The China Pearl Inn---Part Six.

[RobynTashaYa]

They were all beautiful and the men were handsome. LS I'd love to go to Denmark one day. Right now I'm home with my father and step mother and we are going for a meal tonight.

I told them about Steve (although I didn't say we slept together). My step mother is fine with it but my father is not too happy (maybe it's a 'Dad' thing). I think he wants me to have a nice Jewish boyfriend lol. The world has moved on since his day.

I want to echo what Lt HSG said about SharingFantasies. We miss you SF and hope you sort it soon.

 

[cgraven]

Morning Robyn I trust your day and leave are going well.

I think we all miss S F.

 

[Bjerget]

They were all beautiful and the men were handsome. LS I'd love to go to Denmark one day. Right now I'm home with my father and step mother and we are going for a meal tonight.

I told them about Steve (although I didn't say we slept together). My step mother is fine with it but my father is not too happy (maybe it's a 'Dad' thing). I think he wants me to have a nice Jewish boyfriend lol. The world has moved on since his day.

I want to echo what Lt HSG said about SharingFantasies. We miss you SF and hope you sort it soon.

Parents always want what's best for their babies. Some are just more overprotective about it than others are.

It's a good thing you didn't tell him about the sex. He'd probably have flipped his lid.

 

[cgraven]

Shiva each family has its own dynamics, its own rules of what is taboo and what is not. My family was and is French Canadian and we have few taboos when it comes to talking, and sex is not one of them. Often embarrassing conversations yes, but ignorance when it comes to love and sex can be disastrous.

 

[Bjerget]

Shiva each family has its own dynamics, its own rules of what is taboo and what is not. My family was and is French Canadian and we have few taboos when it comes to talking, and sex is not one of them. Often embarrassing conversations yes, but ignorance when it comes to love and sex can be disastrous.

I understand that, but I feel like I had a VERY similar upbringing to what Robyn had.

I would NEVER talk about sex with anyone in my family. Ever. I learned it all at school, and on the streets.

 

[cgraven]

Oh school will teach you the mechanics of sex the street urban legends , Shiva but does nothing to talk about the heart and feelings, or what happens if all the protections fail for no contraceptive is 100% sure.

 

[The_gladiator]

I'm not going to say sex was never discussed in my family, but there's a ton of it I would never discuss with family. Many of them come across as closeminded in that department. I don't know what they do behind closed doors, but from the public image I get from many of them, I would certainly never discuss bdsm, or even sexual orientation with most of them or other fetishes and the like. Their public image is vanilla to say the least. That being said there was more openness about sex in general, we were educated about being safe and such. I am aware my parents have a sex life, though I don't know many details and frankly don't need to know, and am sure I've shared details about mine, but I do personally think as a society we are not able to be as open about sexuality as I would prefer and I think is healthy.

 

[RobynTashaYa]

The strange thing is many of us Army girls are so caught up in military life we don't have time for sex. I feel it hard not having a mother I missed those little things like going with her to buy my first bra and that special time when my body changed.

I'm grateful to LS on here for her guidance and dear CG for being there. And in the army I have Lt HSG

 

[The_gladiator]

The strange thing is many of us Army girls are so caught up in military life we don't have time for sex. I feel it hard not having a mother I missed those little things like going with her to buy my first bra and that special time when my body changed.

I'm grateful to LS on here for her guidance and dear CG for being there. And in the army I have Lt HSG

its good to have people to support us

 

[cgraven]

I am nothing special I just try to do my best.

 

[Iwasagoodgirl]

The strange thing is many of us Army girls are so caught up in military life we don't have time for sex. I feel it hard not having a mother I missed those little things like going with her to buy my first bra and that special time when my body changed.

I'm grateful to LS on here for her guidance and dear CG for being there. And in the army I have Lt HSG

I am nothing special I just try to do my best.

Robyn I can say in HSG you have a great role model. In LS and SF you have independent figures and in CG Raven you have a friend, a hero of the sea and a bloody good bloke. While I think Luv2bfkd is like an older sister, a good friend.

My friend is Lovingfingers who taught this army nurse how to write erotic literature.

 

[cgraven]

G G as always it is good to see you. I am sure that it, like all leaves, will seem all to short. I found that it was always hard saying goodbye to love ones when it was time to report back, but always mixed with excitement as well.

