The Fight is Half the Pleasure

[FurryFury]

I really love a Sub who put up a struggle. A rebellious Sub can be so exciting. Like a horse fighting the bit. Resistant to my hand.

When I attempt to top, I tend to negate all possible rebelliousness or resistance. I don't find it fun or cute. If you want to submit do it or not, whichever. I have other things I could be doing that won't fight me.

As a sub, I want to submit to the person I trust and respect and who trusts and respects me.

OTOH, I love to wrestle. If it turns into sex that's good too. I just don't consider it kinky at all. It's just good clean fun to my way of thinking. *shrug*

FF

 

[M1ch3ll3o0o]

I want to find someone that can put up a really good fight, put me through my paces! It might be interesting for the Pyl to let me win the fight then demand round 2 and give me no mercy, we would wrestle inbetween bouts of penetration...each position he held me in woud get him access to a different hole in my body

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

When I attempt to top, I tend to negate all possible rebelliousness or resistance. I don't find it fun or cute. If you want to submit do it or not, whichever. I have other things I could be doing that won't fight me.

As a sub, I want to submit to the person I trust and respect and who trusts and respects me.

OTOH, I love to wrestle. If it turns into sex that's good too. I just don't consider it kinky at all. It's just good clean fun to my way of thinking. *shrug*

FF

Going to agree with furry here a bit, I enjoy the act by itself, it doesn't have to lead to sex, but it's certainly not because she wants me to prove anything, not out of anything rebellious or me having to constantly show I am the dominant.

We like to wrestle occassionally, she knows she will never win, but she just loves to see me being more physically powerful than her too.

 

[PrettyProse]

I like putting up a fight. I never win, but isn't that the point?

I love when he can hold both my wrists in one hand while pinning me and taking advantage of my smallness, taking a breast into his big strong hands and making me moan.

 

[hungdavid]

I like putting up a fight. I never win, but isn't that the point?

I love when he can hold both my wrists in one hand while pinning me and taking advantage of my smallness, taking a breast into his big strong hands and making me moan.

Would you like me to throw you on the bed.. So that we can get started.?

 

[PrettyProse]

That would be fantastic. How long 'til you get here? I'm gonna stay prepared.

 

[Babyslave]

When I attempt to top, I tend to negate all possible rebelliousness or resistance. I don't find it fun or cute. If you want to submit do it or not, whichever. I have other things I could be doing that won't fight me.

As a sub, I want to submit to the person I trust and respect and who trusts and respects me.

OTOH, I love to wrestle. If it turns into sex that's good too. I just don't consider it kinky at all. It's just good clean fun to my way of thinking. *shrug*

FF

I WISH I could be more like this. I hold so darned tightly to my self control that it's damn near impossible to relinquish it. Even knowing I want to, knowing what's possible, just to let go, to surrender, to obey and become docile, the getting there is a battle. With myself. Perhaps the tussling, whether wrestling on the floor, or a battle of eye contact, words.... I submit best when 'forced' to let go. Need someone to rip the wheel out of my hands so someone else can 'drive'. So it's not about trust or respect, it's more to get me where I want to be. Warped? Shrug. Can't explain it, just know that it works.

 

[FurryFury]

There isn't a right or wrong here, just different flavors. Some might find me boring because I don't want to play games or fight submission, I crave it, need it.

I personally find it very disrespectful and disheartening when someone fights me on it too. Even if I think I'm simply serving him in another way. However, many others enjoy fighters and fighting. It's all good as each hopefully finds the right fit for each other.

I WISH I could be more like this. I hold so darned tightly to my self control that it's damn near impossible to relinquish it. Even knowing I want to, knowing what's possible, just to let go, to surrender, to obey and become docile, the getting there is a battle. With myself. Perhaps the tussling, whether wrestling on the floor, or a battle of eye contact, words.... I submit best when 'forced' to let go. Need someone to rip the wheel out of my hands so someone else can 'drive'. So it's not about trust or respect, it's more to get me where I want to be. Warped? Shrug. Can't explain it, just know that it works.

 

[DreamSensualist]

I couldn't really fight him. Perhaps it's an out of respect thing, but I think it may also be more a case of I don't role-play. What we do is who I am and I am submissive to him & so just can't fight.

Of course, tickling would get me wriggling trying to get away, but it's been so long since I was tickled that I'm not even sure if i am still ticklish. And I am always up for a play pillow fight.

There have been a very few instances when I have wanted to hit someone, slap them across the face, but that feels to me more a case of getting out frustration & hurt, not refusing to submit.

 

[SGrey]

I have to throw in a response here and say, yes indeed, the struggle can be part of the fun. Being grabbed and held and having things done to you whilst you wriggle and make them work a little, is fantastic. That random, walks past you in the middle of the day when you are doing normal things, grabs you and pins you to a wall, watching you struggle knowing things have to be done, asserting their will. A reminder that they can do whatever... whenever. I guess my basic personality is to fight back a little, knowing that in the end, the submission is a little sweeter.

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

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[hungdavid]

That would be fantastic. How long 'til you get here? I'm gonna stay prepared.

That's me knocking on your door right now..

 

[Noira]

The only problem is... I would want to win. None of this "let you win" bullshit. My unattainable life's goal is to be able to beat the shit out of a man who's definitely fighting back.

