The New Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

For people who don't really drink we certainly seem to have spent our fair share on alcohol lately. Just saying....

*waves at Seela*

Glad your mom is doing well.

Well what are you buying?
$7k bottles of scotch?

 

[rbijon]

Well what are you buying?
$7k bottles of scotch?

I've been in the mead hall all day.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I've been in the mead hall all day.

And you didn't invite us?!

 

[Endless_Night]

Well what are you buying?
$7k bottles of scotch?

Apparently we have different ideas on what constitutes "a lot" when it comes to money spent on liquor.

I've been in the mead hall all day.

I'm going to echo Collar's complaint. You didn't invite us?!?!?!

Bad pirate!

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Apparently we have different ideas on what constitutes "a lot" when it comes to money spent on liquor.

I'm just basing that on your shoe buying practices

 

[Endless_Night]

I'm just basing that on your shoe buying practices

Don't be silly. Shoes are different.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Don't be silly. Shoes are different.

Uh huh

 

[Endless_Night]

Uh huh

You know it's true.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

You know it's true.

Well, for you... yeah

 

[Endless_Night]

Well, for you... yeah

Quit dissing my shoes!

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Quit dissing my shoes!

Maybe I was complimenting your liquor?

 

[BiBunny]

I kinda went to ground for several days to try to climb Work Mountain (and succeeded, mostly). But now I feel kinda bad because I'm not caught up on everything and everyone. So if I neglected to tell you happy birthday or welcome back or I hope you're feeling better or anything, please know I'm sorry and didn't mean to forget.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[BiBunny]

The Internet is a wonderful medium, because you can do things at your own pace.

How is your air conditioning?

Fixed! As far as I know, anyway. They sent someone out to work on it, and it seems to be chugging along fine at the moment.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Hooray!
Pouting bout is on the out...
Just when Seela had me worried!

 

[desertslave]

I have been thinking about a thing cutie mouse wrote about being a submissive ( meeting the needs of one's PYLand I think its not just about being a submissive but about meeting the needs of ones soul. To be the Elle let alone the sexual being I need to be whether that remains pyl, I need to meet my own needs better. I have to stop trying to be some one I no longer am and be this one better.

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For the time being I thinking of filling the void wall with print outs of abstract tattoos in the frames I have sitting up filled in boxes for years. The things that caught me here in Shankara's net. I don't actually have a printer for my use ( only in the office ).

Utter, absolute brilliance here! I'm seriously going to callig this and put it in my studio as a reminder.

For the second part...Pinterest is your friend. I resisted it for a long time, but now I revel in it. The images that mean the most to me get downloaded and saved (yes, I violate copyright willy-nilly, but it's just for me to look at anyway). When I want inspiration for a particular project, I head to my Pins and browse through my laptop libraries.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[RawHumor]

Threads of the sort "My PYL wants me to do X but I'm not sure where to begin" always confuse me.

What kind of PYL gives an assignment with no guidance or structure?

Generally speaking, pyls crave structure as well as discipline/kink/domination. Are these lazy/inexperienced/fake PYLs or am I being overly judgmental?

 

[Endless_Night]

Threads of the sort "My PYL wants me to do X but I'm not sure where to begin" always confuse me.

What kind of PYL gives an assignment with no guidance or structure?

Generally speaking, pyls crave structure as well as discipline/kink/domination. Are these lazy/inexperienced/fake PYLs or am I being overly judgmental?

I don't know about lazy/inexperienced/fake, but a PYL that didn't provide structure would leave me confused and very anxious. While I direct other people all day long (some might say I'm bossy ), when it comes to my pyl kink I'm at a complete loss without direction. Very specific direction.

Hmmm. Perhaps not all pyls need someone else to take charge so completely? If so, it would allow for PYL counterparts who don't have any desire to offer structure.

 

[MeekMe]

I don't know about lazy/inexperienced/fake, but a PYL that didn't provide structure would leave me confused and very anxious. While I direct other people all day long (some might say I'm bossy ), when it comes to my pyl kink I'm at a complete loss without direction. Very specific direction.

Hmmm. Perhaps not all pyls need someone else to take charge so completely? If so, it would allow for PYL counterparts who don't have any desire to offer structure.

I think sometimes it's also that the pyl didn't ask any follow up questions. Sometimes I think the PYL thinks it's more self explanatory than it actually is.

I'm with you on some of this. Mister laughed at me once and commented, "you always look so concerned!" (Every time in this same situation)

Me: "Because I don't know what to do and I'm waiting for you to tell me."

It shows on my face so easily. I think he waits to tell me just so I'll make the face.

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[Endless_Night]

I think sometimes it's also that the pyl didn't ask any follow up questions. Sometimes I think the PYL thinks it's more self explanatory than it actually is.

I'm with you on some of this. Mister laughed at me once and commented, "you always look so concerned!" (Every time in this same situation)

Me: "Because I don't know what to do and I'm waiting for you to tell me."

It shows on my face so easily. I think he waits to tell me just so I'll make the face.

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Congrats on post 2000, Meeks!

Agreed, both on the pyl not asking for clarification and the PYL not being clear enough in the first place. For me it's an odd headspace. I can even undergo a sense of panic if direction isn't forthcoming; it's almost like my mind blanks....

I kinda went to ground for several days to try to climb Work Mountain (and succeeded, mostly). But now I feel kinda bad because I'm not caught up on everything and everyone. So if I neglected to tell you happy birthday or welcome back or I hope you're feeling better or anything, please know I'm sorry and didn't mean to forget.

I wanted to echo BiBunny's post. The last couple of months have been unusually busy. Sometimes I go weeks without logging in to post. I've been on the board the last few days but I'm getting ready to go MIA again. It will probably be another month before I'm back on regularly.

So, if I've missed, or end up missing, anyone's birthday or important event let me apologize. It's most definitely not intentional.

 

[IrisAlthea]

I think sometimes it's also that the pyl didn't ask any follow up questions. Sometimes I think the PYL thinks it's more self explanatory than it actually is.

I'm with you on some of this. Mister laughed at me once and commented, "you always look so concerned!" (Every time in this same situation)

Me: "Because I don't know what to do and I'm waiting for you to tell me."

It shows on my face so easily. I think he waits to tell me just so I'll make the face.

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Yup, I think it often is because they didn't want to ask because they didn't want to seem clueless or because the question didn't turn up until later when they start to worry about it.

I'm thinking it's quite possible that a PYL could say something and think that it is self explanatory or just curious about what the pyl will make of it.
It's hardly ever as important as people think to get it exactly right at first try, I think.
As long as you don't go dress like super slut to your partners company picnic or grandmothers birthday or something.

 

[Niam1985]

Waiting to get my boobs smooshed, and then steamrolled. This did not go well last time. Hopefully I can get through without blood or anxiety episode.

 

[seela]

Crap. J has auctioned me off to two coworkers of his to cook for them and their wives.

Cooking = great. Cooking for other people = great. Cooking for people I've never cooked for before but who for some reason have really high expectations of my food? Not so great.

Engage panic mode. I'm glad I have over a week to plan and practice.