 

[Iwasagoodgirl]

O CG we were due to stay in Texas until Saturday but then the army changed the date of the ceremony at the last minute. I had to be with my chicks and Rick came with me.

So we're spending this week looking at married quarters ready for after Christmas.

We're not looking forward to Friday, Rick flies out to take up his new duties and then next Tuesday our unit reassembles with our new members. HSG and I won't see our men until November at the earliest. But you know military life.

Hey, SharingFantasies get back to us soon. We miss you.

 

[cgraven]

We do our best and go where we are ordered G G such is service and duty.

The other thing is we live life with a gusto!

 

[Bjerget]

Oh school will teach you the mechanics of sex the street urban legends , Shiva but does nothing to talk about the heart and feelings, or what happens if all the protections fail for no contraceptive is 100% sure.

I'm not exactly sure how old you think I am, but you could tone down the condescension just a taaaaad bit, kay? I'm a big girl and I don't need any lessons from you about feelings or love. Thanks

I'm not going to say sex was never discussed in my family, but there's a ton of it I would never discuss with family. Many of them come across as closeminded in that department. I don't know what they do behind closed doors, but from the public image I get from many of them, I would certainly never discuss bdsm, or even sexual orientation with most of them or other fetishes and the like. Their public image is vanilla to say the least. That being said there was more openness about sex in general, we were educated about being safe and such. I am aware my parents have a sex life, though I don't know many details and frankly don't need to know, and am sure I've shared details about mine, but I do personally think as a society we are not able to be as open about sexuality as I would prefer and I think is healthy.

This is basically how it was with my family as well. They were religious and didn't think it was appropriate to discuss this kind of thing with children. And I do not ever want to know what goes on in their 80 yr old bedroom!

The strange thing is many of us Army girls are so caught up in military life we don't have time for sex. I feel it hard not having a mother I missed those little things like going with her to buy my first bra and that special time when my body changed.

I'm grateful to LS on here for her guidance and dear CG for being there. And in the army I have Lt HSG

I am happy to help you! But try not to think of it as missed time. Not every girl with a mother had a happy time trying on bras. And besides, you will have much more fun trying them on now, than you would have had back then.

 

[cgraven]

Shiva it was an observation on schools in this country and how up tight most American families are when it comes to talking about sex.

 

[The_gladiator]

I'm not exactly sure how old you think I am, but you could tone down the condescension just a taaaaad bit, kay? I'm a big girl and I don't need any lessons from you about feelings or love. Thanks


This is basically how it was with my family as well. They were religious and didn't think it was appropriate to discuss this kind of thing with children. And I do not ever want to know what goes on in their 80 yr old bedroom!


I am happy to help you! But try not to think of it as missed time. Not every girl with a mother had a happy time trying on bras. And besides, you will have much more fun trying them on now, than you would have had back then.

Yes, although I suspect mine might be a bit more open in that it gets talked about. That being said I get in trouble for making sexual jokes from my mother still to this day haha. Ok I get in trouble from most people for it haha. my wife and her cousins told me I wasn't allowed to keep talking last night haha.

 

[Iwasagoodgirl]

Been in touch with SharingFantasies. She hasn't heard back from the Lit owners yet but is considering a new incarnation under a different name.

Rick and I have seen 4 homes today and our mind is a blur!

 

[cgraven]

Its amazing G G you looked at four sets of quarters I got what ever was assigned to me. But even in the US now single service members can get quarters,.....well at least in the Coast Guard. But having few large bases we normally lived out on the economy.

 

[EnglishRose95]

Been in touch with SharingFantasies. She hasn't heard back from the Lit owners yet but is considering a new incarnation under a different name.

Rick and I have seen 4 homes today and our mind is a blur!

We'll all be round for a housewarming party Ma'm

 

[cgraven]

Rose you are sweet. I can see that you have a very close knit unit.

 

[EnglishRose95]

Rose you are sweet. I can see that you have a very close knit unit.

You know what it's like CG, we become bonded together so tight. We're family!

 

[cgraven]

Yes I know Rose.

 

[Bjerget]

Shiva it was an observation on schools in this country and how up tight most American families are when it comes to talking about sex.

Shiva knows ALL about uptight American families.

 

[EnglishRose95]

Shiva knows ALL about uptight American families.

We have our share of 'em in the UK too. Introduced my doctor boyfriend to my grandmother. She proceeds to tell him all her aches and pains expecting a diagnosis. GOD GIVE ME STRENGTH!