The Men who Crave Cock but aren't attracted to Men Club!

[Leviticus59]

Believe I posted to this thread about a year or so ago. Been a while since I've visited Lit and this thread in particular, but read the last 20 pages and see it's still going strong, although it's approaching the 5,000 post cut-off limit.

I'm mid 50s and have been sucking cocks occasionally for about 15 years, I guess. I've learned from extensive reading that many of the guys who do it began their adventure in adolescence with childhood buddies or relatives, or an older uncle, etc. For me it started with repeated visits to adult theaters beginning in mid life, and I eventually became curious about the permanent back row wankers. It took my dumb ass a long time to realize there was always several men sitting side-by-side in the back with their cocks out, stroking, mutually stroking, and sometimes sucking each other. I eventually began sitting close by to watch them, finally joined them, eventually let myself be sucked off by other guys, and finally, after many years, took the plunge and began sucking other cocks.

Not sure why I waited so long. I now love sucking better than being sucked, although I don't do it too often. Reading the last few pages of this thread, however, has got me all hot and bothered to suck some cocks again.

I love women, very much appreciate them as beautiful, interesting creatures, and am married to a good woman who loves to fuck and suck. I call myself straight, with an "occasional, situational, orally bi" tendency. I have no interest in the man that's attached to the cock, body contact, romance, kissing, ass play or any of that shit, but love everything about cocks and balls, which is to say, stroking them, sucking them, feeling them grow hard in my mouth, massaging the balls, slight hip thrusting as it begins to feel good, the increased hardness just before orgasm, and the gentle rush of warm, salty cum as it unloads.

The common fantasy of playing with and sucking a huge sausage also tickles me, but in reality, average sized cocks are easier to suck without getting sore jaw muscles. I've seen and sucked quite a few cocks but have never run across a really big 'un, and am not disappointed.

The main problem I run into is finding someone with a compatible desire for cock play only. When I'm horny I think I'd like to find a regular to suck off once or twice a week. But then I suck a cock or two, get sucked off myself, and the urge fades for several months, until I would like to again swab a cock-head across my lips. So, it's a somewhat vexing issue, but not a terrible one. My wife is always close by when my dick gets hard, so life goes on.

 

[Dickstroker81]

Just curious to find out what percentage of people on here who have actually gone for it versus who justs fantasizes and for those who have was it a one time thing that satisfied their curiosity or if they liked it and did continue to suck cock regularly

I've been sucking cocks and taking them up my ass for over thirty years now and don't plan to stop. My wife encourages me and loves to watch and join in.

 

[heyitsthatguy77]

Did it, loved the control, taste, and pleasure I gave the people I did it for. Still do it when I can, as well as other play. I'm a full blown hedonist that really enjoys giving others pleasure. Interesting side note, almost all of my bi female friends get off on seeing and joining in when I'm with another guy.
Folks in NC say hi!

More females like the idea of seeing 2 men suck each other than I ever imagined would, in fact it was a female who after discussing different fantasies with that kind of unlocked that part of me I didnt really know was there. Oh and, hi back from a fellow NC native.

 

[Dickstroker81]

More females like the idea of seeing 2 men suck each other than I ever imagined would, in fact it was a female who after discussing different fantasies with that kind of unlocked that part of me I didnt really know was there. Oh and, hi back from a fellow NC native.

Glad to see there are other guys who love dicks. Not a NC native, but lived there for many years and did a lot of NC dicks, so hi back.

 

[Sans Tache]

Just curious to find out what percentage of people on here who have actually gone for it versus who justs fantasizes and for those who have was it a one time thing that satisfied their curiosity or if they liked it and did continue to suck cock regularly

I began in high school and still enjoying it in my 60's.

 

[Rckymtn110]

Interesting posts. Would love to hear from others who fit into this threads category when they first seriously (not passing curiousity) thought and fantasized aboit sucking cock and if there was something that triggered it like a video, picture, etc

 

[Dickstroker81]

I began in high school and still enjoying it in my 60's.

Been doing it since I was a teenager and I am now 60. Stopped for a couple years when I met my wife, but then I came out to her and she was elated. Now we suck guys off and get our asses fucked together.

 

[CompletelyAverage]

Here's my story.

