The reality of happy ending massage parlours (from someone who's worked in one)

[Winchester3030]

Interested in other's thoughts. One of my middle-aged clients preferred a 'happy beginning' as opposed to an ending. His reason being that he could get on with enjoying the rest of the massage afterwards. As I was a qualified masseuse this wasn't a huge deal to me as I could carry on as I was trained, but I'm guessing other workers would struggle as their only real knowledge of massage was sensual build up. Personally I think this would kill the mood of a sexual massage, but that's only a woman's viewpoint

I have thought about this, would it be better to have a happy beginning but I do enjoy the building up, if I need a happy ending was coming I think I would prefer it that way but I’d love trying the beginning just for an experience! I do really enjoy a massage!

 

[RoperTrace]

Interested in other's thoughts. One of my middle-aged clients preferred a 'happy beginning' as opposed to an ending. His reason being that he could get on with enjoying the rest of the massage afterwards. As I was a qualified masseuse this wasn't a huge deal to me as I could carry on as I was trained, but I'm guessing other workers would struggle as their only real knowledge of massage was sensual build up. Personally I think this would kill the mood of a sexual massage, but that's only a woman's viewpoint

JenniZinc, I apologize if you've already answered this, and it's been a good while since I first read it. 1-Did you ever provide a happy ending to a woman client? 2-Did your happy-ending clients send their friends for your special touch? This was a great thread.

 

[JenniZinc]

I have thought about this, would it be better to have a happy beginning but I do enjoy the building up, if I need a happy ending was coming I think I would prefer it that way but I’d love trying the beginning just for an experience! I do really enjoy a massage!

I would also think a build up would be more exciting, and my feeling is that very few would want to be released at the beginning of a massage. It was just something lodged in my memory and only one client ever requested it

 

[JenniZinc]

JenniZinc, I apologize if you've already answered this, and it's been a good while since I first read it. 1-Did you ever provide a happy ending to a woman client? 2-Did your happy-ending clients send their friends for your special touch? This was a great thread.

The most curious thing on people's minds, but yes I did cover it in my thread. I had several female clients that liked happy endings, however I would encourage them to bring a clitoral vibrator and perform the act on themselves. Getting a woman to orgasm is incredibly difficult for a life-partner, let alone a massage therapist who only sees them infrequently. In my early days I attempted hand stimulation, but it rarely achieved the outcome. So, not as erotic as you may have in your mind.

Your other question, yes absolutely. Referrals accounted for a large part of my business, as walk-ins would usually always go for the younger and prettier women (and sometimes the male on shift, who did quite a busy trade from curious clients). By the end of my career, I was almost exclusively working referral traffic.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

@JenniZinc very interesting thread. Thank you for your openness!

I'm sure you've answered this more than once, so I apologize in advance, but how long did you usually allocate for the men to achieve a happy ending? Did you find they tended to cum fairly quickly or had more stamina?

 

[Nellie60]

The most curious thing on people's minds, but yes I did cover it in my thread. I had several female clients that liked happy endings, however I would encourage them to bring a clitoral vibrator and perform the act on themselves. Getting a woman to orgasm is incredibly difficult for a life-partner, let alone a massage therapist who only sees them infrequently. In my early days I attempted hand stimulation, but it rarely achieved the outcome. So, not as erotic as you may have in your mind.

Your other question, yes absolutely. Referrals accounted for a large part of my business, as walk-ins would usually always go for the younger and prettier women (and sometimes the male on shift, who did quite a busy trade from curious clients). By the end of my career, I was almost exclusively working referral traffic.

Did you only complete the happy ending when the client is lying down as you are standing or did you finish them off in other positions requested eg reach around or a classic position like lying next to them?

 

[JenniZinc]

@JenniZinc very interesting thread. Thank you for your openness!

I'm sure you've answered this more than once, so I apologize in advance, but how long did you usually allocate for the men to achieve a happy ending? Did you find they tended to cum fairly quickly or had more stamina?

I don't think it's been covered but I've been asked a lot of questions An hour massage usually I allowed 10 minutes for them to get ready, 40 minutes massage and 10 minutes to end and get out. But if I could see arousal happening early I would take the initiative and attend to their penis then and there. If all went well I could turn over the massage in 40 minutes or less, as in many cases a client would want to finish up. As well as an early exit would benefit me, I often felt the client was beginning to feel guilty or nervous, or combination of both.

Often clients in a hurry would book only 30 minutes, which was fine for me as I kept all of the tip, but there was little time for actual massage

 

[JenniZinc]

Did you only complete the happy ending when the client is lying down as you are standing or did you finish them off in other positions requested eg reach around or a classic position like lying next to them?

In most cases it was lying face up, although some clients would like to be on their hands and knees, and in rare cases standing up or even kneeling on the table. I wouldn't lie next to them, as firstly I didn't want to, and secondly it would leave me in a vulnerable position. The therapist always has to be in control. Either way I was careful to direct the ejaculation away from my face, which wasn't always successful (and yes, I have been caught unaware with my mouth open on more than one occasion. Not pleasant)

 

[JenniZinc]

One thing I get asked about quite often is how parlour girls (and guys) are allocated to clients, especially when they start.

Think of it like an airport line. On one side there's a priority lane for 1st, Biz class and priority flyers, while on the other line the economy passengers wait their turn.

At our parlour we had a one-way glass window, so that we could see every client walk in to reception.

The PYT's (Pretty Young Things) generally had preference, if they were available. If a client looked well off, was well known, or generally a cut above the average drunk, a PYT would grab him.

PYT's weren't an actual title, they were called 'Boss Girls' by management, and were allocated accordingly. I never gained this salubrious position!

If a client requested a particular girl, he got her, again if she was available. That's why working long hours and always being available was so important. If you weren't there and a client decided they liked the new girl, you'd lost them for the future.

Males, though, were only requested by appointment, so they would be on-call. Nothing irritated me more than when a client decided they wanted to 'try a guy' (you know, because he had an actual sore shoulder and wanted a stronger massage ..... right)

If none of the above applied, it was basically a ticketing system. Management placed no limit on the amount of girls on duty, but there was usually no more than 8.

It took a long time to get a decent client base, and showed why girls who didn't put the time in would soon leave. I remember in the early days working an entire shift without a slot.

There was also nothing more embarrassing than being rejected by a client. I had blonde hair and big boobs, but I wasn't slim, and this was often the feature most clients wanted. Few girls had both!

After the first 5 or so years, I had a big enough client base to not have to worry too much about the allocation system. That didn't last long, as age moved me closer to my 40's and then over. Regular clients either moved on, or moved to someone else, and at a certain point I knew it was time to retire.