The British are coming...Ooops, too late, the British are Here!

Part 2

The UK AH Ambassador continues.............

It’s Monday, Memorial Day, the weather is once again glorious, blue sky, sunshine and no wind. It’s going to be a scorcher, just right for all the myriad of exotic and intriguing tourists to return home after the holiday weekend. Gay men and lesbians of every size, shape, colour, size, race, age. Out and proud; surprisingly, to me at least, the lesbians are much more out, loud and proud than the gay men – especially the younger ones. The much younger ones. I think I’ve spent the last two days constantly reminding myself to close my jaw and stop staring. But its very hard when they are so…….noticeable. Oh, that life could have been this open to me years ago, how mine would have changed. At least, that’s what I tell myself now.

We have seen families, gay and straight; older straight couples, many of whom are walking round in obvious stunned amazement at the sights and sounds around them. A kaleidescope of humanity right before their eyes – defiantly happy, boisterous, visions that cannot be ignored, will not be ignored.

I digress. As usual.

Yes, today the holiday visitors, which our hosts informed us, are ‘the great unwashed of Boston’ here for the weekend, will pack up and return to their homes, in preparation for a return to their everyday lives tomorrow.

I suspect that some will remain, those that have taken this whole week as holiday. Back in England this day is also a public holiday, originally called Whit Monday, (Whitsun, another name for Pentecost), a traditional religious holiday. In our modern times of non-religious bias, it is now simply know as May Bank Holiday. It is also the first day of the summer half term break for the schools. Whether it is the same over here, I know not.

For the last two days, we have thoroughly enjoyed strolling the streets – as far as is possible in the narrowness of the road and the throng of bodies – people watching, window shopping, even some real shopping. Checking out the many, many eateries; strolling along the near empty beach – a sweeping curve of almost pristine sand, dotted with some of the smoothest pebbles I have ever seen, and a few shells gleaming chalky white on the outside, and an iridescent silver on the inside – Cloudy informed me they are abalone. I bow to her local knowledge, as I’ve never seen them before. So very unlike the cockles, winkles, limpet and whelk shells which litter English beaches.

Behind the beach the curve is lined by a continuous row of houses, restaurants, art galleries, specialist stores selling such things as hammocks and swing chairs; another selling the most magnificent kites I have ever seen; all the buildings made of timber, the beams weathered a comfortable grey from the sea air, and those that stand on pilings - a smaller version of the pier which stretches out into the bay – also weathered by the sea itself which often comes right up the beach to lick at them, and on stormy rough days, pound them mercilessly.

We have wandered through tiny, intriguing shops selling hand made pottery, ethnic clothing, beading, silver jewellery, expensive designer clothing, hats – Cloudy bought one so perfect for her, my turn next, but despite popular conception I have a very small head. I do !! Honest !! - several purchases have been made including a pack of playing cards and a cribbage board. I have so successfully taught Cloudy to play, that she beat me two out of three games!!

Yesterday after strolling the beach, going in and out of so many shops, enjoying a delicious lunch in a terraced restaurant, watching the world go by below us, we returned to the apartment and did the only sensible thing – took a nap, for which we were volubly chastised by Vella when we spoke on the telephone later. I refuse to use her actual words, I’m a lady, and I don’t use language like that.

The evening was one of complete relaxation, once again strolling the street amongst the even more boisterous visitors – perhaps realising their time of manic freedom was almost over, they were squeezing every last second of enjoyment out of their final day.

This time supper consisted of a take-away pizza and two large bottles of coke. After eating, the evening was very pleasant and relaxed, playing cards, occasionally taking a break outside for a smoke, with no stress or pressure to do anything except what we wanted.

[to be continued, yet again]
 
Hugs and :kiss:es.

I so enjoy reading your journal. Thanks for sharing, Mat.

:D
 
matriarch said:
The UK AH Ambassador continues.............

It’s Monday, Memorial Day, the weather is once again glorious, blue sky, sunshine and no wind. It’s going to be a scorcher, just right for all the myriad of exotic and intriguing tourists to return home after the holiday weekend. Gay men and lesbians of every size, shape, colour, size, race, age. Out and proud; surprisingly, to me at least, the lesbians are much more out, loud and proud than the gay men – especially the younger ones. The much younger ones. I think I’ve spent the last two days constantly reminding myself to close my jaw and stop staring. But its very hard when they are so…….noticeable. Oh, that life could have been this open to me years ago, how mine would have changed. At least, that’s what I tell myself now.