My (at the time) girlfriend and I had often fantasized about bringing a third into our bedroom. My gf vouched for a guy named Jeremy whom she knew from her gym. We invited Jeremy to our favorite bar and after we were all plenty liquored up, my girlfriend explained our intentions to him. He told us he was definitely in. After even more drinks, we stumbled back to my apartment and started going at it.

Now Jeremy definitely enjoyed being the alpha-male, so my girlfriend and I slipped into a more submissive role as he gave us directions like "lay right here" and "eat her pussy, while I'll fuck her mouth". At one point, Jeremy had my girlfriend on her knees sucking his cock. That's when I really noticed Jeremy's cock. I'm somewhere between 5 and 6 hard and he definitely had me beat by a couple inches. I don't know if it was the alcohol or the fact that he'd been ordering me around all night but I found myself genuinely turned on by his cock.

That was about two years ago. To be honest, it was pretty much just two guys fucking one girl. He didn't have any interest in the bi-stuff but, looking back, I wish I had asked. I often fantasize what I'd have done if one his directions had been "Now he sucks my cock".

 

[noirdesir23]

Just curious to find out what percentage of people on here who have actually gone for it versus who justs fantasizes and for those who have was it a one time thing that satisfied their curiosity or if they liked it and did continue to suck cock regularly

Nearly 15 years ago I was on regular basis, cock sucking and cum swallowing. If I could find someone I can trust I would like to continue.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

You could trust me

but I bet you're not even vaguely close.

 

[Sans Tache]

Here's my story.

My (at the time) girlfriend and I had often fantasized about bringing a third into our bedroom. My gf vouched for a guy named Jeremy whom she knew from her gym. We invited Jeremy to our favorite bar and after we were all plenty liquored up, my girlfriend explained our intentions to him. He told us he was definitely in. After even more drinks, we stumbled back to my apartment and started going at it.

Now Jeremy definitely enjoyed being the alpha-male, so my girlfriend and I slipped into a more submissive role as he gave us directions like "lay right here" and "eat her pussy, while I'll fuck her mouth". At one point, Jeremy had my girlfriend on her knees sucking his cock. That's when I really noticed Jeremy's cock. I'm somewhere between 5 and 6 hard and he definitely had me beat by a couple inches. I don't know if it was the alcohol or the fact that he'd been ordering me around all night but I found myself genuinely turned on by his cock.

That was about two years ago. To be honest, it was pretty much just two guys fucking one girl. He didn't have any interest in the bi-stuff but, looking back, I wish I had asked. I often fantasize what I'd have done if one his directions had been "Now he sucks my cock".

If you want to have a MMF encounter the best way to be sure the other guy is interested in cock is to tell him the lady is a voyeur and wants so see 2 guys doing each other. No male-female interaction the first time around. If the other guy still goes for it you got your man

 

[SlutAddicted]

I definitely belong in this club.

The first time I tasted cock it was as part of cuckold clean-up for my wife. I loved the taste, feel and look of it as soon as it touched my lips. His cum mixed with my wife's juices was just exquisite.

A while later when another man pulled his dick out of her it was particularly sloppy and I went about cleaning it with extra enthusiasm. I soon found him getting hard again in my mouth - they key is suction and not too much contact with his cock head right after he has cum. It was so exhilarating and rewarding knowing I was getting him hard. My wife was very pleased and added "fluffier" to my responsibilities.

It was a few more months again before I finally got to suck a cock from start to finish. My wife was running late and her date had arrived early so she told me I could suck him off. It was the same guy as my first "fluffing" and he had always been accepting of my cock lust. I just loved the taste and feeling of being fed directly from the source. after he gave me his cum I sucked him hard again just before my wife got home. I have sucked dozens of cocks since then.

Yet I am not physically attracted to men. Only women turn my head when I walk down the street. When I have sex I want to fuck a woman. Being with a man, top or bottom doesn't appeal. I don't want to cuddle or kiss men.......but show me a cock and I am on my knees in an instant.

 

[Rckymtn110]

The first I fantasized about sucking one was when I was in college and looking at a guy and girl scene in a porn magazine. It was one of those older ones that didn't show penetration so had lots of cock shots. I just remember in was in a semidark room and they were both tan and lean bodies. I noticed the guy had shaved legs and followed them up to his hard cock that was kind of pointing out if the page at an angle. And the thought just popped into my head, what would it be like to suck that? And since I imagined that it would feel as good to suck as be sucked it stuck in my mind. Then I slowly started thinking about it more often and enjoyed looking at pictures and videos of cocks

 

[PleasePeesMe]

And why not?

