The "I wish to receive Pm's" (twist on the how many)

[Texastuffbbc]

Pm away. I enjoy intellectual and maybe inspirational conversations. I have been called too cerebral, but all been call dirty. I guess it depends on the person. Lol

 

[SassySheDevil]

I am glad you are feeling better. Life is meant to be lived Have a magical day

Thank you dear. You as well.

 

[Sage51]

Been a long time since I have been here. yes I would love a pm or two.

 

[Necro13]

I would like to receive some PMs from some women here

 

[Mr_bogey]

I would like to receive some PMs from some women here

Ditto

 

[bone251]

I gave up.

 

[Daddysfatwhore]

Yes please if you have time though I'm not on here much so it might take a while for a reply.

 

[Polranny]

Of course I always appreciate pm's from the gorgeous Ladies of Lit

 

[Wageslave]

Always happy to chat

 

[hanban24]

I don’t mind receiving PMs, as long as they aren’t creepy or annoying

 

[rlaflamme]

I don’t mind receiving PMs, as long as they aren’t creepy or annoying

I don't really have to worry about creepy ones lol. But Pms are good to get.

 

[ArtisticControl]

I was so excited to receive a PM, until I clicked on it and realized that it was a spam PM. Seriously? A spam PM?

 

[rlaflamme]

I was so excited to receive a PM, until I clicked on it and realized that it was a spam PM. Seriously? A spam PM?

Yeah, I have received a few of those, very irritating.

 

[ArtisticControl]

Yeah, I have received a few of those, very irritating.

Almost as bad as the ones where you can tell they are not spam, but also that they put no thought in figuring out who you are either. Granted, I do not advertise my gender, but I simple search of my very few posts today will probably reveal my gender.

 

[rlaflamme]

Almost as bad as the ones where you can tell they are not spam, but also that they put no thought in figuring out who you are either. Granted, I do not advertise my gender, but I simple search of my very few posts today will probably reveal my gender.

Or the, "Hey, hi." Um, "hi" I got nothing to go on with that.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Almost as bad as the ones where you can tell they are not spam, but also that they put no thought in figuring out who you are either. Granted, I do not advertise my gender, but I simple search of my very few posts today will probably reveal my gender.

Sadly. There are a lot of males here that are a little extra thirsty, and like to PM all the newbies. Regardless of gender. "Fresh meat"
Welcome to lit.

 

[ArtisticControl]

Sadly. There are a lot of males here that are a little extra thirsty, and like to PM all the newbies. Regardless of gender. "Fresh meat"
Welcome to lit.

Yes. I can see that.

I do not envy the ladies at all, and in my brief exposure to seeing how some people reply, I can only imagine what must be in some of these ladies inboxes.

Oh the entitlement men feel to women's bodies. Makes me a shame to be a man at times, but thankful that I am teaching my children to be better.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Yes. I can see that.

I do not envy the ladies at all, and in my brief exposure to seeing how some people reply, I can only imagine what must be in some of these ladies inboxes.

Oh the entitlement men feel to women's bodies. Makes me a shame to be a man at times, but thankful that I am teaching my children to be better.

I feel like I have done this with my kids as well. I am especially proud of how well my son has turned out. Good on you.

 

[Sweet_and_Sensual]

I truly wish to have an intellectual conversation with an older man. Please send me pm's my way. I'm tired of getting messages in my inbox that only say, "hey, what's up?" I'm extemely bored and looking to connect with someone new.

 

[bone251]

I have gotten a few telling me to stop talking about girls that are paid for sex, meaning escorts.

I email back some of the links they post and ask, Did these girls do the porn video for free?

Other then that I gave up on sending PMs

 

[SassySheDevil]

I have gotten a few telling me to stop talking about girls that are paid for sex, meaning escorts.

I email back some of the links they post and ask, Did these girls do the porn video for free?

Other then that I gave up on sending PMs

I'm confused about this.

