The "Fuck you cancer!" thread

[cmslt2326]

Got diagnosed with Breast cancer yesterday.
In 2004 I had Thyroid cancer. But 12 years older now, and scared out of my mind.

Praying for you....do not let the fear win EC...I know it is hard but you won the first time and you will win again...

Dig deep and find the kickass fighter you had before and leave me a PM if you need anyone to talk to...

Going through chemo myself for breast cancer....

 

[scotluvsoral]

Praying for you....do not let the fear win EC...I know it is hard but you won the first time and you will win again...

Dig deep and find the kickass fighter you had before and leave me a PM if you need anyone to talk to...

Going through chemo myself for breast cancer....

Great advice wonderfully shared! I love how much support each of us gives to each other, whether we are survivors or currently battling with this monstrous disease. It is almost impossible for me to come here and not leave with tears. Positive thoughts and prayers coming your way! FUCK YOU CANCER!!!!!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[IrisAlthea]

I learned today a family friend, a wonderful adventurer, a book lover and a kind, independent person, but a value to a community I loved being part of has lung cancer. Our emails had been scarcer since last yeAr. I feel.....frustrated and sad about that.

I'm so sorry, Elle.

 

[cascadiabound]

I learned today a family friend, a wonderful adventurer, a book lover and a kind, independent person, but a value to a community I loved being part of has lung cancer. Our emails had been scarcer since last yeAr. I feel.....frustrated and sad about that.

I am so sorry to hear this news, Elle.
Prayers, for you, for your friend.
(((Hugs)))
cb

 

[cmslt2326]

I learned today a family friend, a wonderful adventurer, a book lover and a kind, independent person, but a value to a community I loved being part of has lung cancer. Our emails had been scarcer since last yeAr. I feel.....frustrated and sad about that.

So very sorry to hear another friend has to fight for their life....praying....

 

[OralDave]

I learned today a family friend, a wonderful adventurer, a book lover and a kind, independent person, but a value to a community I loved being part of has lung cancer. Our emails had been scarcer since last yeAr. I feel.....frustrated and sad about that.

That's awful. I've seen survivors, and I hope your friend will be in that group. And there are people-- family-- who didn't make it. Someone once said (and I'm paraphrasing) that we're aren't allowed to give up. My wife is a fighter. I'm grateful I haven't had cancer.... your friend sounds like my kind of person... I hope he's a fighter.

 

[Shankara20]

I learned today a family friend, a wonderful adventurer, a book lover and a kind, independent person, but a value to a community I loved being part of has lung cancer. Our emails had been scarcer since last yeAr. I feel.....frustrated and sad about that.

Dear one, I am holding you in my heart at this trying time. (( ))

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[scotluvsoral]

I learned today a family friend, a wonderful adventurer, a book lover and a kind, independent person, but a value to a community I loved being part of has lung cancer. Our emails had been scarcer since last yeAr. I feel.....frustrated and sad about that.

So sorry your friend has to fight this battle and I am sorry you must go through all the worry that goes with that! Positive thoughts and prayers coming your way. FUCK YOU CANCER!!!

 

[scotluvsoral]

I hate this fucking disease! Dealing with it requires a degree of patience that I seem to lack. I lacked it when dealing with my own battle and I lack it in regards to friends who struggle with their battle! I want something I can punch or yell at or even swing a sword at. Some way to help,other than sitting worried and pensive as things unfold which lie beyond my ability to control or even to impact. At least when it was my cancer, I had some power...the ability to do something or to choose a path, but when it is people you love, you simply wait...and pray..and give positive thoughts and support. I hate the lack of power and control! OK, sorry for the silly ranting. Thanks for this forum always being here and always letting us (well me really) spew out our anger and frustration, so it doesn't poison us!!!! In my guts I know that cancer really wins when we are convinced we cannot fight further. I thank all of you who post here, for sharing the positive energy you do with us all! It is a genuine candle in the darkness! https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTOE3TUv6Qu-xBObum8R69k6Tcnrh6dJoY6Egd7ynbOhxFFD-dI FUCK YOU CANCER!!!!

