The Men who Crave Cock but aren't attracted to Men Club!

[72slik]

I definitely belong in this club.

The first time I tasted cock it was as part of cuckold clean-up for my wife. I loved the taste, feel and look of it as soon as it touched my lips. His cum mixed with my wife's juices was just exquisite.

A while later when another man pulled his dick out of her it was particularly sloppy and I went about cleaning it with extra enthusiasm. I soon found him getting hard again in my mouth - they key is suction and not too much contact with his cock head right after he has cum. It was so exhilarating and rewarding knowing I was getting him hard. My wife was very pleased and added "fluffier" to my responsibilities.

It was a few more months again before I finally got to suck a cock from start to finish. My wife was running late and her date had arrived early so she told me I could suck him off. It was the same guy as my first "fluffing" and he had always been accepting of my cock lust. I just loved the taste and feeling of being fed directly from the source. after he gave me his cum I sucked him hard again just before my wife got home. I have sucked dozens of cocks since then.

Yet I am not physically attracted to men. Only women turn my head when I walk down the street. When I have sex I want to fuck a woman. Being with a man, top or bottom doesn't appeal. I don't want to cuddle or kiss men.......but show me a cock and I am on my knees in an instant.

This is totally how I feel. I am not attracted to men at all. But I often think about what it is like to suck a nice cock and get him off in my mouth.
Only problem is finding that cock and not having everyone thinking you are gay (I am not.just open minded unlike most).
How have others gone about this as I would love to try

 

[betabrad]

Like a lot of men here, I am not attracted to men at all, but I admit that I do get turned on by looking at a big hard cock. I have many fantasies about sucking cock and having my ass fucked. Most of these fantasies involve a woman watching me and getting off as she tells me what a good little cock sucking slut I am.

All of these are just fantasies tho. I have never had the opportunity to act on any of these fantasies. If anything were to happen I imagine it would have to be a woman setting it up for me, I don't know if I would suck another mans cock if it were just me and him. And again, since I have never actually sucked a cock before I don't know if I would actually enjoy doing it or not. Maybe I would try it and not like it at all.

But, for a little while now, when I am horny and stroking my cock, my fantasies involve sucking cock and being fucked, or even licking a woman's cum filled pussy - and it really makes me cum hard.

 

[Sans Tache]

This is totally how I feel. I am not attracted to men at all. But I often think about what it is like to suck a nice cock and get him off in my mouth.
Only problem is finding that cock and not having everyone thinking you are gay (I am not.just open minded unlike most).
How have others gone about this as I would love to try

Make use of the internet. There are innumerable site for people seeking others to do the same thing you're seeking.

Like a lot of men here, I am not attracted to men at all, but I admit that I do get turned on by looking at a big hard cock. I have many fantasies about sucking cock and having my ass fucked. Most of these fantasies involve a woman watching me and getting off as she tells me what a good little cock sucking slut I am.

All of these are just fantasies tho. I have never had the opportunity to act on any of these fantasies. If anything were to happen I imagine it would have to be a woman setting it up for me, I don't know if I would suck another mans cock if it were just me and him. And again, since I have never actually sucked a cock before I don't know if I would actually enjoy doing it or not. Maybe I would try it and not like it at all.

But, for a little while now, when I am horny and stroking my cock, my fantasies involve sucking cock and being fucked, or even licking a woman's cum filled pussy - and it really makes me cum hard.

Many men feel the same as yourself...having a woman present when having sex with another man. It's your self doubt...which is unnecessary. I, myself, like having a woman present when I have a mouthful of cock but that's the exhibitionist aspect of my personality...I enjoy sucking dick just as much when it's just me and the other guy(s).

You question as to whether or not you would "enjoy doing it"...since it's a fantasy and it gets you hard most likely you'll enjoy doing so. Consider it the reverse of pleasuring a woman.

 

[funluvinaj]

I know that many people are just born "gay" and seem to have no choice in their likes. But, I got into an argument with my wife one day trying to explain to her that not everyone is born gay and that there is a percentage of people who just choose to be gay, just as there are those who choose to be bisexual but are not really gay. She seems to believe that EVERYONE who is gay was born that way and has no choice in the matter.

I'm not sure how I feel about this ... I think I'm with your wife. I don't think you can choose to be gay. I think you can be bisexual and choose one way to live... If it was me and I stopped having sex with men I wouldn't suddenly be gay... I'd still be bisexual.