But I don't really send them anymore either. Years of being here has taught me to just keep more to myself.
But when I started this thread. It was because of another thread that was called "Did you get a PM today" or something like that. Everyone was simply saying "No"
So it was a thread filled with "No"

So I had hoped this would be more beneficial.
Guys (mostly, cause face it, women rarely have to try as hard) giving off a few things they enjoy, few things they like to talk about, something about themselves that make women want to PM them.

But it became guys (Again, mostly) saying "I'm in. Send me a PM"

I can't speak for anyone else. But I'll never PM a guy who says that.
When I did PM. I did so because of things I saw them say in other threads, something about themselves. I got a vibe that we would connect on some level. I found a conversation starter, and messaged them.


I would love to see this thread work for everyone. But you have to offer up something more (and not you specifically Bone) about yourself, or what you are looking for. (Besides sex, or accept the consequences that when you say "I'm horny, hit me up" Your PMs will be very limited)

Most women are just as sexual as the guys, but they often like connection before jumping into the sexual stuff.

 

[bone251]

I'm confused about this.

But I don't really send them anymore either. Years of being here has taught me to just keep more to myself.
But when I started this thread. It was because of another thread that was called "Did you get a PM today" or something like that. Everyone was simply saying "No"
So it was a thread filled with "No"

So I had hoped this would be more beneficial.
Guys (mostly, cause face it, women rarely have to try as hard) giving off a few things they enjoy, few things they like to talk about, something about themselves that make women want to PM them.

But it became guys (Again, mostly) saying "I'm in. Send me a PM"

I can't speak for anyone else. But I'll never PM a guy who says that.
When I did PM. I did so because of things I saw them say in other threads, something about themselves. I got a vibe that we would connect on some level. I found a conversation starter, and messaged them.


I would love to see this thread work for everyone. But you have to offer up something more (and not you specifically Bone) about yourself, or what you are looking for. (Besides sex, or accept the consequences that when you say "I'm horny, hit me up" Your PMs will be very limited)

Most women are just as sexual as the guys, but they often like connection before jumping into the sexual stuff.

An example, I have seen posts from ladies that reflect on or about my idea of fun and games. So I send a PM suggesting they read my stories and ask questions or make comments about their posts.
Getting a reply was rare.
Getting a reply with a sentence was really cool if it happened.

There are several that I did share several PMs with Most were escorts that got a lot of no so nice emails and were happy to chat with someone that offered respect and real conversation.

I am not trying to hit on or see anyone. So maybe I am just boring.

 

[SassySheDevil]

An example, I have seen posts from ladies that reflect on or about my idea of fun and games. So I send a PM suggesting they read my stories and ask questions or make comments about their posts.
Getting a reply was rare.
Getting a reply with a sentence was really cool if it happened.

There are several that I did share several PMs with Most were escorts that got a lot of no so nice emails and were happy to chat with someone that offered respect and real conversation.

I am not trying to hit on or see anyone. So maybe I am just boring.

Again. I can't speak for anyone, but I just don't reach out anymore because of bad experiences, and honestly, I have my PMs off, more than on now.
But I'm sorry

I know it is a lot harder on guys to have PM conversations. Women don't usually have to try hard to get them.

 

[hulmule]

PM are nice to get when you open up Lit. But some are B.S others good ones. Some nice people on here that have great advice and are not looking for just sex. I can have a great conversation and i have had some good sexual ones also. But it seems to be one side sometimes. But never can have to many friends. Then just see who the ones are interested in you as a person. So PM !

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I have gotten a few telling me to stop talking about girls that are paid for sex, meaning escorts.

I email back some of the links they post and ask, Did these girls do the porn video for free?

Other then that I gave up on sending PMs

I think that might be a fetish for those woman that do that. They have a real need to drive a sexual narrative. Be it suggestive remarks , chastising “ men “ in the open forums about how they Lit , that sorta stuff. Their pouty “ I’m not available “ vibes.

What do they call that…………co dependency