As hot as a good fight is, if it's not on balanced terms I'm going to be irritated as hell because I have no chance to win and I just don't get off on 1) knowing I can't win or 2) being let win. So I suppose as a top I'm limited to playing other games. D:

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only female-identified sadist here, in amidst the sea of "oh yes, knowing I cannot win is most of the turn-on!" posts. Damn right I want the fighting, kicking, bruising, struggling, pain... but when it comes to the outcome I want to have earned the top, or have put up a damn good fight to not get it. None of this cannot win, futile fight, omfg he's so strong and I'm shooooo weak, and definitely no "my sub let me win". (I would dearly love a petite female sub with a sense of smartassery and the urge to get in a fight. From the other side of the scale, knowing that she couldn't win would be fucking hot. Making her submit would be even hotter.)

I'm itching to learn a few martial arts. My kink right now is me being able to fight.

 

[BiBunny]

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only female-identified sadist here

You aren't.

 

[chaoticDeviance]

Defiantly not! I can be just as Sadistic as I am masochistic. Tehehe! Just ask BiBunny!

 

[BiBunny]

Defiantly not! I can be just as Sadistic as I am masochistic. Tehehe! Just ask BiBunny!

LOL.

I'm that way, too, though. It's just that I'm not attracted to the kinds of men whose asses I can kick.

 

[cfuhrer]

Master and I have thought of roleplay where we put a bit of fight into things. Though to a degree I think he's afraid he might hurt me because he's ex Army and quite strong and I'm a fairly strong BBW. Then again It could make for a good fight!

*Hand to heaven*
It makes for an awesome "fight"

 

[chaoticDeviance]

LOL.

I'm that way, too, though. It's just that I'm not attracted to the kinds of men whose asses I can kick.

This is true...`Suppose you could try....But yea.... no... LOL

 

[cfuhrer]

I have to throw in a response here and say, yes indeed, the struggle can be part of the fun. Being grabbed and held and having things done to you whilst you wriggle and make them work a little, is fantastic. That random, walks past you in the middle of the day when you are doing normal things, grabs you and pins you to a wall, watching you struggle knowing things have to be done, asserting their will. A reminder that they can do whatever... whenever. I guess my basic personality is to fight back a little, knowing that in the end, the submission is a little sweeter.

*appreciative groan*

 

[sarel101]

another advantage of those struggle sessions, is that it makes the times that they submit without even asking even sweeter.

 

[thesweetsweetness]

I have to throw in a response here and say, yes indeed, the struggle can be part of the fun. Being grabbed and held and having things done to you whilst you wriggle and make them work a little, is fantastic. That random, walks past you in the middle of the day when you are doing normal things, grabs you and pins you to a wall, watching you struggle knowing things have to be done, asserting their will. A reminder that they can do whatever... whenever. I guess my basic personality is to fight back a little, knowing that in the end, the submission is a little sweeter.

Mmm... I want that.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I am loving the comments in this thread, giving me new perspectives...

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

Ladies, ladies, please. Take it easy on me. I admit, I started out fantasizing about a manly man and I 'fighting'....

But then you guys had to go, and use those words you use so well. Y'all are dangerous. Lethal, even. Now I'm thinking about something else entirely. Like..... "Fighting" in jello? Or... Lubed up with oils? Something sensual...

Now see what you went and did?

Oh no. I want it hot and sweaty. Slippery and sliding against each other. Squeezing. grasping, breathing heavily. Feeling her sliding against me. Her skin on me and mine on hers. Who ever wins taking the other like the animals we are. Hard, fast and deep as possible.

Damn and now I have to go to bed. (G)

Mike

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

The only problem is... I would want to win. None of this "let you win" bullshit. My unattainable life's goal is to be able to beat the shit out of a man who's definitely fighting back.

As hot as a good fight is, if it's not on balanced terms I'm going to be irritated as hell because I have no chance to win and I just don't get off on 1) knowing I can't win or 2) being let win. So I suppose as a top I'm limited to playing other games. D:

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only female-identified sadist here, in amidst the sea of "oh yes, knowing I cannot win is most of the turn-on!" posts. Damn right I want the fighting, kicking, bruising, struggling, pain... but when it comes to the outcome I want to have earned the top, or have put up a damn good fight to not get it. None of this cannot win, futile fight, omfg he's so strong and I'm shooooo weak, and definitely no "my sub let me win". (I would dearly love a petite female sub with a sense of smartassery and the urge to get in a fight. From the other side of the scale, knowing that she couldn't win would be fucking hot. Making her submit would be even hotter.)

I'm itching to learn a few martial arts. My kink right now is me being able to fight.

I think you've been reading most of the posts wrong. So far most of them have been subs (pyl) that have been talking about trying their best (some of them knowing they cannot win) to beat their PYL.

So only female identified sadist you ain't.

 

[Babyslave]

Oh no. I want it hot and sweaty. Slippery and sliding against each other. Squeezing. grasping, breathing heavily. Feeling her sliding against me. Her skin on me and mine on hers. Who ever wins taking the other like the animals we are. Hard, fast and deep as possible.

Damn and now I have to go to bed. (G)

Mike

Oh yes, THIS. Can't quite get this picture out of my head.