IrisAlthea
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What upsets me is to hear people either a.) holding romantic love up as some sort of ideal above all others, whether it's outright said or just heavily insinuated, or b.) hearing about unhealthy relationships that people stay in because they luuuuuuuuuuuv each other so much. Otherwise, it mostly just goes in one ear and out the other.
I realize that this post and the one before are probably less than coherent. I seem to have picked up some asshole's cold/flu/choose your favorite upper respiratory illness, and I'm too miserable at the moment to think properly. I'm sorry for that.
I also admit to not being terribly forthcoming about things because I feel like I kinda clog up this thread with my BS too often, anyway, and also because the last time I tried to sort of explain the way I feel in that regard here, in-depth, rather than just off-handedly, I kinda felt like a couple of people said some dismissive and condescending things to the point that it made me not want to discuss it anymore.
And don't get me wrong, nearly everyone was either understanding or kept their mouths shut altogether, so I'm not talking bad about Lit as a whole, just, like, maybe two people. I don't usually let a couple clueless idiots get to me, but when it's something you're still not sure of yourself, you really don't want to hear dismissive comments or people treating you like some kind of fascinating, exotic alien species that must be dissected to see what kinds of character flaws or psychological hang-ups motivate you..
So, yeah, sorry for that, too. I'm kinda useless today.
You don't clog up any thread and your posts aren't usess to me.
As for that thread, I think your input could make a positive difference.