So many of us (most of us), get to our teens, choose one gender and reject the other. Now I'm nearer the end than the beginning, I think that's ridiculous and I hope to enjoy my wife AND cocks before it's too late.

 

[Sans Tache]

So many of us (most of us), get to our teens, choose one gender and reject the other. Now I'm nearer the end than the beginning, I think that's ridiculous and I hope to enjoy my wife AND cocks before it's too late.

An insightful observation. I discovered cock before enjoying my first taste of a pussy...couldn't decide which I liked better so I continued to devoure both.
Like yourself, I'm past my prime but still savor the thrill I get from the ladies and the men.

 

[Dickstroker81]

So many of us (most of us), get to our teens, choose one gender and reject the other. Now I'm nearer the end than the beginning, I think that's ridiculous and I hope to enjoy my wife AND cocks before it's too late.

Unfortunately that happens because parents are not open minded and steer their children in the direction of the opposite sex rather than letting them see the joy of both sexes.

 

[Rckymtn110]

I was naturally attracted to women and never thought about cock until college. Still not attracted guys just enjoy cock.

Just had a thought. Someone who enjoys a couple of drinks occasionally is called a social drinker. So is many who post in this thread then otherwise straight but social cocksuckers

 

[Justforthefun]

I was naturally attracted to women and never thought about cock until college. Still not attracted guys just enjoy cock.

Just had a thought. Someone who enjoys a couple of drinks occasionally is called a social drinker. So is many who post in this thread then otherwise straight but social cocksuckers

"Social cocksucker"! Love it, that is totally the label for me!

 

[sterculius]

I was naturally attracted to women and never thought about cock until college. Still not attracted guys just enjoy cock.

Just had a thought. Someone who enjoys a couple of drinks occasionally is called a social drinker. So is many who post in this thread then otherwise straight but social cocksuckers

I've progressed beyond this to the point that I've become a full fledged cockaholic.

 

[Dickstroker81]

I've progressed beyond this to the point that I've become a full fledged cockaholic.

Thats me too. I love them up my ass as well as down my throat.

 

[Rckymtn110]

For those who fantasize but have never got the nerve I recomend one ot the nice realistic dildos (although most have already tried it). I suck mine a little and then have some of the most intense orgasms jacking it and my cock off together frot style with the balls on the dildo rubbing against my balls.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Unfortunately that happens because parents are not open minded and steer their children in the direction of the opposite sex rather than letting them see the joy of both sexes.

Very true, but it is more than parents. I know very few guys outside of Lit who would not automatically conclude that liking cock makes you gay - by definition a negative thing and not just bi-sexual or adventurous but no longer interested in women the second that first cock went in my mouth.

Obviously that isn't how I feel. But the deeper I delve into my own psyche I am surprised at the range of patently stupid assumptions we have around sex. This is right up there with all gay men are effeminate or sluts are by definition completely non-discerning.

 

[Sans Tache]

Very true, but it is more than parents. I know very few guys outside of Lit who would not automatically conclude that liking cock makes you gay - by definition a negative thing and not just bi-sexual or adventurous but no longer interested in women the second that first cock went in my mouth.

Obviously that isn't how I feel. But the deeper I delve into my own psyche I am surprised at the range of patently stupid assumptions we have around sex. This is right up there with all gay men are effeminate or sluts are by definition completely non-discerning.

I have known many a heterosexual and homosexual person(s) who have been critical of the others sexual preference. And both groups are even more condemnatious of us bi folks. But I never here any bi oriented people denouncing the other 2 categories. My 2 cents.

 

[subwannabe]

I know that many people are just born "gay" and seem to have no choice in their likes. But, I got into an argument with my wife one day trying to explain to her that not everyone is born gay and that there is a percentage of people who just choose to be gay, just as there are those who choose to be bisexual but are not really gay. She seems to believe that EVERYONE who is gay was born that way and has no choice in the matter.

 

[ExpressxLove9]

I'm a girl but I love fantasizing about men on men encounters. I find it so hot to read that there are men out there who enjoy it too. I get very wet reading your stories!! I hope to be in a relationship with such a fun and open guy someday!