 

[Shankara20]

I hate the lack of power and control! OK, sorry for the silly ranting.

This is not "silly ranting". Lack of power and the following feelings of powerlessness with cancer is a huge issues. I have dived into trying to change my food intake and taking supplements as a way to gain some sort of control - I went rather over the top and a bit manic until I saw it for what it is - a try to gain control over something. There is a slow simmer of rage just below the surface in me because I can't totally and clearly control the bastard in me.

All I can offer you is a willingness to set with you as your rant with understanding and compassion.



ps: Fuck You Cancer....

 

[scotluvsoral]

This is not "silly ranting". Lack of power and the following feelings of powerlessness with cancer is a huge issues. I have dived into trying to change my food intake and taking supplements as a way to gain some sort of control - I went rather over the top and a bit manic until I saw it for what it is - a try to gain control over something. There is a slow simmer of rage just below the surface in me because I can't totally and clearly control the bastard in me.

All I can offer you is a willingness to set with you as your rant with understanding and compassion.



ps: Fuck You Cancer....

That is the beauty of this thread! We sit with each other through anger, pain, loss and joy! Thanks Shank!

 

[redslady]

Never far from my thoughts

I don't come here as much as I used to, reading is very hard for me now, but I check in on this thread first.

I am always amazed at the strength of people. How when pushed to the wall we will fight tooth and nail for the life we have. My fight is almost over, accepted this and am making the most of the time I have left.

My mate has asked me to marry him, to be his and carry his name into the next life. So a traditional Asatru wedding is next week.

My hope and dreams for all who face this demon is the strength, courage, and support to send the demon cell fucker to hell.

Love and Light to all.

 

[cascadiabound]

I don't come here as much as I used to, reading is very hard for me now, but I check in on this thread first.

I am always amazed at the strength of people. How when pushed to the wall we will fight tooth and nail for the life we have. My fight is almost over, accepted this and am making the most of the time I have left.

My mate has asked me to marry him, to be his and carry his name into the next life. So a traditional Asatru wedding is next week.

My hope and dreams for all who face this demon is the strength, courage, and support to send the demon cell fucker to hell.

Love and Light to all.

I will think of you celebrating your love and making vows together next week.
It takes courage to face every day...to make the choices of how to spend the energy you have and the time you have.
Everything becomes crystalline in these days. Know that you are held in love by those who were touched by you here. And the testament of your courage in your choices to live life as fully as you possibly can as you say... "making the most of the time you [sic] have left" leaves me... speechless.

Love and Light to you in your every moment.

FUCK YOU CANCER.

cb

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Thank you, cb for your eloquence once again. I had no words to express that which you have said perfectly. As much peace to you as you can accept, redslady

 

[gypsy*seer]

I don't come here as much as I used to, reading is very hard for me now, but I check in on this thread first.

I am always amazed at the strength of people. How when pushed to the wall we will fight tooth and nail for the life we have. My fight is almost over, accepted this and am making the most of the time I have left.

My mate has asked me to marry him, to be his and carry his name into the next life. So a traditional Asatru wedding is next week.

My hope and dreams for all who face this demon is the strength, courage, and support to send the demon cell fucker to hell.

Love and Light to all.

Hi reds - It saddens me to hear this, but I have to marvel at the eloquence you surround yourself with. You are in my thoughts and prayers - not only for your diagnosis, but for you and your mate to live a most beautiful life together.
Celebrate, enjoy each moment, and life your fullest day, every day!
(Can you enlighten us on what a traditional Asatru wedding is?)

 

[redslady]

Hi reds - It saddens me to hear this, but I have to marvel at the eloquence you surround yourself with. You are in my thoughts and prayers - not only for your diagnosis, but for you and your mate to live a most beautiful life together.
Celebrate, enjoy each moment, and life your fullest day, every day!
(Can you enlighten us on what a traditional Asatru wedding is?)

I want to answer you first dear lady. Please do not be sad. I have had a wonderful life. I have the pleasure of watching two beautiful young ladies grow and become far more than I could ever dream for them.