The guy I'm involved with is very straight yet he wants to have a experience with giving and receiving oral/anal with a man. I told him he's hetero-flexible. To me the fact that he would not do it without me there, would not kiss him, and would not be in a relationship with a man precludes him from being bisexual.

Thoughts?

 

[TomBoner]

I'm not sure how I feel about this ... I think I'm with your wife. I don't think you can choose to be gay. I think you can be bisexual and choose one way to live... If it was me and I stopped having sex with men I wouldn't suddenly be gay... I'd still be bisexual.

The guy I'm involved with is very straight yet he wants to have a experience with giving and receiving oral/anal with a man. I told him he's hetero-flexible. To me the fact that he would not do it without me there, would not kiss him, and would not be in a relationship with a man precludes him from being bisexual.

Thoughts?

Not sure I would agree with that. I absolutely consider myself bi-sexual, but I'm not really into the emotional or relationship side of things with guys. I enjoy the sexual aspects of both giving and receiving, and I have enjoyed really good friendships with some of them, but I wouldn't kiss them or have a relationship beyond the friendship and sexual aspect. With women I've always loved that emotional and relationship side of things, but not with guys. Regardless, I'd still consider myself bi-sexual because I enjoy sex with both sides.

 

[SlutAddicted]

I'm not sure how I feel about this ... I think I'm with your wife. I don't think you can choose to be gay. I think you can be bisexual and choose one way to live... If it was me and I stopped having sex with men I wouldn't suddenly be gay... I'd still be bisexual.

The guy I'm involved with is very straight yet he wants to have a experience with giving and receiving oral/anal with a man. I told him he's hetero-flexible. To me the fact that he would not do it without me there, would not kiss him, and would not be in a relationship with a man precludes him from being bisexual.

Thoughts?

I guess it depends upon whether one looks at orientation or actions.

I think we are born with a sexual orientation or set of preferences. However, humans are complex creatures and I expect that the orientation we are born with does not fit easily into simple categories. Think of it as a matter of taste which is rarely absolute - I like fish more than pasta but we can all wrap our head around the fact that I still like pasta. The notion of being 100% hetero, gay or 50/50 (bi-sexual) is a human construct that ignores our complex nature. It is surely more complex than percentages but for this purpose....perhaps I am 80% oriented to women but 20% appreciative of men. I don't know at what point that split makes me bi-sexual, but it seems kind of silly to assume there are only three options 100/0, 50/50 or 0/100.

Again with the food metaphor, if you are born with a strong taste or distaste for something, that isn't likely to change. However, while we are born with a fully developed set of sense we don't know much about anything. Learning and seeing different aspects of certain foods or sexual experiences may nudge us one way or the other. Anyone with a sophisticated palette can "acquire tastes" by learning to appreciate something that they don't love at first. I guess I would call that maturing of tastes. It is a matter of increasing your understanding of your core preferences more so than altering them. If you are 100% hetero you will probably never acquire a taste for cock, but you may if you are 70/30. The thing is that you were probably always 70/30 or close to it. You may have assumed that your stronger orientation was your only orientation but that is largely because that is what society teaches. It was never true. The maturing of tastes just helped you realize that.

And then of course there is the question of actions. There are many societal influences that push us to be one way or another. A gay person who is "in the closet" and struggling through a heterosexual relationship is, in my opinion, still a gay person. Likewise a hetero person sampling the other side is still a heterosexual person in my mind. Frankly, I think the confusion comes in because of ingrained biases. If a woman says she experimented with a girlfriend in college but prefers men we tend to take that at face value and if we are guys we think it is hot. If a guy says the same thing with reference to a guy friend in college he can't even finish the sentence before most people scream - FAG. There is no difference between the two besides accumulated societal biases, most particularly male homophobia.

All that is to say I think we are born with our sexual preferences. Our experiences refine our understanding of those preferences but don't change them. And performing acts associated with a different sexual preference doesn't change your preference anymore than eating a plate of pasta negates my preference for fish.

I am bi-sexual with a preference for women. My interest in men is limited mostly to cock play, but the cock is still part of the man and I can't reasonably separate it physically (ouch) or figuratively, so yes I like men.

 

[Rckymtn110]

I guess it depends upon whether one looks at orientation or actions.

