lil_slave_rose
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MasterPhoenix said:
heh..well i was tired when i posted...sorry..i meant CROP not cane
tayloring the punishment to the sub
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heh..well i was tired when i posted...sorry..i meant CROP not cane
Clamped Nips
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Thank you all for your responses. I have found all your comments interesting and food for thought.
I suppose I could have phrased this a bit better. I did not mean to make it seem like there is not a limit where I a particular stimulus would not cross over a threshold from erotic pain (my terminology) into PAIN (ouch that is not fun type of pain). But in my experience (limited tohugh it may be) Doms also have limits how much they are willing to inflict ( I admit I have never been with, nor am I particularly atracted to heavy sadists....just not my thing).
I have been diciplined for infractions with a belt. Did I find it praticularly painful?...no. Was it effective?...very much so. By simply saying that it was punishment for said infraction, made me not want to do it again (Being pleasing to my dom is very pleasurable for me and therefore knowing that I had done something that was not pleasing...is almost punishment in itself). Did the physical reinforcement (even if not particularly painful) help?...Yes. I guess I was really looking to see if people had similar experiences to this or if I was just weird. From some of the responses I have a feeling I may not be alone (though my weirdness may still be debatable for other reasons
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Ok and in a true, bake my noodle "Matrix" kind of moment "Would the punishment have been effective if it actually was REALLY PAINFUL?"...must ponder this more.
I really am sorry for the way I ramble. I have a very difficult time phrasing this type of stuff. It is all still quite new for me in terms of RL experience so it all gets muddled up in my brain.
Thanks again to all of you for helping me learn and understand. Any other thought on the topic will be welcomed also.
CN
I suppose I could have phrased this a bit better. I did not mean to make it seem like there is not a limit where I a particular stimulus would not cross over a threshold from erotic pain (my terminology) into PAIN (ouch that is not fun type of pain). But in my experience (limited tohugh it may be) Doms also have limits how much they are willing to inflict ( I admit I have never been with, nor am I particularly atracted to heavy sadists....just not my thing).
I have been diciplined for infractions with a belt. Did I find it praticularly painful?...no. Was it effective?...very much so. By simply saying that it was punishment for said infraction, made me not want to do it again (Being pleasing to my dom is very pleasurable for me and therefore knowing that I had done something that was not pleasing...is almost punishment in itself). Did the physical reinforcement (even if not particularly painful) help?...Yes. I guess I was really looking to see if people had similar experiences to this or if I was just weird. From some of the responses I have a feeling I may not be alone (though my weirdness may still be debatable for other reasons
)Ok and in a true, bake my noodle "Matrix" kind of moment "Would the punishment have been effective if it actually was REALLY PAINFUL?"...must ponder this more.
I really am sorry for the way I ramble. I have a very difficult time phrasing this type of stuff. It is all still quite new for me in terms of RL experience so it all gets muddled up in my brain.
Thanks again to all of you for helping me learn and understand. Any other thought on the topic will be welcomed also.
CN
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VelvetDarkness
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Knowing I've disappointed and upset Master puts me into punishment headspace. I won't enjoy what He does specifically because it is a chastisement, even if it falls within the limits of 'good' pain during play. Strangely, my pain threshold is greatly reduced when He punishes me. Being a sadist that frustrates Him because He doesn't feel able to dish out much of a spanking. He's pretty inventive though and recent tricks have included:
Facefucking me while my hands are cuffed. I find it much harder to tolerate when I know I can't gesture or communicate, even though He reads me well enough for it to be safe.
Savage anal lubricated with a warming lube that burns like fuck after the first minute or so.
Totally ignoring me, which like wenchie I simply cannot stand. He won't allow me to isolate myself either. He will make sure He's in the same room conspicuously behaving as though I'm not there.
So I haven't really become accustomed to any specific form of punishment - which renders them all terribly effective.
How I love that bastard *sigh*
Facefucking me while my hands are cuffed. I find it much harder to tolerate when I know I can't gesture or communicate, even though He reads me well enough for it to be safe.
Savage anal lubricated with a warming lube that burns like fuck after the first minute or so.
Totally ignoring me, which like wenchie I simply cannot stand. He won't allow me to isolate myself either. He will make sure He's in the same room conspicuously behaving as though I'm not there.
So I haven't really become accustomed to any specific form of punishment - which renders them all terribly effective.
How I love that bastard *sigh*
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