We have seen families, gay and straight; older straight couples, many of whom are walking round in obvious stunned amazement at the sights and sounds around them. A kaleidescope of humanity right before their eyes – defiantly happy, boisterous, visions that cannot be ignored, will not be ignored.

I digress. As usual.

Yes, today the holiday visitors, which our hosts informed us, are ‘the great unwashed of Boston’ here for the weekend, will pack up and return to their homes, in preparation for a return to their everyday lives tomorrow.

I suspect that some will remain, those that have taken this whole week as holiday. Back in England this day is also a public holiday, originally called Whit Monday, (Whitsun, another name for Pentecost), a traditional religious holiday. In our modern times of non-religious bias, it is now simply know as May Bank Holiday. It is also the first day of the summer half term break for the schools. Whether it is the same over here, I know not.

For the last two days, we have thoroughly enjoyed strolling the streets – as far as is possible in the narrowness of the road and the throng of bodies – people watching, window shopping, even some real shopping. Checking out the many, many eateries; strolling along the near empty beach – a sweeping curve of almost pristine sand, dotted with some of the smoothest pebbles I have ever seen, and a few shells gleaming chalky white on the outside, and an iridescent silver on the inside – Cloudy informed me they are abalone. I bow to her local knowledge, as I’ve never seen them before. So very unlike the cockles, winkles, limpet and whelk shells which litter English beaches.

Behind the beach the curve is lined by a continuous row of houses, restaurants, art galleries, specialist stores selling such things as hammocks and swing chairs; another selling the most magnificent kites I have ever seen; all the buildings made of timber, the beams weathered a comfortable grey from the sea air, and those that stand on pilings - a smaller version of the pier which stretches out into the bay – also weathered by the sea itself which often comes right up the beach to lick at them, and on stormy rough days, pound them mercilessly.

We have wandered through tiny, intriguing shops selling hand made pottery, ethnic clothing, beading, silver jewellery, expensive designer clothing, hats – Cloudy bought one so perfect for her, my turn next, but despite popular conception I have a very small head. I do !! Honest !! - several purchases have been made including a pack of playing cards and a cribbage board. I have so successfully taught Cloudy to play, that she beat me two out of three games!!

Yesterday after strolling the beach, going in and out of so many shops, enjoying a delicious lunch in a terraced restaurant, watching the world go by below us, we returned to the apartment and did the only sensible thing – took a nap, for which we were volubly chastised by Vella when we spoke on the telephone later. I refuse to use her actual words, I’m a lady, and I don’t use language like that.

The evening was one of complete relaxation, once again strolling the street amongst the even more boisterous visitors – perhaps realising their time of manic freedom was almost over, they were squeezing every last second of enjoyment out of their final day.

This time supper consisted of a take-away pizza and two large bottles of coke. After eating, the evening was very pleasant and relaxed, playing cards, occasionally taking a break outside for a smoke, with no stress or pressure to do anything except what we wanted.

[to be continued, yet again]

Mat,

It's fun reading this and it brings back memories. (I lived a ways further down Cape for 23 years and made it to P'Town at least a few times each year.)

Those shells you're talking about? I believe, without seeing one, that they may be what we called "Slipper" Shells. There were a number of people in ProvinceTown who made jewelry our of them.

Cat
 
Queenie, you do realize that you are setting a precedent? I will now have to take notes on me, 'Dita, Min & Alyxen (& hopefully LadyJ and Luc)...
 
we were volubly chastised by Vella when we spoke on the telephone later. I refuse to use her actual words, I’m a lady, and I don’t use language like that.
hrmf! whats wrong with my language?!
i'm loving your entries, sweetness. i concur with everyone else, please continue.
:kiss: to a lovely hobbit. :heart:
 
I'm delighted to see you are all enjoying my reminisces.........I'm touched.

Thank you.

More later.

:kiss:
 
Part III - The Weather (oh come on......I'm British, we talk about it all the time!)

