The "Fuck you cancer!" thread

oh DGE.

this sunday is 3 years since Mr. cookie died

your words hurt and ring true and in a weird way, are cathartic

fuck you cancer
fuck you ALS

much, much love for all who've come to this thread

((((cookiecat))))

I don’t know you very well, but I have always appreciated and admired the beauty and honesty in your writings about Mr. cookie. :rose:
 
You returned and pulled her under the waves.
She thrashed and fought her way back to oxygen
once.
twice.
three times.

In movies when people are attacked
their eyes are wide and their screams are piercing.
But she knew every day that you were waiting
in this shadow or the one after that.

Twice she had to excuse herself
voice choked and crying.
But that was saying goodbye.
That was watching his confused face
as the car became a smudge
and vanished forever.
It wasn’t surprise.

It happened in an instant.
You smelled blood and dragged her under and away.

Fuck you.

Ah, crap. So sorry.
 
Fuck you cancer. It’s not enough you took my mother’s best friend and one of my godparents when I was 16...not enough to take one of my mentors at 17...not enough to make my mom battle you when I was 18...not enough you took my mother’s uncle while she was fighting...not even enough that you made my mom battle you twice. No you had to come back and make my aunt fight. I’m not even pissed for me. I’m pissed at what you are trying to take from my mother; you are trying to take away her only sibling. Besides my dad and us kids...my aunt is what she had left. Fuck you. I will give my aunt my fight, I will give her my stubborn streak. I don’t care that her survival rate for 5 years is just 20%. I don’t care that they won’t give her odds to be cured. You can’t have her. 🖕🖕🖕
 
Fuck you cancer. It’s not enough you took my mother’s best friend and one of my godparents when I was 16...not enough to take one of my mentors at 17...not enough to make my mom battle you when I was 18...not enough you took my mother’s uncle while she was fighting...not even enough that you made my mom battle you twice. No you had to come back and make my aunt fight. I’m not even pissed for me. I’m pissed at what you are trying to take from my mother; you are trying to take away her only sibling. Besides my dad and us kids...my aunt is what she had left. Fuck you. I will give my aunt my fight, I will give her my stubborn streak. I don’t care that her survival rate for 5 years is just 20%. I don’t care that they won’t give her odds to be cured. You can’t have her. 🖕🖕🖕

Keep the fight up. Keep positive and we will keep you strong.
 
Fuck you cancer. It’s not enough you took my mother’s best friend and one of my godparents when I was 16...not enough to take one of my mentors at 17...not enough to make my mom battle you when I was 18...not enough you took my mother’s uncle while she was fighting...not even enough that you made my mom battle you twice. No you had to come back and make my aunt fight. I’m not even pissed for me. I’m pissed at what you are trying to take from my mother; you are trying to take away her only sibling. Besides my dad and us kids...my aunt is what she had left. Fuck you. I will give my aunt my fight, I will give her my stubborn streak. I don’t care that her survival rate for 5 years is just 20%. I don’t care that they won’t give her odds to be cured. You can’t have her. 🖕🖕🖕

Sending wishes for hope and strength to you and your family. :rose:

FYC
 
Fuck you cancer. It’s not enough you took my mother’s best friend and one of my godparents when I was 16...not enough to take one of my mentors at 17...not enough to make my mom battle you when I was 18...not enough you took my mother’s uncle while she was fighting...not even enough that you made my mom battle you twice. No you had to come back and make my aunt fight. I’m not even pissed for me. I’m pissed at what you are trying to take from my mother; you are trying to take away her only sibling. Besides my dad and us kids...my aunt is what she had left. Fuck you. I will give my aunt my fight, I will give her my stubborn streak. I don’t care that her survival rate for 5 years is just 20%. I don’t care that they won’t give her odds to be cured. You can’t have her. 🖕🖕🖕

Hopes and prayers for you and your family. Remember some of those 20 %ers live for years!!!: :rose:
 
Fyc

you took my fathers mother, Iva Dee. you took both of my fathers sisters, Betty and Evelyn. you took his father Richard many years later. you took my mothers sister, Dorothy. you tried to take my sweet lover Carolyn, but you failed. you stole her breasts, you stole her hair that reached her waist. the surgery that ripped apart her body also ripped you out of her body. the radiation that fried you also burnt her skin. the chemicals that poisoned you also poisoned her body.
in spite of all the evil you did to her, you FAILED!
Fuck you cancer in all of your many disguises.
 
Keep the fight up. Keep positive and we will keep you strong.

Sending wishes for hope and strength to you and your family. :rose:

FYC

Hopes and prayers for you and your family. Remember some of those 20 %ers live for years!!!: :rose:

:heart::rose:

ps: Fuck You Cancer.... :(

Thank you all! It’s going to be a long road but I know my family can fight together. I will remember I have a great group here if I need it again.
 


I saw all 3 of you here and got scared.

FUCK YOU, CANCER.
Love to you, my friends.

Ah, crap. So sorry.

:rose: Thank you for your kindness, and I’m sorry for the lag time in saying so.

((((cookiecat))))

I don’t know you very well, but I have always appreciated and admired the beauty and honesty in your writings about Mr. cookie. :rose:

How very true. What a gift she’s given through the sharing of those intimate experiences.