I think we are born with a sexual orientation or set of preferences. However, humans are complex creatures and I expect that the orientation we are born with does not fit easily into simple categories. Think of it as a matter of taste which is rarely absolute - I like fish more than pasta but we can all wrap our head around the fact that I still like pasta. The notion of being 100% hetero, gay or 50/50 (bi-sexual) is a human construct that ignores our complex nature. It is surely more complex than percentages but for this purpose....perhaps I am 80% oriented to women but 20% appreciative of men. I don't know at what point that split makes me bi-sexual, but it seems kind of silly to assume there are only three options 100/0, 50/50 or 0/100.

Again with the food metaphor, if you are born with a strong taste or distaste for something, that isn't likely to change. However, while we are born with a fully developed set of sense we don't know much about anything. Learning and seeing different aspects of certain foods or sexual experiences may nudge us one way or the other. Anyone with a sophisticated palette can "acquire tastes" by learning to appreciate something that they don't love at first. I guess I would call that maturing of tastes. It is a matter of increasing your understanding of your core preferences more so than altering them. If you are 100% hetero you will probably never acquire a taste for cock, but you may if you are 70/30. The thing is that you were probably always 70/30 or close to it. You may have assumed that your stronger orientation was your only orientation but that is largely because that is what society teaches. It was never true. The maturing of tastes just helped you realize that.

And then of course there is the question of actions. There are many societal influences that push us to be one way or another. A gay person who is "in the closet" and struggling through a heterosexual relationship is, in my opinion, still a gay person. Likewise a hetero person sampling the other side is still a heterosexual person in my mind. Frankly, I think the confusion comes in because of ingrained biases. If a woman says she experimented with a girlfriend in college but prefers men we tend to take that at face value and if we are guys we think it is hot. If a guy says the same thing with reference to a guy friend in college he can't even finish the sentence before most people scream - FAG. There is no difference between the two besides accumulated societal biases, most particularly male homophobia.

All that is to say I think we are born with our sexual preferences. Our experiences refine our understanding of those preferences but don't change them. And performing acts associated with a different sexual preference doesn't change your preference anymore than eating a plate of pasta negates my preference for fish.

I am bi-sexual with a preference for women. My interest in men is limited mostly to cock play, but the cock is still part of the man and I can't reasonably separate it physically (ouch) or figuratively, so yes I like men.

That is interesting. Very well thought out.

 

[funluvinaj]

Not sure I would agree with that. I absolutely consider myself bi-sexual, but I'm not really into the emotional or relationship side of things with guys. I enjoy the sexual aspects of both giving and receiving, and I have enjoyed really good friendships with some of them, but I wouldn't kiss them or have a relationship beyond the friendship and sexual aspect. With women I've always loved that emotional and relationship side of things, but not with guys. Regardless, I'd still consider myself bi-sexual because I enjoy sex with both sides.

Do you enjoy the company of men one on one or does there need to be a woman present. That is my point with my guy is that he wants the experience to try something new (because there's not a lot of new things for him to try). I guess at this point he'd be bi-curious... But I just don't see him as bisexual... I can hope I'm wrong and he really gets into it!!

Thank you for answering... I value your opinion as a friend of someone I respect very much. (Sticky)

I guess it depends upon whether one looks at orientation or actions.

I think we are born with a sexual orientation or set of preferences. However, humans are complex creatures and I expect that the orientation we are born with does not fit easily into simple categories. Think of it as a matter of taste which is rarely absolute - I like fish more than pasta but we can all wrap our head around the fact that I still like pasta. The notion of being 100% hetero, gay or 50/50 (bi-sexual) is a human construct that ignores our complex nature. It is surely more complex than percentages but for this purpose....perhaps I am 80% oriented to women but 20% appreciative of men. I don't know at what point that split makes me bi-sexual, but it seems kind of silly to assume there are only three options 100/0, 50/50 or 0/100.

Again with the food metaphor, if you are born with a strong taste or distaste for something, that isn't likely to change. However, while we are born with a fully developed set of sense we don't know much about anything. Learning and seeing different aspects of certain foods or sexual experiences may nudge us one way or the other. Anyone with a sophisticated palette can "acquire tastes" by learning to appreciate something that they don't love at first. I guess I would call that maturing of tastes. It is a matter of increasing your understanding of your core preferences more so than altering them. If you are 100% hetero you will probably never acquire a taste for cock, but you may if you are 70/30. The thing is that you were probably always 70/30 or close to it. You may have assumed that your stronger orientation was your only orientation but that is largely because that is what society teaches. It was never true. The maturing of tastes just helped you realize that.

