The Push Present

I agree with red. And I would add that a little social pressure might, might not be a bad thing. We sometimes are at our best when we know others are watching and there is an expectation. Lets face it may of us guys are a bit clueless. If there wasn't a social expectation I would probably miss most birthdays, holidays, etc. It isn't that I'm ungrateful to those I love its just I often forget to express it as often an I should.
 
That's interesting that this is happening.

The present has always been in my mind birthing a child. I don't think Ginger would even care if I had a necklace or a ring for her at that moment haha. Or thereafter.

Of coarse you want to make a woman feel beautiful after holding a child around for 9 months so I wouldn't put it past many men spoiling their wives after pregnancy anyways.

I'm not a fan of a push present though.
 
I never received a push present although while in the hospital after delivering my husband did bring flowers, balloons and some of my favorite treats(because the hospital food was not the greatest)

I wouldn't ask or expect one but would be flattered if my husband would do such a thing. but Honestly I am pretty well pampered when pregnant and after too, he cooks, does the housekeeping , keeps the baby dry and clean, the only thing I really have to do is breastfeed. I know I am spoiled to begin with so a push present is really unnescessary.
 
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