I will never understand how two consecutive days in the same place can be so different when it comes to weather.

We had gone to bed, after experiencing heat so strong, that at one point, even Cloudy could not sit out in it on the deck to smoke a cigarette, so if the ‘hot house flower of Alabama’ couldn’t stand it, imagine how the British ice cube felt!!

But the very next day, after Memorial Weekend had drawn to a noisy, exuberant close, we awoke to fog. Cold, damp, and a cloying silence that was so completely at odds with the noise and bustle of the weekend, that I almost began to believe I had imagined it all, and just perfect for the whale-watching trip we had booked for that afternoon!!

I had chosen the time of my holiday carefully, in the hope of warmth and sunshine, but without having to endure the extreme heat of summer, which I knew would be intolerable to me. I have had an inefficient body thermostat for as long as I can remember, and now add the delights of menopausal hot flushes, and you’ll see the problem.

My arrival in New York, 5 days ago, had coincided apparently with an unusual belt of very hot weather, which only increased as time went on. Thankfully, my first hours were the evening, and these were spent in a restaurant close to my hotel, having dinner with two friends in an establishment with very efficient air conditioning. My room had air conditioning and a ceiling fan (luxuries almost unheard of in British hotels – one simply opens a window !!). My first full day, was delightfully warm at the start, if not a tad oppressive when hemmed in by the tall buildings. Thankfully my sea-loving soul had drawn me to Manhattan Waterfront, and the growing heat of the day had been cooled by the breeze coming directly from the water. It wasn’t until I ventured back to my hotel, only a few blocks, and maybe a twenty minute walk away, that the temperature then became oppressive. I have no idea how hot it was, but it was way and above anything I’d experienced in Britain in the previous months.

I had spent a few hours in my room, trying to stay cool with the help of the a/c and the fan, trying to nap (I was still adjusting to NY time), and in a fit of restlessness, gave up and ventured out into the nearby streets to sample the delights of local stores. Twice during the day, I had experienced the helpful assistance of two of New York’s inhabitants, both of my enquiries having elicited the same response, “Que?”. I hoped that I would fare better during this outing.

From the minute I stepped out of the hotel door, I had the immediate thought that this had been a bigggg mistake. The oppressive heat of earlier was intensified with dust, exhaust fumes and the multitude making their way home, I presume, after a working day. Occasional shade could be found if you walked on one side of the street, but of course, sod’s law decreed, that the shops that caught my attention were on the side in full sun. C’est la vie.

I wandered aimlessly along, turning corners haphazardly, trying to remember how many twists and turns, so I could get back to the hotel and not be doomed to wandering the streets of Manhattan all evening. I tried on hats (hilarious), checked out shoe shops (all hand made ma’am, the best you can get), clothing, bags, cigarettes, liquor; all small and accessible. Finally, I ventured into a small, crowded bag store, and while the owner conversed on his cell-phone in a dialect completely incomprehensible to me, and apparently oblivious to my presence, I enjoyed the bliss of a few minutes of shade while I surveyed the wall of bags before me. Having used his premises to cool off before disappearing into a wet puddle on the sidewalk, I thought it incumbent on me to make a purchase and watched in admiration as he used what looked like a grappling hook to take down the bag I had chosen, way above either of our heads, without disturbing any of the others.

I had sent Abs and Becca a text message, informing them I was ‘out, walking the streets’ (an attempt at ribald humour, which I believe did make them grin when they received it), but now decided I’d had enough of New York’s heat and made my way back to the hotel, for the comfort of my a/c.

The temperature in no way abated, and the evening spent with Abs and Becca, was made delightful and bearable by once again making our way to the waterfront, strolling in the evening sun and enjoying a meal together in a swish Chinese restaurant at the base of the World Finance Centre (note my spelling). We returned to the hotel by way of a liquor store to collect something to drink while we spent a very pleasant time getting to know each other better. Much better.

After they had retired for the evening, the heat was such that I had to endure the noise of my own a/c all night, as well as the large unit outside my window which this night stayed on the whole time.

Saturday morning, when we toured Manhattan sights, and uptown Broadway, was, if possible, even hotter. I was in purgatory, my thermostat on permanent overload.