And then of course there is the question of actions. There are many societal influences that push us to be one way or another. A gay person who is "in the closet" and struggling through a heterosexual relationship is, in my opinion, still a gay person. Likewise a hetero person sampling the other side is still a heterosexual person in my mind. Frankly, I think the confusion comes in because of ingrained biases. If a woman says she experimented with a girlfriend in college but prefers men we tend to take that at face value and if we are guys we think it is hot. If a guy says the same thing with reference to a guy friend in college he can't even finish the sentence before most people scream - FAG. There is no difference between the two besides accumulated societal biases, most particularly male homophobia.

All that is to say I think we are born with our sexual preferences. Our experiences refine our understanding of those preferences but don't change them. And performing acts associated with a different sexual preference doesn't change your preference anymore than eating a plate of pasta negates my preference for fish.

I am bi-sexual with a preference for women. My interest in men is limited mostly to cock play, but the cock is still part of the man and I can't reasonably separate it physically (ouch) or figuratively, so yes I like men.

I enjoyed reading this... Some great analysis and analogies.

 

[OpenMouth]

I've more or less given up on the idea of meeting up with a guy for sex; much as I want to suck cock (repeatedly) and be assfucked (repeatedly) I just can't get enthusiastic about the social aspects, ie the actual 'meet.' I just kind of lose interest when I'm nearly ready.

The gloryhole situation interests me the most; I just wish it were safer and more readily available.

I'm starting to think now that the only way might be a passable, or at least shaven and feminine CD. I think the combination of lingerie, heels and erect cock might just do it for me...

 

[gman1970]

I too am that way I have been cruising craigs list and back pages and various other sites talking to guys and trying to meet up. I want to do it all but the meeting part throws a curve and I'm out. I am now talking with a very feminine and sexy as hell CD and are setting up a meet hopefully in the next day or two (ill be writing about it) but I feel differently about this meeting....hmm! I have wanted to suck and be fucked for years and shemale sites have gotten me through but now the urge has reached new levels and have to act in them. Just wanted to throw that out and I will let you know how our first meeting (of many I hope) goes ;-)

 

[jerkme2005]

Straight

Yeah... I would have to say I'm the same.

I have always considered myself "Straight"... But..
I have had my Cock sucked by another Man.
When I was 18 I used to work for a 36 year old Guy on the side that owned a bunch of Rental Appartment's. The first time he made a move on me I was pretty drunk. We had just finished painting an appartment and had been drinking some beer. We were kicked back on the floor because there wasn't any furniture in the place. I had laid back and closed my eye's feeling like the alchol was getting the best of me. He never said a word... But started rubbing the inside of my thigh and my cock.
I had never been touched by a Man... But I was drunk, it felt good, And I didnt stop him.
I just laid there with my eyes closed and let him do whatever he wanted.
It all seemed so Erotically Taboo that I couldn't believe how turned I was.
He really took his time undressing me, And took even longer Sucking my Cock.
He would bring me close to cumming and then stop long enough to let me cool down. Untill then I had plenty of girls suck my dick but none were really into it.
This guy REALLY enjoyed what he was doing.
When he finally let me cum... I thought it would never stop.

I ended up painting a LOT of appartments for the guy and kind of became his Boy Toy.

He would usually just suck my Cock, But on one occasion he had me lay on my back while he lowered himself onto my cock. He then had me give him a hand job while he rode my dick. As I came in his Ass... He shot the biggets load of cum all over my chest and face.
At the time I was Young and Shy. I also felt ashamed that I enjoyed it so much.

Now married and 30 years later.. I wish that I would have sucked him off.

Damn hot story!

 

[Hubs_in_hose]

Frustrated

It seems that every time I have an opportunity there is no one around, then when the people I have somewhat connected with are around, I don't have the opportunity.

Why does sex and sexual relations have to be so screwed up?

 

[Sans Tache]

It seems that every time I have an opportunity there is no one around, then when the people I have somewhat connected with are around, I don't have the opportunity.

Why does sex and sexual relations have to be so screwed up?

It's Karma.

 

[susurrus]

Found another with a gal in it who has every right to smile... Wish it was bigger. The pic, I mean.

 

[bdave2]

Found another with a gal in it who has every right to smile... Wish it was bigger. The pic, I mean.

Wow! That takes my breath away. Let's see ... bent over the arm of the sofa, moaning loudly. Damn!