Beauty and honesty.

oh DGE.

this sunday is 3 years since Mr. cookie died

your words hurt and ring true and in a weird way, are cathartic

fuck you cancer
fuck you ALS

much, much love for all who've come to this thread

:rose:

Near-painful hugs.
 
Fuck you cancer. It’s not enough you took my mother’s best friend and one of my godparents when I was 16...not enough to take one of my mentors at 17...not enough to make my mom battle you when I was 18...not enough you took my mother’s uncle while she was fighting...not even enough that you made my mom battle you twice. No you had to come back and make my aunt fight. I’m not even pissed for me. I’m pissed at what you are trying to take from my mother; you are trying to take away her only sibling. Besides my dad and us kids...my aunt is what she had left. Fuck you. I will give my aunt my fight, I will give her my stubborn streak. I don’t care that her survival rate for 5 years is just 20%. I don’t care that they won’t give her odds to be cured. You can’t have her. 🖕🖕🖕

:rose:

Fuck yeah, what LW said. Fuck cellfucker.

I’m sorry your aunt, you and the rest of your family are going through this. My mom and her sister were both taken by the same shark. I’m hoping your aunt spears that fucker and serves fish sticks at your first post-pandemic gathering.

FYC.


you took my fathers mother, Iva Dee. you took both of my fathers sisters, Betty and Evelyn. you took his father Richard many years later. you took my mothers sister, Dorothy. you tried to take my sweet lover Carolyn, but you failed. you stole her breasts, you stole her hair that reached her waist. the surgery that ripped apart her body also ripped you out of her body. the radiation that fried you also burnt her skin. the chemicals that poisoned you also poisoned her body.
in spite of all the evil you did to her, you FAILED!
Fuck you cancer in all of your many disguises.

Thank you for sharing your badass anthem of determined FYC-ary.

Can you not hear the angry chanting in the streets, cellfucker? Do you not see what everyone else sees? Do you not know that you will be pulled, screaming from our loved ones and deposed, your reign of death and terror brought to an end?
 
you took my fathers mother, Iva Dee. you took both of my fathers sisters, Betty and Evelyn. you took his father Richard many years later. you took my mothers sister, Dorothy. you tried to take my sweet lover Carolyn, but you failed. you stole her breasts, you stole her hair that reached her waist. the surgery that ripped apart her body also ripped you out of her body. the radiation that fried you also burnt her skin. the chemicals that poisoned you also poisoned her body.
in spite of all the evil you did to her, you FAILED!
Fuck you cancer in all of your many disguises.

I am sorry that your family has been riddled with this insidious soul sucker as has mine. I admire the courage and success your wife and you have shown in her battle. Fuck Cancer in all its' terrible forms!!! So glad she survived!!! :)
 
:rose:

Fuck yeah, what LW said. Fuck cellfucker.

I’m sorry your aunt, you and the rest of your family are going through this. My mom and her sister were both taken by the same shark. I’m hoping your aunt spears that fucker and serves fish sticks at your first post-pandemic gathering.

FYC.




Thank you for sharing your badass anthem of determined FYC-ary.

Can you not hear the angry chanting in the streets, cellfucker? Do you not see what everyone else sees? Do you not know that you will be pulled, screaming from our loved ones and deposed, your reign of death and terror brought to an end?

Well said DGE!!! Covid has sort of lessened the intense attention to cancer to the public at large, but not for us! I have a sister in law who is so burned by her chemo, that she warns folks (before they see her) that she looks like she is from a horror film. Hopefully the chemo does it's job because the price for it's use can be so high!! FUCK YOU CANCER!!!
 
Well said DGE!!! Covid has sort of lessened the intense attention to cancer to the public at large, but not for us! I have a sister in law who is so burned by her chemo, that she warns folks (before they see her) that she looks like she is from a horror film. Hopefully the chemo does it's job because the price for it's use can be so high!! FUCK YOU CANCER!!!

This thread hasn’t been posted to since... October? Wow. I hope your SIL is doing OK, scot. :rose:

It’s been nine years since I had surgery to address the possibility that a skin cancer had spread. Since then, I’ve had tons of full body scans and my doc has been on top of it and everything has been fine. I noticed something recently that has me a little concerned because, a. it’s in the same place, and b. it looks very similar to what I first noticed years ago. It’s probably nothing and I have a doc appointment next week, but it’s making me kind of distracted.
 
This thread hasn’t been posted to since... October? Wow. I hope your SIL is doing OK, scot. :rose:

It’s been nine years since I had surgery to address the possibility that a skin cancer had spread. Since then, I’ve had tons of full body scans and my doc has been on top of it and everything has been fine. I noticed something recently that has me a little concerned because, a. it’s in the same place, and b. it looks very similar to what I first noticed years ago. It’s probably nothing and I have a doc appointment next week, but it’s making me kind of distracted.

Thinking of you DGE. I hope that it’s only good news from the doctor. :rose:
 
Sending good thoughts, DGE.

Fara - I'll be dommy mcdommerson to make sure you get the appointment.

:rose:
 
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