The language of lust vs. porn

I've noticed when guys talk about sex - whether it's recounting a sexual encounter, sending a PM or an IM - it's generally fairly similar:

"I pounded her pussy with my fat dick"

"My rock hard cock rammed her hole"

"My tongue stabbed at her clit until she came"

"My big piece of meat hammered at her cunt"

"She sat on my cock, riding me like a jackhammer"

So when I get a message that says something like "hey slut, wouldn't you love to feel my 9 inch rod pummel your pussy?"

I either say - no, I like guys with 6 inch cocks because usually they're nicer to my pussy OR

no, I'd love it if you'd tease my clit first, gently tap the tip of your cock - slick with precum - on my clit. Then maybe, just maybe, slide the tip of your cock in to my tight, amazing, super pretty, wet hole and fuck my pussy with just the tip - tease me a bit, maybe slowly slide your cock another inch or two in, ask me to milk your cock with my cunt before you'll give me another inch...

Is the language of sex different for guys than it is for girls?

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Interesting question. I've always been pretty talkative during sex, but the rules seem to have changed. I used to ask questions, like, "Do you like this?" and my partner might say something like "Make me wet." But now, with everyone, including women, watching porn, the language has gotten crasser in some cases. Sometimes I like it and sometimes I don't--if I feel like a woman is just trying to please me by acting all porny, it's a turn off. But if I get the sense that she's authentically pursuing her desire, it's hot. I guess what it comes down to is whether or not you feel a good connection with the person you're making love with.
 
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