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InCNCestBangPie said:
It truly is, but it goes so far beyond conventional, finite intelligence. A person who is emotionally intelligent, whole, open, & unapologetically sensitive is attractive beyond mere words. Especially someone who uses that mental & emotional intelligence to speak out against issues that others would shy from, like racism & sexism. Intellect is far more than a stimulating conversation. It's knowing when you're wrong & not being afraid to ask to be educated.
Masculinity, confidence & physical attraction are all awesome, but they orbit around the seat of intelligence, wholeness, & awareness.
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"Real strength never impairs beauty." - Melville
 
TnA4U said:
... seductive verbal sparring ......very hot foreplay.
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I agree.
It's quite rare to see people appreciate the art of sparring. It's easy to be misconstrued as an argument. We spar with good faith without an intent to antagonize and it can even be playful or intensely playful. It's stimulating especially when it comes to sex. Similar to “humiliation”, negative on the surface but can be a powerful challenge to lead to the realm where one doesn't see it as a personal offense.
 
This is one of the primary disadvantages, in my estimation, of dating apps and internet conversations. So much of what is alluring is lost to superficial swiping.

An individual's demeanor and presence, through which confidence and intelligence are conveyed, are vital to appreciating and stoking sexual attraction.
 
TnA4U said:
This is one of the primary disadvantages, in my estimation, of dating apps and internet conversations. So much of what is alluring is lost to superficial swiping.

An individual's demeanor and presence, through which confidence and intelligence are conveyed, are vital to appreciating and stoking sexual attraction.
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So much is gained, and so much is lost with technology. The knife cuts both ways.

Romance is as difficult and easy as its always been.
 
TnA4U said:
This is one of the primary disadvantages, in my estimation, of dating apps and internet conversations. So much of what is alluring is lost to superficial swiping.

An individual's demeanor and presence, through which confidence and intelligence are conveyed, are vital to appreciating and stoking sexual attraction.
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I've never been down the rabbit hole of internet dating apps, nor do I expect to.

But your points about demeanor, presence and intelligence, however they were conveyed, led to a couple of longer term, extremely satisfying sexual relationships, and one marriage, my only one.

There's so much truth in this.
 
So, I've been chatting with a friend in the Literotica chatrooms for quite some time; literally, for years. We mainly talk about real life topics now, but in the beginning--- and still every now and then--- we'll get into these hours-long cybersex sessions. She and I jokingly refer to ourselves as an "online couple", and will secretly meet for "dates".

Now, I love my wife. I have a great marriage and an awesome real‐life sex life.

But I'd be lying if I said that these online chat sessions, where we rely solely on our words and imagination, can't almost be as satisfying as the real thing. That may sound strange to some people, but finding the right person to connect with in that kind of way can be a beautiful thing.

Escapism? Of course.
 
Syzoth said:
So, I've been chatting with a friend in the Literotica chatrooms for quite some time; literally, for years. We mainly talk about real life topics now, but in the beginning--- and still every now and then--- we'll get into these hours-long cybersex sessions. She and I jokingly refer to ourselves as an "online couple", and will secretly meet for "dates".

Now, I love my wife. I have a great marriage and an awesome real‐life sex life.

But I'd be lying if I said that these online chat sessions, where we rely solely on our words and imagination, can't almost be as satisfying as the real thing. That may sound strange to some people, but finding the right person to connect with in that kind of way can be a beautiful thing.

Escapism? Of course.
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I totally agree.

Good chats, masturbation, watching others fuck, porn, . . often better than sex.
 
goldenpalomino said:
To have someone understand your mind is a different kind of intimacy.
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I completely agree with that. It is the most important kind of intimacy for me.

I need someone with whom I can share my absolute innermost thoughts. Who will listen to whatever I have to say no matter how right or wrong it may be. Who will listen without judging me. Who will tell me when I'm wrong and why. Who will let me do the same for them. Who even when we can't agree will hold me and kiss me and tell me they love me.

Only once I have that level of intellectual intimacy can I hope to reach the levels of physical intimacy required for truly amazing sex.
 
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