 

[subwannabe]

Talk about a third leg!

 

[funluvinaj]

Found another with a gal in it who has every right to smile... Wish it was bigger. The pic, I mean.

Maybe I'm in the minority but that is not at all something I'd be happy to discover! I'd choose 6" any day!!

I do notice that bi/gay men seem to be after the larger cocks... More attractive? Penis envy?

 

[susurrus]

Maybe I'm in the minority but that is not at all something I'd be happy to discover! I'd choose 6" any day!!

I do notice that bi/gay men seem to be after the larger cocks... More attractive? Penis envy?

Well, I don't know if I'd say necessarily after the larger cocks... It's more a "sonofabitch, look at that thing!" type of deal. Since the great majority of us are simply fantasizing, and will more than likely never do more than that, it's an admiration for the unusual.

I think in the long run, if we ever really got the chance, we'd take whatever fate threw at us...

 

[Sans Tache]

Maybe I'm in the minority but that is not at all something I'd be happy to discover! I'd choose 6" any day!!

A large majority of men, at some point, feel inadequate. In my much younger day I experienced the same insecurity. That was until I met a lady several years my senior and much wiser than myself. She taught me more about pleasing a woman than I had ever read or imagined was possible.
A most memorable comment she once expressed concerned penis size: The average size man makes the best lover; he can fill a woman and give her an orgasm, he won't break her jaw when recieving head and he can please her anal desires and not cause hemoroids.

I do notice that bi/gay men seem to be after the larger cocks... More attractive? Penis envy?

I catagorize this along with the obsession of overly large breasts. What's the saying...anything more than a mouthfull (assfull) is wasted.
Most of the bi/gay men I know have a preference for the average.

A wise observation, AJ.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Maybe I'm in the minority but that is not at all something I'd be happy to discover! I'd choose 6" any day!!

I do notice that bi/gay men seem to be after the larger cocks... More attractive? Penis envy?

I think it is the fantasy element.

If you like the look and feel of cock there is something impressive about the big ones, like a full firm ass or bouncy boobs. However, none of the above automatically make for a great sexual experience. If a man is appealing I will suck pretty much whatever he is packing but I prefer average size. Even if you are very practiced at deep throat stuffing a baseball bat in there isn't fun.......there is a psychological thrill to hearing yourself gurgle and seeing your own spit and slobber involuntarily coating a big dick but you'll soon be working had to get him to cum so you can breath again.

For a bi cuckold it represents superiority and domination, but that is part of the hot wife/cuckold role play where the big cock is just a prop.

Most females on here when asked explicitly sound like they prefer men in the mid-range as well. My wife says that if she had to pick one for the rest of her life it would be my 7 1/2". Maybe she is bullshitting me but she has never been hesitant to make me aware of the merits of the big ones when she is on the mood for that so it seems like she is being straight with me.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Found another with a gal in it who has every right to smile... Wish it was bigger. The pic, I mean.

wow!!!!

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I think porn has ruined me. I think if you are going to cross the line you might as well do it with something huge At least for sucking. Fucking i could see that not working out great. But long and skinny would work for me. Something like Mint's cock

 

[Sans Tache]

I think porn has ruined me. I think if you are going to cross the line you might as well do it with something huge At least for sucking. Fucking i could see that not working out great. But long and skinny would work for me. Something like Mint's cock

I can't imagine being so "huge" that a person has to dislodge their jaw to get a dick in their mouth. I've given head to large guys before and there's a point where if a cock is too big I can't manuveur my lips, tongue, etc. and give the guy an enjoyable BJ. What's the point.

Kind of like having something so large inserted into you butt that the pain goes beyond reasonable and cancels out any pleasure.

 

[betabrad]

Found another with a gal in it who has every right to smile... Wish it was bigger. The pic, I mean.

That cock is pretty damn big alright. I'd like to get my hands on that . I'd love to see it fully hard.

As a man who has a smaller than average cock, seeing a cock that big just brings out my submissive fantasies. I wouldn't want to be fucked by a cock that big, but I'd love to get down on my knees and worship it.

 

[mrdiscreetshh]

This is definitely me.
I'm a straight male and love women and have no whatsoever the desire to do anything with men. I just want to worship a nice cock like I love eating pussy.
It's so arousing to sit and suck a warm juicy meat and then feel a man cum in your mouth...wow I'm getting hard writing this lol.

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