I have found my soul in an amazing man and I know he will carry me with him until we meet again in Valhalla. I know we have both earned our place there.

Do I wish for more, certainly. Will I have more, again, certainly. I do not plan on stopping until I am called home.

My world is full of light and love, what more could I wish for than to carry this with me and light the way for those who will follow.

Light and Love to you dear Gypsy

Asatru wedding is a Pagan ceremony. We honour the Allfather Odin and the Gods and Goddesses of old.

 

[redslady]

I will think of you celebrating your love and making vows together next week.
It takes courage to face every day...to make the choices of how to spend the energy you have and the time you have.
Everything becomes crystalline in these days. Know that you are held in love by those who were touched by you here. And the testament of your courage in your choices to live life as fully as you possibly can as you say... "making the most of the time you [sic] have left" leaves me... speechless.

Love and Light to you in your every moment.

FUCK YOU CANCER.

cb

Thank you so very much.When the years you thought you had become months and the months become weeks everything comes into a sharper focus for sure.

Not sure if I have courage, but I have fight left in me still. The cell fucker may end me, but it will not beat me.

My world is full of light and love and I hope all of your days are filled with the joy of family, friends and love.

 

[redslady]

Thank you, cb for your eloquence once again. I had no words to express that which you have said perfectly. As much peace to you as you can accept, redslady

I have the peace of love and family and gladly and greedily accept more. Thank you

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[IrisAlthea]

I don't come here as much as I used to, reading is very hard for me now, but I check in on this thread first.

I am always amazed at the strength of people. How when pushed to the wall we will fight tooth and nail for the life we have. My fight is almost over, accepted this and am making the most of the time I have left.

My mate has asked me to marry him, to be his and carry his name into the next life. So a traditional Asatru wedding is next week.

My hope and dreams for all who face this demon is the strength, courage, and support to send the demon cell fucker to hell.

Love and Light to all.

Making the most of every day, is perhaps the best way to fight.

Have a wonderful wedding!

 

[Apple_of_Eden]

I don't come here as much as I used to, reading is very hard for me now, but I check in on this thread first.

I am always amazed at the strength of people. How when pushed to the wall we will fight tooth and nail for the life we have. My fight is almost over, accepted this and am making the most of the time I have left.

My mate has asked me to marry him, to be his and carry his name into the next life. So a traditional Asatru wedding is next week.

My hope and dreams for all who face this demon is the strength, courage, and support to send the demon cell fucker to hell.

Love and Light to all.

Dear redslady, May you be surrounded by peace, light, love, and happiness. May your strength and courage carry you and those you love when needed. Enjoy your wedding and know that we are all sending you positive thoughts and energy. Be blessed each and every day. My thoughts are with you as you continue your journey.

Peace.

 

[scotluvsoral]

I don't come here as much as I used to, reading is very hard for me now, but I check in on this thread first.

I am always amazed at the strength of people. How when pushed to the wall we will fight tooth and nail for the life we have. My fight is almost over, accepted this and am making the most of the time I have left.

My mate has asked me to marry him, to be his and carry his name into the next life. So a traditional Asatru wedding is next week.

My hope and dreams for all who face this demon is the strength, courage, and support to send the demon cell fucker to hell.

Love and Light to all.

The eloquence with which you share and the courage and dignity you show when sharing this, is both humbling and inspiring! It is clear your life has been filled with love and that love will continue throughout this life and the next. I wish you peace and happiness during your journey

 

[redslady]

Redslady, I am sure your wedding will be beautiful, surrounded by love.

Making the most of every day, is perhaps the best way to fight.

Have a wonderful wedding!

Dear redslady, May you be surrounded by peace, light, love, and happiness. May your strength and courage carry you and those you love when needed. Enjoy your wedding and know that we are all sending you positive thoughts and energy. Be blessed each and every day. My thoughts are with you as you continue your journey.

Peace.

Thank you all. I am stronger now than I was, courage is not something I claim to have but I try to make sure that I only focus on the life I'm living now.

My soul and I are grateful for all the support and positive vibe coming our way. I worry not for myself anymore, my worry is for him and my family. Please keep them in your thoughts as well.