugh as the "better" man slaps him away and calls him a "limp dicked faggot", with him knowing his role and agreeing with the statement. That's Domme behaviour. Sending him downstairs for beer as you get a second helping is Domme behaviour. Random bitching and whining is not proper Domme behaviour. It's teeniebopper LiveJournal bullshit. A real Domme would have ignored the slights, knowing that she was above any scrutiny because she's always right, even when shes wrong. Instead, you've added yourself to a long list of Lit Dumbasses. Have fun with that. I'll be here behind my keyboard, just like you.
 
I think perhaps miss Princess is getting a little harsh fairing here. There may not be many who agree with her style, or likes what she does, but please... Be respectful.

This is a place where anyone is supposed to be able to come with their kinks, their fantasies, and find acceptance, even though not always understanding.


Personally I managed to notice that she said that she worked through positive reinforcement, making her subs simply wish to adore her as the day was long through their own eager to serve. What is wrong with that?
 
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Mansa Musa said:
Put on his chastity cage and force him to run the tape as you get fucked by a "better" man. Force him to lick up the residue, then beg the "better" man for the privilege of sucking the "better" cock. Stand aside and laugh as the "better" man slaps him away and calls him a "limp dicked faggot", with him knowing his role and agreeing with the statement. That's Domme behaviour. Sending him downstairs for beer as you get a second helping is Domme behaviour.
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lol thats.... not domme behavior...

Domme behavior is knowing how to read your subs need and wants so that you can mold your behavior to fit their desires of servitude the best. Yes I said it.... To work actively to give your sub what he / she has always longed and dreamt for. To provide your sub with the things that the sub needs to have thier greatest inner desires fulfilled.
It is *goes to a whisper* to love your sub. Did i say that to loud? ;)


Som subs want and need it like you described. But to think that this is the norm for all subs is horrendously short-sighted.


But by all means, if you have the right way, why not show up and prove to her how much better trained your subs are? Or even more; how happy and fullfilled they are? :)
 
Hey Leslie,

Weren't you the same Princess Goddess who was unsure of where she stood, and had always been a sub? You said you never actually dommed before. Now within the space of two days you're challenging Dom duels?????

Just a little perplexed (are you an alt?).

Oh well if you find a Muppet silly enough to be used like a gambling chip then much luck to you. A good Domme has nothing to prove...........
 
Kathykitten said:
I think perhaps miss Princess is getting a little harsh fairing here. There may not be many who agree with her style, or likes what she does, but please... Be respectful.

This is a place where anyone is supposed to be able to come with their kinks, their fantasies, and find acceptance, even though not always understanding.


Personally I managed to notice that she said that she worked through positive reinforcement, making her subs simply wish to adore her as the day was long through their own eager to serve. What is wrong with that?
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Respect is earned, at least here. There was no initial harshness except I asked if the idea of a 2 year competition was serious and noted on a personal basis I don't feel the need to compete and explained why. That is not disrespectful but drew a lot of abuse from the princess accompanied by a lecture on how I was not worthy of posting in 'her' thread because I am just a slave and sub/slaves IHO have no worth or valid experience to even dare say anything to her...mind you, she identifies herself as a sub since 1974 (this posted as recent as Friday) so sort that one out. :confused: Apart from my own lectures from the princess (online and also continuously in PM after PM mostly in caps to emphasise her rage and self importance for me) who seems to have no credibility except for claiming to be the be all and end all of everything, including experienced Domming and a multitude of activities, everyone else has been abused as well if they don't bow down in worship to her supposed greatness....and which unless things have changed from when I left last night, no-one has.

If you read back and look at her words, you will see you are also not welcome in her threads as you identify as sub and sometimes switch...IHW, you have nothing worthwhile to offer and thus are banned from speaking to her...does that sound like the type Dominant you would find worthy of worship? Of course, early in the piece I politely (no, not sarcastically or rudely or abusively) enlightened the princess that by Lit rules, no-one who starts a thread owns that thread or can say who can post or in what manner or what to say...she continues to ignore that and claim ownership and tell people to leave the thread...can't sort out if it is arrogance or a lack of ability to comprehend simple rules of Lit when explained which continues to result in this type of abuse of the forum by her.

You might call that respect, but I don't nor do I take her seriously. Only a troll with little or no experience could sprout some of the prize statements heard in the last 24 hours. I have no problem with you (or anyone for that matter) but would think before claiming she has been treated harshly when most were polite and courteous and had nothing but abuse and discrimination in return, both on the forum and in PM deluge, myself included. While it is true that we try and respect everyone's view and choices here, it is not being reflected as the same by the princess though she expects us to be respectful of her...respect has to go both ways, she doesn't agree with that. I'm afraid the ego trip she is on is that despite publicly identifying as a sub herself, she wants everyone to act as if she is their Domme, and she wants everyone to agree with anything she says...that doesn't fly well here.

Kathykitten said:
Personally I managed to notice that she said that she worked through positive reinforcement, making her subs simply wish to adore her as the day was long through their own eager to serve. What is wrong with that?
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Nothing. You will find many here work with positive reinforcement. princessgoddess claims to be unique, but that just again shows a self focused view and lack of knowledge of how others interact with their own submissives. Add to that I doubt given she identifies as an experienced submissive and wife of a REAL DOMINATRIX as she informed me to impress me with her realness that she has a number of subs, not to mention ones who wish to adore her as the day is long, eager to serve her selflessly. Call me skeptical, but I just don't get a sense that the words add up to what is intended to be believed. In the past that served me well in finding an life partner through online talking so maybe it is an old habit of assessing the words which makes this all seem off base to me. Time will tell I guess.

Catalina:catroar:
 
Kathykitten said:
lol thats.... not domme behavior...

Domme behavior is knowing how to read your subs need and wants so that you can mold your behavior to fit their desires of servitude the best. Yes I said it.... To work actively to give your sub what he / she has always longed and dreamt for. To provide your sub with the things that the sub needs to have thier greatest inner desires fulfilled.
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I think then we come from opposite sides of the camp in defining what a sub is then. For me, I never expected a PYL to mold themselves to my desires and wants...in fact, the ones who expressed a desire to do so were crossed off the list quickly as HNG's. Being the PYL for your pyl is not about molding to the subs demands, it is about finding someone you match with well enough to make a go of a relationship on the terms you both wish, at least for me it is. It also can be about sharing a romantic based relationship alongside the D/s dynamic. Love does not mean the PYL jumps on the end of the string the pyl dangles, just they share a common goal and include love in the dynamic.

Catalina:catroar:
 
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