The air conditioned cab to Newark airport, and the coolness of the airport when I finally settled into wait for Cloudy was a very welcome relief, as was the cool air system in the plane, and cold drink, during the very short hop to Boston. I melted slowly onto the pier while we sat waiting to board the ferry to P-town, but even I didn't venture outside on the boat while it zipped along at a very respectable speed (I did have a few giggles watching Cloudy trying to light a cigarette outside on the deck, in the almost stormlike strength of the wind caused by the speed of the boat.)

Saturday evening, the whole of Sunday, and even more so on Monday had been more of the same. Continuous, strong, vibrant heat – as unexpected as it was pleasant – most of the time.

as before........to be continued, and for the first time, some pics.
 

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matriarch said:
I had sent Abs and Becca a text message, informing them I was ‘out, walking the streets’ (an attempt at ribald humour, which I believe did make them grin when they received it), but now decided I’d had enough of New York’s heat and made my way back to the hotel, for the comfort of my a/c.

The temperature in no way abated, and the evening spent with Abs and Becca, was made delightful and bearable by once again making our way to the waterfront, strolling in the evening sun and enjoying a meal together in a swish Chinese restaurant at the base of the World Finance Centre (note my spelling). We returned to the hotel by way of a liquor store to collect something to drink while we spent a very pleasant time getting to know each other better. Much better.

Yes, we were laughing our asses off and hoping like hell you knew what you said....:D

God you're good at being vague....I think I need to take lessons from you, and I know Abs would agree. I really lack that ability.

Oh, and I love the pictures, especially the last one...that's now on my computer. :p
 
RebeccaLeah said:
Yes, we were laughing our asses off and hoping like hell you knew what you said....:D

God you're good at being vague....I think I need to take lessons from you, and I know Abs would agree. I really lack that ability.

Oh, and I love the pictures, especially the last one...that's now on my computer. :p


Vague is essential to protect the innocent...ME !!!!! ;) :kiss: :devil:

More to come this weekend.......I'm almost at the end of what I wrote before Mindy, Lucky and Vella arrived at P-town. After that, no writing was done AT ALL. I have a lot to catch up on, so I'll be busy writing this weekend, and working on resizing a lot more pictures.

:kiss:
 
matriarch said:
Vague is essential to protect the innocent...ME !!!!! ;) :kiss: :devil:

More to come this weekend.......I'm almost at the end of what I wrote before Mindy, Lucky and Vella arrived at P-town. After that, no writing was done AT ALL. I have a lot to catch up on, so I'll be busy writing this weekend, and working on resizing a lot more pictures.

:kiss:

Funny....innocent isn't a word I would directly relate to you. :p

:nana: :nana: :nana:
 
Part IV - Whale watching

Whale Watching.

My imagination had visualised this outing as one taken in bright sunshine, on a calm sea, sun glinting on the water, sitting outside on the boat, cooled by the spray, taking myriad pictures of magnificent animals basking obligingly alongside the boat.

Wrong.

The temperature had dropped overnight by at least 20 degrees. The day before we had taken a bus ride to a local wooded and lake park, north of the town, and walked slowly along the well laid out and maintained trails, which meandered around the very large lake. The ground beneath our feet had been dry and sandy. Very dry sand that is difficult to walk on, and gets inside sandals, irritating the skin. So naturally the easiest thing to do was remove the sandals. Big mistake. For me personally the sand was actually too hot to walk on, and the continuous carpet of debris and needles from the pines and beeches made it also quite painful. But mainly, and overwhelmingly, it was hot. Very, very hot, and I was becoming quite blasé about this continuous heat and sunshine, which even had me wearing shorts and a tank top in an effort to keep cool, while we enjoyed our takeaway pizza and iced coke for supper, over a pleasant evening of playing cards. So it was a complete and total shock to wake up on Tuesday morning to cool, damp conditions.

The sky was overcast, grey, depressing, there was a sharp cool wind blowing, and occasional flurries of rain, and a ceiling of low cloud, almost mist, that obscured the top of the Pilgrim Tower in the centre of town, which was usually completely visible from the decking outside our apartment. Perfect for being on the water. Not. We had dressed in warm clothes more fitting to an outing in England in March, rather than late May, early June.

The town appeared deserted, and we had wandered around the shops now with much more ease as the enormous crowds of the weekend had disappeared. The shops were even more welcoming oases of respite from the biting wind, and threatening rain. We decided on a light, warming lunch of soup and bread before the trip which was scheduled to begin at 1.30, and last for at least 3 hours. I can’t remember the last time I spent 3 hours on the water. I have never learned to swim, despite living by the sea all my life, and although its been some time since I was seasick (a weekend trip to Denmark – an 18 hour ferry ride across the roughest part of the North Sea), rough sea does make me nervous.

The boat was comfortable, had a bar and snack bar, and – thank god – toilets (we were instructed by our tour leader to call them ‘heads’, as befits all good sailors). These unfortunately were outside, at the stern of the boat, which meant accessing them by means of the narrow walkways down each side of the boat after leaving the warmth and relative comfort of the lounge area.

As we slowly manoeuvred our way out of the harbour, our tour guide, a lovely young woman who was a member of the Whale Research Organisation which used each of these trips to gather data for research, presented an informative talk on the whales we hoped to see (no guarantee, but if we don’t see any, each person gets a free pass to go on another trip), explaining the differences, and outlining on detailed charts the area we would be accessing in the hope of seeing these magnificent creatures.

Well, to cut a long story short, we did see whales. Two of them, an enormous fin whale and a smaller minkie. A truly awesome sight. A spout was spotted in the distance and we headed over to it, with everyone now crowding outside along the rails, making it almost impossible for a little squirt like me to get a good place to view and have camera ready. As it happened, when the boat settled in one spot, but with no anchor, the rocking caused by the waves, was quite unnerving, and both my hands were fully occupied holding on to side railing and safety bars. Not pleasant at all. The larger fin whale eventually surfaced a short distance away from us, the dorsal fin quite clearly visible in the grey-green water, a breathing spout shot up, everyone oo-ed and ah-ed, cameras were clicking away, and I did manage, between violent rocking, to get one picture of the curve of a long sleek back, out of the water, just before it dove again.

A couple more tour boats had arrived by then, and while waiting for the first whale to surface (anything from 3 to 19 minutes is normal on a dive, although they can hold their breath for up to 45 minutes), the smaller mink whale was spotted off the other bow. We spent around half an hour wallowing around in very choppy water, getting colder and colder (gloves had not been on my list for packing), until it was time for the boat to make its way back to harbour.

A cup of hot chocolate went some way to thawing out our hands, as we settled down in the packed cabin (all those who had been in the seats outside, on the upper deck, now crowded into the warmth of the inner cabin), for the 45 minute ride back to Provincetown. We entertained ourselves trying to identify the many different languages that could be heard from the other tourists in the cabin, chatting about what they had seen.

I wasn’t sure how my legs would feel when they returned to dry land, but any wobbliness I had expected soon disappeared, and all that was on our minds now was a visit to the ladies room at the end of the pier, and a warm meal. Fish and chips. It had to be fish and chips, and that’s what we had before returning to the apartment. We didn’t leave again after that, deciding to stay inside in the warm, reading, even watching tv for the first time, while I did some work on the photographs I had taken so far, and a couple of other items we needed to prepare for the weekend.

to be continued - eventually
 

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Sleep, Mats. Then continue. I'm loving reading about all I missed. :)
 
matriarch said:
[doublethreadjack]......I am playing Shania Twain....'Man I feel like a woman'....come on gorgeous, belt it out !!! [/doublethreadjack]

:D :D :D :D

Transplanting this. :D

*sings*
"The best thing about being a woman
Is the prerogative to have a little fun and... "​

:kiss:
 
impressive said:
Transplanting this. :D

*sings*
"The best thing about being a woman
Is the prerogative to have a little fun and... "​

:kiss:


"oh-oh-oh
Go totally crazy
forget I'm a lady
man shirt
short skirt
oh-oh-oh
doing it in style
...............
.............
wanna be free to feel the way I feel.......
Man.........I feel like a woman."

(I so wish I could put the guitar riffs in here....) Yeeeehawwwwwwwwwww!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEN
 
*ahem*......we apologise for that temporary break.
Normal *snicker* service will be resumed immediately.

The Management.
 
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